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  • in reply to: Breslov Booklet Handouts #864566
    avhaben
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    It works. Hashem doesn’t want a bracha l’vatala (not that it would be), so He fulfils the bracha. We have the same principle of Hashem fulfilling a bracha to avoid a l’vatala elsewhere in Yiddishkeit.

    in reply to: Yeshiva Boys being sent home to collect Bain Hazmanim #864499
    avhaben
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    Very frequently children collect Tzedaka where I am (in shul, at home or on the street), and it gives me the greatest pleasure (and not to mention Mitzvah) to give Tzedakah to these Tinokos Shel Beis Raban for their very worthy causes.

    in reply to: Yeshiva Boys being sent home to collect Bain Hazmanim #864492
    avhaben
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    Tina: If the guys don’t collect it, you are taking away the Mitzvah of giving Tzedaka from so many people who would have given had someone collected and otherwise didn’t give.

    And, there is a humongeous Mitzvah in collecting Tzedaka for the Yeshiva too.

    in reply to: Yeshiva Boys being sent home to collect Bain Hazmanim #864490
    avhaben
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    Collecting Tzedaka for a Yeshiva is a Mitzvah Rabba that should never be given up.

    in reply to: Being Ostentatious #864879
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    A real fancy house.

    in reply to: Multi-Level Marketing #863054
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    zichmich: What if a customer has another third-party Esco (not ConEd). Will they still save by switching to Ambit? (Talking about just being a plain cosumer of their product and nothing to do with joining their selling program.) Or are other esco’s (non-coned) cheaper than Ambit?

    in reply to: Multi-Level Marketing #863050
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    I hope zichmich addresses the points about Ambit asked.

    in reply to: Husband Nullifying Wife's Oath #863877
    avhaben
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    He can nullify it as soon as he finds out that she made the shvua. But he has to do it right away. A father can also nullify his unmarried daughter’s shvua.

    They can do it since she is in his reshus.

    in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059867
    avhaben
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    Because I need to relax. Are you saying they need to wear a too short skirt?

    in reply to: Should Unhealthy Foods Be Legislated Against? #863081
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    Goq: tobacco is pricey precisely because it is excessively taxed!! (Try buying it tax-free on an Indian reservation to see how cheap it is without taxes.)

    in reply to: Should Unhealthy Foods Be Legislated Against? #863079
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    writersoul: You give reasons to illegalize tobacco. But why excessively tax tobacco but not grossly unhealthy food.

    in reply to: Eating With Your Hands #862779
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    Yasher Koach RABBAIM!

    in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059860
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    Can someone please explain the reason why a girl might be struggling to dress tznius?

    in reply to: Home Birth #862952
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    Has anyone asked their LOR about a hospital birth?

    in reply to: Multi-Level Marketing #863034
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    Flatbush Dude: Why? It’s quite popular lately.

    in reply to: Average Shidduch Age in the Frum Community #862410
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    Goq: The male equivelent is an alte bochor.

    in reply to: Should Unhealthy Foods Be Legislated Against? #863076
    avhaben
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    Goq: So is tobacco.

    in reply to: Average Shidduch Age in the Frum Community #862406
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    Uh moderator, poster dd just made a derogatory comment about a godol. How’d that slip in?

    in reply to: Acharon Shel Pesach / Shabbos / Gebroks #863149
    avhaben
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    That’s what they say, Sam. (Many, not all. Some are sincere.) But they are really just trying to save some bucks.

    in reply to: Acharon Shel Pesach / Shabbos / Gebroks #863145
    avhaben
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    Yungerman1 is correct.

    in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059849
    avhaben
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    It has to be a certain amount below the knee, whether it’s 4″, 3″, or 6″ – whatever is needed keep the knee and above covered when sitting or walking or getting in a car. The 4″ is a rule of thumb for most girls that is taught in the vast majority of Litvish and Chasidish Beis Yaakov’s, since it works for for most and you need to give a fixed number or otherwise many people won’t know how much longer it should be.

    in reply to: BMG's Freezer #862856
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    apy: NASI does wish to lower the average age boys get married at. To that end, as AZ alluded to above, they wish to “modify” the freezer.

    in reply to: BMG's Freezer #862852
    avhaben
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    How does NASI want to force the freezer system to change, AZ?

    in reply to: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships #862307
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    She had nothing to say? She should have been raving!

    in reply to: Thank you Project Nasi! #862733
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    AZ: The 70 Rabbonim did not endorse this. They simply agreed that the age gap was an issue. So why are you trying to bowtrow KKH with the implication they have endorsed what they never endorsed, with your false comment of “the Rabbonim and R”Y who put their name to the program see things a bit different than you…”

    The Rabbonim and R”Y did NOT put their name to this new program.

    in reply to: Seder nite on Shabbos #862244
    avhaben
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    I think he said Shalom Aleichem but not Aishes Chayil.

    in reply to: My employer has some openings! #997688
    avhaben
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    How does anyone send you a resume?

    in reply to: Best Weight Loss Diet/Excercise #982293
    avhaben
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    Many gentiles abuse drugs and alcohol, among many other things. Jews don’t suffer so much those ills, but often abuse food instead.

    in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059835
    avhaben
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    Who said otherwise? Unless your point is that halacha shouldn’t be discussed among laymen and no halacha discussions should take place.

    in reply to: Alkaline Water Ionizers (Kangen or IonWays) #864703
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    Get yourself a decent for $100, and save your money from this alkaline ionizer business.

    in reply to: Multi-Level Marketing #863024
    avhaben
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    99 out of 100 are on the losing-end of a MLM business.

    in reply to: How Much Below the Knee Should a Skirt be? #1059832
    avhaben
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    The Chazon Ish’s position is that she needs to cover all the way to the ankles. The tefach is only for hair, and according to Rav Moshe a b’dieved.

    in reply to: Hilarious School Pranks #1229060
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    How do you know that she cried?

    in reply to: Portly Guys #862537
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    cherrybim: Assuming you marry a good cook.

    in reply to: Eating With Your Hands #862765
    avhaben
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    Can anyone imagine Rav Elyashev shlita (gezunt un shtark) stuffing a slice of pizza in his mouth with his hands? A picture of Rav Chaim shlita doing that? The Gerrer Rebbe shlita?

    C’mon, guys. Whatever you think, it is at least a fair question. I’ve had rebbeim advise us to use a knife and fork for pizza.

    in reply to: Fathers interacting/playing with their children #861915
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    About once every two weeks.

    in reply to: Tikun Chatzos #861077
    avhaben
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    What does it say about it?

    in reply to: Dating A Gerrer Guy #861519
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    Calm down everyone and follow your own hanhagos and minhagim and allow others to follow theirs. That a godol disagreed is standard practice. Rabbonim agree and disagree on minhagim and halachas all the time. The Gerrers have Gedolim of their own that established these. Respect that. Especially the folks here that on other threads are running around demanding respect for their own kulos and hashkafa that very many Gedolim were very against.

    in reply to: Tikun Chatzos #861075
    avhaben
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    Considering that Shulchan Aruch says to say Tikun Chatzos, why isn’t everyone (actually almost no one?) saying it (at midnight or at all)?

    in reply to: Chiyuv for Shliach Tzibbur – Order of Precedence #1071037
    avhaben
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    How about making a second or third minyan so everyone can daven for the amud?

    in reply to: Homoepathic & Naturapathic Medicine #860975
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    Anyone know if there are benefits to this super-expensive (multi-thousands $) water filter? Brand name might be Kangen. It is a stand-alone unit that converts tap water for drinking. Supposedly removes pesticides, herbicides, chemicals from tap water. 2.5 pH.

    in reply to: Copying Music #860915
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    DY: Are you saying that Rav Belsky was only matir immedIate family to borrow an original CD?? I believe you can loan your CD (to listen to) to anyone, just as you can loan anyone your Sefer or watch.

    in reply to: Who Invented The Internet? #860618
    avhaben
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    dash: Vint was one of the founding fathers of the internet, but hardly the only.

    in reply to: Who Invented The Internet? #860617
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    OOM: The topic here isn’t the history of packet switching or network topologies. It is the Internet. The ARPANet is the first first forerunner network of today’s internet, regardless of what network technology it utilized. NSFNet is the second forerunner network of the internet. NSFNet internetworked with the existing ARPANet. That’s when it became knowns as the internet. NSFNet had restrictions on commercial use. It was decommisioned in ’95. I’ve been involved with the network since ’91, and know this stuff without Google.

    in reply to: Was William Shakespeare an Anti-Semite? #926951
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    +1 longarekel. You are the only one who gave the correct response and put it as simply as it is.

    in reply to: U-Turns in NYC #860325
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    I usually hear about U-Turn tickets on majot streets.

    in reply to: Tzedakah – How Much To Give? #860684
    avhaben
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    Does anyone else feel a bit uncomfortable asking for change, if you only have a larger denomination than you wish to donate?

    in reply to: Hebrew Transliteration by the Secular and Modern #860377
    avhaben
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    Oi in choilem is a legitimate pronounciation, as there are multiple shittos. It is not a dikduk emphasis issue. The Chasam Sofer pronounced choilem as oi.

    in reply to: Who Invented The Internet? #860613
    avhaben
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    OOM: And who, exactly, do you think could claim being the predecessor, or inventor, of the internet? Specifically. What I wrote above is entirely factual and correct.

    Btw, ArpaNet was build for LD communications and was in fact designed to withstand a nuclear attack.

    TCP/IP — the technology the internet is based on — came about with the NSFNet (that I referenced above) in the ’80’s, which interconnected to the ARPANet, thus making the Internet.

    in reply to: Who Invented The Internet? #860610
    avhaben
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    The United States Military in 1969. Specifically, DARPA. It was originally called ARPANet. Later, in the early 1980’s, the U.S. National Science Foundation joined the network, and it became the Internet. Later in the ’80’s, many U.S. (and later international) universities joined, followed by coroporate entities, followed by ISP’s for the general public in the early ’90’s.

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