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eclipse; Wow!
Dat was pretty good,
for a sista out da hood,
its time 2 show what ya know,
so just go with da flow,
thats how ya grow,
workin ya mo-jo,
so Hatzlacha Rabba,
do it for ur Abba,
rememba ur Sabba,
Rappins Olam Habbah!
Now u gotta work on a beat.
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Um-pha PAH! bado-bado PAH!
Um-pha PAH! bado-bado PAH! pa-pa
(much harder than typing NA-NAS)
not to be confused with um-fah! the white version.
Yochie; first of all 🙂
I really fargin them being good yidden & getting olam habbah,
that’s why I cant stand when they dont fargin yenem.
If I fargin them not fargining yenem, then i’m really not fargining them at all. Farshteist?
Yenta Babeh; Im sure you know that I sincerely value your opinion…
that being said, Florida, specifically miami, was created for people like me to get away from people like you. So keep your yenta-ing local. Thanks in advance!
It should be banned at least for girls.
Whenever I’m in florida at that time I can’t enter most stores
or restaurants without tripping over
23.5 B.Y. girls
13.5 Machon girls
3.5 Girls that might be B.Y. but look like ……
and the lines.. my goodness the lines & wait time..
you’ll have to immediately take another stress induced vacation to where they can’t afford to go yet until the get a masters in
speech therapy/special/ed
aries2756; I totally agree. You have to have at least enough sechel to know it’s odd even in the goyishe world, not talking about metros, italian mobsters etc… So go to some goyishe place
that doesnt have any heimshe clientele.
I’m sure you’ll get s’char halicha or at least credit for not creeping out jewish women or puting them in a lifnei Iver sitch of having to be dan you lekaf Z’chus that you’re a Tzudreiter.
Sender Av; Now you did another one by posting this.
What’s if his family is modern orthodox,
and he is reigious orthodox? Will he get his zivug sheini
or rishon? and if sheini are you telling me sheini would be
a better zivug than rishon?
Want do you you think?
RuphRuph; I’m happy you “brought down” (yiddish phrase) (Eng. translation) that gemara.
Not many know it or understand it’s full meaning.
Very important to remember.
real-brisker; most of the I time pickup hitchhikers if they’re jewish and look normal.
Out of tons, only had like four problem ones.
two left a terrible stench,
one kept on changing their mind where they wanted to go.
After i took them to one area they decided
they wanted to go to another area not close by, when I took them to that area they changed their mind again at that point I told them politely to please exit the car last stop.
One I can’t even talk about. No regrets though! when I was a youngster I hitched a lot and was very appreciative, I decided that when I got my license I would be like those ppl.
Kids is another story, no child under 18 should hitch no matter what especially alone without another two friends and I wouldn’t suggest any young girls hitch period.
Even women should avoid getting a ride a/
anyone they dont know thru & thru even neighbors.
I think the safe age for hitching is 65.
I’ll always pickup youngsters even though i disagree w/ them hitching. I’d rather take them & know their safe, than Nebach
leave them out there. I try to give them a little perspective
right before they get out.
seem like some of u r basing your mental image
on the screen name, not cyber personality.
That being said, can you describe me for instance w/o
using my screen name which many times can be misleading.
as we have seen from the screenname post.
Thanks!
eclipse; Very cute!
but ur rappin lika a true jew!
lemme try 2 help u
for da lyrics to flow,
gotta keep em short yo,
ItcheSrulik; I like your screen name. “Es Past Dich!” 🙂
The best Shadchanim are family, friends, and neighbors.
Singles! Make yourselves known to your neighbors have your mothers mingle with other women in shul & social events,
or if you’re older do it yourself.
It will save you a from a lot of heartache of chasing and dealing with Shadchanim who only remember the rich.
Sac; I must’ve read too much into it. :0
Do you disagree with my translation of your intent with
“You’re thick.” If so, I apologize.
It’s not like me to go on a verbal frenzy based on two words.
Sac; I’m happy to see from your earlier post that you’re a farginer. If you’re still single… YH”R “You should find your Basherte Bekarov!”
Some single girls get bitter at everyone although it’s hard to blame them after what theyre going through. Still it’s very important to Fargin everyone totally, thats the quickest way
out of single life.
faith; I’m confused,
like wanderinC said are you talking about refusing to shake the hand from someone from the opposite gender.
It would seem that you meant that after you finish with
“really difficult when ur in a rush & someone sticks out their hand.” Although your opening isn’t very clear.
Or were you vague on purpose?
Imaofthree;
I’ve actually heard of the opposite too,
That they eat out, “like all the time” and aside from growing spritually, they grow physically as well.
Gabboim; Thanks! I can’t stand people who do not fargin others.
Who are you to judge who deserves what. Obviously you seem to disagree with HB”H who chose to give them what they have.
So you must really do some serious soul searching, for even though you don’t know it, you’re way off the reservation.
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“Es Past Nisht!”
Yes I often find myself quoting the philosopher
bein_hasdorim. We seem to think alike.
You are very perceptive in mentioning “decent beverage ordering
skills.” People don’t realize how many Shalom Bayis problems
are a direct result of at least one of the two spouses lacking
this basic skill. If my rebbetzin would’ve said “i’ll have a
diet Dr. Pepper” (no affiliation w/ dr. pepper)
she’d have to take the train home.
Dr. Pepper is healthy enough! Who wants a health nut?
😉
real-brisker; If you were a REAL brisker you wouldn’t be online
period! Since you are, I must assume that you are from the new generation brisker i.e. learned in brisk Yeshiva in Yersushlayim, I”H TVBBO, or elsewhere, not the town Brisk.
Since you are a new generation brisker I must assume you carry the minhagim of your peers of being very fluent in designer names/labels, hence causing my utter shock & disbelief at
your obvious misspelling of a very popular designers name that happens to be jewish.
This Name can be found on any given day in any jewish hall,
on the inside of 75% of the ties worn on the dance floor.
It can also be found in every jewish phonebook worldwide.
A REAL brisker should be a major M’edakdek in all areas.
😉
pumper said; “besides male, alive and Jewish is considered picky and told to be realistic. Hello?????”
Is it that bad? I hope your exaggerating.
If not I have to have more kavanah when I daven.
the op however is still right in their sentiment.
You cant go down on all boys cuz ur frustrated.
It is not the collective fault of the all single and newly married boys that there is problem.
many guys I know married normal girls, not the prettiest,
and definitely not the richest. just normal girls that
they’re happy with.
I’m probably gonna get flack for this but I think it started
with money, and the elite.
[Edited myself] I hope you can fill in the blanks
But the worst thing is bending to the style, even though you do not fit that type, or cannot afford that school or hall.
In the heim there was no such thing as people living like
Ashirim if they werent rich, this in my humble opinion
started a chain of events that lead to many problem in this generation.
People started bowing to imitate others they cant compete with
in anyway. No problem lets use the credit cards.
Let’s lend from a Gemach.
You have to live within your means and do whats right and trust HB”H to take care of you. We don’t have to show off to anybody.
Goyim or Yidden. I feel if we only started living like
Hatzneh.. focusing on who really runs the show,
HB”H would take of all our needs.
We CANNOT be a “Monkey See Monkey Do” kind of nation.
Feel free to totally disagree with me, prove me wrong,
educate me.
😉 it was worth a try! Poor guy. Guy’s, if you’re cheap,
don’t be cheap on the FIRST date!
real-brisker: You spelled calvin klein wrong and you call
yourself a REAL brisker? I can’t be associated with you.
😉
Did you make havdallah on alcohol tonight?
..and I can tell you from experience, not personal B”H,
that most guys who think they’re getting exactly what they want
really don’t get that at all! (Shocker!)
I guess you win Sac; but know this.. There’s nothing wrong with
looking for what you want, just as long as what you want is what
you should be looking for. 😉
No problem at all. If it’s not a problem with her parents,
or her, or the guy, It’s definitely not anyone elses problem
or business. I find that no normal guy that I know, that is 26 +
wants a girls under 21. Although they tend to be more mature than
guys, there’s a limit. Unless the guy is 10yrs + older than girl.
Which is a very unusual unless in itself unless the guy is
wealthy. Then all seem to be ok with that. Go figure!
Most people’s reaction if the gap is more than ten years & the person is over 30’s is that it is creepy.
dunno; Dude! You started a tornado. I hope you realize that most
member in the CR are female. Having said that…………
I totally agree with you.
Sac; I am stunned at your reply. Do you not want all girls to get
husbands that are totally happy with them?! Do you feel that it
is your holy duty to insure that all women suffer with men that
are not satisfied with their spouse thus not giving them the
proper attention & affection they deserve. That has to be the
most selfish approach to marriage iv’e ever seen.
Who benefits from this obtuse way of thinking?
Nobody. Do you not prefer your guy to have all the qualities
you are looking for him to have?
I guess you’ll tell me that when a guy is everything you want
him to be you say “Nah! Let’s throw him back in the pond”
I’m too happy with him. Let someone else have him.
He has his own TRAIN??!! Cool! If not, well then it all depends.
He may not know how to drive, or perhaps the place he wanted to go to doesn’t have parking in the area or just parking garages,
that cost like 29.99 per hour.
Always judge from third date and on. The first one is when he doesn’t know you at all & maybe he’s been out with 5 other girls the past month, which he had to turn down as they weren’t a match. At this point he’s just sick of spending $70-$80 just to find out it’s not for him.
The second date however is when you both agreed (or when a Shadchan twisted one or both parties to “Give it another shot”
they’re crazy about you) Really? They sure have a funny way of showing it. etc..
My point being, there’s a 50% chance he’ll start spending from 2nd date on, as there’s a 25% chance that he actually wanted to see you again, and a 15% chance you wanted to see him too, & a 10% chance that although he’s cheap, he wont want you to think so, therefore he’ll splurge on the second date by borrowing his friend car. When I mean splurge I mean paying for gas and incidentals.
So in conclusion, you see why it’s just better to give him another two chances, like this on the third date when you realize you’re walk up the steps to the train. You take the train home,
and tell him, I hope you had a nice time. Thanks for paying!
memo; For argument’s sake,
lets say that there is a girl that is not heavy, but not skinny,
Let us say that girl could’ve been you. Are you telling me you would say “I’m not slim” on your resume?
If so, I tip my hat (a borsalino) to you.
However, that is a ridiculous practice. What if a guy is looking for a slim-ish girl. If you wrote that on paper, he would never give you the time of day. What if not knowing specifics he met you, liked your personality & didn’t notice the fullishness.
You’d be happily married, as opposed to your Shitoh which would
leave the full-ish person at home almost dateless.
Most Shadchanim tweak, or don’t give a B’rochel Bitcho Haktanah
description, for they know, not everyone has the same taste, likes or dislikes. As beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, it lets the dater decide for themselves what is
pretty to them, or who is considered smart to them.
Personality, brilliant as it can be, does not shine through the resume, and has to be experienced in person.
Besides for a few tweaks I’m basically the same guy,
definitely more toned down in the CR.
My shittos are even nuttier in person.
That’s the problem with all deep thinkers I guess,
I don’t mean intelligent people, just people do their thinking in a bathing suit while threading water.
Although when I was dating, only one girl out of “I don’t care to remember” (to many), refused to date till we checked it out.
Still I agree w/ realbrisker, & the others. It makes no sense
to wait. I couldn’t imagine how devastated I would be if the
girl I had clicked with wouldn’t of matched up.
I’d be furious, & probably start a post in the CR about the foolishness of not getting this out of the way,
if YWN/CR were up & running at the time.
Btw I meant Taboo, abbrev vs. I gotta stop texting. It’s ruining my yeshiva (college) level grammer.
ItsJustMyOpinion said ; Memo, why would anyone in their right mind answer even a direct question truthfully before you’ve even met them or have just met, knowing that it will result in a definite “TAKE A HIKE”. Most people aren’t lying, they’re just trying to get their foot in the door.
Bravo! you sound just like me.
memo said;
how about introducing him to a married couple?
That sounds like a good idea.
Sometimes singles need reassurance that their decision is sound
from a source that they trust.
I heard that in Crown Heights they don’t start dating until they confirm that their numbers match up, though I cannot confirm this to be actual practice.
I know that this is tabu by the general public, like
BP, flatbush, Monsey, Lakewood, especially the Heimishe yidden.
I wonder why though? Doesn’t it make sense to avoid any hardships that will arise when they really like each only to find out they are not compatible.
popa_bar_abba; It’s actually not double spaced. and I did it to
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1dayatatime; now this is a good topic!!!
Most older people dont know this, but a band can make or break a
simcha. Sometimes ppl get these corny oldie bands & the bochurim
try their best, as do the yingeleit, but it just hard to get
really into it if the guy keeps on messing up, or the drummer
drums like he’s in a marching band. Sometimes the band members
in general are not in sync with each other. This is extremely
frustrating, especially if you’re into music.
So choose your band & singer carefully.
dunno; No!
The Subsational on ave P is open till 1am
the one on ave J is open till 12 midnight
& the one in BP is open I think till 10pm or maybe slightly later.
Sub-express in BP is open till 1am too but they stop taking orders like 12:50-12:55 depending on the guy behind the counter.
One time I came like 12:48 & the guy refused to let me in or take my order. but if your already sitting & eating there,
they wont kick you out 1am. Happy Dining y’all.
MG613; Thanks, that explains it. If you can, try to help those
friends see the light. The root cause for this rationalization
stems from a fear of commitment, or an unrealistic fairytale view
of what it would take to make them go “the whole nine yards”.
To confirm this, you should be seeing a repeated pattern of this
similar excuse frequently being used to end it, after a nice few
times. To help this person see this clearly, simply point out
that every potential shidduch that seems to be going well,
usually gets the same label, where they feel like really good
friends, but nothing beyond that. Even from the words “nothing
beyond that” although I doubt it’s an exact quote, seems to hint
fear of the future, or fear of opening up, using the
word “friends” as a limit and nothing beyond as a barrier or cut
off point. Hatzlacha! Helping a person with a problem in
dating, is as if you helped them find their Basherte,
for you are giving them a chance to allow the partner that’s
right for them, into their lives.
Bourbon, Whats the Shailoh?
There are Three catagories in men who drink booze.
Those who know their alcohol, & enjoy it.
Those who drink whatever they’re told is good.
Those who’ll drink anything.
It can still be Lason Horah, saying Lashon Hora on a
“yiddish kinnd.” Like a know a guy that does so & so.
mdd; “farfrummed,made-up definitions mentiond above”
whoa! You are absolutely right!
That’s what lavan thought, who cares what he thought?
Do you?
Vayehav Yaakov Es Rochel, For he knew She was his Zivug
& he knew of her great middos & character.
Lavan was a dope & though it was what he knew on his lowly level.
Everyone understands things differently according to their level.
miamigirl613; I cant seem to understand your
“you just don’t see it beyond friends?”
Is it his looks, or hashkafah, than I agree, other than that,
the most important element in a marriage is that you get along and have enough in common to become great friends.
MG613; You say yourself, its going extremely well!
I know quite a few girls who sound like that and are still looking
b/c of that.
Please reconsider what it is you really want in life.
btw it’s not me, i’m not dating anyone from miami now. j/k