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AviraDeArahParticipant
Aaq, that wasn’t at all clear, it seemed that you were endorsing having fewer kids, or at least being pareve about it
If you don’t accept that, then disregard what i said
January 26, 2023 5:44 pm at 5:44 pm in reply to: Stop the trend of post going to Brisk and its proxies #2159981AviraDeArahParticipantThe exception to that is rav tzvi kaplan; no one goes there by default after not getting into rav avrohom yehoshua. You’re there because you want to be in a pressure cooker with hardcore mussar that will break every American notion in your head
AviraDeArahParticipantDofi – modern orthodoxy represents illegitimate judaism and fake jewish values. It’s not the fault of its adherents who are brainwashed and kept ignorant of torah sources by schools which prioritize SAT scores and ivy league college admission statistics. It’s the fault of its fake rabbinic leadership which either encourages or allows this institutionalized ignorance, heresy and sinfulness to thrive.
AviraDeArahParticipantAAQ, the agudah has demonstrated in their data gathering regarding the yeshiva gezeros, that chasidim are not below the poverty line by any metric. go look at their website.
AviraDeArahParticipantaaq, the apikorsus, unadulterated anathema of yiddishkeit that you so nonchalantly throw around, about decreasing the population in order to help the environment, made me make a double-take. You start out with mitzvos of bal tashchis…and you end up with denying the mitzvah of lesheves yatzarta and le’erev al tanach yadecha?!!?!?!?
it is a mitzvah to have as many children as possible after fulfilling the minimum, chazal say this explicitly. the torah is NOT concerned with limited resources, because “hayad Hashem tiktzar?”
And to prove it in physical terms that you might be more agreeable with in your heresy, scientists predicted mass famine if the population continued to increase in the 1960s.
Well, the population more than doubled in the worldf since then…and guess what? There’s less world hunger now than ever before in recorded history!!! That’s Hashem’s way of showing how twisted, evil and anti-life the people are who subscribe to your heresy.
AviraDeArahParticipantShimon, localized air pollution is an observable phenomenon, but your theories on the use of plastics is not proven.
Aaq, it’s true that we’re not supposed to be wasteful, but the mitzvos of bal tashchis etc are to teach us to appreciate Hashem’s world, not that we’re baalei batim on it and that we have the ability to destroy or help it without it being Hashem’s will.
AviraDeArahParticipantIf you want to see the success of chasidishe tzedaka, look at where all the gemachs are, the bikur cholim, the community resources for chasanim, kallos, kimpeturins, medical referrals, clothing,…chasidim are the zevuluns of klal yisroel. The litvish are yissachar, and the MO are stragglers who contribute neither Torah nor gemilus chasadim. They keep their wealth to “philanthropy” causes that their wealth goyishe friends are into, while giving some to poor jews.
AviraDeArahParticipantYserb, have you ever spent time among chasidim? Do you just believe the picture of the new york times? I live near a big chasidishe community. Their kids are nicely dressed. They’re nourished. They have homes and lease nice honda odysseys.
They’re on food stamps because they’re able to use the system to their advantage. I’m happy to support other yidden with my tax dollars; far better than going to fund infanticide and gender affirming “care” for goyim on medicaid.
And it’s not just the expo. I know tons of chasidishe yidden, and they’re all making a livelihood. They hustle, and do things that are unconventional, like Amazon businesses, or drive for frum car services, to name a couple.
And yes, chasidim give more tzedaka, and they don’t waste money on giving to art museums like MO people do. You can see this if you daven in satmar, or if you go to the satmar Rebbe’s kever on a yahrtzeit…tons and tons of collectors from here and eretz yisroel, and they come because they know chasidishe yidden give, and give and give.
And no, the satmar rov wasn’t against kollel entirely, and neither was rabbi yoshe ber, for that matter. The satmar rov at first said it wasn’t the mesorah, but saw the uniquell challenges baalei batim face in America, and eventually said that they should learn for a year or two after marriage before working.
When someone asked the satmar rov why the bobover rebbe allowed his chasidim to become accountants, he said “his accountants will work for my gevirim”
Both are good; some gedolim encourage professions and others business, and most will tell people individually what’s best for them. But almost all gedolim were/are against college for the majority of klal yisroel. But i acknowledge the minority of chashuvim who did, like rav yosef breuer, who said it was important for parnossa only, and was very against YUs ideology.
AviraDeArahParticipantAAQ, steinsaltz was called an apikores by the steipler and rav shach. He’s nothing. A gornisht. Chabad likes him because he liked the rebbe.
Also, if the girls are making points you and the maggid shiur missed…probably time for a new maggid shiur. Or go to an iyun shiur where they don’t fly through a blatt in 30 minutes while drinking coffee.
Nom – cute; I actually think I’m going to use that as a joke from now on. The gimmel chamuros are MO, Zionism, and Chabad, I like it.
AviraDeArahParticipantA believing Jew does, however, get credit for every little zchus and mitzvah that he does.
AviraDeArahParticipantExcept UJM agrees that conservatives who keep some mitzvos aren’t included in “those who keep part of the torah” – because they don’t believe that Hashem commanded them to do so. If there is no commander, there is no commandment. Their actions are meaningless in halacha, they have accomplished no mitzvah, their brochos are in vain, and they are not going to receive any reward for doing things that they themselves decided are spiritual nice things to do, or traditions.
AviraDeArahParticipantQuay, maybe it has something to do with it being against the emunah of Hashem running the world and punishing us due to sin and sin alone, and not due to driving SUVs?
AviraDeArahParticipantRocky, unfortunately many online forums, particularly of the kiruv variety, traffic in misinformation, to use a modern term.
Aish is extremely zionistic, moreso than mainstream israeli news outlets. It’s actually very embarrassing for us, because a jewish student who is disillusioned with zionism when they learn about der yassin and the other atrocities of the secular zionists, then they see “Orthodox judaism” whitewashing it… it’s doing us no favors.
Kiruv places like to quote the same ridiculous “proof” of environmental activism that the RCA used years ago. Chazal say that Hashem took Adam all around gan eden and said “look how beautiful my creations are, take heed not to ruin my world”
Do you know who has ever taken that medrash to mean physical destruction or pollution?
You guessed it – zero.
The seforim, including the ramchal and maharal, say it means that we shouldn’t destroy the world through sin.
All throughout chazal and tanach, the one destructive force is sin. Not pollution. Not aerosols. Not greenhouse gasses.
To say that these non-sinul entities destroy the world is like saying that the Holocaust happened because of mikrah, just nature.
It’s apikorsus and denial of Hashem’s hashgocha, and denying that it is sin and mitzvos which benefit and destroy the world. Not what kind of car you drive.
AviraDeArahParticipantKuvult – yep, hischabrus im reshoim is something to celebrate.
AviraDeArahParticipantRav chaim didn’t have taxable income, as far as i know, but i assume he wouldn’t if he did based on the psak.
Re, roads etc, it’s an ones; we want to live in artzeinu hakedoshah, and to do so one needs to walk on the street.
Square; i agree that paying taxes is important in general. However, you ahould know that America’s taxes might be different than what chazal refer to. They’re painfully exorbitant, and make owning property a liability. The government can literally evict an elderly widow who has no money to tax her own property that her family spenf 40 years earning to own. It’s a unique evil that an otherwise kind government allows
AviraDeArahParticipantDofi, did you hear about the satmar business expo in September? Thousands of businesses were on display. And that was just satmar. They’re not “yechidim”. The satmar rov zy”a held of going into business instead of professions.
AviraDeArahParticipantYserb… I’m struggling to find the words.
Rav hirsch was extremely controversial in his setting up a school with secular studies. The ENTIRE European jewish world had chadarim that were torah only. They would learn a trade from their father or someone else.
You make it sound like rav hirsch was the….norm? And that there were a few outlying fanatics who just taught torah only? Are you serious? Are you aware of the rashba’s cherem against ANY secular studies until the age of 30? Are you aware of a single other jewish educational institution besides rav hirsch ‘s realschulle that did so?
He was accused, wrongfully, of being modern. He was intending to save klal yisroel, and his model served as a prototype for other parts of the torah world, including most(but far from all) litvishe yeshivos in America.
The chazon ish didn’t hold of it at all. According to your view, you would think he is an apikores, chas veshalom… because he didn’t hold of 2 achronim’s learning schedules????
AviraDeArahParticipantGadol, read the gemara; large numbers are prohibited to enter at a time. There’s no limit on how many can live there altogether.
AviraDeArahParticipantSimcha, we’re not speaking about how good or bad a government is. Governments are imperfect. Some are better than others.
Rav chaim’s point isn’t that the government isn’t good. He writes that it’s illegitimate. Built on sin. Doesn’t have the power of a malchus in halacha.
AviraDeArahParticipantYserb, you’re putting your own values in Hashem’s mouth. Where do chazal say that one must or even should know secular studies? Achronim write that there’s an inyan, and that your Torah knowledge is limited if you don’t know certain chochmos.
So having a potential limit on their torah knowledge is the same as cultivating a community that not only has almost no Torah knowledge at all, but accepts feminism, evolution, pritzus, LGBT, and the view of halachos such as intergender mingling, touching, hair covering, and many more as a “personal choice”?
MO don’t value secular studies because they help them learn Torah…they value them because they believe in them as an ends to themselves, as normann lamm so eloquently blasphemed.
And no, chasidim do not live in 3rd world conditions. The majority go into and are wildly successful in business. So much so that ehen they succeed, the media pans “rich jews” and when they dail, the times insults “poor, uneducated jews” – they can’t win.
And yes, chasidim are bilingual. They know lashon kodesh, and yiddish. They spend 12 hours a day immersed in these language academically throughout their education.
AviraDeArahParticipantEnvironmentalism is a good replacement for religious fervor for secularists. While people used to use their religion to drive their passion, they now turn to phantoms of “racism” and environmentalism
AviraDeArahParticipantUjm, rav chaim holds that you don’t need the ran in this case. The government itself is kma’an d’leisa.
AviraDeArahParticipantSimcha, good questions. You’re wondering why it’s ok to expect things that tax money goes to while not paying for it.
My answer to that is “tut mir nisht ken tovos” – we didn’t ask for the state, we didn’t want it, and we believe it’s continued existence is a bad thing. They put us in a situation where they need to raise money for things to maintain their state, mostly for defense, so let the frei take care of their own mess. The frummer would be just fine if they were under a peaceful Arab or Western government. We don’t actively search for arab leadership anymore, because in the current political climate it would put millions of jewish lives in danger…. because of what the zionists did.
It’s their mess, let them take care of it and leave us alone.
AviraDeArahParticipantYserb, so being bilingual without knowing English and having possibly (although most are just fine) a hard time navigating the American system is worse than rampant sinfulness, apikorsus, and the upheaval of all yiddishkeit values?
Is physical success (which again, most chasidim do have) so much more important to you than eternity in olam haba, or for some, an eternity in gehinnom because of their institutionalized heresy and promotion of sin?
AviraDeArahParticipantBesalel, it’s in a letter obtained by rabbi yaakov Shapiro, author of the encyclopedic “the empty wagon.” I’ve seen it personally.
AviraDeArahParticipantGadol, ao Hashem wants people to rule against halacha, and your evidence for it is that if he didn’t, he would have brought moshiach.
I suppose you’d say that He wants gang violence, substance abuse, murder, and child abuse, because if he didn’t, he would have sent moshiach by now to stop it.
Twisted.
AviraDeArahParticipantLittle; men and women have strengths and weaknesses. Men are subject to their yatzer hora, but are more logical. Women aren’t as pulled by passions and are more resolute, but fall victim to daas kalah, lack of logical, analytical reasoning.
January 23, 2023 4:16 pm at 4:16 pm in reply to: Should lev tahor be considered a Jewish sect? #2158843AviraDeArahParticipantgadol, I forgot about that story; I don’t know if it was premeditated murder or insane religious ideas about faith healing that led to her death. Either way I agree that it’s a form of murder.
AviraDeArahParticipantcomitting a crime doesn’t always require teshuvah. Aveiros, violations of Hashem’s will require teshuva. People, especially women, often equate the word “illegal” with “wrong” and “aveirah,” but these are distinct concepts. Not every crime is wrong from a torah perspective, and not everything that’s wrong from a torah perspective is an aveirah.
Rav chaim kanievsky clearly wrote that israel, as an illegitimate state, has no right to impose taxes on its citizens. Rabbi Deri did some shtick to avoid taxes. According to the gadol hador, he did absolutely nothing wrong and has zero to do teshuvah for, even though it was illegal under israeli made-up law.
So not only did he not do an aveirah, he did nothing wrong either, as there’s no moral imperative to pay taxes to an oppressive, anti religious shmad state, especially when most of it will go to fund things that are, actually, sinful, such as israeli public schools and the abominable gender-mixed army.
If the law was valid according to the torah, then yes, barring Rabbi Deri would make some sense; but not a lot. Because politicians always scream about giving people who are “justice involved” second, third, fourth and fifth chances. In New York City, landlords will soon not be allowed to do background checks to see if someone was a murderer, because you canrt hold someone’s past against them.
Why should someone who did a crime not be able to hold office if he “paid his debt to society” or whatever they call it?
AviraDeArahParticipantefshar, kayin having a dog isnt a medrash rabbah, it’s in a sefer from an acharon on chumash, based on the idea that when the malaach hamaves is near, dogs cry, so kayin would know when to flee
January 22, 2023 10:52 pm at 10:52 pm in reply to: Should lev tahor be considered a Jewish sect? #2158633AviraDeArahParticipantOh i see what you thought i said…i didn’t say that i don’t believe that they murdered, i said i don’t believe there are such allegations, as in, I don’t know of any. If there are I wouldn’t not believe it.
January 22, 2023 10:52 pm at 10:52 pm in reply to: Should lev tahor be considered a Jewish sect? #2158632AviraDeArahParticipantI don’t think it has anything to do with frumkeit; they’re a controlling cult which has hurt people. But that doesn’t mean we should make up stories about murder if there aren’t any; it’s just dishonesty.
AviraDeArahParticipantYes, halachos of tzedaka do mandate how much one must give. They require a wealthy person to give more than just maaser.
My objection was to the heter you and others are giving, saying taavos are fine as long as you’re not spending more than what you have. That’s factually incorrect. I don’t go over to rich people and tell them what to do, because you’re correct that it’s not my business. Taavah in general is a personal issue and middos in general are usually outside of the parameters of personal tochacha, because they vary from person to person. One person’s supper is a person’s taavah, and we can’t know.
January 22, 2023 2:11 pm at 2:11 pm in reply to: Should lev tahor be considered a Jewish sect? #2158544AviraDeArahParticipantGadol, lev tahor has done most of what you say, but I don’t believe any accusations of murder have been made.
Don’t get caught up in outrage to the point where you’re not factual
AviraDeArahParticipantAn important point needs to be made too – it’s totally possible to have luxury items leshem shomayim in another way. Chazal say fhat a nice home, a beautiful wife, and good foos is “marchivin daato shel Adam,” it expands the mental abilities of a person. It can make a person learn better if their gashmius is taken care of.
But that has to be the intent, and if pursuing riches makes you learn less in practice, or you’re seeing that after that nice juicy steak, you want to lay down instead of run to learn gemara… it’s ear where your intentions are.
AviraDeArahParticipantAlso, gadol, you’re the one saying that a given practice is ok; i offered a disproof from the chofetz chaim, mesilas yeshorim, etc…and your answer is that it’s for them to say, and not me….so why is it ok for you to say that it’s perfectly fine to go after taavos as long as it’s within your means? Why is expressing one opinion “not for me to say” but the other opinion is? Is it that you only want to hear one side, the side that lets you believe that this world is hefker and you can do as you wish as long as you remember halacha in the back of your mind?
AviraDeArahParticipantCT, valid point; some people inherit money. Another example is the concept of “Torah ugedulah bemakom echad,” where a person has fancy things in order to benefit klal yisroel as a nobleman, and to promote kiddush Hashem. The caveat with that, however, is as rebbe yehudah hanasi raised his small finger on his deathbed and swore that he never enjoyed this world even with this finger. A similar avodas Hashem was undertaken by the rizhiner rebbe, who emphasized malchus to his chasidim… He made the same oath before he was niftar too.
I’m guessing the chofetz chaim knew the man and his circumstances.
AviraDeArahParticipantGadol – could be, but it’s usually the wealthy and powerful who chazal are referring to when they say “olam hepech reisi,” that olam haba is upside down from this world. Here, those who do not have a lot of money are not regarded in high esteem, while in olam haba, they are. “V’anavim yirshu aretz” the pasuk says.
The neviim often criticized those who were rich and powerful too. I’m not saying that I’m above taavos, and I don’t know what i would do if i suddenly had money…maybe I’d be a worse baal taavah? But that doesn’t mean that our current culture, which bends over backwards to be machnif ashirim, and tell them that their lavish lifestyles are totally fine, is correct.
AviraDeArahParticipantAnd lest you think it’s me who makes such statements, having not been anywhere near rich at any point in my life, i direct you to a sefer called kohelea, written by the most powerful, richest and wisest man to ever walk this world. Rashi says this is why Shlomo hamelech wrote this sefer, decrying gashmius, because he understood wealth and was in a position to denounce taavah without being told he has sour grapes.
He doesn’t only denounce living beyond one’s means. Actually, i don’t think he does much at all – he decries going after taavos. Who told baalei batim this myth that taavos are ok as long as you wear fabric on your head, make blessings, (but don’t get too caught up in which brochos to make, because shehakol works for everything!) don’t talk about work on shabbos (unless it’s really really big business, then nisht oif shabbos geredt works) give tzedaka, you’re 100% a kosher jew and mezuman lechayei olam haba?
AviraDeArahParticipantGadol, who gives as much as they are required to? If someone can give 2 million, and only gives one million, then they are falling short despite having their name everywhere as a “platinum donor” or whatever they’re called.
When someone uses this world not as a means to an end, i.e. to be comfortable in order to learn and serve Hashem better, then it’s just taavah which isn’t free… it comes at the expense of zchusim.
AviraDeArahParticipantthe chofetz chaim once visited the home of a rich man, and looking at the fancy walls and trimmings, said “oy, theres a page of bava basra here”, and “oy, there’s a page of mesechta shabbos here”
his point was that all the time the wealthy man wasted on becoming wealthy could have been spent learning, if he just worked enough to support his family.
not living within one’s means is a different question; you’re mixing up taavos with irresponsible pursuit thereof – taavah isnt good, as the mesilas yeshorim says the more youre drawn after physicality, the more youre distant from ruchnius.
distant, far from Hashem. nebach.
AviraDeArahParticipantI recall rabbi shechter exhorting the girlfriend-having crowd to wear techeles a lot more than to stop having girlfriends. Maybe there’s some talk about how Avi weiss went too far, but where’s the outcry over pritzus? Negiah? Unfettered internet and social media access? There’s a reason that such asifos are only in the Yeshiva world, while YU’s “yom iyun” featuring female and male speakers are always about politics or pareve topics like davening better etc
AviraDeArahParticipantCommon, there’s nothing to be jealous about people eating their olam haba
AviraDeArahParticipantGadol, the people whose wages the wealthy wasteful are paying aren’t jewish. Maybe if they went to Israel, they’d be helping some poor Jewish workers. All they’re doing is helping goyim, while they could be using all of that money for actual tzedaka.
The rambam writes that on purim if one eats with his family and doesn’t remember the poor, it’s not simchas yom toc, but rather simchas kreiso… He is selfish, uncaring.
The opulence of the am haaratzim in our community knows no bounds, and as pointed out, the unthinkable violations of hilchos pesach make a torah jew shudder.
AviraDeArahParticipantDaas, some differentiate between the two, and others don’t, but everyone agrees that most women(if not all in our time) do not get schar for torshb”p because they’re learning or being taught tiflus. The only difference is if a woman can trust her own assessment and learn on her own or not
AviraDeArahParticipant“when it hurts, you scream” – rav chaim brisker told that to someone who asked what the point of protesting freikeit was, because they weren’t going to listen anyway.
Some in YU might be personally observant, but they’ve been desensitized to multi generational violations of torah in their community, and they lack the courage to fight for anything except antisemitism on college campuses.
AviraDeArahParticipantHistorian, it’s definitely an issue; rav Moshe writes that it’s a bedieved.
AviraDeArahParticipantAsking what steinsaltz’s sources are is like asking the fat content of tap water
AviraDeArahParticipantHere we go with equating Torah ability with secular studies…
They work differently.
And if the rambam brings rebbe Eliezer, it IS halacha unless there are other rishonim abd achronim who don’t…and nobody does.
AviraDeArahParticipantDaas, it says it’s like teaching her tiflus – you don’t get schar on teaching her tiflus…, But the words of the rambam are very clear:
A woman who learns torah gets schar, but not like a man, and even though she has schar, chazal commanded us not to teach them, because most of them make Torah into stupidity
Then the rambam quotes a chazal, that teaching torah to girls is like teaching them tiflus, and then adds bameh davarim amurim – qualifying it as going on torah shebichsav, – you’re assuming that this phrase is only going on the last thing he aaid, which is not true – if something is tiflus, theres certainly no schar! Torah shebichsav doesn’t become tiflus; it’s a lot harder to make stupidity out of chumash than it is gemara
An exceptional woman who learns both torah shebaal peh and bechsav does have schar, since she’s not learning tiflus.
But most of our girls are not, and likely no one alive today is, if most women in the rambam and chazals time were not on the level to learn torah properly, when they grew up in houses full of lomdei torah.
So for almost or all girls learning today, they do not get schar if they learn gemara.
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