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  • in reply to: Jewish Judges on Secular Court #897073
    avhaben
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    There are a number of frum Judges of the bench, and I’ve never heard of them recusing themselves of cases involving Jews. (Which I don’t understand.)

    in reply to: Is there a way to tell if a girl will be a competent wife and mother #896759
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    A good girl is hard to come by, these days.

    in reply to: search! #896131
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    I agree with choc. Use google to search the CR (using the parameters to search only the CR.) It produces more relevant results.

    in reply to: Where were YOU on 9/11 2001 ? #1010016
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    TCG – because the two WTC planes caused the most destruction, by far. (3,000 victims compared to about 100 at the Pentagon and Pennsylvania.)

    in reply to: gedolim biographies #896648
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    Frummy: Behind a great man is a great woman.

    Besalel: There are simly many more (numerically) Ashkenazim.

    in reply to: Gender Segregation in Jewish Cemeteries #896186
    avhaben
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    The oldest beis hakevorim in Europe are seperated like this, too.

    in reply to: Chabad Telethon Tonight #896108
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    Where can you watch this?

    in reply to: gedolim biographies #896644
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    Because the biographies on the great Jewish men also cover the great Jewish women (who are their wives.)

    in reply to: simple question: who decides when to close a thread? #896413
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    It is done inconsistently.

    in reply to: Where were YOU on 9/11 2001 ? #1010006
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    I was walking to vote in the NYC primary election that day, and someone told me outside the public school that a plane hit the WTC. I figured it was an accident and it reminded me of the time a plane hit the Empire State Building many years ago. After voting, on the way home, I saw big clouds of smoke rising from Manhattan. Then I knew it was much bigger.

    in reply to: Dr. Phil, Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, mom from LKWD #901062
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    Mr. Boteach is an expert in making chillul Hashem’s.

    in reply to: Yakov Gourin TWIN FROM FRANCE MISSING #892387
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    It was no prank at all.

    in reply to: Are you a Zionist? #893369
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    The baalei teshuva become as such despite the medina, not because of it.

    in reply to: Rabbonim and Shalom Bayis Problems #892958
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    That’s a good thing.

    avhaben
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    gavra: Why is kol isha ever assur? Answer that and you have your answer.

    in reply to: Limo for after Wedding #892551
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    Romance is a goyishe concept.

    in reply to: Time to make Aliyah and create a holy State of Israe #892397
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    Sam: The gemorah wasn’t violating bal tosif when it mentioned that issur.

    in reply to: Time to make Aliyah and create a holy State of Israe #892390
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    A Jewish State before Moshiach is forbidden according to Torah Law.

    avhaben
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    That was this letter. He minimized his participation by saying he didn’t support the Zionist position at all.

    in reply to: Techeiles 🔵❎🐌☑️🐟 #1057738
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    I sincerely doubt he said it in the context quoted. At minimum he was quoted grossly out of context.

    in reply to: Shlomo Carelbach #895730
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    ROB: Please don’t wait for “another time” to explain his “good reasons” for kissing strange girls. And while you’re explaining that, please also address the nonconsensual issues.

    in reply to: Rabbonim and Shalom Bayis Problems #892950
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    That’s why we need many many Yeshivaleit and Kollelleit, so that we shouldn’t lose that one needle in the haystack who will be the next godol hador.

    in reply to: Rabbonim and Shalom Bayis Problems #892948
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    Bring up Yeshivaleit to be the next generations of Rav Pam’s.

    in reply to: paying interest to banks & ribbis? #892306
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    The secular legal definition and the halachic definition of ownership are not necessarily the same.

    in reply to: Rabbonim and Shalom Bayis Problems #892945
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    You too easily discount damage caused by therapists.

    in reply to: Rabbonim and Shalom Bayis Problems #892942
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    “Little I Know”: A few questions.

    1) What makes you believe the tactics marriage therapists or counselors are trained on and practice are actually effective and helpful rather than ineffective or even unhelpful and counterproductive?

    2) What makes you believe rabbonim are not helpful?

    If it is based upon the “stories” your therapist friends told you (or anecdotal stories), of course that is their opinion of their field. And their negative opinion of rabbonim. Yet if you spoke to rabbonim instead of your friends, they may tell you how therapists inflicted more damage than help, and how the rabbonim are busy fixing up what the therapists ruined.

    in reply to: Chasuna Pictures Messed Up #892671
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    How much does a team of wedding photographers (and videographers) costs these days?

    in reply to: Chasuna Pictures Messed Up #892662
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    Many very frum people don’t hire a videographer, anyways, as a matter of principle.

    in reply to: Why do they need Chareidi support for war with Iran? #892326
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    All they’re doing is shoring up political support from wherever they can find it. If they could convince the Israeli Arabs to support them by asking shailos to their Mullahs, they’d do that too.

    in reply to: Yakov Gourin TWIN FROM FRANCE MISSING #892383
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    Who needs more details. B”H he is fine, that’s all that matters and that’s all we care. Any further details is a wrong invasion of his privacy.

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892844
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    Natfush: Don’t stand your ground on technical dictionary terms. Popa’s correctly noted the idea of greeting someone is to be friendly. And he is correct about the propriety (or, rather, lack thereof) of such friendliness.

    in reply to: Chasuna Pictures Messed Up #892659
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    Bad pictures doesn’t constiture a ruined wedding.

    in reply to: Disinheriting an OTD Child #893442
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    Well, Eisev remained a rasha.

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892819
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    Wolf: I am responding to Sam’s incorrect implication that halacha allows casual talking with women or girls.

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892817
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    Sam: Really? Halacha doesn’t prohibit chit-chatting with girls?

    in reply to: Disinheriting an OTD Child #893439
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    A parent could have parented one child well while parenting another child bad. So the fact one sibling is good and one bad, doesn’t disprove that the bad one received bad parenting.

    in reply to: Punishment for Adulteress #892213
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    Walton: It depends. If it was with a nidda or goy, I think it is lashes. If it was with an eishes ish, then misa (if hasara and eidim.) If with a non-nida, then afaik nothing.

    Scooter: Sure she’s punished if with a goy, just its a machlokes whether its misa or not. Certainly she loses her kesuba and must be divorced.

    akuperma: IIRC, the gemora cites actual cases it occurred.

    in reply to: Punishment for Adulteress #892207
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    A Kohen’s daughter who is guilty of this is burnt rather than strangulated. Reason being that she embarassed her father with her sin, since people will say he didn’t teach her right as a child. So the idea of the father bearing some fault seems to be accurate.

    in reply to: Chasuna Pictures Messed Up #892655
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    I read a story of a (non-Jewish) wedding at some vacation-spot hotel, where the hotel supplied the photographer, and lost all the images before printing any. So the couple were left with no photographs. (And sued the hotel for tens of thousands of dollars.)

    I also know someone close (frum) who hired a photographer that was also supposed to do the video. But the video guy booked the wrong date, so there was no video. (But the photography was good.)

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892813
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    Wolf: Taking the liberty of speaking on behalf of many, we don’t appreciate your ill-humored leitzanus in trying to be dismissive of halachos.

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892808
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    You certainly cannot ever stam shmooze with women (or girls) not your immediate family.

    in reply to: Toenail Fungus #891955
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    Sam, so why build women mikvas? They can use their shower at home.

    in reply to: Toenail Fungus #891952
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    LOL, good joke. How do you fully immerse yourself in shower waters all at once.

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892790
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    Doesn’t Shulchan Aruch pasken that a male is prohibited from even indirectly sending a greeting to a woman through her husband (!!), let alone greeting her directly.

    in reply to: Chinuch in public-What Do You Think? #891861
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    The Torah itself says to hit and Shulchan Aruch paskens to.

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892789
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    greg: People long before they’re dating and even long after they’re married are, often, also guilty of having less than platonic conversations or greetings, all the while being in self-denial about it.

    in reply to: YUMMY GEFEN #1030211
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    gefen: Turn yummy in to your local truance officer.

    in reply to: Rabbonim and Shalom Bayis Problems #892918
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    I asked, and no one can answer, specifically what are marriage therapists “trained” on? What field of medicine? How is that medicine better equipped to resolve the quarreling of two individuals? How is quarreling a matter of medicine as opposed to, say, human interaction as G-d wishes human beings to interact with each other — that, presumably, a man of G-d would be best equipped to address. How is it a matter of medicine? And what kind of “medicine”, exactly? How does said medicine resolve the quarreling?

    And how does the therapists “training” equip him to resolve marital disputes? What, precisely, was he “trained”, that qualifies him to resolve disputes between two parties?

    in reply to: saying good shabbos to girls (men) #892759
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    That’s really weird, p17.

    in reply to: Streaming hypocrisy #891696
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    You can copy and save a stream.

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