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  • in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2216664
    AviraDeArah
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    Nom, do you get your history from followers of rabbi kook who aggrandize every mizrachi rabbi and idolize Ben Gurion as a Jewish hero? Because most of my rebbeim were litvishe and learned from litvishe gedolim, and none of them thought highly of reines. Some shied away from talking about rabbi kook, but didn’t think he was the sort of gadol hador you make him out to be.

    If reines was so big, why is he not mentioned by the chofetz chaim, rav chaim ozer, or other litvishe gedolim at all?

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2216619
    AviraDeArah
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    Nom, you are correct in that i should have said “independent value,” outside of what it can do to help you understand Torah or make a living.

    Torah in itself doesn’t need anything to improve it, and people don’t need anything else besides Torah, which has everything. Our limited ability to derive everything from it makes us need to use chochmos to that end, but the Torah itself is perfect and needs nothing exterior to itself to complement it or complete it.

    Why is that only something that “yeshivish” people think? It’s pesukim!

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2216568
    AviraDeArah
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    Km – Reading things online doesn’t make you non-brainwashed. If does undo a good chinuch, which it sounds like you received, only to have it damaged by reading blogs from self professed academics without you yourself having the ability to look into the sources themselves.

    If you want to use the term “rabbi” for anyone at any time who received smicha, then you should use it for mordechai kaplan too.

    Mendelssohn wrote that tehilim is “bad poetry,” as per the actual research of rav shimon schwab, who decided to investigate mendelssohn himself, having heard different versions of his alleged personal piety.

    The issue surrounding mendelssohn had little to do with secular studies, as this was common in other countries, like Italy. The issue was reform, change. He wanted to change things. He said that the Torah world needs to accommodate changing times by leaving the way we were taught. He said that mingling with non jews is good for us, against what chazal say.

    His desire to abandon yiddishkeit wholesale is evidenced by his talmidim doing so very shortly after his death.

    Why do i care what’s written on his matzeiva? The damage he’s done to klal yisroel is still felt today, and people who lead others astray don’t have much to worry about in terms of their matzeiva; they almost certainly won’t be needing it for its given purpose.

    in reply to: Jewish books on the paranormal/mysterious/ufos/conspiracy theories #2216438
    AviraDeArah
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    Benjamen, Aramaic is a special language, as chazal tell us not to take it lightly. It resembles lashon kodesh, and there js a reason hashgocha chose it to be the vehicle of Torah transmission. It wasn’t simply because jews randomly happened to speak that language – ask yourself, WHY did the yidden speak it?

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2216437
    AviraDeArah
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    Km, secular studies was advocated way before moses Mendelssohn, who you for some reason call rabbi.

    The ramchal says to teach children secular wisdom, and the Gaon says that “to the extent one is missing in secular chochma, that is the extent he will be missing in Torah”

    The rishonim advocated it as well, including the rambam who says that studying teva brings to love of Hashem. The chovos halevavos implies that it was common for yidden to have secular books as well.

    This is all predicated on the assumption that nothing in the books is apikorsus. Modern orthodoxy allows reading apikorsus to a large degree in the interest of open mindedness, depending on how modern they are and how not Orthodox they are.

    Rav hirsch repudiated reform and the likes of mendelssohn.

    You’re vastly overstating mendelssohns reach; he had his circle of naskilim, but klal yisroel were not moved by him very much, and in later years his books woild fall into obscurity, preserved mostly by bloggers who are obsessed with deviant jewish figures.

    For the record, shadal had a bigger impact on jewry than mendelssohn, and he came earlier. He influenced Italian jewry towards secular things, and had some ideas which were apikorsus, but he was still not as divergent as mendelssohn.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216420
    AviraDeArah
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    Mdd, well to be fair, I’m a 3rd generation and i went to one of the most Americanishe of mainstream yeshivos… Not necessarily a bad thing

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216399
    AviraDeArah
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    Ruby schron is a famous gvir, why does anyone care that he is said to have gone to a pesach hotel? And to be dan lekaf zchus, i imagine most people don’t use the television in the room at these places.

    in reply to: questions about the yeshivish world #2216364
    AviraDeArah
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    If you want a first hand account of what rav Moshe held regarding Lubavitch and the last rebbe, talk to rav reuvain, or his grandchildren in the East side. Don’t take my word for it.

    in reply to: questions about the yeshivish world #2216363
    AviraDeArah
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    Sechel, lots of gedolim write things that can be misunderstood and require a mesorah from their talmidim to understand. You’d be the first to say that god-in-a-body needs to be understood, supposedly, by people who understand it.

    Rav Belsky was close to rav moshe and got shimush from him. I trust his understanding of rav moshe, and it’s the same reason why rav Moshe grew long payos…it was with an honest appraisal of his ability as a posek and a belief that American jewry needed a competent posek, amid a lot of rabbis who were ruining yiddishkeit or who were quasi conservative. That’s emes; truth is nore than uncle moishy songs about never telling a lie. Same way chazal say that we need to praise even an ugly kallah; that’s emes to Hashem.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216362
    AviraDeArah
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    Nom, did they put rav elchanan in cherem for calling him a rasha?

    Rabbi yoshe ber soloveitchik openly said(it’s recorded) that he wasn’t impressed with rabbi kooks learning, also.

    Mdd, i didn’t say that the chazon ish was talking about frei people. I said that society changed and the majority were frei, which leads to a situation where temptation is more rampant for a frum person; he is influenced by the frei surroundings and the debased culture(kal vechomer today). He also said that we ourselves lack the ability to give tochacha, largely because of the above and because of yeridas hadoros.

    He doesn’t say that there’s no din of mechalel shabis befarhesys vis a vid stam yainom etc… actually, he was machmir on such things…in maysoh ish, a story is related about a chavrusa he had who questioned the pashut meaning of a chazal; the chazon ish tolf him “next time you come, don’t bring wine” because his hashkofos made it stam yainom.

    He was talking about other inyonim, but was not matir any isurim.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216253
    AviraDeArah
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    Mdd, if you think saying “i headed from someone who heard from someone” is going to “make me think,” then i don’t know what to tell you.

    But as i said, I’ll look into the tosfos and the gemara you are citing about eisav(which has no bearing on the chazon ish, since eisav was definitely “achar tochacha”)

    Where does the chofetz chaim argue with the chazon ish? He also wrote his sefer at a different time, back when most jews were frum. When the chazon ish said his statement, most jews were no longer frum and society had changed a lot.

    in reply to: Is harry potter kosher? #2216207
    AviraDeArah
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    I had forgotten about the nivul peh and divrei cheshek parts, as well as the stealing, disrespect, etc…which are portrayed as heroic.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2216093
    AviraDeArah
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    Da, those quotes all seem to agree rhat there is value in Secular studies on its own, it coexists separate from Torah, even though Torah is higher.

    Torah isn’t higher. Hashem made the world from the Torah. It is the only thing valuable to Hashem and to us.

    Rav hirsch looked at secular jews studies as a handmaid of the Torah, because he was frum. MO largely os guilty of ascribing something value outside of Torah, and this is akin to shituf.

    in reply to: Is harry potter kosher? #2216091
    AviraDeArah
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    I enjoyed it too, so i understand where you’re coming from. Rowling is a gripping author, and i found myself as a kid flicking a stick and thinking for a fleeting moment that HP magic was real.

    Lots of kids did. They got lost in the stories and found themselves in some of the characters. I sure did.

    And that’s the main reason why it’s not kosher. I don’t know if HP magic is in the same category as kishuf, ov, yidoni, etc…it doesn’t involve subservience to kochos, avodah zara, or messing with the pamalah shel maalah. I can hear both sides to that

    But what is more problematic is that it’s a godless world. Evil is portrayed not as that which Hashem hates, but as racism. The characters possess a mix of morals, with some heros behaving in ways which are disgusting from a Torah perspective.

    So a combination of bad morals, a torah-less and God-less world, with a writer who can manipulate the minds of children and have them at the edge kf their seat as they read and imagine…that is harmful for chinuch, and it’s harmful for adults too. The influence is profound.

    We live in a world of hester panim, where we have to struggle and claw our way into seeing a glimmer of ruchnius in our lives, we need to constantly fortify our worldview and our priorities..
    Divrei Torah are hard to aquire as gold but as easy to lose as glass, chazal say. Our minds are fragile; can we leave them at the mercy of a non jewish author who paints a world devoid of torah and Hashem? Will that not influence us when we have nisyonos?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2216090
    AviraDeArah
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    Mdd, it might be predictable, but it’s what the vast majority of gedolim will tell you if you ask the shailoh. You’re quoting a lot of 2nd hand information; i advise you to ask gedolei yisroel if the halacha lemaysoh follows the chazon ish. I highly doubt that rav elyashiv told someone to celebrate a mumars death, but if he did, what was the case? Was he perhaps a former rosh kolel who went off the derech and tried to convince others to do so?(it’s happened…) Or maybe a guy in a black hat who believes in transing young people, like a former kiruv rabbi turned walking abomination, who lures young people in BMG?

    There are people who i think even the chazon ish would agree are in that category. I’d celebrate if either of the above g’pagered.

    I don’t remember tosfos on the gemara; will check bl”n.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215989
    AviraDeArah
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    Regular, norman lamm used his English name when writing Hebrew “torah” articles, so whatever he was called for aliyos is not really relevant. He identified with his English name, North Man, and it’s very telling that he did so

    מצפון תפתח הרע.

    Reines was a man full of fantasies if you read his post zionist writings; nor was he considered a gadol batorah by any stretch where his ideas can be reckoned with baaeli mesorah. Not only that, but where does reines say anything about there being other important things besides Torah or that secular studies are chas veshalom equal to it?

    There’s no source for any of this dribble. The Torah is not missing anything; if you feel it is, אם רק נוא, מכם,! If someone thinks that the Torah is empty, or in lamms view, not full, then the chisaron is in them, not the Torah.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215965
    AviraDeArah
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    Yaskov, what makes you modern and not just a talmid of rav hirsch?

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215964
    AviraDeArah
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    Qwert, a psak din was quoted here from basically every gadol in America. Look at it.

    There’s also a sefer which gets into more halachik detail about television, the halachos of al tashkon, lo sasuru, putting one’s self in a nisayon, yisrael al tishmach el gil haamin, al tifnu, which sholulchan aruch says applies to novels withoit spiritual benefit(shu”a OC 307:17) there is a teshuva from the debretziner about it too, and there are common shailos about the permissibility of children to break their parents TV sets – the tzelemer rov provided them with bricks and rab belsky told me that this is why there never was a TV problem in Williamsburg.

    Just think; do you want the worldview of a goy or frei jew drummed into your head as you enjoy the story snd are not on your guard to protect yourself from influence? Tv shows always have innuendos, nivul peh, embarrassing other characters, promoting bad middos even when they think they’re teaching good ones… it’s value systems which harm our hashkofos at every turn. Mishlei says “of all things, guard your mind, for from it comes life”

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215920
    AviraDeArah
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    Mdd, i was responding in the context of the “velts vort” about victims of the Holocaust, that they and other martyrs go straight to olam haba, regardless of their past. Of course there’s a lot in between eternal damnation, which is exceedingly rare, and being mezuman l’olam haba – 99% of people are in that middle category.

    It should be noted that the chazon ish writes that the mitzvah of hating reshoim is not applicable in our time, because no one can be fully considered as “achar tochacha,” that he has received adequate tochacha, and is a full fledged maizid. As known, the chazon ish fought the zionist apikorsim leaders for decades and did not treat them with kid gloves.

    The gemara says that rebbe meir originally davened for reshoim to die, until bruriah told him yitamu chataim velo chotim; he then davened for them to do teshuva. How does that shtim with v’stah Elokim…? Great kasha, but when we don’t take casual readings of pesukim over clear gemaros. Who was the pasuk referring to? I don’t know.

    Re, mumar, shiva, etc…again, we don’t find gedolim advocating this practice in our time. Even the family of people who commit suicide are, as far as I’ve heard, told to sit shiva – I’ve heard different shitos on this, but i have never heard of a posek telling people to celebrate as we once did.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215902
    AviraDeArah
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    Yechiel, i am genuinely pained by your post. Not only because you have shown zero regard for divreihem hakedoshim of chazal, but uou are advocating a wholesale abandonment of the halacha against taking refuos on Shabbos. A gezera was made forbidding all kinds of refuah, whether they are medications or otherwise, due to a concern of grinding.

    Like any takanah on Shabbos, the act is still assur even if it’s not common to do the melacha attached to it, such as swimming, even though it’s not common to forge rafts in our time, or any number of takanos.

    Taking medication in general is assur on Shabbos. It is allowed when one is in severe pain, defined as wanting to lay down from it. A mild headache would not warrant permitting Tylenol, but a headache that makes you want to lay down would.

    Re, bloodletting. Refuos change, tosfos says that all of the refuos mentioned in the gemara worked in their time, but the teva of people changed even in their time, and they no longer work. However bloodletting does have a practical medical application even nowadays, as it is used for certain conditions.

    Learning shabbos with daf yomi has probably led you to believe these things, or hearing people talk about the halachos – you should learn them yourself. If you are unable to learn them from their respective sugyos in shas and poskim, there are wonderful English seforim which discuss them at length in great detail, including rabbi ribiat’s popular 39 melachos set.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215887
    AviraDeArah
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    Yungerman, while some out of town communities might not have the same issues with gashmius, they are still far, far away from Lakewood in overall Torah learning and shmiras hamitzvos. There’s not really any TV, unfiltered Internet, pritzus, gender mingling, etc… It’s still the most Torah oriented place in the country, with tens of thousands of people living meticulously according to dikdukei halacha.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215751
    AviraDeArah
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    Thoughtful, i disagree. Mainstream orthodoxy makes claim to never have changed and accepts a mesorah from rishonim and achronim with complete adherence to every word of chazal as torah misinai, even the things modern society doesn’t like. It doesn’t seek to reexamine anything or change halacha or hashkafa to fit the times, or make sacrifices to “conserve” the “greater” picture. It lays claim to an unadulterated Judaism, and this encompasses sefardi jews, temani, litvishe, chasidishe, yekkish, hungarian…literally every sect of jews who did not submit yo haskalah. Modern Orthodoxy is the only group among the rest of klal yisroel which does not accept the above, depending on how modern they are versus how Orthodox they are.

    So they are not mainstream. They are deviating by their own admission. They believe that humankind jas discovered something of importance not given to us at har sinai; in doing so, they have taken themselves out of the mainstream.

    Also in numbers, they are the minority worldwide among Orthodox jews.

    in reply to: Elokai Netzor, or not? #2215738
    AviraDeArah
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    I should mention that the poskim i quoted say to say elokai netzur quietly.

    in reply to: Elokai Netzor, or not? #2215737
    AviraDeArah
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    The poskim i quoted above, nosei keilim, seem to say unanimously that one who davened only as shat”z must say elokai netzur, or perhaps according to the nagen avrohom, a variant of a short supplication. Maybe nust yehiyu leratzon would suffice? I don’t know, but you can’t dismiss the nosei keilil with just the idea that you don’t see people do it when they’re doing something which on its face is an ad-hoc practice… was this done in a shul with a posek there at the time? Or just people davening minchah in a shul?

    But in either case, taking over as shat”z after the first shatz davened shtil has yet to be shown as permissible… based on the above (did anyone here read my summation of the poskim? Or am i wasting my words?) It seems problematic, and if someone only davened hoich then they’d have to say something afterwards, the rationale being that one must first take leave of the Shechina – a regular shatz does this during the shtiller SE, and takes his leave of the Shechina on behalf of the tzibur by kaddish tiskabel. One who only davens hoich needs to take leave of the Shechina for himself, and after SE is the only time he can do that.

    As for why it’s not tircha dtzibura(someone here raised this question) my guess is that there’s just no choice… One needs to take leave of the Shechina; it’s a very important part of davening, so what can he do?

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215736
    AviraDeArah
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    Square, please read my post. There’s nothing in the sources you bring which contradicts it – rav hirsch wasn’t that much of a chidush in principle, because rishonim and achronim had long since advocated havijg a knowledge of chochmos leshem shomayim, to understand Torah better, etc…his chidush was in institutionalizing it into part of chinuch, synthesizing it with the teaching of a parnosa. While neither learning a trade or learning chochmos were inherently new, making them institutionalized was a novel concept.

    It also ran contrary to the rema which says that one may not learn chochmos b’kevius. Rav hirsch i don’t believe ever addressed the rema directly, but i believe his defenders say that for parnosa there is no such limitation; rav elchanan wasserman writes something along those lines about college, with the prerequisite that no apikorsus be taught.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215706
    AviraDeArah
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    Regarding tv, the psak linked above was from rabbonim across the board; litvishe, chasidishe, sefardi, and yekkies. Every single sector of Torah jewry was united in banning television, just as they are now united in banning unfiltered Internet.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215705
    AviraDeArah
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    Qwert, im not defending Lubavitch in the slightest; Menachem has good things to say about other things, and if i agree, i agree, and if i disagree, then that’s how I’ll respond; it’s not us vs. them; the reason why I even bother being on here is to share ideas with people, debunk online nonsense, and learn from people, some of whom i might sharply disagree with. That’s what this site js about; the moment something turns personal, i stop caring. That’s why i don’t care when some posters make fun of my name or engage in kther childish behavior; that’s not what im here for, and it only serves to prove my points for me.

    I find menachems parody of the us vs them thing pretty funny; if you want to discuss ideas, I’m game, otherwise, i see no value.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215702
    AviraDeArah
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    Chief, it’s the belief that Torah needs something to complement it that is considered apikorsus by gedolei yisroel. Rav hirsch wrote that the chochmos are the handmaids of the Torah, they serve it, they don’t add to it itself. They add to OUR understanding of the Torah , not due to the Torah lacking anything – see maharsha on the gemaros that deal with refuos…hafoch bah, toras Hashem temima, etc…the chisaron is in us, that we cannot access everything from Torah study alone, but we need to learn math and science from the outside to understand Torah better.

    Where modern orthodoxy split off, and this was not the view of rabbi yoshe ber soloveitchik, rather it was the view of norman lamm, Bernard revel, and Samuel belkin, who were the ones who brought the idea of something besides Torah having value. Rabbi yoshe ber had his opinions which were not agreed upon by the gedolei hador, but they were nowhere near the apikorsus and insult to Torah the likes of the others brought into American jewry.

    Lf course, that group was not the original source – the idea of there being something of value besides Torah was popularized by maskilim in Europe. It was their bread and butter.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215699
    AviraDeArah
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    Thought, a very rich person is not limited by the rule of chomesh, firstly. Secondly, that’s got for tzedaka; using money to build yeshivos, be a zevulun to many many yisachars, klal work, etc…was never under discussion. There’s no question that Hashem wants a wealthy person to use their money for avodas Hashem, and not to own 5 houses, a yacht and a Lamborghini.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215678
    AviraDeArah
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    Coffee, add אל תשכון בעוהליך עולה, we are not permitted to own items which are used for sins, such as false weights, even if our purpose for them is benign. They are a hazard and must not be in the house. Since a TV (or definitely unfiltered Internet) is used for forbidden thinfs with the flick of a button, it cannot be allowed(filtered internet is different, and depends on individual circumstances and your Local Orthodox Rabbi)

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215677
    AviraDeArah
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    Qwert, you’re right that it is not the job of a kiruv rabbi to give fiery mussar shmuzen. That’s true. It doesn’t mean that a rav’s job of an observant community is to be a role model.

    Rav millers shul were all orthodox from the beginning. He was a kiruv person, but kiruv krovim, bringing closer people who are already observant. Those people do need fiery drashos, and at the very least tochachah that they’ll be open to.

    Being a kiruv rabbi in a shul or a college is different, and I’m surprised you can’t see the clear difference.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215659
    AviraDeArah
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    Mdd, where’s that rashi? And which reshoim are he referring to? Maybe it’s only apikorsim, who we daven to die….we say yitamu chataim velo chotim, we daven for stam reshoim to do teshuva

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215650
    AviraDeArah
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    Mdd, that’s for us to oppose when they’re here; their own cheshbonos are between them and Hashem… we’d want to see the retribution of the wicked for a mussar Haskel, from which we benefit…but to desire that other yiden burn forever once they’re gone…why does it hurt us if a yid gets into olam haba on some technicality lr zchus?

    in reply to: Elokai Netzor, or not? #2215563
    AviraDeArah
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    Mobic, what changed nowadays from the achronim?

    in reply to: Elokai Netzor, or not? #2215484
    AviraDeArah
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    But without seeing the avudraham i don’t know what to make of it….what case is he talking about where a person only davens hoich? I’ll look it up bli neder and update my post.

    in reply to: Elokai Netzor, or not? #2215483
    AviraDeArah
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    Forshayer , this case is not discussed in MB itself, but is in parentheses on the mechaber in seif 5, citing avudraham. The Shaar hatziun there cites prishah and pri megadim. I looked at the pri negadim, who says thar a person davening hoich counts for both him and the tzibur, and he says thet the person should say elokai netzur quietly afterwards…it would seem that the tzibur would have to wait for him to say it. I don’t have avudraham on me. After this I saw the magen avrohom (13) which seems to say that such a person needs to take 3 steps back to take his leave of the Shechina for his own prayers(since he didn’t daven shtil) “kegon elokai netzur,”….take from that what you will.

    So your friend it seems would be yotzei everything, but he must take 3 steps back after the hoich.

    However as for yourself…since you davened shtill as a sha’tz, there’s a good chance you can’t be yotzei if you don’t daven hoich afterwards, since the whole reason you’re davening shtil to begin with is to prepare for hoich.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215481
    AviraDeArah
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    For unrefined amei haaretz, there is an idea of a rov not stressing kedushah to such people if they are going to be miserly, telling poor people to make do with little…better let them enjoy their gashmius if they’ll give more tzedaka and do it right.

    Honestly, for an am haaretz or someone who refuses to learn… it’s such a pity that their life is so ruled by taavos.

    in reply to: Over the Top Lifestyles in Lakewood #2215478
    AviraDeArah
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    Questionable, because chazal say that money is a safe depost from Hashem with which to do HIS will not our own. We are charged with using our money to serve him, b’chol meodecha, in all of your resources. Our lives are meant to be spent this way.

    It’s not “ours” to do whatever we want with as long as it’s not an open issur in shulchan aruch.

    Might do you well to learn about what chibut hakever is in the sifrei mussar.

    Marbeh basar mabeh rima. More flesh, the more worms. Chazal tell us to curtail our desires all the time, but also not to be an ascetic. The rambams “golden path” applies here, to not be a glutton or to live for this world, but also not to harm the body and nefesh with harsh asceticism. The mesilas yeshorim writes that we are to use olam hazeh as an aid to perform mitzvos; chazal say one is praiseworthy if he eats a fatty steak in order to learn better. But if he eats it for no reason other than to satisfy his desires…

    There is a mitzvah of kedoshim tehiu, you shall be holy, which means to sanctify one’s self with that which is permitted.

    in reply to: The Modern Orthodox “Mesorah” #2215477
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Modern Orthodoxy made a movement out of not having a mesorah.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215476
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Arso, thanks for that, because i wasn’t 100% sure if my post earlier about being pleased with reshoim going into gan eden was oisgehalten… But if that quote is true, then baruch she’kivanti.

    Qwert, Re, ben gvir – i don’t know why when it comes to opposing Lubavitch, you’re alright with bringing out their issues(in a very strong way which is off putting to most people), but you consider it hateful if someone has a halachik/hashkafic view of meir kahana which you disagree with? I have no hatred for him or his misguided followers; i believe based on the reasons above that there are serious, dangerous issues with their ideas, and that they have the status of rodfim. Many gedolim have said that those who go on har habayis are also rodfim, because they’re putting jews in danger.

    Does that mean i wish them harm? Absolutely not. We’re not in a position to act on this sort of din rodef in our time and place, as we could end up doing more harm than good if we would do something to physically oppose them. Violence isn’t the derech hatorah that we’re taught in any case, and i am not a posek who can decide dinei nefashos. But in principle the idea of a rodef logically applies to them.

    And that’s why I don’t think kahanah was a martyr or that he died al kidush Hashem. He wasn’t killed because of his Judaism, his performance of a mitzvah, or anything else normally associated with that term. If a jew is mugged and killed by a robber, we don’t say he’s a martyr. kahana was killed because the arabs saw him and his political movement as a threat, which it actually was; if someone runs into an arab village screaming about throwing them out of their homes, and he ends up killed, we just say he was foolish… he’s not any sort of martyr.

    I think kahanah had good intentions, and took the zionism that was very popular in his time to a militant extent; kind of like a Jewish malcolm X.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215392
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Qwert, not only can a rov tell his congregation what to do, he has an obligation to do so. He is a mochiach, in a position to give tochacha, as every gadol has done throughout history. Look at the derashos of rishonim and achronim; they’re full of ethical and halachik exhortations…look at the seforim of the chofetz Chaim, including the sefer he’s named after and shmiras halashon.

    Not wanting to be told what to do is a human feeling and a good sign of your yichus, because klal yisroel is an am keshei oref, a stubborn nation. Seforim say that when Hashem went to all the nations, he gave them a mitzvah that went against their nature, and they rejected the Torah; Yishmael with znus, eisav with murder…and yisroel was with anochi Hashem, that we need to listen to someone. So you’re in good company! But you need to fight that yatzer hora and humble yourself to an authority of your choosing.

    Modern Orthodox rabbis teach that the rabbi’s authority ends in shulchan aruch and doesn’t extend to life decisions or politics, but you’ve done one better and believe that a rov has no authority at all! That’s quite a deviation from even the most liberal sects of observant jews, and it’s a shame that someone who has Orthodox smicha edited told you this idea that a rov is supposed to be a role model. Does he or you have a shred of a source for that statement? Rabbonim make takanos all of the time…in the communities of the chasam sofer, rav hirsch, and everyone else, there were rules, enacted by rabbonim.

    The mesilas yeshorim talks about following a rov, comparing it to a a guide in a hedge maze. The mishnah in avos says to sit in the dust of the chachamim, understand that their words are fire, humble yourself to them, and drink in their words with thirst.

    Out of town communities are better at this than elsewhere, because usually there’s one or two poskim who the whole community follows. Take a look at what they do in Baltimore, Cleveland, etc…the community follows the ordinances of its rov.

    This has nothing to do with being “yeshivish.” When non yeshivish people were exercising in mixed gyms and even mixed swimming in Cleveland out of ignorance, rav hirschfeld, the posek there, along with all of the shul rabbonim, wrote a letter, and put a stop to it. Most of the resistance to listening to rabbis is in in-town places, because there are so many rabbonim and not a lot of central authority.

    You’ve discussed your background in candid terms, and i applaud you for embracing observance and getting involved in learning, but to be fully observant means to follow the halachik and hashkafic decisions of rabbonim, who are authorities on yiddishkeit. It doesn’t matter to me if you decide to follow poskim like rabbi hershel Shechter, or others who i personally disagree with on many issues, since the majority of gedolim were against some of their views, but they are established authorities in their communities, even though they’re not “yeshivish.”

    If you want sources regarding television, please let me know and I will provide them, but i won’t if you have no plans on accepting them.

    Rav miller was no different than any rosh Yeshiva in how his talmidim follow him. In my yeshiva, rav belsky was the final word for most of us in halacha, in chaim berlin, it was rav aharon shechter and rav shraga feivel cohen, in mir the words of rav shmuel birnbaum were Torah misinai…rav miller did succeed in having a shul where he was in a position of Rosh yeshiva/manhig in a time when most people unfortunately went בשרירות לבם, doing what they decided on their own.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215304
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Lots of good jews get up early to learn. It doesn’t take away from him being a rodef who, while likely well intended, put us all in danger and created a chilul Hashem of “jewish terrorism” where hus disciples praise baruch Goldstein, etc…

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215298
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Qwert, it sounds like your rabbi is unfamiliar with communities that have strong rabbinic leadership. Talmidim of any gadol take their words as Torah misinai; go to any Yeshiva and you’ll see this, except for places like brisk where lots of guys go with no intention of being machniah themselves to rav avrohom Yehoshua, but this is an exception. In yeshivos we say that so and so got “farkoift” on such and such gadol.

    Lubavitch has an entirely different look on their leader, which has been explained a ton on this and other threads. They think he’s omniscient, able to help them, fit to offer prayers to, doing mitzvos because he said to do them, etc….

    I don’t think rav miller was “perfect,” as no one is. Rav miller himself writes that even Moshe rabbeinu was only infallible when speaking nevuah, but that on his own he could and did make mistakes, on his level, which of course we have no understanding of.

    I wrote about why two prominent American gedolim said not to get involved in the anti-neo chabad controversy. Both of those gedolim changed their minds around the same time, as rav pam and rav miller were niftar in 2001. We find many gedolim misjudged people, going as far back as geichazi. Rav Moshe also trusted his son in law…. And if you’re an east sider, well, enough said, you know the stories probably better than i do.

    Just as an aside, one of the big roshei yeshiva said that the twin towers fell after the protection of the “two towers” in new york were gone. That stayed with me for 2 decades.

    Re, Thanksgiving; rav moshe doesn’t say it’s a mitzvah or that you should do it, just that it’s allowed. Many good jews did it years ago, but the yeshiva world completely abandoned the practice 25-odd years ago. It’s also dependent not so much on halacha issues but on historical facts. Rav Moshe didn’t speak English, and presumably relied on information from people. Rav miller was a college graduate. The latter said that historically the holiday was meant to thank the Christian deity based on research, so this isn’t a machlokes in halacha so much as in netzius. I’m not saying one isn’t allowed to follow rav moshe in this regard, just “food” for thought.

    Re, Rabbi kook. Rac shlomo zalman had a lot bigger things to do than delve into the controversy. I doubt he ever even read the books which were controversial or heard about calling Rembrandt a “tzadik,” edited or the rest. Rav Shlomo zalman wasn’t a zionist. He just sat and learned.

    Other talmidim, like rav hutner, publicly distanced themselves from him. but this is a tangential topic.

    As for the question about why we would bother paskening on shomayim issues, this question was asked by rishonim. The answer is that whatever we pasken in beis din shel matah, is followed by beis din shel maalah. This is why we have machlokes in mishnah and gemara about chiyuvei krisus, misa bidei shomayim, etc…

    in reply to: Elokai Netzor, or not? #2215281
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Shimon, he’s supposed to daven word by word quietly with the shat”z. That’s not what happened here.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215189
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Just for the record, i hope in shomayim they pasken that everyone killed during the Holocaust and in thr temple shooting go straight to olam haba. Who would prefer to deny them such? Rav Miller held not like that, not because he didn’t want them to go to olam haba, but because that was his daas Torah opinion, and he is obligated to teach Torah as he sees it.

    in reply to: Elokai Netzor, or not? #2215181
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I don’t know the haladha, but i can offer two points:

    1. Poskim say that the shtiler shemoneh esrei of a sha”tz is merely a preparation for the hoicher, and as such, many say that one should daven the nusach of the shul during not only the hoicher, but the shtiler as well.

    2. Chazaras hashatz itself was instituted for the amrei haaretz who do not know how to daven properly.

    When you began davening shtiler SE, you were doing so in your tole as shliach tzibur; if your SE was merely a preparation for your hoicher, then perhaps you were not yotzei to begin with.

    Also, what can make this new person a Shat”z?

    There are more fundamental problems here than whether ot not elokai netzur is said; it’s highly likely that neither you nor him were yotzei, though he probably is yotzei tefilah bedieved, as being quiet is not me’akev if i remember correctly.

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215184
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Qwert, there are people who are put off by rav millers hashkofos. So maybe they don’t want to consider him a gadol byisroel. But every gadol I’ve known has considered him such. No, he was not in the same league as gedolei olam like rav Moshe, rav aharon, the chazon ishz etc…but in America he was one of the gedolim on lar with rav shmuel birnbaum, rav pam, etc…

    Most gedolim say that they’re not gedolim. Rav belsky heard from rav chaim kanievsky that he in all earnest was wondering “what’s this niggun “yomim al yemei melech tosif” that i keep hearing people sing… don’t people sing any other niggunin?” It didn’t dawn on him that people would be singing that for him.

    I agree there’s little to gain in discussing who was a gadol and who might not have been, except there are cases where it’s important, such as discouraging others from being involved in people which can lead one on a path away from mesorah.

    edited. Not sure you have credentials for listing names.

    in reply to: questions about the yeshivish world #2215149
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Mishnah berurah, chofetz Chaim, mesilas yeshorim… Pretty universally accepted

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215156
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Sechel, writing a lot does not make one bigger or smaller. There were minor poskim who wrote long volumes of teshuvos, and there was the bais halevi, who wrote relatively few teshuvos, yet his words are חוצבים להבות אש. Rav nossom adler, one of the gedolei olam and the chasam sofers rebbe, wrote nothing. Most of the geonim wrote nothing too.

    Sometimes writing longer seforim is evident of the opposite of gadlus.

    So I’m not impressed with “kamus,” im concerned with eichus.

    And i can’t believe someone here said that rav miller wasn’t a gadol… He was one of the biggest bekiim in shas in his time

    in reply to: Question of an ignorant, closed-minded Lubavitcher #2215115
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Qwert, i agree that most hold that if a jew is killed because they’re a jew then they’re considered to have been killed al kiddush Hashem. Rav Miller didn’t dispute that in itself, but rather said that they don’t get rewarded for it “besides suffering a little less in gehinnom” if they were apikorsim/frei b’mayzid, even in the Holocaust. This was a controversial opinion.

    But this has no bearing on meir kahana. He wasn’t killed because he was a Jew. He was killed because he declared war on the Arabs. They killed him because he was a threat to them. Did they hate jews? Most likely, yes. But the assassination was not due to him being jewish or even due to representing with or being associated with the so called jewish state. It was because he wanted to expel all arabs from israel, by force if necessary.

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