Only Hashem can answer you that question, you have to go thru several שידוכים until the final one comes, the minimum השתדלות is required but the rest you have to leave on Hashem.
קשה זיוויגו של אדם כקריאת ים סוף
just read the ruling saying that he can not discriminate against religious service in any case so he will have to shutdown most secular activities in order to do it with Synagogue’s, and he will most likely never do it