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  • in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2268941
    AviraDeArah
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    The way to know if a miracle is from kedushah is what came before it and what does it represent.

    On Purim, we dsvened and did teshuva. And we accepted the torah anew. The soton has no interest in that, it’s not a challenge for us to do something bad.

    When there are alleged nissim for the state, it’s a nisayon if we will say that Hashem is on the side of those who hate Him and made an army designed to rebel against Him, in a state made to reconstruct a Jew into a secular culturally entity.

    Big difference.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2268933
    AviraDeArah
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    Let’s remember 3rd grade parsha class.

    Devarim 13:

    כי יקום בקרבך נביא או חלם חלום ונתן אליך אות או מופת

    When a navi or dreamer of a dream rises among you, and gives you a sign or miracle

    ובא האות והמופת אשר דבר אליך לאמר נלכה אחרי אלהים אחרים אשר לא ידעתם ונעבדם

    And the sign or the miracle that he spoke to you comes, saying ‘let’s go after other gods that you haven’t known, and serve them.

    לא תשמע אל דברי הנביא ההוא או אל חולם החלום ההוא כי מנסה ה” אלקיכם אתכם לדעת הישכם אהבים את ה” אלקיכם בכל לבבכם ובכל נפשכם

    Do not listen to the words of that navi or that dreamer of dreams, for **Hashem your God is testing you**, to know among you are lovers of Hashem your God, with all of your heart and all of your soul.

    Hashem is telling us clear, rochel btcha haketana – miracles will happen to test us and see if we will follow avoda zara. Tzadikei olam have said that nationalism is avodah zara, and it is indeed a false god that our fathers knew not, because it is a new, European ideology. Zionism is spelled out for you clearly in this parshah.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2268931
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Smerel, that account by r. Lorencz is a mistake. The satmar rov didn’t say that nissim are from the soton, he said that there weren’t nissim in the 6 day war, and he was correct. The US military said it would take Israel around a week to do what it had to do.

    And yes, attributing anything to the independent acts of the soton, or anything other than Hashem, is kefirah.

    But the brisker rov wasn’t arguing on tje established concept of maysoh soton whch is mentioned in chazal(one place that comes to mind is the image of Moshe dying on har sinai before the egel). What it means is that the soton is doing his job that he was tasked to do by Hashem and is only able to do so because Hashem wants that test to be made.

    That’s why it says in chumash that when a navi sheker does a miracle, it’s Hashem testing you – He is testing us through the soton to see if we will go with the sitra achra.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2268816
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Square, miracles don’t prove things. Torah is laav bashonayim – we do not change our Torah because of them. Chumash itself warns us of false neviim performing miracles – it wouldn’t matter if it were written in the sky for us to break a halacha, we wouldn’t do it. Because halacha does not change based on anything, even a bas kol.

    Also, that the land became fruitful is a metzius; when Jews are on it, for better or worse, it blossoms. It’s how eretz yisroel works. No different than two people trying to open a fingerprint scanner, with one having the coded fingerprint and the other not.

    Maybe the fruits are a sign that the geulah is imminent – the gedolim have been saying that moshiach is coming soon since the chofetz chaim, and rav elchonon, his talmid, wrote an entire sefer about how we’re the last step,the ikvesa demeshicha – and he called zionism avodah zara in clear language.

    So just as the fire coming down from shomayim on the side of baal should not make us change religions, i will not accept nationalism as it is avoda zara. Rav Nachman of Breslov and many other chassidishe rebbes write how before moshiach comes, the nisayon of emunah will be almost unbearable, there will be signs that the sitra achra is correct…only those with pure emunah will emerge unscathed. They give the fire of har Carmel as an example of what will happen – we will be tested. Will we follow Hashem or the baal? Will we go by our senses or our emunah and our purified Torah thinking?

    It’s also interesting how communities which minimize nissim and believe in “rationalism,” castigating Torah jews as backwards, and denying things like golems or stories of mofsim performed by tzadikim, are happy to accept nissim performed for a mixed gender army of mechalelei shabbos.

    Because it suits their purpose.

    The Torah world looks to nissim to strengthen our existing mesorah.

    The Nationalist world looks for nissim to PROVE their new avodah zara.

    It’s a huge nisayon. Fight it.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2268768
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Haleivi, it was the overwhelming majority of the Torah world, not just the brisker rov and the satmar rov. You’re just one step above the MO delusion that “only satmar” opposed the state. The main differences were in how to relate to the state ex post facto. The brisker rov was more concerned with the akiras hadas and pikuach nefesh problems with zionism than the shvuos, however.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2268567
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    “it destroys the neshama more than speaking (and more than watching the worst stuff on the internet (cuz it’s kineged a”z giloy arroyos and shfichas damim all together)”

    As one of the gedolei yisroel said regarding neo chabad(who shall remain nameless), chochma, bina, daas…but no sechel!

    We have a Lubavitcher saying that a holy jew who stumbles one time in the averah of lashon hora, is worse than a person who murders, commits adultery, or worships baal.

    Get real. Chazal mean no such thing and you know it. Lashon hora is a huge averah, but do you honestly think a person who murders another Jew has less teshuva to do and his neshoma isn’t as tainted as someone who can’t hold in a juicy piece of lashon hora in the mikveh?

    Seriously.

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    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2268523
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Having unfiltered internet is ITSELF an aveirah, and not a small one. rav chaim kanievsky wrote that such a person does not have olam haba, regardless of whether or not they fall into the trillions of traps that await those who enter, with the flick of one button.

    There’s nothing to be dan lekaf zchus. And since when is being dan lekaf zchus a Lubavitch thing? It’s a mishnah! I do it too. But I’m not supposed to put my head in the sand and pretend that unfiltered internet is ok or that it doesn’t lead, invariably, to sheol tachtis.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2268458
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Sechel, not every individual community accepted that aspect of rav vosner’s psak – the issue is that chabad continues to not condemn recreational and even unrestricted internet access, instead plays on these insufferable talking points of “the good in everything”

    Yes there was a psak from the CH beis din. But this is an issue that requires mobilization; did you help russian jewry by just issuing statements? Did klal yisroel defeat reform, haskalah, zionism, karaism, tzedukim, etc….with one psak beis din? No.

    And the proof to the disingenuousness of your statement is that chabad ks extremely into activism to reach its goals. If it cared about kedushah as a community as much as it cares about putting leather boxes and straps on men who are defiled with shiksas, it would do something about it. But it doesn’t.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2268428
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Sechel, we’re not discussing radio waves and telephones. We’re talking about the equivalent of hitting a neshoma with a machine gun over and over again and then shooting a rocket propelled grenade at it for good measure.

    Whatever hashkofa points there are about the “good in everything” doesn’t change what Internet access does and facilitates. It has no equal in literally all of human history.

    If you want to wax philosophically about being m’aleh nitzotzos while people commit all 3 chamuros and lose their eternity – go ahead. It’s just out of touch. And despite my critcism i am 100% sure that if the Lubavitcher rebbe were alive today, he would have been just as outspoken against the internet as Lakewood and satmar. So would any European, simple Jew. It’s not a complicated issue.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2268325
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Aaq, if you’ve ever lived in a Torah community, you’d know the answer to what you’re asking. I’m not making suggestions as to how to treat sinners. I am explaining what Torah communities do to someone who is oblivious to anything outside of crown heights and kfar chabad.

    We don’t put every sinner in cherem. But we don’t let our kids play with their children, we don’t accept them into our schools, we don’t have much to do with them if they’re consistently sinning in an open way. We don’t consider them part of the community, but we won’t throw them out of shul either.

    It has nothing to do with haskalah – sefardim don’t always do this because they’re afraid of intermarriage. But they do maintain a level of separation, especially if we’re talking about yeshiva sefardim like in Ateret. Non Yeshiva people, who grew up with Magen David co ed schools being the norm, are just not that frum to begin with. Their actions don’t represent a Torah community’s hanhagah.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2268322
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Sechel – ever hear of reductive arguments? Please reread my post. No feelings involved at all; one affects the community deeply and the other is an individual nisayon of shmiras aynayim much like a billboard poster. No one has a relationship with the cleaning ladies more than “thank you,” or “excuse me can you take care of…”

    Cs – i can only imagine what was edited out if you actually wrote that people who are not chasidish “care in general less about yiddishkeit” – if by yiddishkeit you mean cultish messianic hysteria over a deceased rabbi, then you’re right, but that applies to every branch of chasidus besides Lubavitch too.

    If you want to see non-chasidish jews caring about yiddishkeit; where was Lubavitch in the city field event, where klal yisroel came together in all of its stripes to acknowledge and accept on themselves to not use unfiltered internet? Where is Lubavitch in the siyum hashas every 7 years, when klal yisroel celebrates its cherished Torah and their completion of the gemara? Where is Lubavitch kollelim, where idealistic young families sacrifice a life of material success to be davuk in Hashem and His Torah day and night, not just as a means of becoming a missionary in Hawaii?

    Klal yisroel cares about Torah. They do not, however, care about personality cults.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2268215
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Sechel…why do i so often begin my posts in response to Lubavitchers with the words “where do i begin.” There’s just layers and layers of… I’m not sure what it is. You can call it klipos.

    First, even if it were common to see very untzius cleaning women and employees, that is still the “outside.” They are goytas. They’re not in the community. No frum jew would see them and have a minimized view of tznius. They might have shmiras aynayim issues, but that’s a separate issue.

    The reality is that yeshivishe homes are, in fact, makpid that the help wears some sort of clothing, without giluy erva and the way they dress in the street. Most frum restaurants are the same. I’ve never seen a frum restaurant with women in states of undress.

    So the presumption is wrong on two levels; factually, and in theory.

    On to reality – having members of a Jewish community who are “frum” and are considered fully integrated without mitzvah observance weakens the mitzvos that they are not keeping in the eyes of those around them. That’s how lashon hora becomes acceptable. And that’s how boys end up falling away from learning, while girls gravitate away from tznius when their neighbors do not keep hilchos tznius.

    This is why the frum community of crown heights has unique problems in this regard. Because they tolerate half baked BTs and gerim who don’t keep halacha, it has a trickle down effect on the mainstream.

    One should not feel that they are frum if they abandon mitzvos, even one of them. You can show love to distant, sinful jews – whether they’re tinknos shenishbu or not – without bringing the mess into klal yisroel.

    in reply to: Is there a Drug Problem in the “Frum World”? #2267903
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    אין זו מברך אלא מנאיץ

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267893
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    It’s more than a bad idea, it’s an abrogation of the ratzon Hashem

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267796
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Also, hakatan, there is one shitah among the biggest talmidim of rav berel soloveitchik, who holds that once the state was made, there’s no obligation vis a vis the shvuos to dismantle the state, but rather we daven it should go away because of the many tzaros it causes, both spiritually and physically.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267794
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Ubiq, you’re going back to the knee jerk “no issur no problem” thing. It’s what high school kids say when their rebbeim tell them that following sports isn’t assur. Time to move on.

    The shvuos are more than just “advice” or even the best advice; they’re the ratzon Hashem, expressed through chazal. What the zionists did was contrary to the ratzon Hashem according to everyone.

    Again, Hashem warned us what would happen if we did it; that’s not just “advice”

    And that’s only rav Belsky’s shitah. Most other gedolim I’ve spoken with do not agree with it, as hakatan is accurately quoting. They give other reasons why it’s not in the major poskim; the satmar rov says that it’s because they’re not separate halachos, but all part pf kefirah in bias hamoshiach. The same way the rambam etc do not codify every heicha timtza where one can violate an issur, they don’t mention this example very often. But they do mention it in their general writings and exhort people to follow them, so they clearly do not think it’s “just medrash” or whatever.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267727
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Shmerel, where did you go to yeshiva and which rosh yeshiva ever spoke that way?

    I’ve been in basically every anti zionist circle around; it’s just not true. Perfidy is the icing on the cake, but it’s not the reason why anyone’s antizionist.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267608
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Smerel, I’m as anti zionist as they come, and i have never seen anyone put ben hecht on a pedestal or praise him.

    We don’t need affirmation; we have a mesorah. As for his claims, rav michoel ber weissmandl writes similar things in eng case

    And he was definitely admitting something by saying that his fellow zionists had collaborated with Nazis and contributed to the Holocaust. The fact that a zionist says that is just more historical evidence.

    I think you’re looking to find hypocrisy where it doesn’t exist..maybe a rebbe of yours was hypocritical, maybe a rabbi you know gave you a bad taste for the Torah world, but your claims of us making ben hecht into some kind of hero or hanging on his every word are just not true.

    I’m close to many elements of the yeshiva world, all of which are anti-Zionist, and none have had anything different to say about hecht than what i wrote above. Satmar, on the other hand, often don’t know who he is. They don’t need to debate zionism with their neighbors like we do in yeshivos.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267609
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Either that, or you’re hanging around fanatical neturei karta people.

    But you will never hear this from yeshiva people, or satmar, Munkatch, yerushalmis, or any other group in the Torah world. Rav avigdor miller quotes perfidy in his “rejoice o youth” and says that he was a kofer who exposed zionists; nothing more.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267604
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Square, where does the haflaah say that?

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267602
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Smerel, you’re misunderstanding.

    Ant zionists, aka the Torah world, were not anti zionist because of perfidy or the stories he told.

    We are antizionist because the gedolei Torah were and are, because nationalism is a non jewish ideology grafted onto Judaism.

    Perfidy is treated the same as a Christian pastor admitting his role in the Holocaust. We don’t trust zionists, Christians, evolutionists, maskilim, or anyone else who’s not a Torah jew.

    However if they admit to something bad that they and their cohorts have done, it is indeed believable, and it underscores their crimes, that even one of their own will admit to it, after feeling guilty of betraying his people.

    We have no positive feelings towards the mechalel shabbos kofer that was Ben Hecht, but his writings serve as a testimony from within that accursed, heretical shmad group. Nothing more.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267578
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Right, what does any of that have to do with the Torah world opposing the state? See above regarding the UN. The oaths don’t depend on what some goyim say. There are alsp opinions that hold that it doesn’t matter if all of them agree.

    Ubiq, תחת אשר לא עבדת את ה אלקיך בשמחה…. Isn’t a din either, yet national calamities occur because of it. Rav Belskys pshat is very simple, but you’re being dismissive. Not being a din doesn’t mean “case closed.” Hashem reveals to us in the Torah, through chachamim, what He wants us to do. And that includes our behavior in Galus.

    Chazal learned the parsha of Yaakov and eisav before meeting with the Roman rulers, to learn and remind themselves of the yesodos, the ways one must behave in galus to be safe.

    Now is that hanhagah – giving gifts, flattery, etc…is that a din? No. It’s how Hashem taught us, through the example of Yaakov avinu, our heiligeh zaydeh, who was the first yid in galus.

    So too, the oaths are a pathway to security when dealing with goyim, and they are not to be taken lightly…. Hashem himself said He would permit our flesh to be hunted….din or not, it’s extremely important. Go over this a few times, let it marinate, because you’re coming from a perspective of “no din? No problem!” which is not how chazal teach us. There are other such examples, including a menuval bershus hatorah.

    Regarding why Jews were targeted in Europe, gedolim would often ask why. Tach vetat was explained to the tosfos yom tov in a shailas chalom from shomayim, that it was due to talking in shul. The chofetz chaim said trouble in his days was due to chilul shabbos and lashon hora.

    No gedolim ever go with “well there’s always antisemitism so we don’t know why X happened, because look, Y people were better about it and yet they still were punished”

    Learn the chofetz chaims seforim on this. Look at the warnings about the Holocaust from the meshech chochma and others. This attitude you picked up in the baalebatish circles is not the way gedolei yisroel think; it’s intellectual laziness.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267562
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Hakatan, ths Satmar rov himself said it is no longer feasible, because it will lead to many, many, if not millions of jewish lives being lost.

    Rav shach would daven everyday for the peaceful dismantlement of the government – but that’s all we can hope for; there’s no method bcarchei hishtadlus or bederech hateva that it can come about. It probably will only be destroyed by melech hamoshiach, and his enemies will probably include many Zionists.

    Radical NK do not believe they are saving jewish lives by supporting the Palestinians and wearing kefiyehs. They believe that yehereg velo yaavor (even though we have no idea if the halacha even follows the maharal) means that we can get jews killed to get rid of the medina. It’s a completely baseless understanding of the term, and it is just as dangerous as the zionist claim of “people die in war” to justify taking back eretz yisroel and putting jews in danger.

    They’re just opposite sides of the same coin, both of which believe that jewish lives are expendable.

    There’s nothing wrong with cozying up to reshoim in and of itself if it brings a yeshua – the gedolim honored wicked kings and such for generations…ever see the noda b’yehudahs praises of the austrian king? It’s chanifa and it’s a mitzvah. NK isn’t praising the wicked arabs to save Jews, they’re doing it because they want them to destroy the state of israel, and who knows how many jews in the process.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267413
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Smerel, there’s a good reason for that – nobody, not satmar, brisk, neturei karta in yerushalayim, or the rest of the Torah world, which are anti-Zionist, has ever said that israel should surrender to the Arabs, because of the very reason you said. It will cost Jewish lives – this is a part of why zionism is bad, that it costs Jewish lives.

    There isn’t a safe way out of the distress that the zionists put us in. The satmar rov in the early days of the state said it should be given to the UN, and the brisker rov said they should give back everything in 1948, but that was then – in today’s situation, not a single gadol or talmid chacham will say that Israel has that option.

    The only people who go around saying that are the fanatical, USand UK based neturei karta, which stole the name of a group of yerushalmi yidden who were just more outspoken against zionism than others and were opposed to dealing with the government.

    in reply to: Alabama’s largest hospital says it is halting IVF treatments #2267401
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    If the only way to secure ivf was to enact laws which state that a person can murder someone else because they called them a racial epithet or used the wrong pronouns, would you still say we should support it?

    It’s the same thing. For goyim, abortion is 100% murder that they are chayav misa for.

    If you’re really concerned with being able to keep the mitzva of pru urvu, and you’re not motivated by political bias and “big orange man is bad,” then you’ll see that you can’t sacrifice one mitzva to do another. We cannot support goyim doing aveiros vis a vis the 7 mitzvos of bnei noach, as they are obligated to make courts which enforce the other 6(see minchas chinuch on parshas noach, i believe it’s there).

    We say in davening every day that the world should be fixed bmalchus Shakai, in the kingship of Hashem, through the keeping of His laws. We cannot support someone He is against, whether that makes us theocrats or not – we have a higher authority to answer to, one who will not care what your political philosophies are, except for that which is either in sync with, or opposed to, His divine will.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267400
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Square, it’s in the gemara, not the medrash. And have you ever heard of the sifri/sifra? They’re medrashim which are halacha.

    The dvar Hashem as relayed through chazal in the gemara says if you do this, Hashem will permit your flesh to be hunted like animals of the field.

    That’s not a mussar vort or a story with a lesson. It is a reality, and it happened when the heretical, G-d hating zionists violated the shvuos.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2267271
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I don’t know what the exact gedorim are; the gemaa says that the almana had a shul “in her neighborhood,” but instead went to rebbe yochanans beis medrash.

    Just for perspective, if walking/driving 18 minutes exempts one from davening b’tzibur altogether, i can’t imagine one must go far just for schar halicha.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2267272
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I should add that שכר הליכה for shul is an open mishnah in avos (5:14), הולך ואינו עושה, שכר הליכה בידו, so it is clear that there is schar for the act of going to shul – the only machlokes is if there’s an inyan to be matriach one’s self for extra schar halicha, as i wrote above.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2267228
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I looked back on what i originally wrote and yes, i did change what i said originally – because after i saw the gemaros and rashis in question, it was clearer to me; sometimes something is so clear that you forget what you previously thought…so yes, it was a contradiction, and what i said last is what i think pshat is in the gemara.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2267206
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Menachem, that’s true, but what’s on there might serve as a bellwether for the community s attitudes to a certain extent – specifically because it can ve edited by anyone, so whatever remains posted reflects the chabad online consensus…again, to a certain degree.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267205
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    And this is why the shuvos are brought mainly in the context of conmunal guidance, like the iggeres taiman, or rav galant, as UJM quoted.

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267204
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Ubiq, there are many answers as to why it’s not mentioned in the rif, rosh and rambam’s yad. One of them, which my rebbe rav belsky said, is that they aren’t dinim, but they are realities that chazal warn us about. If we do X, we will he hunted, like the gemara says, as animals in the field. Slaughtered. And that’s precisely what happened.

    Chazal teach us how to live as individuals and as communities. The 3 shvuos are part of that mesorah; a very important part. But they aren’t dinim, according to rav belsky, so they aren’t brought in halacha seforim very often. That in no way means we can ignore them – chazal say it, after all.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2267201
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Gedol, i never said that rebbe yochanan already knew of schar pesios to the extent that one should go out of their way to go to a further shul. What i said is that he already knew that when one walks to a mitzvah, he gets schar for the steps taken, and that this concept was neither new or disputed.

    What he learned from the woman was that one should be matriach, go out of their way, for such schar, and that even a woman did so, so kal vechomer a man, who needs to go to shul.

    My proof to this was the gemara’s lashon, which is very, very meduyak, as is Rashi’s. The discussion here is limud kibul schar, not the fundamental idea of getting schar for footsteps taken for a mitzvah.

    I also proved from the almana’s expression that she was merely reminding rebbe yochanan of the concept – and her application of it.

    Coffee – i don’t understand what you’re asking. I am saying a pshat in the gemara in sotah, and gedol is disagreeing; what would be a happy medium?

    Rocky – i buttressed my statements with lots of sources. You’re being reductive. However when someone wants to prove a new idea not taught in the mesorah, the onus is on them, not the other way around. So “jude” stated a proof from a gemara in sotah which i addressed with learning it up the exact way i was taught to in yeshiva, by being medayak in the words of the gemara and rashi. You just don’t like my conclusions, because you want things to be more “egalitarian.”

    in reply to: Refuting the Three Oaths [Gimel Shevuot] #2267083
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Saying the rambaN doesn’t “hold” of the shvuos is only possible if you don’t read his maamar al hageulah where he QUOTES it beferush!

    The kasha on him vis a vis how he could hold of a chiyuv to live in EY while there’s a prohibition on going there en masse is dealt with extensively in the poskim. It’s not that big of a deal. The simple answer is that everyone should try, but Hashem will prevent some people and it won’t end up being en masse.

    The balfour declaration (and even the UN partition plan) are irrelevant because when the zionists took over, the british were no longer baalei batim on the land. Their permission is just as valid as China’s; same with the UN – it doesn’t matter what most goyim say, if there is opposition (as in, the independence war with a bunch of Arab armies) then you do NOT have permission to go en masse.

    Making a state is a separate issue; rav meir simcha never spoke of it, rather the issue was mass immigration. Declaring a state involves another shvuah, of not forcing a geulah; on that I don’t believe having permission helps.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2266975
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Rav held it’s a mayloh to have a shul closer to you, because despite the schar, it can add stress; all of the brochos mentioned there give a person menuchas hanefesh, and having to be matriach – even if there’s schar – isn’t a bracha, according to Rav.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2266970
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    מטונך – rashi is much more meduyak like me. I didn’t say that we learn anything specific about women from the story, rather we see a new darga in kibul schar, and that’s exactly what Rashi says. He doesn’t say that we learn that there is schar pesios, rather that a person should be מטריח themselves.

    And if it’s a machlokes discussed in the gemara, that means it was debated; the gemara’s discussions were between members of the yeshiva. The words the almana said were “הלא שכר פסיעות יש” – she used the same expression used in bava metzia, “yesh,” that was what it was known as, much like “yesh zikah” vs “ain zikah.” She took rebbe yochanans shitah further and applied it to herself, and that she should go further out of her way in order to get the most pesios and therefore the most schar. Her expression sounds more of a reminder than her saying something new.

    I don’t know if Rav even argues on the entire concept, that there’s schar for every step; he might just hold that it’s not an inyan to go out of your way to make more steps, much like we don’t wear multiple tzitzis, even though each one is a mitzvah.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2266824
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Gedol, I don’t see anything in rashi there or the lashon of the gemara that goes against my diyuk. The fact that there’s a machlokes about it doesn’t mean that rebbe yochanan heard about it from the almana and changed his mind – all she did was ask “are there not schar pesios?” Rebbe yochanan could have just said no – he already knew the idea, which, how could he have not heard of it if it was a hotly debated topic in the beis medrash? Moreoever, it was such a common machlokes that even an old almana had heard of it! And she probably knew that rebbe yochanan was knowk for holding of it. Her story didn’t introduce him to the concept; again, he didn’t say he learned about it from her, rather he learned about kibul schar, the extent to which one should go for such things – that was the chidush that he was maskim to.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2266707
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Also, re, rebbe yochanan – the literal reading of the gemara sounds like the almanah taught him the concept of schar pesios; i find that very hard to believe.

    So i think pshat in the gemara is like this; rebbe yochanan said we learned yiras Hashem from the besulah who davened that men not stumble because of her(a lesson indeed for women today who walk around dressed to the 9s with makeup and long shaitels “for mysefl”), and the reception of schar from an almamah who went to a further -away shul to daven – rebbe yochanan was saying that of course a man would do that, but a woman, who is not obligated to go to shell, would go out of her way… that’s a new leason in kibul schar, in how a person should go to great lengths to receive schar.

    Note how rebbe yochanan does not say we learned schar pesios from the almanah.

    in reply to: Women davening with a minyan #2266706
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Coffee, it’s simple; we have a mesorah.

    The sams gemara in sotah 22a contains an important yesod. It says that a person who is קרא ושנה, learned tanach and shas, but did not have a rebbe from whom he received a mesorah, is called an am haaretz. Says rav Hirsch, such a person might know halacha, but he won’t be able to tell when and how to apply various values in avodas Hashem and mussar.

    This is why the mishnah says “lo am haaretz chosid” and not the seemingly more appropriate “lo am haaretz tzadik,” as a chosid is someone who goes beyond halacha, while a tzadik keeps the dinim; asks Rav Hirsch, why would a traditional am haaretz not he able to be a chosid – it should say tzadik! Since he doesn’t know halacha. Answers rav hirsch, we’re talking about the above.

    That particular woman had zchusim, and in context, it was to show that not all women who daven a lot are immoral(a lot are, the gemara says, because they’re trying to hide their sinfulness).

    But the gemara is not saying what a woman *should* do, just that she has more schar for walking, and that principle applies to a man as well, as codified in shu”a.

    It’s not an ikkar for women to go to shul. They’re not going to be taken to task for it; most rebbetzin hardly ever go, especially by the litvishe. First things first; work on the basics of tznius in dreas, attitude and behavior, not being an azus panin, work on chessed, jealousy, lashon hora. A woman – and a man – have lifelong battles to work on before they begin taking on extras. Shul for a woman is like tikun chatzos for a man; great thing, but rather silly if he’s not able to keep the basics yet.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2266491
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Sechel…where to begin…

    Rav shternbuch, aside from being an einikel of the gaon, is considered one of the world’s foremost authorities on the gra. He wrote teshuvos about the kol hator, as it was being used by zionists to spread their nationalist stuff. he proved that it was a forgery.

    Next, most later achronim on shas skip almost all aggadeta; nothing specific to that gemara in Sanhedrin. The maharsha and maharal write on agadeta a lot on the daf, and there are many achronim who write on it in derashls(like yaaros dvash), but if you open a keren orah, aruch laner, etc…they skip the agadeta, as do almost all shiurim of roshei yeshiva.

    in reply to: Clarification to mod and DaMoshe #2266446
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    It’s not jusr rav moshe shternbuch, it’s the prevailing opinion of gra-niks across the board.

    in reply to: R Soloveichik on girls education #2266445
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Chok has a lot more; shulchan aruch, Zohar….could be she skipped parts. Who knows?

    in reply to: Children are not here to “bring Nachas to their parents” #2266107
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Pekak, see the caveat i wrote about parents who are less religious than their children. There’s a difference.

    And while it’s ok for a brisker to become a chossid and vice versa, even though a father might be somewhat disappointed, it’s different when parents do not give hadracha and just want the kid to decide on their own – that’s hefkerus and leads to a cavalier attitude.

    in reply to: R Soloveichik on girls education #2266106
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Da, i was saying pshat in the rambam. It’s a chidush, but i think it’s very meduyak in his words. I agree that there are poskim who say beferush that exceptional women may learn; the drishah is very well known. Not that there’s a clear psak in the matter, however I’m sure Sara Schnirer asked a shailoh before doing so.

    in reply to: R Soloveichik on girls education #2265905
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Also, Sara Schnirer was someone who could judge herself as being an exceptional woman, and allowed to do so according to some poskim, though according to the rambam it would seem there is no heter whatsoever – on that, I’d say it’s a machlokes, but i don’t think any woman alive today can say they are on that madrega.

    in reply to: R Soloveichik on girls education #2265904
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Da, when girls in MO schools dress, daven, study mussar, keep away from boys, movies and goyishe music, and tremble before Hashem like ike Sara Schnirer, then we’ll talk. Until then it’s just “why can’t we” feminism.

    in reply to: R Soloveichik on girls education #2265828
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Leibidig, two things; one is that rabbi soloveitchik’s stated opinions here are that fundamentally it’s somehow unfair to girls not to be given the same education as boys, [disclaimer: that is not what he said per his quote above.] which is what this thread is about.

    The beis yaakov movement understood that bedieved, torah needs to be taught now, but within the confines of halacha – i.e., tanach yes, gemara no, because that’s the halacha.

    Laundry is different not because times change, but because it’s not the laundry chazal were talking about. It’s pressing buttons. Here, girls still produce tiflus with their learning, which is an affront to Torah, no matter what other problems they may have at the same time.

    re comment: only commenting because you claim to be quoting as opposed to giving your own pshat

    in reply to: Children are not here to “bring Nachas to their parents” #2265800
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    The first thing my rebbe asked me when i wanted to take on a certain chumra, was whether or not my father was makpid.

    He wasn’t.

    But to daas Torah, shteiging cannot be done at the expense of disappointing a parent – unless of course we’re talking about a parent who’s שונא תורה and doesn’t want their kid to learn; for that we say kovod Hashem is more important.

    A healthy child wants to serve Hashem and make his parents happy. The push for children to be their own person leads to foresaking mesorah and eventually going off the derech when the person thinks “this isn’t for me.”

    in reply to: R Soloveichik on girls education #2265760
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Re, his opposition to the conservative movement – he was opposed to them and thought he could sacrifice parts of Torah in order to fight them off. In doing so, he was basically doing exactly what conservative did to fight off intermarriage, ironically enough. The only difference is that rabbi yoshe ber believed in the Torah fully and the conservatives did not.

    in reply to: R Soloveichik on girls education #2265759
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    It remains a clear halacha that we educate girls and boys differently. Ideally, we wouldn’t teach tanach either, but we must, and it is allowed bedieved, as per the rambam.

    Rabbi yoshe ber accepted the words of the poskim as binding, as he was an Orthodox rabbi, and not a conservative clergyman. However this halacha is clear as day – far clearer than his chumros about krias hatorah; girls must not be taught gemara. They must be given different “opportunities” than boys, because they 1) will not be rabbis, even according to him, 2) don’t have a mitzvah to learn, 3) will be violating an issur if they learn gemara on their own and make divrei havai out of it

    How is it עולה על הדעת that two sets of people with different obligations, responsibilities, should be taught the same way? It makes absolutely no sense.

    Either he didn’t mean it seriously or he got caught in the avodaj zara of haskalah while writing that, ככפאו שד

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