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  • in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2191015
    AviraDeArah
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    *Simchas torah, not sukkos

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2191011
    AviraDeArah
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    And if Neville is in a glass house with chazal, and you’re outside that house… where are you? In the “enlightened” world where you can see clearly a kashya on yom tov sheni that a 5th grader asks?

    What next, are you going to ask why the gemara doesn’t just say what the halacha is and skip the shakla vetarya?

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2191007
    AviraDeArah
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    Anon…nope. we will use aidim again when we have Sanhedrin; the gemara says that openly. We use the calendar specifically because we don’t have beis din smuchim.

    As for electronic forms of communication; nothing’s written in stone. The world could change, computers could all cease to exist – anything’s possible.

    As for shevuos, you could have asked better – why keep the 8th day of pesach and sukkos, since the shluchim could have reached the galuyis by then?

    As with your original question, the gemara openly addresses it in rosh hashanah 21a. Since we made the takanah, we are not mechalek between yomim tovim.

    I have all the patience in the world for someone who doesn’t know things, be it because of their upbringing, lack of education, or learning difficulty – what i have little patience for is chutzpah. Brazenly attacking concepts that one doesn’t understand and limiting them to his tiny depth and breadth of knowledge… it’s a form of bizayon Hatorah.

    If you want to know, ask. If you want to show everyone pompous ignorance, continue blasting gemaros without having learned them. I’ve yet to see you quote a single mareh makom on this forum.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2190947
    AviraDeArah
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    Anon – we didn’t “come up” with an excuse for yom tov sheni. It’s in the gemara, well after the calendar was established.

    And there are reasons we can understand; we will use aidim once again when moshiach comes(although then there won’t be yidden outside eretz yisroel…still it will take too long to reach far away parts, as EY’s borders will increase by a lot.

    And there’s a ton of reasons al ki kabalah for it, as well.

    Did you spend time in yeshiva outside of high school?

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2190911
    AviraDeArah
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    Whether maintaining the status quo in eretz yisroel would be a continuous violation of the oaths is a machlokes between two of my rebbeim; rav belsky told me that the shevuos are a metzius; if we do X, chazal say there will be redifos and yidden will be hunted like animals. Anothet rebbe of mine held that once they’re violated, the act is done, but would apply to, say, new settlements etc..

    Either way the state was made b’issur. The flimsy attempts at defending it only show the lengths some go to halachikally justify the actions of people who do noy believe in or practice halacha to begin with. To them it made no difference.

    One can look at the state as being a hatzolah of jews, as some choshuve rabbonim did, without buying into the idea that it was done b’heter. But those opinions are not nogaya in our time; the gedolim established the Torah community’s approach to zionism, and those opinions were pushed out of the mesorah. Had those eabbonim lived in our time, it’s very unlikely that they would have looked at the state as they did then; they had just experienced the destruction of European jewry with a new door being opened to them, while the rest of the world wouldn’t take them in. Did those rabbonim know that it was the zionists who stoked the flames of the Holocaust and then held the hands of governments from using the fire extinguisher, and then from even saving the remnants? Probably not.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2190776
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville, here are some sources on true threat of suicide being pikuach nefesh vis a vis violation of issurim.

    Emek Halacha, from rav Yitzchok zilberstein, 205-209.

    Rav shlomo zalman writes that since the mother’s mental condition can be treated with therapy, we don’t allow abortion
    1( English Nishmas Avraham, Choshen Mishpat, 425:11, p. 288.)

    But rav shlomo zalman would agree that if the therapy isn’t working, as is the case with many of these gender delusional people, that it would be allowed if there is serious fear of death

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2190567
    AviraDeArah
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    Also, one can question the status of lo yilbash being abizrayhu for someone who is physically incapable of biah. Yet he is capable of other issurim(lo sikravu, etc..) so perhaps it’s veiter an abizrayhu.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2190565
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville, it’s not without precedent. Most(if not all) poskim allow abortion if a mother is suicidal, due to either being a victim or the like.

    No one’s saying to embrace gender nonsense or to teach people that it’s ok “if you really really want it and if it’s too difficult for you not to,” which is the MO line of apikorsus.

    What we’re saying is that if a person comes to a rov and says that they will kill themselves if they are permitted to go after their fantasies, we say that it’s pikuach nefesh and we allow most things that they want to do.

    It’s not something to celebrate, it’s not a legitimate identity, it’s none of those things.

    The same thing is told to drug addicts who might overdose, that they can call people on shabbos. Even though the normal reaction is – hey, just don’t take the drugs.

    Rabbonim understand people. And they’re not just blindly listening to the gender bender “experts” who know less about physiology than a 4 year old who knows that boys and girls are different.

    What they’re doing is saving lives. Pikuach nefesh is docheh everything except the 3 chamuros.

    Now it could be argued that even for pikuach nefesh we won’t allow a community wide pirtzah, as in the case of ma’achurei hageder in the gemara, where we said it was better for the man who was obsessed with a girl to die rather than merely shmooze with her from across a fence(there are two shitos about that gemara; either abizrayhu is yehereg velo yaavor, or what I said above, that it’s a migdar milsa that such things shouldn’t becomr normalized)

    Actually, according to those who hold that abizrayhu is yehereg velo yaavor…lo yilbash is an abizrayhu. However, even according to that opinion, the patient is not dressing that way in order to mix in, which is why some poskim allow it for Purim etc…we don’t follow those poskim regarding Purim, but there were communities that did, so that’s enough for our inyan which involves pikuach nefesh.

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    in reply to: music lag ba’omer night or not?? #2190452
    AviraDeArah
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    YO, he didn’t ask for a source, he said it’s not convincing because it’s not in the gemara. If you want sources, i can find them; it’s all over seforim like daas torah, sichos mussar, etc. . Nom is right that it’s the mainstream understanding of it

    in reply to: music lag ba’omer night or not?? #2190283
    AviraDeArah
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    Nom, torah she baal peh is more than the simple reading of shas; there’s universes of torah in rishonim and achronim. There’s a mesorah which you only get from rebbeim, and that’s how my Rebbeim explained sefirah to me.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2190156
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville, i should be clearer; that’s exactly how poskim discuss transgender people. If someone is suicidal, we don’t tell them that they cannot do those issurim; that particular mental illness induces suicide very often; it’s not a quality of life issue. This is how rabbonim have been paskening since these shailos started; it’s all in that sefer.

    It’s very easy for me to look at someone delusional and tell them what’s real and how messed up they are and how they can just work on it and they’ll be fine, etc… But it’s not going to stop them. The delusions are extremely powerful.

    Obviously every alternative should be sought first and the person shouldn’t be made to feel as though it’s ok to do what he’s doing, but stopping someone from committing suicide is considered pikuach nefesh.

    But there are limits; even under pain of suicide a man cannot marry another man, etc.. No matter what he “identifies” as.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2190160
    AviraDeArah
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    I hear the analogy of alcohol to help alcoholism; honestly i don’t remember the entire discussion…i don’t have the sefer with me; i only saw it in a beis medrash once, and discussed it out of curiosity with a posek I’m friendly with. It was surprising to me as well

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2190028
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville, definitely! We’re talking about people who are mentally ill and liable to kill themselves if their fantasies aren’t indulged. Issurim of lo yilbash, mesares, etc, are chamur, but not yehereg velo yaavor, so the poskim allow it for pikuach nefesh.

    The dor tahapuchos, which was kept under the radar for many years and was used only by rabbonim who were asked such shailos back when society was a bit more sane, is now available to the public. It was reviewed by an odom gadol, i just forgot which one. You can find it online, too.

    His chidush about shul and other social situations is that others will look at him as a woman, and That’s taaruvos.

    But for these people it’s usually not about doing teshuvah so much as getting psychiatric help. If they’re cured of their illness and want to go back to being their real gender, then of course they should; no one’s going to argue with that.

    And I’m sure many do it b’issur because society tells them that it’s ok and they’re just ready to be oiver; for him, he needs to do teshuva, obviously.

    in reply to: music lag ba’omer night or not?? #2190002
    AviraDeArah
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    Anon, entire episodes of chumash, tanach and bayis sheni aren’t mentioned until zman hagemara either. Many medrashim were written by amoraim, and the gemara itself has hundreds of stories about past events. The Mishnah doesn’t even mention the story of Chanukah.

    So i really don’t understand your point about the mishnah not mentioning the talmidim of rebbe Akiva.

    But your other point, of why we have a minhag for this tragedy and not others, i believe can be explained this way: seforim say that each of these talmidim were on the level of a tanna themselves. Think about what a loss it is when 24,000 tannaim, bekiim in shas, huge people, all are gone in 33 days. Imagine the national mourning, the state of shock and horror that klal yisroel was in during that time… Remember, our heros and leaders, all that we look to as important, were the talmidei chachamim.

    This was a nation that was just exiled and stripped of its pride, the beis hamikdash, their homes, their parnosa, with many dead. All they had were the chachamim to give them life. And now they were dying everyday.

    And they weren’t just dying everyday. They were dying during a joyous time. A time when we prepare for an annual kabolas hatorah. A time when our eyes are drawn heavenward, counting up and up and climbing the rungs of a ladder to Hashem.

    And no one knew why! These were big tzadikim.

    No one knew until chachamim later explained it.

    No nahagu kovod ze lazeh! What does that mean? Were they nasty to each other? Of course not! The baalei musar say that it was very hard to see it. They would refer to each other by name, without saying Rav. They were too “heimish” and didn’t recognize that despite their friendship, they must honor the Torah inside them, which a chacham is not allowed to be mochel.

    This answers your other question of went rebbe Akiva didn’t intervene. It was subtle, imperceivable, to all but Hashem.

    And that’s why we mourn during sefirah.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2190001
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville, check out sefer Dor tahapuchos, which is all about transgender issues. For social things, like where to sit in shul, a person who changed genders, whether for pikuach nefesh or stam b’issur, sits with the one he “changed” into, but for all halacha issues, like kidushin, etc, he remains a man according to everyone. People like to throw around a tzitz eliezer who never would have dreamed of people changing their gender the way they do today; he writes about babies being born with defects and having doctors do surgery to determine the gender, etc

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189949
    AviraDeArah
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    CS, i can speak for myself in why i didn’t pursue a conversation about the Lubavitcher rebbes statements. I do not know kabala and i cannot learn about it on an anonymous Internet forum. When someone talks about sources in nigleh, i can always look it up and learn it myself .

    I do have a background in learning chasidishe seforim, but i don’t delve into things that i don’t readily understand which are kabala oriented. My rebbeim taught me some concepts; sefiris, klipos, tzintzumim, fallen middos, and others. But it’s from people who i know and trust.

    I do not follow the Lubavitcher rebbe and I’m not interested in his personal torah ideas. I do not accept him as a valid source of information, and this is the most common opinion in the Yeshiva world.

    It’s important to realize that not everyone is interested in what the Lubavitcher rebbe had to say. Chabad is very, very interested, hanging on his every word. Other chasidim are curious and/or interested, except satmar and a few others. But litvishe, while we’re fine with other chasidishe seforim(most today aren’t misnagdim) the Lubavitcher rebbe had serious issues, and our gedolim told us to distance ourselves… But we didn’t really need to distance ourselves, because chabad made themselves a completely separate part of klal yisroel, except on occasions when they attempt to spread their rebbes influence, then suddenly it’s all about “achdus”

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189777
    AviraDeArah
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    in chabad chinuch yes, but i am referring to their outreach. they are not teaching yiddishkeit if they are teaching that feminism isnt so bad. they should be teaching jewish femininity to BTs too, but in ways that they can relate to. They should highlight how society objectifies women and that the torah places great kedushah on them, and how that relates to tznius and abstinence,

    in reply to: Lo sichanem #2189776
    AviraDeArah
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    why do we believe that a mecharef is actually cursing Hashem?

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189696
    AviraDeArah
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    Cs, that version of what you said is better, but to secular people, “being of the same value”(which they are, Hashem loves women just as much as men) means equality in halacha and community. They consider it devaluing if they can’t lead prayers, wear tefilin, be rabbis, etc…

    So what the Lubavitcher rebbe said did not address teaching the women the beauty of jewish femininity; the akeres habayis, the stronghold of emunah, the calm nurturing mother, the builder of klal yisroel, the daughter of Hashem – those are things beis yaakov teaches to inspire Jewish girls. And they don’t feel any less valuable because of it. Why couldn’t the Lubavitcher rebbe do the same?

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189695
    AviraDeArah
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    Not Romans, Assyrians – my mistake

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189657
    AviraDeArah
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    I should add that i saw a radvaz(siman 27) which says that Nechemiah was unique, because his job was to bring the king his drink (not like how I assumed earlier) plus he was before the gezerah of stam yainon was finalized, though he had accepted it on himself, so it was eaiser to allow

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189656
    AviraDeArah
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    Bava kama 83a, chachamim allow violating bechokosayhem lo saylaychu in taking an akum-style haircut.

    Tosefta avodah zara 3 mentions the ability of a karov lemalchus to look at a mirror (an issur of lo yilbash in the times of chazal and rishonin… i don’t remember if it’s derabonon or deoraysoh)

    Yerushalmi Kidushin 4:1, i made a mistake; it wasn’t a tanna, it was Nechemiah, they called him “hatasharsa”(the permitted one). Rashi in kidushin 69 says that this was necessary to show that nobody poisoned the king at his table, since they’re all drinking it too.

    For psak in these issues, the beis yosef in YD 156 “velo” talks about it. I can get achronim and teshuvos if necessary.

    But again, does this extend to attending a ceremony with religious elements and prayers? I don’t know. Does the British monarchy have any relevance to chazals melech? It’s a hard sell for me.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189654
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville that’s easy to find; one of the tannain was allowed to drink stam yeinon(at a time when rov goyim did avodah zara no less) because of the need to deal with the romans.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189588
    AviraDeArah
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    CS – outside of chabad, “the rebbe” can mean anyone. If anyone’s noticed, whenever speaking about the Lubavitcher rebbe, i always refer to him as such, even more than once in a sentence. That’s because i don’t appreciate the monopolization of the term “rebbe” being used to denote one specific rebbe, as opposed to dozens and hundreds of others who were greater than he was.

    What you describe is similar to how kiruv people “drei” words and ideas to not be combative and be accommodating of modernity as much as possible without breaking halacha or hashkofa constraints. So “feminism” to the Lubavitcher rebbe seems to be a treif manifestation of an overall positive shift that he claims the world is going towards with geulah.

    Ok, let that be the case for arguments sake. So is Christianity, according to the rambam. Should we teach people that Christianity is kosher? We have a Torah which teaches us what Hashem hates and what He approves of. Apikorsus is evil and baalei teshuvah need to learn that at some point; it’s not something you lead off with, but this is part of why MO and Chabad churn out half baked gerim and BTs; they pull punches and water things down, either with secularism (MO) or with watered down kabalah(chabad).

    in reply to: Did we really go to the moon #2189490
    AviraDeArah
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    Once America won the “space race,” which other rhan satellite capabilities, was almost entirely political, it stopped investing aarge amount into space travel. That’s why they didn’t campaign to reach mars or make additional moonwalks – it wasn’t necessary or very important from the government’s perspective.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189442
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville, there are things which are allowed for a karov lemalchus – i do not claim to know definitively how far that goes, and i ageee rhat it sounds like a stretch, for a number of reasons: chazal don’t say it about this issur, and the “malchus” isn’t really a malchus, jewish lives aren’t in danger as they were then.

    My rebbeim told me that rav jakobovitz was an ehrlich person and a significant person in halacha; that’s the only reason I’m defending it. It doesn’t seem that r. Mirvis kept that standard, because he did not do something to distinguish himself as a non participant, so i agree that what he personally did was wrong.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189390
    AviraDeArah
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    The Mishnah berurah quotes the chayei odom who says, based on rishonim, that one who believes in “thoughts that are opposed to the daas that the torah is built on” violates lo sasuru. Feminism is definitely in that category, since it can be proven that the daas that the torah imparts to us requires gender role separation and requires women to be in a socially and religiously different role than men. Thinking that women should be treated the same or given the same responsibilities is definitely apikorsus, such as thinking that women need to learn gemara, wear Tefilin, tzitzis, make kiddush at home, etc..

    But you misunderstood my intention. I was saying that your one liners are a bad representation of hashkofa, because they’re statements without context, proofs, sources, etc, the kind of thing that requires a bracha.

    It’s not that the topic itself isn’t torah, it’s that the statement is too simple to require a bracha, like stating “pig is treif” or “you’re not allowed to steal” –

    If i say “i love Hashem” that statement doesn’t require a bracha, but saying veahavta es Hashem Elokecha does, as would a discussion of what that mitzvah requires.

    So saying “feminism is treif” is not significant enough to require a bracha; it’s not that the topic itself isn’t torah, it’s that the statement isn’t enough.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189356
    AviraDeArah
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    And yes, i wasn’t precise; i meant that chazal and tanach discuss hashkofa issues all the time, and these sources require a bracha. Hashkofa is certainly Torah; at a very base level, it’s hilchos lo sasuru, because it’s assur to believe in heresy.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189355
    AviraDeArah
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    Nom, you don’t need to make a bracha on the statement “pig is treif,” and you’re allowed to answer yes or no shailos in the bathroom.

    Talking about why(insert italics) Zionists are kofrim, or why feminism is anti Torah, which would go through mekoros in chumash, chazal, etc .. Would require a bracha.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189346
    AviraDeArah
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    Hashkofa is certainly divrei torah. It’s all over chazal and pesukim. …agadeta, medrash, all are hashkofa oriented. You make a birchas hatorah on such limudim. What in the world would give you the impression otherwise?

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189333
    AviraDeArah
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    Nom, actually, making divrei torah into divrei havai is assur – this is why we aren’t allowed to teach gemara to women.

    The velt asks a kasha – aren’t men motzi divrei torah ledivrei havai sometimes? The answer is that men have to learn, and it’s a risk we need to take. As long as we’re trying hard to learn properly, we aren’t punished. We’re onsim. But if someone in fact does not endeavor to learn properly, but instead wants the torah to fit his own preconceived notions… yes, he is guilty of megaleh ponim and bizui, ziyuf Hatorah.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2189286
    AviraDeArah
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    Nom, does anyone listen when you often say that the person nust doesn’t know what they’re talking about and proceed to not explain it otherwise with clear logic and proofs?

    You don’t win arguments by grandstanding

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189285
    AviraDeArah
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    No issur to say bad hashkofos??

    Let’s start with megaleh ponim.

    Then let’s go to bizayon hatorah. Ziyuf hatorah.

    But no big deal because his body is not doing anything wrong!

    in reply to: music lag ba’omer night or not?? #2189222
    AviraDeArah
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    Yabia, i suppose all the poskim who say that we don’t listen to music during sefirah just didn’t know that the shu”a doesn’t mention it – thank you for bringing it to their attention.

    in reply to: What Happened To the Forum I Loved so Well? #2189133
    AviraDeArah
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    Mod, i disagree; teshuva works to undo one’s wrongdoings. If someone wrote something that he now realizes is assur or a bad hashkofa, and he doesn’t want it to be out there….i don’t see why he shouldn’t be given that right.

    in reply to: music lag ba’omer night or not?? #2189120
    AviraDeArah
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    This is a commonly discussed machlokes between litvishe roshei yeshiva, who discourage talmidim from attending bonfires at night with music for this exact reason.

    I can fetch some teshuvos later imyh

    Chasidim hold that already at night the restrictions on music stop, but they ageee that you can’t take haircuts until the following day

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2188947
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville, when a legitimate beis din with rabbonim not known to be maskilim or corrupters of halacha comes out with a psak, I’m not inclined to go against it – with some exceptions.

    But regarding the Brooklyn eruv, a psak was made by the preeminent gadol hador with the support of the overwhelming majority of other gedolim behind him. Those who went against them, even though they were competent rabbonim, i believe were jn the wrong for doing so.

    In England, there are basically two communities, as far as i know. The united synagogue and beis din, and the kadasia/charedi world. I know people from both sides, and they usually get along with each other. I rolled my eyes at what many of the chief rabbis have said and written, and some of it is outright apokorsus. No one’s defending giving LGBT abomination the tolerance that you sometimes hear from such rabbis, or their participation in Limmud together with kofrim, or other things.

    But because I’m not very familiar with the british rabbinic scene, i don’t know the facts on the ground, nor do i know enough to have an opinion about the psak in question, as i would an issue in new york. When haskel lookstein was almost thrown out of the RCA for attending an interfaith ceremony when obama was inaugurated, he defended himself with some teshuva he found, and they decided not to get rid of him. At the time, i dismissed it as just MO nonsense, another casual sin that comes from their intermarriage with secularism.

    But my reaction to an issue that I’m not familiar with is not to get involved until I know all the details, and i still don’t know enough to say that the london beis din was totally wrong in the psak they gave rav jakobovitz, and that he was wrong in doing what he did too. Gedolim respected rav jakobovitz, so I’m not quick to say he was wrong.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #2188832
    AviraDeArah
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    Neville….that was gold

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188806
    AviraDeArah
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    I don’t get into fights about the boro park eruv. That’s because rav pam said not to; he was very sad to hear that almost half of boro park carries, “uber machlokes is erger,” were his words.

    But he didn’t defend the flatbush or definitely not the Brooklyn -wide idea, as far as i know. I don’t think it was even a hava amina in his time

    On that, i don’t mind getting into arguments

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2188692
    AviraDeArah
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    Hakatan, i don’t know about their website, but the london beis din has normal rabbis. Rav gelley is a yekkishe rov, another is on the beis din of bais havaad in Lakewood… they’re not mizrachisten.

    In kashrus, KLBD has a similar reputation to the OU in America. There are definitely modern people among the UK rabbinate, but if rav jakobovitz, who himself was quite respected in halacha, and the beis din had a heter… I’m not going to fight it. I do believe that r..mirvis would be required to distinguish himself as a non participant, as per what rav jakobovitz wrote.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188648
    AviraDeArah
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    Da, i don’t think you’re familiar with Brooklyn demographics. Most fully modern people left to the 5 towns, Manhattan, and Teaneck. They used the eruv for the most part.

    Talmidim of rabbi Shechter in Brooklyn(and I’ve met only a handful) aren’t sending their kids to the few remaining modern Brooklyn schools, i.e. yeshiva of Flatbush. They’re sending their kids to prospect park, kaminetz, etc.. Because they want an actual yeshiva, and not a coed Jewish public school.

    As for chasidim, many, if not most at this point, carry. But mostly in boro park. The heimish Flatbush crowd is litvishe influenced and mostly does not carry.

    But if you walk on shabbos in flatbush, you’ll see people carrying, and it’s identifiably modern people.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188586
    AviraDeArah
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    Da – check out most young israels in Brooklyn; they advertise when the eruv is “up.”

    Most modern people definitely carry. Maybe people close to rabbi shechter don’t, but youre making it out to be as if all of Brooklyn MO people are black hat RW YU people, and the reality is that isn’t so.

    in reply to: Caffeinated versus decaffeinated #2188572
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    It says the chacham will daven for the person

    in reply to: Caffeinated versus decaffeinated #2188563
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Aaq, you’re tearing out the gemara from its pashtus without support from meforshim

    in reply to: Caffeinated versus decaffeinated #2188447
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Bava basra 116, anyone who has a sick person in his house should go to a chacham in the city, and he should daven for him

    Seeking out Hashem doesn’t mean not turning to tzadikim. That’s a mistake.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188390
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Nom, rav moshe never said one can rely on the rabbonim who are matir the eruv(regarding the eruv). Rav Belsky was very close to him, and he said that Rav Moshe told him to fight the eruv once he’s gone, and not give in an inch. And that’s exactly what rav belsky did for decades.

    in reply to: New Brooklyn Eruv: Time to Accept? #2188198
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Anon, again, apples and oranges; kitnios is a minhag. Hotzaah is deoraysoh. And it wasn’t only rav moshe – it was tje vast majority of poskim in America who joined him.

    Besides that, you’re cherry picking a handful of psakim which rav moshe made which were not accepted. Rav Moshe paskened the biggest shailos in the country and was, in the satmar rovs words, “mara d’asra of America” despite their disagreements. Most of his psakim became the common standard for American jewry. It’s disingenuous to quote a couple of psakim and make it as though they represent the bigger picture.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2188020
    AviraDeArah
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    Aaq…kosher witnesses?

    The rambam clearly writes that cohabiting is enough for marriage by goyim. No need for shtaros or aidim.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2187999
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Ujm, it seems that rav jakobovitz heard from the beis din that he can only attend when he was directly asked to under specific circumstances.

    Anon – ash provided a source. You just said it; big difference.

    Aaq, i disagree. R. Mirvis represents the Jewish community and his actions are not that of a private individual. He is to be held accountable for his public decisions and we are entitled to know the psak he received.

    in reply to: A Chief Rabbi Attends the Coronation in a Church? #2187984
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Ash – thank you. This is the idea of question and answer. If the beis din in London made such a psak – so be it. That to me is enough. But according to that psak, r. Mirvis would have to do what rav jakobovitz did and clearly distinguish himself as a non participant in the prayers, that he is there in attendance at the behest of the monarchy, and nothing more

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