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  • in reply to: Very Important Public Service Announcement for all posters #1228774
    apushatayid
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    here is my take. if an anonymous writer, who may or may not even be who they claim they are responds to a person who may or may not be serious and who may or may not be who they claim they are, hurts your feelings, then perhaps this is not a forum for you.

    in reply to: Male hangers vs female hangers #1228508
    apushatayid
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    “there is even a “Jewish way” to bathe oneself.”

    Its called soap and shampoo. Just make sure to use the gender appropriate soap and shampoo.

    in reply to: who is "The Gadol Haddar" of America #1228555
    apushatayid
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    Sure. It has a mesorah of following rabbonim.

    in reply to: who is "The Gadol Haddar" of America #1228553
    apushatayid
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    as far as the gadol haddar, you could probably ask them [email protected]

    in reply to: who is "The Gadol Haddar" of America #1228552
    apushatayid
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    If that question is aimed towards me….

    I dont have access to “his rebbe”. I have access to my Rav, therefore I ask him. I also do not see the need to ask his Rebbe because I know that if my Rav needs clarification he goes to his Rebbe for it. In fact, a number of times when we needed practical guidance, he told us he consulted with his Rebbe for clarity. I know he has a mesorah, and I am comfortable asking him my questions.

    in reply to: who is "The Gadol Haddar" of America #1228550
    apushatayid
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    Joseph and shebbo. you guys are way to literal.

    I have a Rav. so does he. so does his rav. its called a mesorah.

    its a shame some people are too caught up in who is bigger, or noisier, or flashier (not you, but the fact that this is a topic of discussion to begin with…) or more prestigious.

    in reply to: who is "The Gadol Haddar" of America #1228547
    apushatayid
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    The mechaber, the rma, the mishna berura and my shul rav who guides me based on their words according to the understanding he has from his rabbeim.

    in reply to: What age to start smoking #1222888
    apushatayid
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    I think this is why some gedolim stopped smoking. In those 9 steps they could have finished several blatt gemara, the bittul torah involved with smoking just isnt worth it. It may not be as healthy, but prepackaged saves lots of time.

    in reply to: Halacha: no chametz or sell chametz? #1225828
    apushatayid
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    You have a Rav?

    in reply to: What age to start smoking #1222877
    apushatayid
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    40-50 days after the “kill date” is the best time to smoke meats.

    in reply to: Bachurim/yungeleit wearing sweaters #1222196
    apushatayid
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    sweaters in 90 degrees is a bad idea.

    in reply to: Coming to shul without a jacket for davening Shachris #1219718
    apushatayid
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    Looser shirt?

    in reply to: Coming to shul without a jacket for davening Shachris #1219713
    apushatayid
    Participant

    Google – “The Tefillin Jacket”

    in reply to: Coming to shul without a jacket for davening Shachris #1219711
    apushatayid
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    “It’s very wrong. One wouldn’t come to a formal invitation to visit the Oval Office or Buckingham Palace without a jacket.”

    correct, proper Oval Office decorum calls for a coffee stained untucked shirt, scuffed shoes, a hat that has sees way better days, perched at the back of the head with the brim up and a jacket worn hanging over the shoulders.

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212448
    apushatayid
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    Who cares who gave this “heter”, or if the Kushners even asked a shaila. Unless you are their Rav, or, have a legitimate interest in their shmiras hamitzvos in general or their shmiras shabbos in particular, of what concern is this to you. Is anyone concerned with the heter for the manner in which Mrs. Kushner dresses? Did anyone question the kashrus of the supposedly kosher food served, or who certified it as kosher? Remember, we are discussing a “pretty observant” family, here.

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212435
    apushatayid
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    Why does anything this family does religiously surprise anyone, one way or the other.

    in reply to: Driving on Shabbos #1212342
    apushatayid
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    If, perhaps, maybe, who knows. Exactly. It makes for nice gossip. Until we know who asked, what was asked, and who answered what they answered and when the answer is applicable, is all speculation, at best.

    in reply to: Rules for Davening #1206926
    apushatayid
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    “it is plain that chazaras hashatz is the main event, and one’s attention should be absolute. Letzareinu, this is not commonly uderstood,”

    Sadly it has become a time for learning.

    in reply to: OU #1198798
    apushatayid
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    “They rely on the OU when a particular product meets their own standards as well.”

    in some circumstances they rely on the OU as far as the ingredients aree concerned, but supervise special runs to ensure other criteria such as bishul yisrael are met (where the OU doesnt require bishul yisroel).

    in reply to: Negel vasser on an airplane #1212720
    apushatayid
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    “Hope you don’t sleep for half an hour in kollel.”

    I hope the Rav doesnt speak for half an hour!

    in reply to: friend benchs #1198760
    apushatayid
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    I think it is a cop out so the supervising teacher(s) dont have to get involved and teach proper behavior.

    in reply to: OU #1198793
    apushatayid
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    One advantage of the OU, over many other certifying agencies is that they are an open book. Their policies and guidelines are not secrets and if you ask, they will be happy to answer.

    in reply to: OU #1198792
    apushatayid
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    “I’ve heard from certain Chareidi individuals that they are not happy with hashgachos that certify non-cholov Yisroel products.”

    Others are not happy with hashgachos that support “zionism” and others due to infighting among various communities and groups. Kashrus is a big business, or as some say, there is too much Kash in Kashrus.

    in reply to: It is so wrong to park your car in midair. #1198751
    apushatayid
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    In some places, like boro park (there is a petition to officially change the name to double park) it is the only place to leave your car.

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199566
    apushatayid
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    If the mythical son will finish shas, at least he is a winner.

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199562
    apushatayid
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    If someone didnt want publicity, they wouldnt put it up on ebay where it is sure to be talked about.

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199561
    apushatayid
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    So, what is the result of the bidding? More importantly, when is he going to finish shas?

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199551
    apushatayid
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    IF. I don’t believe it will.

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199550
    apushatayid
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    I’ll believe it when I see pictures of the Mesayim, his father and the winning bidder in the photos section of YWN.

    in reply to: abuse #1200712
    apushatayid
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    Get the rebbes version of the events.

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199525
    apushatayid
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    This auction will not complete. The “seller” has mistaken Kislev for Adar.

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199520
    apushatayid
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    “the guy posting it is a long time eBay member with 100% positive feedback and unlikely to be playing any games”

    As a buyer, not a seller.

    “Plus the bidder on the auction is also a member with a 100% history”

    Yes, 100% of this users bids, have been with this seller, for this item.

    “and so while it’s easy to throw around anonymous comments on this thread”

    It is just as easy to be anonymopus on ebay when you are not actually buying anything.

    “it’s something else entirely to bid $9,700.”

    not when you know you have zero to lose when you are the seller and bidder, or are in cahoots with the seller and you know you are not on the hook for 97 cents, let alone 9700 dollars.

    “That’s putting one’s money where one’s mouth is – or in my opinion smart money.”

    Or, in my opinion, a great practical joke.

    in reply to: lounge in queens #1198721
    apushatayid
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    the brooklyn strategist. less than 20 minutes from queens in downtown brooklyn on court street.

    in reply to: Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy…. #1199493
    apushatayid
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    How gullible can some people be?

    in reply to: lounge in queens #1198717
    apushatayid
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    court street in downtown brooklyn (plenty of street parking) the brooklyn strategist.

    in reply to: Is the right to bear arms all about guns? #1197095
    apushatayid
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    “Is the right to bear arms all about guns?”

    silly me, I thought it was about tznius.

    in reply to: tznius #1205713
    apushatayid
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    Are you wearing gloves?

    in reply to: Christmas Presents to Give on Chanukah #1200647
    apushatayid
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    You call it lateness, I call it persistence.

    in reply to: Christmas Presents to Give on Chanukah #1200645
    apushatayid
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    I asked YWN for an “ignore certain user” feature, hopefully they will come through.

    in reply to: The Death of the "Normal" Minyan #1196456
    apushatayid
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    I’m not as concerned with the “speed” pf the davening as I am, what the members of the tzibur are doing doing the time they spend in shul. It bothers me when most of the minyav “davens” out of a gemara, or some other sefer. Is that tefilla bitzibur?

    in reply to: what if i think my bashert might not be what im looking for? #1192173
    apushatayid
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    And why isnt he looking for you?

    in reply to: Converting to Judaism, how do I explain to family about Xmas? #1193155
    apushatayid
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    Taking nice sayings and misunderstanding them can be quite problematic. If your parents paid homage once a year to Adolph Hitler Y’S, would you be obligated to do so as well? The same way you have someone guiding you along your path to Orthodox Judaism, it is important you keep in touch with and consult with this person at all times so that you do not take erroneous leaps because you read something on a website.

    As for the holiday celebrated on December 25th. Looking honestly and objectively at the holiday, what part could a believing Jew take part in?

    Now, as to the origins of this holiday, read what some historians have to say.

    in reply to: Today Americans Can Thank… #1190644
    apushatayid
    Participant

    ….the Ribbono Shel Olam. For everything.

    in reply to: "Not to be taken literally" #1191582
    apushatayid
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    Flatbusher, why does the torah write “let US make man”, it doesnt mean hashem had a partner, c’v, despite that being the simple meaning.

    in reply to: balabatish shoes #1189269
    apushatayid
    Participant

    ask the balabusta, im sure she will have an opinion.

    in reply to: "Not to be taken literally" #1191566
    apushatayid
    Participant

    Yes, but people like me and you dont change the girsa.

    If you have a gemara that your Rebbe tells you not to understand literally, and he explains it to you and it makes sense, what is the problem? If it doesnt make sense, go back and ask him to explain it again. If you want another explanation of the gemara, pull out an Ein Yackov and see how the meforshim explain it, pull our a Ben Yehoyada. Get one of the Hamesivta or these other gemaras that include everything but the kitchen sink in the gemara and look to see what others say about the gemara. Is not that difficult.

    in reply to: "Not to be taken literally" #1191562
    apushatayid
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    Flatbusher. You articulated perfectly why someone needs a Rebbe.

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tish #1188907
    apushatayid
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    “They clearly remain edible since the Chassidim eat them.”

    Are you certain that “since chassidim eat them” is the halachic guideline to determine if something is ruined. A starving person would eat nuts that fell onto a muddy floor yet it is not permitted to throw nuts, in their shells onto muddy floors (see siman daled).

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tish #1188905
    apushatayid
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    “Gosh, can someone please tell me where it says it’s assur to throw food?”

    See Orach Chaim siman Kuf Ayin Alef sif alef and the achronim for the guidelines.

    in reply to: Apple Throwing Tish #1188899
    apushatayid
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    Please clarify “holy apple orchards” and its connection to the end of sukkos.

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