What do you all feel about withholding information about a parent or grandparent who has a mental illness even where the prospective boy/girl doesn’t have any problem themselves.
Often mental illness is hereditary and may not have manifested itself yet in the prospective boy/girl and comes out when all the stress of marriage and parenthood set in.
Also it may well come out in one of the children that are born to them.
Should there be an obligation to tell the other side that a grandfather takes meds, for example?