banana123

wow avram md-VERY helpful! thanks for literaally translating my question into better english ;)!!!! I wasn’t quite so sure how to phrase it n you have done it perfectly and its exactly my point!

AND nechoma… I have real problem, I never help at home, for some reason I find it so hard. maybe it’s just I am lazy and cant be bothered to help but I never knwo what exaclt yot help with, and yes I have asked my mother sverael times and I feel she just likes doing things her way and if I would do something (im quite clumsy ugh!) I would just either knock something down or do it incorrectly. and then of course i GET a shouted at. I guess I should start to help more at home… (I always do the shopping for my mother)there are no other siblings besides me an a younger sibling so it leaves me to do everything. However I do get your point everyone, that studying comes first but there is just some part of me that is telling me I am not doing enough Chessed… so thanks for ur opinions. just need to know what to start with an i guess it should be something small..