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  • in reply to: Shiva question #1150824
    apushatayid
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    then shiva starts after yom tov. im also pretty sure I wrote that yom tov stops shiva if the shiva started prior to yom tov. in this case it didnt. I am uncertain if yom tov sheini shel galus is counted as 1st day of shiva or if isru chag counts as day 1.

    in reply to: What if I don't want to buy back the chometz from the goy? #1150361
    apushatayid
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    Assuming you said kul chamira, perhaps the unknown cookie is hefker and not sold, in which case you can burn it.

    in reply to: Shiva question #1150821
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    Im pretty sure Yom Tov stops shiva only if it began prior to yom tov. If someone passes away and is buried on yom tov or chol hamoed, shiva doesnt start until after yom tov (I think in chutz laaretz the “second day” counts as day 1 of shiva, but not 100% certain.

    in reply to: What if I don't want to buy back the chometz from the goy? #1150359
    apushatayid
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    Joseph,

    Get the specifics of the contract between your Shliach to sell the chametz and the person he sold it to and share that info with us. Perhaps those familiar with choshen mishpat and lihavdil secular contract law will be able to guide you. Until then, take it back, and if you dont want it, put it out with the trash, or donate it to Masbia.

    in reply to: women wearing sweaters meant for men #1151579
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    A woman can dress as a very tzniusdik man and vice versa. Are you suggesting it’s permitted?

    in reply to: What if I don't want to buy back the chometz from the goy? #1150352
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    You don’t have much of a choice. You appointed the Rav your shliach to conduct the transaction for you and unless you stop his shlichus whatever the Rav does you will have to live with. Unless of course you don’t appoint a shliach in which case I wish you happy negotiating. The way it was explained to me, specific terms of the sale are not finalized before Yom Tov only the framework of the sale.

    in reply to: women wearing sweaters meant for men #1151577
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    (i’m obviously speaking of something not obvious that it is for men, not like shirts which have buttons on the other side…)

    which side? ever see the buttons on the clothing of some chassidiehe men?

    in reply to: Can't Eat By In-Laws Who Eat Gebrochts on Pesach #1149966
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    “we should all be buying only Empire/OU chicken”

    I was told that the OU brought in the Nirbater Rav Shlita to be in charge of the kashrus on poultry.

    in reply to: Can't Eat By In-Laws Who Eat Gebrochts on Pesach #1149943
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    “You have not convinced anyone that keeping gebrokts imposes a hardship on anyone else (because it doesn’t).”

    Hardship is a loose term here. For some people bending just a little bit is very difficult, and for others twisting themselves like a pretzel is no big deal.

    in reply to: Rav Moshe Feinstein-Chalav Stam Story #1149384
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    They don’t drink. Pugs have been on the wagon for over a decade now.

    in reply to: Chasidim, comment what Chassidus or Rebbe you follow down below #1148418
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    I’m a chasid of Rav Yosef Karo Z’l. I try to follow all his rulings.

    in reply to: Kitchen appliances can't take the Pesach stress. #1147893
    apushatayid
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    make sure your mixer has the motor (look at rpm) to handle the batters you want to mix.

    in reply to: What should I was if I'm becoming orthodox #1149073
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    find an Orthodox Rabbi to guide you.

    apushatayid
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    “But would you feel bad ex post facto that you in fact ate chazir? Would you ask Hashem for mechila?”

    I would feel bad, but not embarrassed. I’m not sure if there is a mechila to ask in this situation. If the klal did an aveira based on the psak of the sanhedrin what was proper procedure, who brought a chattas? What did everyone else do? If your hypothetical situation ever became a reality, I would ask my Rav what to do.

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    “I have already addressed that point as did Joseph.”

    Correct, as did I. I still maintain that nobody needs to be embarrassed for following the accepted halacha. There is no reason to rehash the question in 10 different ways (not that you did).

    apushatayid
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    No matter what word you use, exposed, revealed, publicized why should anyone be embarrassed for following the halacha?

    apushatayid
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    why would anyone be embarrassed if they got their aliya according to accepted accepted halachic principles. Lo bashamayim hi.

    in reply to: Do rebbes go to college?/Yeshivish job options? #1160326
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    “There is no reason Artscroll or CIS cannot get someone like Herman Wouk to write for them”

    Of course there is. They wont sell any books priced at $69.95 which is what they would have to charge to recoup any advance they would have to give someone of that stature given the relative small size of the target market relative to the general public.

    in reply to: Asia #1150874
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    Nah Trang Vietnam. Home to US Air force base during Vietnam war.

    in reply to: Sleeping in Sukkah #1145804
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    only if you serve latkes

    in reply to: Do I greet with a Gut Shabbos or a Gut Voch? #1145856
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    People complain that in Brooklyn nobody says good shabbos to anyone. You see, they adopted this policy to avoid any shaylos such as the one raised by Joseph. If you ignore everyone the entire shabbos, then there is no question what to wish someone at any time and you avoid the machlokes haposkim that was presented here.

    in reply to: Is Zionism the Yetzer Hora? #1148559
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    Apple strudel could be a yetzer hara.

    in reply to: Dennis Prager #1145168
    apushatayid
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    Or perhaps I wrote it.

    in reply to: Dennis Prager #1145166
    apushatayid
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    Thats the anonymous internet for you. Maybe it is, maybe it isnt. Maybe I am Dennis Prager, perhaps I’m Dennis the Menace. Perhaps I’m neither, and all I am is just another simple jew.

    in reply to: Hobbies for men #1147211
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    Flyfishing

    in reply to: how to sign a kesuva #1145112
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    Ploni ben Ploni Ed. The word Ed is usually pre filled on a store bought kesuba.

    in reply to: What Did He Gain? #1145541
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    Yes, it IS a mitzvah to rebuke. A times though it is a mitzvah to keep ones mouth shut. The details are in knowing when which course of action is appropriate.

    in reply to: Pesach for the First Time #1149698
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    You are hosting people for the entire chag, a meal or 2?

    How much help can you expect from the adults you are hosting before yom tov and on yom tov itself?

    in reply to: Why do they teach girls to sound like Harrys? #1144999
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    Is it a kvi, Kevi, Koy or Kow?

    in reply to: Grape juice #1144833
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    “Will be trying it out for the arba kosos on Pesach, be’ezras Hashem.”

    I would try it out beforehand, just in case.

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144689
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    One can stuff themselves with basar viyayin under the guise of “simchas yom tov” when all their self indulgence is, in the words of the ramban, menuval birishus hatorah.

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144687
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    Basar Viyayin yes. One can, to quote the Ramban, be a menuval birishus hatorah.

    in reply to: Is it possible to exist as a frum man if you are not a #1144847
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    “So was wondering if it is possible to do something else.”

    Of course it is. I know frum postal clerks, a frum mailman, several frum police officers, a frum firefighter a frum conductor for the NYC subway system, a frum engineer for NJ Transit.

    “those who do other things (driving trucks, etc…).”

    As Jackie Mason once said, he doesnt drive the truck, he just controls it, he works as a controller in the trucking industry.

    in reply to: Grape juice #1144812
    apushatayid
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    Dont forget Natures Own.

    in reply to: What Did He Gain? #1145450
    apushatayid
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    What did he gain?

    Wherever he now, he is probably further along than he would have been before sliding back.

    in reply to: jury duty or "just following orders" #1145317
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    When I was called for jury duty and was empaneled for a civil case I told the lawyers who were asking the questions to find a jury , “I would vote however it was necessary to finish the case as quickly as possible”. That got me dismissed from the case pretty quickly.

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144668
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    As a mashgiach in a pesach hotel for 3 years, MAs assessment is right on target. My “favorite” memory of those years is the almost lynching of one of the other mashgichim who delayed the opening of the tea room by 10 minutes because of a kashrus concern. This is less than 30 minutes after birchas hamazon of a 4 course meal with 3 options at each course, which followed on the heels of a kiddush after davening that rivaled the seudas achashveirosh.

    in reply to: Exaggerated Pesach #1144656
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    “its because Peseach has become too hard to make at home for many”

    My in-laws go away to a hotel because it is too hard for them to properly clean the house the way their children and grandchildren expect it to be cleaned (ZD calls it OCD – I call it stupidity). They cant move the furniture, climb to the very top of the book cases or reach the top level of the chandelier (all of which has become a de facto requirement these days because of – I dont know, but it cant be love of the mitzvah with all the complaining that goes on about it!), so, they pack up and go to a hotel. This way, their grandchildren wont think of them as lax in their observance (sad).

    in reply to: The Geography Club #1145734
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    Uyo, Nigeria. Capital of the major oil producing state in Nigeria.

    in reply to: coffee side effects #1195663
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    Don’t have the coffee on an empty stomachs. I know it’s easier said than done especially if you enjoy your coffee during your Seder before shachris.

    in reply to: CHEAP wedding singer in Brooklyn- need help asap! #1144624
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    Hire me. $200 for the night. You wont know what I am singing, but I am cheap.

    in reply to: Shuckling #1143846
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    One thing that drives me crazy are those who pace back and forth while davening.

    in reply to: Geography Updated Version #1144305
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    Accord, NY. Home of nothing really. About 10 miles west on Rt. 209 past Ellenville.

    in reply to: Distressed in Brooklyn #1144123
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    Mdd. Thanks for twisting my words. If getting drunk is your thing go for it.

    in reply to: Distressed in Brooklyn #1144110
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    Getting drunk on Purim is a mitzva dirabbanan according to some shittos. Viahavta lireacha kamocha is an asay dioraisa according to all. Slandering a seminary is an issur dioraisa too. I guess the mitzvah and chiyuv of getting drunk is so chasuv in his eyes that he feels it is permitted to set aside an asay and also violate a lav to fulfill it.

    in reply to: Last day to eat matza? #1144367
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    Matza. A 3 cornered flatbread eaten by jews everywhere on Purim.

    in reply to: Last day to eat matza? #1144360
    apushatayid
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    say what? and why??

    in reply to: Special Day for Tefilla�Ta'anis Esther or Purim? #1143529
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    We fast taanis esther to remind us that when we are in an es tzara, tzom and tefilla are the way to go (see the mishna berura in hilchos megilla – din taanis esther – I forget the siman and sif). So, if it is still taanis esther in your part of the world, daven well today and again tomorrow on purim.

    in reply to: Last day to eat matza? #1144358
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    Im sure thats atypo and she meant, she isnt fond of matzah.

    in reply to: Last day to eat matza? #1144355
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    Orchos Chaim Spinka hardly qualifies as “some poskim”.

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