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aries2756; If she can forget her best shoes at home, when she knows she’s going in for a date, why should he give her a second chance,
unless she overnights them, how will this help the second time around? Are you saying in takes a few days to get over the trauma?
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It is only Mentschlich to give it another shot if she went through the trouble of coming in. even if she’s desperate,
that doesn’t change the fact that she is coming to YOU & saving you the trouble of being at a disadvantage of not being on home turf. Oot many guys aren’t familiar with the roads, the places,
the traffic, or lack thereof which can be very disconcerting.
Since the girl has nothing to do, other than dress up, and allow the guy to pick her up. He on the other hand, has to do all the driving, planning the location, find parking, (in places where there isn’t) remembering where he parked(for all those guys who don’t rely on the girl for that) all the while watching the road and making eye contact at the same time. I feel the girl should come in, rather than the guy, and for the same reason, I feel the guy should appreciate, that her coming to him saves him headaches while costing her money. So if anyone is a Dolt, it’s a guy who refuses to give that girl a second shot.
Truth be told, from my vast experience, he’s actually giving himself another shot as well, and wise single guys would do well
to always keep that in mind!
How on earth does one leave their child in the car?
I just don’t understand it.
Ahuva,
Yeah, the gathering at Ateres Chynka is very meaningful.
I’ve been there many times. It is a big Kiddush Hashem!
It’s for those who really care, want to feel,
and don’t just look as to how to get over Tisha B’av, but want to
be united in our mourning, educated on what we are missing, and learn what we can do to make a difference.
Also for those who don’t know what they’re saying it gives meaning to the words so they’re not something to mumble.
(sometimes they explain before certain kinos as to what you are we are lamenting about.
There’s no pressure (for those who don’t have too much patience) and once you pay the fee, you can come and go as you please coming back later the next day to hear any of the wonderful speeches!
Going there one FEELS Tisha B’av, and comes out ahead.
If you want to grow, I HIGHLY suggest you try it out.
Only after they’re married, only at home! (for their husbands)
as soon as they leave the house, they are required to remove all traces of makeup, mascara, lipstick, gloss, heels, color contacts, and long sheitels. also cannot talk on cellphones in public, even kosher ones.
(Especially kosher ones) 🙂
(Dear Mods; please transfer my post, from “( I don’t wanna Ma’arich,” to what can we learn from a tragedy like this. Thanks)
(I C”V don’t want my post to seem Like a why this happened)
(please don’t post this post)
jewishness;
We are a major minority & thinking that we could actually stop
the way the world is heading by mere votes is ridiculous!
( I don’t wanna Ma’arich, but it is necessary to get the point across.)
I would back Reb Eisenberger that unfortunately the newest technology & our obsessive embrace with it at all times, even in shul,
(fatal to our neshama) even while driving (fatal to our lives & others) even while at home (fatal to our Shalom Bayis) & (fatal to our chinuch habonim,) as well as being downright rude and not giving proper attention to our kids and spouses.
This shows that all our Technology, cannot get us out of a Gezeira.
Only using these tools to serve Hashem, like Forwarding
Tehillim, Shiurim, Shiur hotlines, Chesed, & Simchas,
AND ESPECIALLY CLOSING YOUR PHONE WHEN YOU ENTER A SHUL!!!
can get us out of a Gezeira and turn it into a Simcha.
Do we realize the astounding Chutzpah that we show when we talk
on our phone or check our text, browse news while davening?!!
Or even coming in to shul without making 100% sure your phone is off
or at least on silent! I dont mean a ringer that is slightly lower,
I mean SILENT!
I have seen the most astounding abnormal behavior by some people who
after their phone rings in middle Shemonei Esrei, disturbing the whole minyan, they press the side button to temporarily silence it.
Then it ring again, they do it again, shockeling away like a lulav
looking so disturbed that their phone is interrupting his holy
ascent through the clouds.
CHUTZPAH!! You’re nowhere near the clouds! you are in shul
disturbing a Tzibur that their prayers ARE listen to.
CLOSE your phone you foolish faker!!!
Believe me Hashem wants you to stop your lulav act,
(its not Succahs all year round, maybe Purim to you)
and close your phone. Next time dont even enter w/o checking to make sure its off.
Are we ready to give a Din V’Cheshbon on the many or few times our phone went off in shul totally Shtering a Rabim a Tzibur or even a Yochid from davening to Hashem??!!
There is no such an excuse for an adult sane Yid to forgot,
after the many times it has already happened that one or many orchestras erupt in middle of Shema Kolienu!!
Forgive me, but have you ever brought a spoon or fork with food up to your mouth and forgot to open your mouth? just poking yourself?
When you are walking into a shul, you should be aware why it is,
that you are walking into this building. Is it to pray?
Please close your phone as you are already in front of the shul,
before you enter, and i’m sure that if we all show proper kavod for a
Beis HaTefillah, then Hashem will definitely answer our tefillos and send refuos, and yeshos, shidduchim, and kiderlach, for us and all Klal Yisroel along with the Geuloh Hashleimah!
Ames; I can’t believe you said that to her face! Wow! You have guts! and about that other thing you mentioned, cool! I didn’t know they came out with that yet, It’s crazy what they’re doing today, you know where,
and you know to whom as you clearly wrote earlier.
Im surprised the moderators only let certain individuals see your posts while other are left in the dark, it’s kind of biased but I guess when you work for ….. all precautions must be taken! Good luck with your new job at …. I hope you climb the ranks of ….. quickly
and rise to the high rank of ….. enjoy all the…..
and “get all them ….. for all of us here”. Thanks!
I’ll B”H take 2:00pm-300pm
Please all those who are available, go help in the search,
if you cant, really help by saying tehilim, or learning Torah
L’zchus him being safe and found very speedily, as it is very hot one can get dehydrated C”V.
I was once in a store in Israel with a friend, who doesn’t speak
Ivrit, only gemarit, He wanted to know what time they were closing
So he asks the owner AD MOSAI? The guy is like MAH?
I started laughing.
(The owner probably though he was asking for Moshiach)
So he repeats “AD MOSAI ATOH POSEACH?” It took the guy a few seconds, then and he smiled and answered “Seven O’clock!”
Chassan Sofer, should have a decent eng dept. idk if the boys listen though. Novaminsk might have, since they updated it’s a good chance,
it’s worth looking into.
I hear that the best eng dept. (“for a Chassidishe Yeshiva”) is Bobov.
Usually the problem is that the Yeshiva & the parents
do not focus on the quality of their teachers or put extra
efforts into revising and improving their english studies program.
Even when they do, they do not emphasize the seriousness
and importance secular studies to their kids and students.
That is why the English Dept. in many yeshivahs in B.P. &
elsewhere fall short of being great.
27 is ??? which means like a fish.
We should be hidden & mulitply like fish,
not live an “in your face life” showing off.
or ,??? see Rashi Z”L when gad was born in parshas ????
coffee addict; it’s not just you.
The way I see it, 😉 it happens, when one’s opinion is highly valued, and their input is supreme. So although these individuals might
want to hear e/o opinion, once they voice theirs,
they end up with the last word.
happens to me all the time. (even when i ask a question ;)) go figure!
My advice, try to change your subtitle to s/t less “Shimshon’esque.”
Also stay away from underscores.
What does WEATLTH mean??? Did you mean wheatless?!!!
If it tastes too watery i’d go with reg beer.
If you dont mind, why not? probably will only take you for a
chevy instead of lexus, apt instead of mansion.
1/2 ur paycheck instead of two mortgages.
perhaps it has nothing to do with facial, some people have a vitamin deficiency, like B12 zinc, check with doctor.
It is not the material of the article of clothing that makes it UnTznius, (e.g Denim) rather the lack of length, (not covering what needs to be covered) tightness,(revealing) or translucent (seethru) nature of the material or a slit running up 2 the sky to make it NOT TZNIUS.
Nothing wrong with denim skirts as far as tznius, if above
criteria are met. Just like theres nothing wrong with wearing
a bend-down hat, just because a satmar chassid wont wear it,
doesnt make it wrong, same way some yeshivish or heimish wont
wear denim.
Chas V’shalom to not wear a denim skirt on grounds of Tznius
but to wear a tight black top and a matching black short skirt
is ok???
Wear all the denim you want as long as its long and not tight no
slit going up too much. (near the knees).
A Bracha.
Borei Pri Ha’eitz vs. Sheloh Osani Goy!
First I’d tell them halacha Ein Mesichin B’seudah, one is not allowed to talk while eating /chewing food
lest some food goes down the wrong pipe. (but u have 2 practice what u preach)
If they don’t get the message,I’d get up & wait out the storm in the bathroom till the table was cleared of food and food projectiles.
I know this is not my area, however I wanted to point out a weird(sad) point related to this topic. I noticed many who wear these short skirts, When they sit down they keep on pulling it down in an attempt to cover the natural hike that sitting causes.
Here’s my problem, If you know this happens and it even bothers you, to the extent that every other second you make an attempt to pull it down more, Why on earth are you wearing it?
being dan L’kaf Zchus I guess it shrunk in the wash and they have nothing else to wear and they didn’t notice till they sat down.
or perhaps they dont want to, it is just peer pressure
to fit in the style or crowds, however, that is hard to believe for an Isha Tzanuah is just that, no matter what.
intersaanteh said;
“You wouldn’t happen to be one of those mingling mothers, would you?” LOL!!! (no offense flowers)
I just had to comment, there seems to be no reasonal explanation for people to defend this behavior of parent Meddling unless one is guilty of this practice.
Obviously we are not talking about a parent getting involved when there is an actual problem e.g. abuse verbally or physical,
not providing financial, emotional support, etc…
We are talking about typical parents who cannot accept the fact that their kids are all grown up & need to build their own family, making their own decisons even if it is contrary to their parents liking.
Some mothers merely feel that their daughters have been taken away from them so to speak by their son in law. Not validated by any wrong doing of said son in law. Simply that the daughter moved out and respects her husband, agrees with him over her mother is enough to send these mentally disturbed mothers over the edge. Vowing a vendetta of revenge and destruction to their marriage.
Some mothers simply dont like the way their SIL/DIL looks.
She feels that she isnt pretty enough for her son, for who the sun rises everyday (twice a day) or that her SIL isn’t such a polished gem that she can brag about to her friends.
But here’s the thing, It’s NOT your business who your sons or daughters find attractive it’s not your life,
It’s theirs, and you don’t get to make the decisions anymore.
Deal with it, take prozac, or just cont. meddling so you can mess up two wonderful peoples future, over your petty insecurities, or trying to hang on to the past, by ruining their present and future.
Most parents who meddle will tell you that they care too much. Don’t be fooled, these people are the most selfish people you can find.
Caring parents; please stay out of your childrens business and get your own life, unless there is a Serious issue, ask a rov (that’s not on your payroll) to confirm, don’t ruin what could be a true bayis ne’man based on your personal issues. Seek professional help.
cookies; two options
1)get a job as a stewardess.
2)get a job period, save up.
OP; and exactly who do you think you are?
“IMPOSTER AROIS!”
Gabboim; thanks 4 saving me the exercise. I’ve done enough typing today. Though I see many of you have taken the bait.
I was only gonna respond to make a Macho’oh!!!
Kentucky Fried Bupkes;
save the bulk of your guilt for your view of the people who sit in Beis Medrash Learning Torah allowing the
continuity of this Real world you refer to. Get Real!
The Chodesh of Shevat, Shin, Beis, Tess, has many Roshei Teivos
of berachos and good simanim.
First of all Tu B’shvat is in this month obviously, and The torah compares man, to a tree “Ki H’Adam Eitz Hasodeh”
[Parsas Shoftim, Chuf; Yud-Tes.]
One of which is Shetisbaser Besoros Toivos,
the other Shalom, Tovah, Beracha,, like we say in sim shalom.
I wont list em all but here some more,
Shalom, Bayis Tov
Shidduch, Beshoh, Tovah,
Shidduch, Tovah, Bekorov,
Shefa, Banim/Banos Tovim/Tovos,
for bearing children, like the tree which we are compared to gives fruit & the rosh hashanah L’ilanos is Tu B’shvat
so to may we be blessed with good children.
Wishing Shalom, Tovah, and Beracha to all of klal yisroel!
popa? whats with the third party? look like the CR is getting to you. “Shenl!” go grab a decaf coffee. Ad a shot of bourbon to cool the nerves.
I say uniforms all the way, especially for elementary schools.
Less jealousy, feel a sense of belonging to a unit achdus of a school. Keeps Tznius simple. Im all about idividual expression,
buy cool shoes, wear headbands or hats bracelets or jewelry.
Not enough? Most yeshiva guys get to show identity with belts,
glasses and shoes. not much either.
I dont see any threads sticking up for Yeshivah guys lacking in ways to express individuality in changing from wearing white & black and blue. Plus the dressing tznius is not an issue for
Yeshiva guys. (unless people have some issues with the tight pleatless (flatfront) pants.
Typing with two finger! 3-5 times a week.
Pba; Very happy to hear! This month specifically is very mesugal for yeshuos. Let it B”H spread like wildfire!!!
I guess the reason they are doing chessed is to feel good about themselves, or to brag, or put on a resume.
I doubt it’s to help the other person.
The main reason is cuz HB”H wills us to do chessed.
or just to help yenner, but to make fun?!
oomis1105; Np! I’m here to help clarify these things. 🙂
I am a bone from the seder night. (pesach)
He could be good, both in & out of school.
Depends on the chinuch at home which seems to be lacking.
Kids change their behavior based on their environment.
If at school he fears the discipline system he will behave,
If at home their the discipline system is lacking or nonexistent,
that is the problem.
The problem could also be in the reward system or lack of positive attention, or acknowledgment, from his parents, or family.
You need both, a sound disciplinary, and reward system,
plus Siyata Dishmaya, to raise healthy stable children.
I don’t get the paper so please let us know B’kitzur.
The guy took her sky diving… They get to the open door, the guy as he’s jumping out shouts “I can’t think of anyone i’d rather take the plunge with.”
The girl looks out and says to herself “I can’t think of anyone I would take this plunge with!” They didn’t end up together.
Just curious would any of you like to stay in a fairly clean hotel?
eclipse; do you have a record deal yet?
ur a quick study. Let us know when your new career takes off.
lyric writer. I don’t know if theres a big market aside from Lipa
Dscribe etc… But i’ll definitely buy it if it’s jewish lyrics & jewish composer. I don’t care for copycats.
This is popular mistake of the general public that has spread
like wildfire. It is an obvious Ta’us Hadefus!
Exchanging a daled for a beis.
The word was “DUMMY.”
Isn’t it more pointy?
I sit at the window with a hot cocoa, toasty slippers,
pointing and laughing at the view.
j/k I don’t point that would be impolite.
It tranlates into, it not worth it, not practical.
It’s not kedai for me to take my car out into the upcoming snowstorm cuz i might get stuck, and probably also hinder
street cleaning efforts, (what efforts) & emergency vehicles e.g. Hatzolah from doing their jobs.
where else should they live? They’re homeless!
Is anyone who has a problem with this offering them to come
home with them? I just feel those who dont keep themselves clean
and cause a stench in shul, that is a problem.
Maybe they should take a dollar from collecting & invest into using the local mikvas soap & showers.
I wasn’t sleepin! I was just restin my eyes.