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  • in reply to: Loving your spouse #2002305
    Avi K
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    Rav Yaakov Emden, in his siddur, says that the intention is for the yetzer hara of a”z to be defeated.

    in reply to: Loving your spouse #2002290
    Avi K
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    Avira,

    Did you read what I wrote about ahava? As for Rav Kook, he explained that the people to whom you are referring were did not have a complete knowledge of Torah and could not be put in this category. The Chazon Ish also says this. Even if they were, we would pray for them to do teshuva. This is far preferable and would be a great kiddush Hashem. The Mahaarl also interprets the beracha you mentioned in this manner. Why do you think that it wasShmuel haKatan who composed it?

    in reply to: Loving your spouse #2002087
    Avi K
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    Rabbi Hiyya says (Yevamot 63a-b) that one should even thank a problematic wife for saving him from sin. Hakarat tov is a fundamental good midda. Even dogs are grateful.

    RE,
    Who says that the reason for loving a ger is because we were gerim in Egypt? That is only a reason to make us sensitive to how they feel (I would extend this to making deprecating comments about other ethnic and religious groups). Rav Kook says that we should love all of Creation as an extension of loving HaShem.
    One must, though, define the meaning of ahava. There is a famous Mussar saying that asks why a person says that he loves fish. If he loves fish why does he kill them? He actually loves his tastebuds and stomach. The Hebrew word “ahava” is related to the Aramaic word “hav” (give). One is certainly required to give to one’s wife. One signed on it before the chuppa. This also explains how one can, as Rav Kook says, love resha’im while hating their sins. One gives to them by bringing them to do teshuva (see Berachot 10a). In a way, even capital punishment is a form of love as it enables atonement.

    in reply to: Shoftim – Shochad, Bribe #2001255
    Avi K
    Participant

    See Ketubot 105b.

    in reply to: Unexpected IRS deposit (8/18/2021) #2001254
    Avi K
    Participant

    Google “TAS Tax Tip: Got a Direct Deposit from the IRS, But Not Sure What it is For?”.

    in reply to: Ki Tzeitaei – How to fight the Yetzer Hara, Our Bad Inflinations #2000923
    Avi K
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    What are inflinations?

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1998736
    Avi K
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    Abba_S, Korach also used “common sense” (Rav Soloveichik called it the “common sense rebellion against Torah authority”). The chances of an animal infecting a person with COVID-19 are very low. Even if this were not so, the vast majority who get the viruses would not be affected or only slightly affected. That is why epidemiologists agree that it is at least theoretically possible. Whether or not this is a practical possibility depends on people. If you have not gotten the jab get it!

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1998430
    Avi K
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    Resident mortal, NYC is only making a recommendation. I guess it depends on how machmir one wants to be. In any case, I would not go by the People’s Republic of California.

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1998414
    Avi K
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    .לא ראינו אינה ראייה

    There are a number of articles online. Google “recovered people getting corona”.

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1998270
    Avi K
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    I just checked the numbers. Breakthrough cases were only 3% of those fully vaccinated. Nationwide, the percentage of breakthrough cases is less than .08% of those fully vaccinated. A little of 1% of those fully vaccinated who tested positive died. The vaccines work.

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1998263
    Avi K
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    For that matter, how many were asymptomatic?

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1997968
    Avi K
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    Besides, vaccinated people have very mild symptoms if any.

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1997965
    Avi K
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    Resident, vaccinated people can indeed transmit the disease but the chances are much less as are the number of people they infect. That is why in the US there is no mask requirement for those who have been vaccinated. In Israel there still is because the government wants to be extra careful.

    in reply to: I’m considered an anti Vaccinator #1997654
    Avi K
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    Rav Asher Weiss gave a whole shiur on the general subject of inadvertent killing someone after a bachur wrote asking what teshuva he had to do after infecting people who died. He brought down Rabbi Akiva Eiger’s teshuva (Mahadura Tanina 3) regarding someone who caused a wagon accident in which two people were killed. Among the things the person had to do was fasting every Mon and Thurs for a year, not to any simcha other than his children’s weddings, send an orphan to yeshiva until age 19, and then send another until age 18, and establish a kollel where the avereichim will learn for illuy neshmot the niftarim and say kaddish.

    Getting the jab is no big deal unless you have a specific medical issue. If you have recovered you might only need one. I am shocked that people who are machmir on any little minhag are so meikal on nefashot.

    in reply to: 1984 warning becoming reality 2021 #1997075
    Avi K
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    Anti-vaxxers, as opposed to those who have real medical conditions that preclude getting the jab, are doing a great deal of damage. I refer the O.P. to Jacobson vs, Massachusetts, 197 U.S. 11 (1905).

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1996693
    Avi K
    Participant

    1. You have your continents mixed up. In Asia it is good. In Germany it is terrible.
    2. Rav Hirsch has been dead for over 140 years. Even with live rabbis, there are arguments over what they said. There are even arguments in the Gemara over what a certain rabbi said with each person swearing that he is correct.
    3. Austritt was forming a separate religious community recognized by the Prussian government. The reason was practical. The Reformers who controlled the established community did not want to maintain the mikva or provide kosher food.
    4.Today there are two Americas. The Obamanation, which you mentioned, and the traditional “Leave it to Beaver” America. I agree with you about the former but not the latter. IMHO, this is why the left is anti-Israel and anti-Semitic and the right (other than a few nuts who cannot possibly be called conservatives) pro-Israel and pro-Jewish.
    5. BTW, Rav Azriel Hildesheimer also advocated studying general culture. In his seminary talmidim were required to also earn university degrees. Among them were Rav Soloveichik, who earned a doctorate in philosophy and the last Lubavitcher Rebbe, who studied mathematics, physics, and philosophy

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1996695
    Avi K
    Participant

    Run from Corona? Are you vaccinated?

    in reply to: Jews’ flight from city per racist attacks in Israel #1996636
    Avi K
    Participant

    BTW, the Ben Ish Hai says learn from the fate of the spies that one who speaks badly about Eretz Yisrael is liable to כרת. Rav Meir Simcha and the Maharam Haggaz also have very sharp things to say about this. Rashi (Sanhedrin 110b) says
    תנו רבנן עשרת השבטים אין להם חלק לעולם הבא שנאמר ויתשם ה’ מעל אדמתם וגו’ — ואית דמפרשי עשרת השבטים אין להם חלק לעולם הבא היינו לימות המשיח, שלא יקבלם משיח עם שאר גליות לפי שספרו בגנות ארץ ישראל כדאמרן לעיל, כי מטו שוש וכו’, ובדבר הזה נענשו מרגלים:

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1996542
    Avi K
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    Avira, there is also “v’asita hatov v’hashar”. This, apparently, is behind the Be’er haGola’s famous statement. The Netziv says in his introduction to Sefer Bereisheet that the Avot werecalled yesharim because of this.

    You are wrong about Rav Hirsch. He believed in studying German culture as well as science and math. This was Torah im derech eretz. In his commentary on Pirkei Avot he writes

    “Derech Eretz includes everything that results from the fact that man’s existence, mission and social life are conducted on Earth, using earthly means and conditions. Therefore this term especially describes ways of earning a livelihood and maintaining the social order. It also includes the customs and considerations of etiquette that the social order generates as well as everything concerning humanistic and civil education.”

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1996374
    Avi K
    Participant

    Ujm, geneivat daat (SA CM 228:6). See also B’er haGola CM 248:5.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1996295
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avirah, first of all, Rav Soloveichik earned a doctorate in philosophy. rav Kirsch himself studied philosophy as did Rav Kook, his son rav Tzvi Yehuda and one of his main talmidim, the Rav haNazir (Rav David haCohen). Rabbi Jonathan Sacks also studied it. He as well as many other rabbis, both in America and Israel quote non-Jewish and secular Jewish writers. Of course, someone who wants to study it should have a rav. This also depends on the branch of philosophy (logic, which is very mathematical in nature, is considered a branch of philosophy) and why one is studying it. Some just want to learn how to formulate arguments. In fact, when someone asked Bertrand Russell why he did not live according to his theories he replied that he was also a mathematician yet no one expected him to be a triangle.

    As for Rav Meiselman’s book, he is attempting to show that Chazal were not wrong about science. I personally have my doubts as to whether or not they meant their statements literally (the Ben Ish Hai seems to take them as metaphors and Rambam says that all the aggadatot were metaphors). However, it is clear that they interacted with non-Jews and even admitted when they were right (Pesachim 94b). Shmuel went to a debating club called Bei Avidan (Shabbat 116b) and had a number of conversations with a non-Jewish sage named Ablett.

    Avi K
    Participant

    Huju, this way neither suffers.

    Avi K
    Participant

    From an actuarial point of view, the girl should be 2-3 years older. That way they can expect to die together.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1996137
    Avi K
    Participant

    It is very difficult to determine who took from whom. The story about Plato learning from Yirmiahu cannot be literally true as he lived about two hundred years later. However, it is known that when he was a young man he went to Alexandria in search of wisdom. He almost certainly learned from those in Yirmihau’s bet midrash. In the middle Ages Jewish and non-Jewish philosophers freely read each other’s books. In fact, there was a period when Ibn Gabirol was thought to be a Xtian, c”v, because the only extant edition of “Mekor Chaim” was in Latin.

    in reply to: Leave of Absence #1996138
    Avi K
    Participant

    Refuah sheleima.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995910
    Avi K
    Participant

    Always, RM learned Torah from Acher. This one cannot learn from an atheist or a non-Jew. However, one can certainly learn chochma. Does it matter what Pythagoras and Euclid believed?

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995723
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avira, that is why I used the Sephardic pronunciation of מצוות. I am half Ashkenazic and half Sephardic. That, BTW, reinforces my definition of Yiddish as creole German. “Fromm” means “pious” or “religious”. Perhaps, though, מדקדק or מקפיד would have been a better choice. BTW, “Yiddish” should be capitalized. There should also be a period after “all”.

    in reply to: Charaidim #1995724
    Avi K
    Participant

    Please define the term. The original meaning was one who shakes (at Hashem’s word). This is the origin of “Quaker” Now it seems to imply a political group.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995322
    Avi K
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    RE, there are six explanations in Tosafot. One is that it is talking about false converts. This also Rashi’s opinion. Another is that they become so frum they embarrass born Jews. Another explanation is that it is very difficult to be careful about the mitzvot regarding their treatment. In fact, I heard that when Rav Scheinberg heard that a talmid in the yeshiva was a ger he trembled with fear. The Maharshal points out that in many times and places it was illegal and even punishable by death.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1995170
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avira, Rambam says to accept the truth from whoever says it. In any case, as I posted, I was referring to the meaning of a secular concept. One can certainly learn the meaning of a word from anyone. Would you reject the Merriam-Webster dictionary because it is written by non-Jews?

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994990
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avira, Rambam, in his introduction to “Shemoneh Perakim” says that he took from non-Jewish philosophers. In the Guide, he quotes Aristotle and various Molem philosophers and then contrasts them with his view. This is also a common explanation of יפת אלקם ליפת וישכון באהלי שם.
    In any case, I was discussing altruism, which is a general concept.

    I found that gemara you cited. It’s Baba Batra 10b. The maskana is Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai’s interpretation, which is what the Malbim says.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994984
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avira, it’s on the pasuk. And it is the peshat. חטאת and not חטא. Please quote your sources in the Gemara and Rishonim.

    in reply to: Politicizing kashrus #1994932
    Avi K
    Participant

    They are obligated by a contract. Their hands are tied unless they want a hefty breach of contract suit. Keeping one’s word is also a Jewish value. As minhag hamedina it would probably also be binding halachically.

    in reply to: Ben-Giver #1994865
    Avi K
    Participant

    1. I am sure that his father was a giver but actually, it is Ben-Gvir.
    2. He is the Deputy Speaker.
    3ץ Everything goes according to the, both in berachot and the opposite.
    3. “Adoni” just means “Sir”. He does not have to say that it is with love.
    4. Please either learn to spell or use a spell check. It is “committers”. In any case, I do not understand the use of the word. He was not committed, just removed.
    5. If you are serious, you get an “F” in logic. If not, I don’t advise you to give up your day job.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994866
    Avi K
    Participant

    RE,

    1. There is a machloket regarding deriving benefit from mitzvot. Rashi says that they are a yoke. Rashba says that the benefit is in the next world and this is not considered a prohibited enjoyment (e.g. in the case of a neder). Rand was an atheist but she might agree that even a perceived benefit negates it being altruism as the person feels good about what will come to him.

    2. The Malbim says that it is an atonement for them. That is why the word used is חטאת and not חטא.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994709
    Avi K
    Participant

    Ujm, if she wanted to be PC she probably would have.

    RE, you are contradicting yourself. You say that “making others happy makes us feel good spiritually” but that this does not matter. So who cares if it makes us happy. Anyway, that interpretation is a daat yachid and certainly not the peshat. The peshat is that a person who is satisfied with what he has is rich in a psychological sense.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994605
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avira, what is “pure altruism”? Is there impure altruism? For that matter, what is altruism? Auguste Comte defined it as giving without a thought of receiving anything in return. Ayn Rand accepted his definition and thus opposed altruism but added that getting a good feeling is a benefit and therefore giving charity in order to feel good about oneself (and presumably for a mitzvah in the case of a believing Jew, which she was not) is not altruism. Thus, she states that a man should risk his life to save his wife. Rashi, who presumably negates all charity not done for the sake of a mitzva, would probably agree with her but limit egoism to wanting to perform a mitzvah.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994069
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avirah, we have a positive commandment to keep alive gerim toshavim. The Maharatz Chayot, Rav Kook, and Rav Herzog say in accordance with the Ritva that while according to Rambam the bet din does not formally accept them if we know that people keep them we treat them as if they are gerim toshavim. As for mefakeach hagal, the Chatham Sofer says that in our time we do it because otherwise non-Jewish doctors will not treat Jews and there might even be pogroms.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1994070
    Avi K
    Participant

    BTW, Rambam and Ramban healed non-Jews. Ramban also delivered their babies.

    in reply to: Politicizing kashrus #1993766
    Avi K
    Participant

    Ujm, I see that you did teshuva. Yasher koach.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993406
    Avi K
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    Avira, you are way out of date. “Morris” is from a couple of generations ago. Today MO Jews also give their kids Hebrew names. I guess they figured that if other groups can give their kids ethnic names they can too. BTW, Rav Moshe’s letterhead had an English side where his name was given as Moses Feinstein.
    In the case you cited, the person bought the desk on Craig’s List, not at a yard sale, and the CNN article mentioned that he is an Orthodox rabbi.
    In any case, when the recipient sees that the person is wearing a kippa or modest dress he will figure it out. There is also not only the issue of kiddush Hashem but also avoiding a chillul HaShem. If it is discovered some reporter will dig out the fact that he is an Orthodox Jew and trumpet it.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993181
    Avi K
    Participant

    Rav Aryeh Levine gave a donation to the Israeli relief efforts in Biafra. He said, “They too were created in HaShem’s image”.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993180
    Avi K
    Participant

    Lower, don’t tempt me.

    in reply to: Theological question #1993198
    Avi K
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    A big problem is “עננו”. One should be careful to say the first nun without a dagesh. Also one should be careful about the ayin השם נשבע לאבותינו. Pronouncing it נשבה is apikorsut.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1993017
    Avi K
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    Avira,
    1. If they wrote it for generations they intended it for generations. Similarly, there were millions of nevi’im in Tanachic times but most said things that were only for their times. Whether something is applicable in a specific time and place is for the poskim to say.
    2. Everyone knows that the Meiri’s writings were not known in their times. There are also many instances where a pesak is not mentioned because the writer did not see it.
    3. If omission is rejection, why do anti-Zionists keep harping on thee three oaths?
    4. “I do dismiss the psak of people who are incapable of seeing past the egel hazahav of Zionism”. Nu, I dismiss the pesak of those who repeat the sin of the spies.
    5. The Meiri’s pesak is a sevara. If non-Jews act justly we cannot be worse with them. One can just as easily say that those poskim who spoke harshly about non-Jews were influenced by bad relations in their times and places. The Be’er haGola, however, wrote what he wrote (CM 348,5) around the time of the theChmielnitzky massacres. Perhaps he saw them as punishment for these actions. BTW, the Netziv says in his introduction to Sefer Bereisheet that the Avot were called yesharim because that is how they always behaved, even with the lowliest pagans.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992764
    Avi K
    Participant

    Always, someone once said that there are three places: the City, the island, and the rest of the world.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992765
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avirah, so how does Rashi explain Shimon ben Shetach returning a precious stone to an Arab? A Jew should always try to do a kiddush HaShem and not do a chillul HaShem. BTW, the Rema says (CM 259:7) that if there is a dina d’malchuta to return an aveida one must do so (in general, we are not required to treat them better than they treat each other, and according to Roman law, an aveida belonged to the finder – finders keepers, losers weepers). See also Rambam according to Be’er HaGolah CM 266:2 and Mammon Yisrael – Halachos of Others People’s Money by Rav Pinchas Bodner, pg. 153 regarding gentiles who believe in Gd and have the rule of law. See also on this Sheeta Mekubetzet Baba Kama 113a in the name of the Meiri. Both Rav Hirsch and Rav Kook say that the Halacha is like him.

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992595
    Avi K
    Participant

    Avira , I suggest that you read Martin Gilbert’s “In Ishmael’s House”. First of all, the dhimmi laws also involved humiliating subservience. Jews could not build new synagogues and were required to step down and out of the way when passing a Muslim. In Yemen, girls whose fathers died were given to Muslim families (unless they were married – which is why they married so early). There were forced conversions *see “Iggeret haShmad”), blood libels, and massacres from the time of Mohammed’s genocide of Arabian Jewry. Zionism gave the Jews a place to go. It also shut up missionaries who were claiming that the Holocaust proved that they were right all along, c”v (even Rav Soloveichik was accosted on multiple occasions). Most importantly, Zionism re-established the Jewish state. Yes, it has imperfections. So do children and parents. So does a shul. Would you desert them because of their imperfections?

    in reply to: Are you allowed to give Tzeddakah/charity to Non-Jews #1992383
    Avi K
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    Avira, you are guilty of slander. How does Israel not allow people to practice Judaism. What about the violations of freedom of religion in America by the toeva crowd, not to mention the marginalization of those who, unlike you, support Israel (which is also part of Judaism)?
    BTW, the Chesed l’Avraham says that when someone is inappropriate for Eretz Yisrael he must be ejected. However, being that he is still a Jew the land has pity on him and makes him feel that it is to blame.

    in reply to: More Crime #1992381
    Avi K
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    CA, wasn’t Blomberg a Republican?

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