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Real diamonds or gold Jewelry is a complete waste of money. Buy the look-alike.
March 15, 2012 5:06 pm at 5:06 pm in reply to: Why Isn't There A Single Coffee Shop In Boro Park? #860166avhabenParticipantEvery shul in BP has a coffee shop.
And open a coffee shop instead of a computer shop, if you don’t like it.
avhabenParticipantThe point is not to assume that you should celebrate.
avhabenParticipantIt’s called a Shipping AND HANDLING fee. And it is a standard business practice on ticket events.
March 11, 2012 5:44 pm at 5:44 pm in reply to: Sephardim, Marriage, Gittin, and Cherem Rabbeinu Gershom #901464avhabenParticipantIs there original text of the cherem, exactly as written by Rabbeinu Gershom, in any Sefer?
Btw, did the Sephardim not accept any portion of the cherem or they just didn’t accept the ban on polygamy?
And if someone violates one of the cherem’s, is it akin to violating mitzvah d’rabbanan instituted by Chazal (even though in this case it was instituted by a Rishon)?
March 11, 2012 1:17 pm at 1:17 pm in reply to: Sephardim, Marriage, Gittin, and Cherem Rabbeinu Gershom #901462avhabenParticipantSo, can a Sephardi divorce his wife if she burns his dinner, as ikur halacha allows?
avhabenParticipantWhat is the source of that claim regarding the Chasam Sofer? And where is that article?
avhabenParticipantEretz Yisroel.
avhabenParticipantI feel tired when I get drunk.
avhabenParticipantSo, you would make that thunderous HAAHAACCHHOOO in the Oval Office, during your disussions with the President? (Or in shul during the quiet Shemone Esrei, when you will be heard from one end of the large shul to the other.)
avhabenParticipantSam, lemme guess your “prominent Rov” is from YU.
avhabenParticipantSam: On that basis you shouldn’t be talking divrei chol on your cellphone either, just as you wouldn’t be scribbling mathematical calculations in your siddur.
March 9, 2012 5:21 pm at 5:21 pm in reply to: Sephardim, Marriage, Gittin, and Cherem Rabbeinu Gershom #901459avhabenParticipantSam: It seems halacha is explicit that one may forcibly divorce his wife. Like, if she burns your meal. (Prior to the cherem for Ashkenazim and currently for non-Ashkenazim.) What does the Ran say, and are there differing shittos to said Ran?
avhabenParticipantIf you were sitting in the Oval Office talking with the President of the United States, would you ask for a tissue (or take one out of your pocket) and give a thunderous sneeze?
avhabenParticipantAsk yourself what you should do if your husband doesn’t like your very best friend (and her spouse), and apply that answer to yourself.
March 9, 2012 4:05 pm at 4:05 pm in reply to: Sephardim, Marriage, Gittin, and Cherem Rabbeinu Gershom #901455avhabenParticipantSuch a clause seems to just require her consent. Which, unless I am mistaken, was always the default requirement even before the cherem, when even Ashkenazim could have more than one wife. So, with that clause, she could still provide consent. (Whether she does or not is academic to the theory.)
avhabenParticipantThe SA says “Tzivo Chazal shelo yilamad adam es bito Torah, mipnei SHEROV hoanoshim ein daatan michuvonos lhislamed umotzius Divrei Torah ldivrei havai…”
avhabenParticipantRav Elyashev shlita and other poskei hador issued a psak a few years ago assuring using Shabbos elevators.
March 8, 2012 2:56 pm at 2:56 pm in reply to: Memoir called "Unorthodox" and its effect on us #869083avhabenParticipantThis argument is going nowhere. Those who believe the Torah commands us to hate this meshumedes rasha DF, will not be convinced by those who think an abuser is just as bad as her. And those who can’t bring themselves to hate a woman even if the Torah commands us to, will not stop mixing in irrelevant comparisons to abusers.
March 4, 2012 3:19 pm at 3:19 pm in reply to: Collecting Tzedaka during Davening..your opinion? #859090avhabenParticipantWould you rather be the guy who lost his shirt and is a begger or would you rather be the guy who has a dollar to give and gets begged from the guy who needs to buy a shirt.
Schnorrer is a derogatory word. A Jew with a heart will never utter that.
avhabenParticipantThat wasn’t my main point, but yeah, that’s the halacha. Gotta listen to Poppa before sweety for him, but gotta listen to hubby before Momma for her. Don’t know all the parameters how or when it applies, but that’s the default.
March 4, 2012 4:28 am at 4:28 am in reply to: People Who Work On Getting Their Picture in the Frum Paper Centerfolds #857320avhabenParticipantThe rabbis don’t. Many of them hate it. But the paper thinks it sells better if they put in their photos. So they send the photographers to snap away.
avhabenParticipantThe opening statement was proof that you gotta follow your parents command. (Otherwise, why would halacha have to tell you to do what your father wants before what your mother wants, if there’s a conflict.) Cause, otherwise someone might have argued that Kibud Av V’Eim only means “respect”, not adhere.
March 4, 2012 4:08 am at 4:08 am in reply to: People Who Work On Getting Their Picture in the Frum Paper Centerfolds #857318avhabenParticipantWhat kind of Angel? And when were they ever able to get into the paper?
March 4, 2012 3:42 am at 3:42 am in reply to: Problem Being Unable to Consume Much Alcohol – And Can't Get Drunk #866370avhabenParticipantThat cheilek can be whatever you want it to be. Anything written?
March 4, 2012 3:23 am at 3:23 am in reply to: Problem Being Unable to Consume Much Alcohol – And Can't Get Drunk #866368avhabenParticipantIs the halacha about getting drunk on Purim different for a 13 year old than for a 23 year old? Does anyone have a source that the halacha is different based on age?
March 4, 2012 2:35 am at 2:35 am in reply to: Why do some hard to please boys have to go out with a hundred girls? #918902avhabenParticipantCY must’ve agreed with YW to regularly run a CR thread monthly in the mag.
avhabenParticipantMr. Daniel Bomberg himself assigned the specific Daf numbers, starting from “Beis”, on each Daf that we have today?
And why did Mr. Bomberg start from Beis instead of Alef?
Mr. Bomberg understood Hebrew?
avhabenParticipantPeople here listen to Rav Chaim Kanievskly, a strong proponent of kupat.
avhabenParticipantWhy would a different pagination today be any worse than how we read from a Gemorah prior to Bomberg’s innovation?
avhabenParticipantR’ Matisyahu strongly praised both kupat and the vaad.
avhabenParticipantsuch things are pretty rare.
Most patients in a years-long coma die without waking up? You mean it is rare for such a patient to wake up before dying? What is rare?
March 2, 2012 5:46 pm at 5:46 pm in reply to: People Who Work On Getting Their Picture in the Frum Paper Centerfolds #857316avhabenParticipantgavra: Angel? Huh, mah zeh?
avhabenParticipantCan a Mod delete more’s post and the responses to him, so this thread can go back on topic?
avhabenParticipantCan a Mod delete more’s post and the responses to him, so this thread can go back on topic?
avhabenParticipantAbout 7 or 8 years ago, U.S. troops in Iraq found a approx. 900 year old copy of a set of Shas in the flooded basement of an Iraqi police station. It was flooded from the war damage. They eventually brought it to the U.S. to dry and restore. They agreed to return it to the Iraqis once restored, though I don’t know if it was returned.
The story was covered by the U.S. media, including nunerous articles in the N.Y. Times.
March 2, 2012 12:45 am at 12:45 am in reply to: Problem Being Unable to Consume Much Alcohol – And Can't Get Drunk #866353avhabenParticipantAccording to the Rema, you have to drink enough wine that the wine will put you to sleep.
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