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  • in reply to: Never Daven With A Minyan – Why Force Your Chumra On Others? #891687
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    If you’re somewhere where there’s no minyan, there’s no chiyuv to find a minyan.

    in reply to: Rabbonim and Shalom Bayis Problems #892909
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    Specifically what kind of “training” does a marriage therapist receive, that makes him any more qualified to offer marriage therapy?

    The answer is he receives training in goyishe ideas and philosophies as to how a marriage should work.

    Bad idea.

    And if you are to claim that frum marriage therapists are different, my question is how are frum therapists trained differently than goyishe therapists?

    Answer: They are not trained any differently.

    in reply to: Dina D'Malchusa Dina #887782
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    Avi: Look in Shulchan Aruch and Rav Elyashev again. They don’t say what you are saying.

    in reply to: Dina D'Malchusa Dina #887780
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    in reply to: Dina D'Malchusa Dina #887779
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    ?”? ???? ????? ?? ?? ???? ?

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    in reply to: Nusach sefard #1190172
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    The ARIZAL held it 100% muttar, and even PERFERABLE, to daven with this Nusach.

    Go argue with the ARIZAL.

    in reply to: Nusach sefard #1190157
    avhaben
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    Take it up with the ARIZAL.

    in reply to: 1866 Mihalovich, Hungary asifa #877316
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    Gefen: Were you there? (This was in the ’60’s.) 😉

    in reply to: 50,000 Heroes, ????? ?? ???? #877384
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    ZK: Beautiful explanation.

    ZD: Many people were in tears at the stadium. Almost all voluntarily came for the chizuk. Many of those whose Yiddish is weak (or nonexistant) were having their neighbors sitting next to them explain the droshos. Many cancelled their internet the very next day.

    Someone told me he called Verizon Wireless the next day to cancel his internet on his phone. The cancellation representative at Verizon, during their phone conversation, remarked to him “I don’t know what’s going on today; all day we are getting calls from people to cancel their data service!”

    in reply to: Info on the Siyum Hashas of 1968 #994446
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    Such a young whippersnapper? A ’70’S baby?? Nahhhh, you know way too much. Was it the ’50’s?

    in reply to: MUST READ- Real Solutions to the Internet Challenge #922515
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    AZ:

    What was the reason it was decided not to distribute this booklet and to cancel the planned exhibition at 5:00? Who made that decision and what was their concern that caused them to not want it?

    And what other things about the Asifa bothered you?

    in reply to: Info on the Siyum Hashas of 1968 #994444
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    Gefen: The OP was hoping that, perhaps, someone from your generation might have some recollection of the event.

    in reply to: Psak Halacha on Internet Access #878741
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    Jbaldy: Most certainly do have him asked directly. If you are to faithfully report Rav Matisyahu shlita’s reply, it will be they meant EXACTLY what they said b’rabim in front of over 50,000 Yidden.

    Apy: I’ve seen Rav Wosner shlita’s psak posted in shuls all over flatbush, boro park, and elsewhere. In Litvish, Chasidish and Sfardish butei medrashim and shuls everywhere. It is written in loshon kodesh.

    in reply to: Psak Halacha on Internet Access #878733
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    Jbaldy: The speakers at the Asifa said several times the psak is backed up by Rivivos Yisroel and is binding upon Klal Yisroel based upon Rabbeinu Yonah’s Shaarei Teshuva and someone who disregards it loses his Olam Haboa.

    in reply to: Internet Asifah in Flatbush #877575
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    It is just you, since that is just the Jewish antisemites who make that up. The name of the town hasn’t anything to do with St. Mary or any Mary for that matter. It is simply the surname of the family that owned the original land and founded the town.

    in reply to: No More Yeshiva World News :( #876567
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    Oh, please. Name me one shitta you can point to that is more “meikel” than Rav Moshe, on this. (I’m not including MO rabbis.) Mekor? You simply won’t find any.

    (I’m not discussing online discussions, which may be different than Rav Moshe’s teshuva. I’m discussing Rav Moshe’s teshuva itself.)

    in reply to: Unfiltered Internet #876689
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    Everyone recognizes that the ban on television in the Torah community has been, and is, succesful. Sure, you have the odd-man out that still has a TV in his home r’l. But he is the odd-man out. He sticks out. He is a small minority (in the Chareidi community.) Yeshivos filter these families out. And have been doing so for many decades already. Everyone knows TV is very bad.

    You also know it wasn’t always like this. In the 50’s, 60’s and even part of the 70’s it wasn’t uncommon at all to have a TV in a Chareidi home. It didn’t change over night. People thought TV ain’t so bad. The rabbis are overreacting. Yet b’H they persisted. Rabbonim fought television tooth-and-nail. They had rabbinical conferences. There was the famous Kol Koreh signed by rabbonim across the spectrum banning (yes, banning) televisions. Yeshivas cracked down on families with TV’s. Today, b’H, we can say it was a very successful initiative.

    That is where unfiltered internet in frum homes is headed. IY”H it will be almost eradicated. Its defenders will have the same standing in the community as anyone who dared try to give a speech in a Chareidi shul defending having a TV in a Jewish home.

    It is unthinkable.

    in reply to: Unfiltered Internet #876686
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    You still have some people today actually defend having a TV at home or watching movies. So, unfortunately, it isn’t entirely surprising to still see someone defend unfiltered internet. (Despite that unfiltered internet is much much worse than TV or movies.)

    in reply to: Internet Post (NOT Asifa Post, 95) #876537
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    If you get rid of the social usage and applications of Facebook, it absolutely has NO business use for a Yid, whatsoever. Virtually no user member of Facebook would continue using the service without the social aspect.

    in reply to: No More Yeshiva World News :( #876563
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    What on earth does “Even if you want to go as far as R’ Moshe”, mean? Rav Moshe was describing a very pashut halachic fact! (And a d’oraysa, at that.) You make it sound as if Rav Moshe was some kind of extremist machmir in the seperation of the genders!

    in reply to: Yom Yerushalayim #1017934
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    It is the same resshoyim who caused its loss that made this so-called “holiday” to celebrate restoring the access they caused us to lose. It is their holiday. No thanks.

    in reply to: Yom Yerushalayim #1017932
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    The Zionists caused the loss of Jewish access to the Kosel and Yerushalayin from 1948. So there is nothing to celebrate. If they hadn’t caused us to lose access, we would have had access after ’48 just as we did before ’48.

    in reply to: Urgend!!!! Urgend!!!!!!! #875520
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    You can have my citifield asifa ticket for the same $10 I paid for it.

    in reply to: Peyos #874110
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    blackhat: Cause they’re embarassed to leave it in front of their ear.

    in reply to: college- #876498
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    pls respond

    okay

    in reply to: News about Moshiach #874941
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    You’ll hear the Shofar loud and clear.

    in reply to: Let's make YCT teshuvas, by popa #1218270
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    What Orthodox yeshiva uses Lieberman’s Tosefta Kipshuta?

    in reply to: Would you serve in US army if drafted? #875307
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    yitay: Not willingly. They were drafted against their choice. And the responsa has very unkind words for volunteer mercenaries.

    Btw, I make note of your hesitation (“I think”) in stating whether you’d serve if drafted. This is despite that if drafted you legally have no choice. I don’t fault you for hesitating.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874415
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    Sam: That’s a losing argument. If they made that argument they’d have to FULLY AND COMPLETELY accomodate ALL the halachic requirements of their conscripts. No kol isha. Davening b’zmano. 100% kashrus. No shomer negia violations. Sure. They’d far sooner badnChareidim from the army before they’d accomodate them like that. Secondly, we could still argue joining is against halacha on various grounds. Sakanas nefoshos violates halacha. Working on Shabbos is against halacha. And 1000 other things.

    Concientous objections is a 100% legitimate claim. And one recognized by civilized militaries around the world. Hence the Amish, Quakers and others. Even atheists can claim concientous objections.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874412
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    Sam: Are you kidding? They’d deny it by claiming halacha? Then they’d have to first get rid of all the treifos. Halacha. And no more kol isha. Yup. Forget about integrated gender combat. And closing all the buses in every city in Israel (Tel Aviv included) on Shabbos. They’d far sooner ban Chareidim from trying to join the military than start complying with halacha.

    in reply to: Would you serve in US army if drafted? #875291
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    Because evading was impossible for him.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874408
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    Joining the Israeli Army is the quickest ticket to becoming frei. Its reputation is one of a den of immorality.

    in reply to: Would you serve in US army if drafted? #875287
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    Evading the draft isn’t easy. You can’t blame someone for not trying.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874406
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    So many? Stop kidding us, mdd. Chareidim who take an exemption are a small portion of the national total of draft-eligible Israelis. Is the Israeli Army currently falling apart due to a lack of Chareidi inductees? Is the Israeli Army losing wars due to a lack of Chareidi fighters? Nope and nope. They are doing just fine without us. The only reason for the current noise by the chilonim is due to their rabid Torah-hating anger and hatred of anyone with a yarmulka.

    Where is the demand that Arab Israeli citizens serve in the Army? Where?

    in reply to: Would you serve in US army if drafted? #875284
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    Lt. Berenbaum was drafted and had no choice but to join.

    in reply to: Would you serve in US army if drafted? #875280
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    Go to Canada.

    in reply to: Do I need to give a wedding gift? #874190
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    A gift is optional. It isn’t mandatory or expected.

    in reply to: Do I need to give a wedding gift? #874187
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    He was joking.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874403
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    Sam2: I am saying Chareidim are conscientious objectors in the holy land. It is an exemptable cause in all civilized countries. In the US, under US Code of Federal Regulations Title 32, Chapter XVI, Sec. 1630.2, the Selective Service exempts conscientious objectors under Category Class 1-O.

    And mdd and rob, yes, civilized countries DO exempt religious students specifically. In the US that exemption would be Selective Service Category Class 2-D for a religious student and Class 4-D for a someone working in a religious capacity.

    So you have multiple seperate good reasons for an across the board exemption for Chareidim. Much as the Amish and Quakers, virtually across the board, do not serve in the armed forces even during a time of draft and active war.

    in reply to: Do I need to give a wedding gift? #874184
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    To give or not to give?

    in reply to: Major Jewish Music Labels Delaying mp3 Releases #873917
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    42: Shaychos? You can copy it even if there is no mp3 sold – straight off the CD.

    in reply to: Over 70% of Orthodox Jews are Chareidim #1098086
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    Chareidi just means someone who follows the generic default traditional manner of being a frum Jew.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874399
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    Frankly, I am tired of the ENTIRE security burden falling squarely on the shoulders of ONLY the frum, while the chilonim don’t chip in the least. Why is that? Why? Why is the real security protecting Eretz Yisroel — Limud Torah — ALL being done by the frum while the chilonim deadbeats get away with zilch in limud Torah — the real security.

    Until the chiloni deadbeats commit to at least a minimal commitment to intensive fulltime Torah study in Yeshiva for a few years, mandatory for every Israeli citizen, let them all keep quiet about army or national service. No mandatory army service until there is mandatory Torah service for all — the real security.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874397
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    Breslever: Right, who cares what the goyim do. Any Jew who wants to learn Torah instead of Army should be allowed. Torah is more important and provides more protection. Like you said, who cares what the goyim do. And every Israeli should be required to spend 2 years fulltime in a Yeshiva.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874393
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    100% of the Amish and Quakers and other pacifists do not fight at times of war. Nor join the Armed Forces in times of peace.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874390
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    Quakers, Amish and other pacifists also have the right to not serve in the Army in civilized countries. Is Israel civilized that it’ll exempt pacifist from fighting in its wars? Because Chareidim are pacifists.

    in reply to: Discuss the (soon to be expiring) Tal Law Here #874387
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    mdd: Every civilized nation has an exemption for religious students. Including the U.S. and Europe. Obviously the State of Israel is not a civilized nation.

    in reply to: Shliach Tzibbur Whose Not Counting Sefira With a Bracha #872609
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    C’mon, Haifa Woman (fixed grammar and spacing): I can understand your complaints when there’s no punctuation at all or a gross abuse of grammar. But you really go crazy over a minor grammatical issue when the intent of the author is abundantly clear despite the error? On an online board, no less, not an official English composition. The issue is with the complainant, I must regretfully conclude, not with the author.

    in reply to: Camp Yeshiva #872599
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    Camp Yeshiva is the upstate camp of Yeshiva Ch’san Sofer.

    in reply to: How are the Syrians so rich? #872101
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    All I’m asking is HOW and WHERE did the wealth come from. Are they particularly prone to go into business for themselves, more than other frum folks, and thus created this wealth? Did they bring gold and diamonds when they moved from Syria to the U.S.? How did the attain it? (More than others.)

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