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  • in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787717
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    I have no idea how to look at someones profile or edit one.

    I am sure you are aware we are not talking about murder on our discussion of computers, bicycles and other things that were not here 400 years ago.

    in reply to: Jewish Calendars #787756
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    Oh thats great Bagel B- Thanks. I will write that down.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787714
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    DHM- I do not understand your philosophy or how you can contain your ideas of Hashems intent in todays society. I am from a moderate community and I feel that this world was created with a purpose. I do not think that HASHEM created say the automobile to test us and see if we might move to a new location that we can visit you from car now. I disagree that this modern world is a mistake. And of course, I am not going to be like the amish. Perhaps you can argue that the modern conveniences are an option and not a right. That about puts you at par with the Amish in my sight.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787710
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    Derech HaMelech. I believe that our Creator has indeed made the provisions in our society for science to flourish. I do not believe that Hashem wants us to not use these advances in our lives. I say this is my G-d given right becuase I am a human being living in this era that Hashem Created me to live in. So therefore, G-d gives me the right to live in today’s society and use todays media and scientific advances.

    in reply to: Mitzvah to Remarry Your Ex-Wife #794177
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    It is always possible to reconcile a relationship after divorce. Of course if the woman remarries, then she can never remarry the former husband in any sense and it would be a horrible outcome.

    in reply to: Unbelieveable Letter To Klal Yisroel #787416
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    I dont doubt that there is a lot of unobserved evil and unrelized wickedness in our Jewish lives in all of our communities. I disagree that this is the reason for this terrible tragedy, but if this is on our minds this is our job to look at ourselves and find what is pleasing to our Creator and eliminate that which is wicked and heretical. The idea that we are living in too much of a materially glamorized world is a possiblity. I have never been to this particular community but I will tell you that I have known great men who drive toyotas and wicked men who drive Range Rovers. That said, it is not the way of our people to always look at our own as if we are the enemy. We are not.

    But one thing I will say about this horrible tragedy… we must be observant of those in our communities and those who are Jews and try to get to know each and every Jew we come in contact with in our lives. It is not acceptable for a jew to live alone or to be without the support of others whether they be from the synagogue or the family or somewhere else. There is a true thing called mental health in all of our communities. If we are cohesive it may help improve our mental health. The idea that we shun the idea of seeing a mental health physician or that we must shun someone who does is wickedness and I can assure you that our Creator is very dissatisfied with our approach to those with mental health concerns in our communities. How many times have you heard the comment made that someone has a “meshuganah” outlook or that he is mentally unstabile? How many times have you heard snide remarkds about the yidden family that has a person who has a psychiatrist or has been in the hospital? This is a good concern and we should make our communities well aware that we do not tolerate or allow the sickness of mental incapacity or mental illness to go unchecked, undiagnosed and untreated. And yes, our communities need to start talking about this and making improvements in our perceptions and awareness of mental health problems. We are not immune no matter what our family is known for and what our standing is in our synagogues anc communities.

    in reply to: Do you support Medical Marijauna #787980
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    Derech, That may be, but dont you enjoy a shot of whiskey after davening all day at noon? That was always a nice experience.

    You can not make one form of alcohol illegal and another form not illegal. And I personally enjoy a beer once in a while and love a shot of whiskey.

    in reply to: Ideas to make the fast easier? #961107
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    Change your bed sheets. That got me through 8 minutes!

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787708
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    I’m a midwesterner but another part of America.

    in reply to: Trying to imagine #787386
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    Funny Masking tape,

    I adopted that phrase from a Jewish Doctor who said it quite a bit and I guess it found its way into my vernacular. I must say it eases transitions and seems to work well.

    in reply to: Jewish Calendars #787753
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    Yes, the local ChaBaD has a very useful calendar. I do not know if I will receive it this year as I am no longer affiliated with their congregation. So if that is the case, I need a good one from somewhere else. Jewish War Veterans has a calendar that I have had in the past, but it is not complete enough to really be that useful. There must be a few other sources I am sure.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787706
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    Sorry, I don’t mean to indicate that that is the way of our people. I wish to indicate that there are people today who are forbidding the Jew in their community to use certain forms of media. I have also seen a number of articles in the last few years telling that we can not use the internet on VIN, YWN and Matzav. I am aware that many in the yeshiva education system are forbidden from having an internet connection and are forbidden from using this sort of Modern day computer internet connection.

    I may see that there are certain groups, perhaps those in a very structured yeshiva who the teachers and leaders do not wish to be exposed to outside ideas while they are in their programs. For someone in a yeshiva, I believe that as illiberal as the idea of no computer is, it is within the rights of the yeshiva to enforce this but that our children should also have the right to use a computer if they so choose. It may make it that people will no longer pursue that particular yeshiva and that is the democratic process. But if it works for that sort of community, I am not going to be one to interfere.

    But for me as a Jew to want to use the internet and other media, I feel that is my G-d given right. And sadly, it may make me someone on the outskirts of a religious community in some places, but that is my choice. I am well served as an American and Jew by having access to the online information.

    Thanks.

    they claim that it is assur to have a computer period. I have a friend who has to go to the public library to use the computer for even a simple thing such as learning to type.

    in reply to: Do you support Medical Marijauna #787976
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    To the fellow who reported above that he sees no problem making Alcohol illegal I say this:

    Have you not learned the lesson of history? Look at the prohibition era.

    Do you want to do away with the Kiddush since we would not be able to have wine?

    True if you are a person who drinks excessively you will have long term sickness and have many problems in life.

    Alcholism is a real and terrible illness. But that said, it is not endemic in our population. It is prevalent and it is something that we have a program for in our AA programs and other detoxification programs. We are a modern society.

    So I would never suggest making Alcohol illegal.

    The only problem I see with marijuana being illegal is that there is a horrible market for illegal drugs and there are many innocents who are slaughtered due to the war on drugs.

    in reply to: Life on Other Worlds? #787247
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    I do not speculate very much as to whether there is or is not life in outerspace. But I know this, Hashem created this universe for the purpose of Creating Israel and bringing our people to the forefront of our day. That said I personally do not believe that our universe will ever be detroyed (Noah story) and that there is a possiblity that in the very very very distant future, man will take to the stars. Perhaps G-d has planted other life on the other planets for our own edification. But I do not expect that there is another planet of people who are created to serve our Creator in the way that our people exist today. I do not believe in a parallel universe where there might be another sentient people who know our Creator, though it is an interesting considering to speculate and wonder about.

    That said, what you see here on Earth is what it is about.

    The Jewish people have a mission and God created this universe to give us Torah.

    Do you think that there is Torah in another part of universe? That is the interesting question. But I profess that I believe that we are it on this lonely crazy planet and that the other planets if they have a people they are only for the benefit of our Existence as we are the ones who have Torah.

    in reply to: Zecher Amalek – how can it ever be wiped out? #1158124
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    Remember always that HASHEM has control over the universe. If there is a remnant of Amalek today, Hashem is very aware of this existence. If there is to be a war against a component of our society, rest assured that Our Creator will be the one to initiate this happening. But that said, our battle is against Evil and heresy. And if we can fight against this where it exists in our lives, we will always come out ahead. Thanks.

    in reply to: Do you support Medical Marijauna #787964
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    Marijuana is very harmful and most certainly more so than tobacco and alcohol. Alcohol can be used in moderation. Marijuana is an illicit way that people “get high” and have hallucinogenic and delirium producing experiences.

    That said, I do support this drug being used for Medical purposes only. I personally feel that the appetite inducing effects of THC are very beneficial for the end state cancer patient.

    I personally am a strong advocate of the medical uses of this drug, but it must be at the hands of a trained physician.

    I do believe that everything in creation has its purpose and that Hashem has given us this drug for a reason.

    But that said, I disagree that it has a recreational use.

    Also consider that there are many reports that Marijuana use has been linked to brain disorders such as schizophrenia.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787693
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    Daas, I tried to post this earlier, but I was not permitted to by the moderators. Maybe I can post some of it again. In my community there is a large community that is told they are not allowed to own a computer. They must go to the library to use a computer.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787680
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    Gavra, You know what Deuteronomy says. See Deut 28. It says anyone who does not obey any particular law will be Cursed. That is a fact. It will effect your life and your well being. But the halacha that is continuing to evolve may or may not be exactly the Laws of our Torah that we adhere to. So if someone say refuses to wear tzitzis in public, that is a curse on his life.

    My life is better today becuase I obey the laws of Moses.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787676
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    Right the Halacha of the IBM pc. Let me look that one up!!!!!!!

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787644
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    Illiberal thought processes are not orthodox. To be permissive or to be a pacifist is not orthodox either. Sadly people confuse permissivism and pacifism with liberalism. This is like comparing a picket fence to a grove of trees.

    Truth is what out Creator will teach to us in our days.

    I do not profess to know exactly the true way that our G-d wants us to conduct ourselves all of the time and I certainly do not believe that every rabbi has the ins and outs on the way of our Creator. If I believed the rabbis, I might not have a computer, I might not have gone to college, I might not have studied medicine, I might not have entered into philosophical debate becuase some rabbi had it all together for me in advance.

    I am not against the leadership of our Torah leaders, but I strive to become a torah leader myself and know the true Derech of our people.

    in reply to: Do you play with toys? #789341
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    Automobiles are really a utility service for your to be able to transport yourself, others and your goods. That is a good thing. But to invest your happiness in the material world is like making a deposit in the trash can of life. It may make you a proud person to drive say a Lexus or an Infinity or the like and truly maybe you deserve such distinction, but that said, it is not your life to be a car owner that has to swoon over your ride as if it is your Mount Everest of happiness. That said, I am a happy owner of a nice (getting old) automobile, but it is not my pride and joy.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787625
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    That’s the thing, midwesterner, show me how it is a Chillul Hashem to go see, say the Smurfs at the end of this month. Doesn’t anyone appreciate any of the cinematic media today? How is this against Torah. Truely a Rated R movie could be dicey. What of the PG movie? Do we not expose our lives to the content of the intelligent communities that write films? Do we ban books now? Perhaps I would be in error for reading Farenheight 451 for it is a secular book right? F451 is one of the best books I have read and got me as a guy who was not reading the bible to pick up the book of Ecclesiastes. So how is this secular world bad? It all ties in to G-ds plan.

    in reply to: Wearing a Yarmulka in a Movie Theater #787622
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    Hi. I see my above comment is still in yellow. I hope it gets posted. (I am guessing that means it has not yet posted so therefore a moderator is deliberating as to whether to post an incisive comment that has the potential to shine light in a way that others do not like to see it shine). That said, I dont wear a kippah to a movie if I was to go. I would usually cover my head with a hat either baseball or other formal wear hat. But that said, I would of course wear a kippah no matter what and even under my hat if that was the story. You should cover your head. A movie theatre is not a location of sin. Don’t go to movies you would be ashamed to be seen viewing. Remember you represent our Nation and our G-d and act accordingly.

    in reply to: Do you play with toys? #789337
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    Cars really are not toys though. They are big things that make you smile a bit. But they are not a token of happiness. If your car is what gives you happiness, you are materialistic. But that said, one should find the things that bring about real happiness in life.

    in reply to: Do you play with toys? #789335
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    I will tell you that I bought a few bobble heads which are fun to decorate a place with if you are in a juvenile mode of thought. (well I am not living in the Taj Mahal of the uber sophisticated high priced wine drinking fame). But that said, I like to have a few decorations from the childlike experiences people may have. It keeps you young in mind, being, spirit and soul.

    in reply to: Listening Pleasures #786864
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    I have 2 CD collections of Moshe Sklar singing. I must say I enjoy this one alot. But it is not like the genre of the music I listen to on a regular basis. Well I loaded it into my iTunes and will give it more play now. But that said, too bad its not on the internet for inclusion into iTunes. I had to name each album and I think part of it did not load up. Too bad, but good music.

    in reply to: Listening Pleasures #786863
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    Maybe I’ll check out Matisyahu next time I am on Pandora.

    in reply to: Do you play with toys? #789333
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    Koillel, that is fine. I hope that the knowledge of truth is at your fingertips now. Lets not be like the nations huh?

    True you can have “bigger toys” as you get to be a bigger child. But that said, I say that a True Torah scholar might have a few other toys too. 🙂

    in reply to: cant make decisions…. #791992
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    You are probably going through tribulation.

    in reply to: Listening Pleasures #786857
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    I’m not looking for dance music. I’m not looking for festive music. Cantorial music I always enjoy. I am not sure if I like Abraham Freid as I sampled him once and it was not the type I was looking. I do like things that might have a musical presentation like some of the rock and roll music, classic rock and country music or even classical music. I am looking for music that will keep me going. I am not looking for an experience right now that makes me feel that I am going to bear my soul for all. But that said, I do want to find some good bands perhaps. Why are there no Jewish bands? Ususally its a choir or a one man singer. That said, surely our Creator will build the Jewish music scene someday I hope!

    in reply to: Listening Pleasures #786855
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    Thanks for the suggestions. Sadly the mostly music store is quite expensive for me. I will try to sample some. I found one thing there called the Shelehevet Orchestra that I liked quite a bit.

    That said, I see no LAW against listening to music.

    True one should not listen to a woman sing, but I suggest that for my own purposes this is really just for in her presence. I like female vocalists like Heart and Reba and find no “illicit” thoughts or feelings during their listening.

    I also buy most of my music on ebay which only costs me a few dollars for a CD.

    Mostly Music is about 15 dollars a CD or so and thats a bit to pay, but if there was a market on ebay (I’m sure there isn’t except perhaps for a few that you might suggest who are more listened to than the rest) I would be able to get more of these music interests.

    Thanks for all the input. I’ll come back to this thread and see what I come up with in the future.

    in reply to: Listening Pleasures #786854
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    I do not get the outright attack on the “secular”. I must say that this is the same argument that the christians give for only listening to christian music. I have yet to get my christian friend to listen to some of the other radio stations in our town. That said, I do not wish to adopt the same ideal and I will certainly play the music that is on our radio stations. I wonder if I would ever be happy if I moved to Israel as I am not sure they have the musical stations that I would enjoy as I do here in the American States. That said, I must say that I truly believe that all of the music which has passed the test of time has truly had a positive effect on my life. What I am saying here is that I am looking for more.

    But that said, I disagree with the modern Jewish thought process of the ultra religious who disavow all of the things that are “Secualar”. G-d did not create the world to destroy our nations. This music that we have on our radio stations is truly a gift and I for one feel richer for the benefit of the listening pleasure.

    in reply to: Bedrest :) #787448
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    I just decided that when I am hopefully not for many years confined to bed rest, that I will amass a good collection of music on my iPod and get a small iPod radio to play them on continuously as I may enjoy that sort of audio experience even if I am incapacitated. If I am ever in the ICU as a patient, I will hopefully have someone bring this for me and just let it play for the duration.

    in reply to: Listening Pleasures #786848
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    You know, I am really wondering if there are any Orthodox Jewish composers I will get into. Perhaps there is a rock or country music scene in Israel? I wonder if there are any good Israeli Radio stations that I might like?

    I am a big fan of bands like Heart, Led Zeppelin, Genesis, Alan Parsons, Dire Straits, Simon and Garfunkle, Shinedown (new one for me), Golden Earring, Pink Floyd, Supertramp, Rush, Foreigner, Brad Paisley, Toby Keith, Reba McEntire, Counting Crows and many many more. I like that I have alot of music that I am very familiar with and the tunes always make me very comfortable and at ease with the experience I have in life.

    I have not really found the same appreciation of the Jewish music that I have had so far, but I will continue looking.

    Personally, you guys may not agree, but I see the hand of our Creator in many of these (actualy all of them) bands and I feel that it is a blessing to be able to listen to the future of our lives as the Life is played out for us on the radios and the music players.

    in reply to: Bedrest :) #787442
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    Buy a kindle.

    in reply to: Refuting the liberal claims about the tragedy. #786626
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    It may or may not be a deterrent to many of the death seeking murderers. But I for one rest much better when a horrible murderer is taken out of this world. Of course they have no life after they commit the act of murder. They will not have eternal life and they are best to be destroyed as soon as it can legally be done. This is why I personally felt that the Universe took a breath of fresh air after say Saddam Hussein was put to the gallows. This is a very righteous thing for the world to do in all of the cases of known murderers and by removing them from the world of the living they will never have any breath or association with life any time ever again. So the universe is healed and the rifts that are created begin to collapse. This is a very important thing. I am a very staunch liberal and I am very much for the Death Penalty at least in any case where it is unequivocal that the murder was committed by the said murderer.

    I feel that this is the way that Our G-d wants us to conduct our business on earth. May the time of their final moment be soon and swift with the true legal process done appropriately.

    in reply to: what would you do FIRST if you became a mod? #787218
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    I do not mean competitive in the sense that we are going to trump one another. I mean that it might make it more enticing for someone to try to write something interesting. Thats all.

    in reply to: what would you do FIRST if you became a mod? #787214
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    If I was a moderator, which I will certainly not be doing (please!), I would add a feature for people to tag their “favorite” comments so that we could see how relevant any particular post may be on here. Might make this more competitive and fun.

    in reply to: Interested…or not? #786715
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    Have faith in Hashem. When your true shidduch comes, it should be clear to you and that other. But of course, it is not a surprise that we may indeed find a number of dates in our life and not meet our besheret until it is G-ds chosen time. Does this surprise you? Do you really think at 20 year old really knows ones own neshama so well that he or she is always ready to go to the chuppah? Truly this was the factor in days gone by that one might marry in a youthful time, but today, that is really not so anymore. Of course many of you merit being tied so well to the religious jewish communities that there will be a good number of visits from potential shidduchs in your time.

    I am not yet wedded and at my growing years, I do not fret over all. I believe what is in G-ds interests will happen. I also happen to have known some fantastic souls who did not marry in their lifetime. Perhaps G-d has his methods and reasons.

    in reply to: Return Policies #786582
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    If you wear an item for a season and wish to return it, I personally believe that it would not be halachiacly righteous to return this item for another one. But that said, if you are destitute and that is the stores policy, consider it a source of charity from big business. But of course, one must of course consult their own soul on all of these simple and needless agonizing decisions. That said, I personally would not return an item that I have used more than a few standard times. But of course, you never know what your needs are. These return policies are well thought out and it is not against the Law of our People to use the standard methods of return policies by established operations. This goes without saying.

    in reply to: Smoking in Shidduchim #786665
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    You probably dont want a younger guy who smokes regularly. Most certainly not a really avid cigarette smoker. Those who do smoke at a young age likely may stop so don’t get all worked up if he smoked in college say and smokes a few cigettes. Don’t throw the baby away with the bathwater. But that said, be leery of those who are lifelong cigarette smokers for the most part. Of course by now you know I will be one to suggest that those who enjoy an occasional cigar and a pipe are really not your enemy. Treat them well and consider them as a good prospect. But of course anyone can have ill health later on. So be good and look for character.

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    I wouldnt trust ANY drug that is not prescribed by your Physician for any condition such as “weight loss”. I am a physician and know no treatments that are orthodox for this other than true medical advice, diet, exercise and in extreme cases, surgery.

    in reply to: cant make decisions…. #791982
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    This is why we have good psychiatrists. They are a good bastion of hope for people with what sounds like obsessive compulsive tendencies. Therapy can help people who can not distinguish between normal concern and frivilous connotation.

    in reply to: Refuting the liberal claims about the tragedy. #786600
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    Please END your confusion. The movement against the Death Penalty is NOT A LIBERAL MOVEMENT. It is a PACIFIST movement. This is like comparing Trees to Picket Fences.

    in reply to: Does anyone care? Are we so stupid? #785946
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    My dear friend, All the Gadols that have passed were well into their later years. That said, when a child goes missing, we must indeed pray as we can and hope for the best. Did you not realize that there is evil in the world? And its not becuase I am listening to my Classic Rock station tonight. But as for needless movies, its just a matter of time before the simple learn to be wise. Hope for that.

    in reply to: Lets talk politics!! #784789
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    Michelle Bachmann is a round 2 of Mussolini. She is really not among the righteous in my eyes and I sense she will really screw the office of the Presidency up totally if she is ever elected. But a liberal minded America has no interest in a neo-fascist radical pluralistic death walking woman.

    in reply to: When you change but your friends don't #1051992
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    You must be popular. All my old friends and I have found other things in life to interest all of us. So I rarely hear from the older relationships often. But truly if you are an orthodox Jew, your interests are going to change vastly in your life especially if you are a BT. That said, of course you should keep your relationships, but if the other party can not communicate with you any further at an intellectual or personal level, it would not make sense to contact that person often unless there is news to share.

    in reply to: Tzedaka Recogniton #784803
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    There are many forms of charity and giving when you want to give is always a blessing. But that said, those who want to be memorialized in some manner and usually this is the custom such as if you gave to a hospital or other institution etc, you might find that your name is inscribed somewhere depending on your level of tzedakah. That is not a sin and it is not a foolish thing either. The names of the righteous are worthy of being inscribed. But if your intent is to acheive what is considered the truest form of charity and not be recognized, that is your perogative of course. And in some cases, it would perhaps be a chillul hashem to allow your name to be published. So therefore you give anonymously. But that said, it is an honor to be recognized and we should very much honor our contributors. So give where you can and be honored when it is time.

    in reply to: So I have this friend… #784850
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    Everyone is on their own pathway in life. You can not compare your adherance to religious ways with another person’s. That said you can assist your friend in her life and you can certainly keep her interests in mind. In fact, those who return to Judaism are often stronger than those who never strayed in some senses. So be glad for her if she is on the Derech today.

    in reply to: pinky by hagbah #783974
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    I assume this is when the Torah is held up after the reading? I don’t konw the term ‘Hagboh’, but I think I read that once on here. To kiss your pink indicates that you are smaller than Torah but that you love your own soul just as well. But that said, we usually lift our tzitzis in the air and then kiss the tzitzi afterwards. This indicates that we love our heritage.

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