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thank you all for being so nice about this! (sammy16- pretty funny actually thnx) saysme- i was worried about responses from people,thats why i waited so long to ask advice and yes unfortuatnly its more then once in a while things like this happend. the real problem is i have already talked to her in a calm setting when we where both unemotional, and it continues to happen, she admitted to hitting me other times as easy as saying it like nothing wrong,im at a loss,i know things happen and i know people have it so much worse,but i just get really hurt by these things. through out my years friends have always said they look forward to shabbos as a break from the week i always thought they where joking,cause in my house i dread it cause it means more yelling at me and somethimes things being throne,i said something ot my brother about shabbos and said he always felt the same way about dreading it…
aproudbygParticipantlotr is a great series and so is the prequel! but eragon does have to win against HP just for the fact that each book and page really holds the readers interest while HP does have some really boring books let alone pages,i could barely get through 1 and 2!
aproudbygParticipant2014 here we come!!!
aproudbygParticipanti suggest try maarava, worst come to worst u wont get in, but it is a great camp 🙂
aproudbygParticipantit sounds interesting! I tried looking it up before(google) but i couldent find it!
aproudbygParticipantyw fan – i actually did tell people to vote for her!!!!!!! and yes i am proud of who i am 🙂
aproudbygParticipantMine is fluffy!!!!!!! It doesnt get better then a three headed dog!!
aproudbygParticipantMy cousin told me they are opening a yeshiva in mineapolis this next year ( is that how you spell it)? I believe it is supposed to be a out and in town yeshiva and they are really trying to get kids, but they dont have so many! It sounds like they would really be welcome to accepting anybody, who would apply1 I hope this helped!!! good luck
aproudbygParticipanti voted for her! If you see her tell her that the yw cr thinks she is a great artist! 🙂
aproudbygParticipantmr. awsum- u r a girl? then why is ur name mr??? and thnx i know i love my brother and taht he knows that! i hope they go come back soon! I’YH with only bracha and mazal, very soon!!!
aproudbygParticipantezrat- you are so right about questions hurting!
aproudbygParticipantnitpicker- thank you so much! yes i know what i said and i believe in it( thats why i wrote it) but it is nice to hear it from someone else for a chnage!! thanks
bladiblah- i did google it, it seems its geared more towards parents to help with kids then anything else, thanks though!
aproudbygParticipanthockoftherock- I believe you are actually looking at it at the wrong angle! I am speaking for mysled here i dont know about sternberger but i know one of the smaller reasons i miss camp so much is because i have problems here at home! I miss camp because i get to be me a new chance with diffrent people! If someone misses a camp so much it means it is great for them because they dont despise it and go aroung bad mouthing it, blaming their problems on it!!
aproudbygParticipantthank you, i know i am giving up as i said i will just go at it alone! one of my mentors was a kollel couple! I know you thnk i am making this up, and that ok, i my situation , i will stop trying to contat them dont worry , i have been at this my self this far i will just finish it that way. It can tbe impossible i am sure others have done it also so thank you!
aproudbygParticipanti feel for you!!! i am going to a camp for my 5 year i”yh!! i find myself already thinking what i will be packing! heres what i do when i get really really camp sick and cant stop thinking about it
I sit down and say i will only call a friend from camp after all my homework is done, then i really feel a need to do what is needed, then i get to call a friend with wish we remember camp and i dont feel so bad anymore until about a week later lol! then again! good luck:)
aproudbygParticipantthank you, i am starting to think twice about it actaully, i think my best option is just to keep it to myself, i dont really have any other choice! i think i new it all along but i didnt want to believe it. thanks everyone, i hope i will come at ok from this, there is alot going on with me right now, but i know i will pass it all eventually.
i know evryone thinks it is really easy to find someone to talk to, but it isnt, i talked about in a diffrent thread, i just dont think i can go through the chance of being left behind again from someone i admire and trust! I tried and was let down, now i have only myself and ‘H to trust in and i guess that will have to do! thank you all again!
aproudbygParticipantwho do i ask and how?
aproudbygParticipantmorahmom- actually i live in a very small community, and here it is actaully not common at all! there are some families here that arent frum, but we are the only ne tha is frum with kid otd! I know it is common , but not here so i want help to with it. If there where others it wouldnt be a problem cause i would have people that would understand, but there isnt so i dont! and it is hard going through high shcool this way(like it wouldnt be hard enough with out this!)
aproudbygParticipantThank you for caring, i truely am carful, i have a junk email i am planning on using! and about finding someoen to talk to, on another thread i was actaully talking about how cant find a mentor, and how i have tried, but they dumped me… anyway, thank you so much for caring, but i feel that this is what i want to do, so if you can atleast tell me how to do the email thing that would be great!
I DO KNOW THERE ARE WEIRDOS , BUT FOR THIS AREA IN MY LIFE , TO ME IT IS IMPORTANT TO FIX MY PROBLEM AND I WOULD BE GLAD IF YOU WOULD HELP!!!!
aproudbygParticipantI know why you are concerned , but you should really be more worried what will happen if i dont get the email! The way my class/ school treats me now i am not sure if i will be able to stay in the school much longer!
aproudbygParticipantWell, I would like to at least try, so can you tell me how?? it is really important!!!
aproudbygParticipantI actually this will sound bad, but I am not sure. I have another topic about siblings being otd , and they posted how they also went throught it , and wouldnt mind helping me deal with it! It is just a very difficult time for me, and i really would appreciate any advice, especially from someone that is willing to give it!
aproudbygParticipantnotaposter- Thank you so much! it is nice to know that there are people who understand my situation! I would love to talk to you through email instead of postign on here everytime! it would be easier!
How do i go about getting notaposter email?
aproudbygParticipantif anyone else has any other thoughts they would be appreciated!!!!
aproudbygParticipantthank you all, its nice to know that there are people who care!.
aproudbygParticipantmommamia22- actually a number of us feel that way, ( i know you are going to think that it is what all schools do but for us it is rea) our school tries to keep us busy with homework so we wont have time for other things!,( i have overhear the teachers saying it) I actually live in a smile town where eveyrones budget is very tight, how could i let people spend guilt money on us they cant afford?!?!?!
the one that is my teacher currently actaully is a very strong person, she has been through quite a few things and she is just a beatifull person, I wanted to be like her to pull throught, so I to get help from her! i cant find any other that would be “suitable” to ur description, i will just have to trudge forward, thats life, none said it was going to be easy!
aproudbygParticipantkapusta- thanks!!! happens to be the second teacher i talked about in the first post is my current teacher now, and she like the other one just dropped me, and started with another girl! dont think i drove them away! I just would talk with them in the hallway or in a classroom for 2 or 3 minuets, it was little but what i badly needed at that time!!! I think i am just to afraid to try to connect to a teacher in fear of being rejected again!!!
I do love yiddeshkeit, and being a by girl( look at username 🙂 ) I am not going of even chalila thinking of going otd, especially after seeing how it hurts my parents and others( my brother is currently otd) I just dont feel that I quite understand my current place in life(i know no teens do i mean diff,..) with things going on I just feel alone!
aproudbygParticipantNechomah- what i needed was someone who i could talk to, about diffrent things in my life, and to just know that i could if i wanted to! I had that but then she didnt want anything to do with me, she stopped, i felt so hurt from her besides the taunting from my peers(they new of the relashenship)!! My mother actually doesnt understand the stuff I am feeling( didnt grow up frum) and she has a lot on her own plate right now! i do admire a certain writer but that doesnt help so much, i feel i need to vent, but i dont have anyone:( we already have chesed, and a shmeras halashon programs from school, but that isnt fun! Fun is being able to do a dance thing, or have a sports but we cant because NOT TZNIUS! i am not chas veshalom saying tznius is bad, but makes things difficult sometimes!!
aproudbygParticipantmommamia22- it is not so easy I have actually tried to have role models but they didnt work, i had 2 diffrent ones around the same time, and in the middle they just dropped me if i wasnt having trouble before then it was harder after ! It is not easy to trust in someone again, i thought i picked wisely turns out i was wrong! I dont think it is neccasarlily frum or have fun, you can have them together but what can you do? in my community atleast, when you do something diffrent it is unbeleivable, and horrible! Tell me if you where a teenage girl what would you do for fun?
aproudbygParticipantI actually feel i am in a similiar situation! I dont have anythign against by,or yiddeshkeit for that matter, i love it, it just seems hard when you feel that you are at it alone! My school gives so much homework i can never do anything with my family, so i am soooo bored!!! I feel that( in my community at least) there are always some contest or something for boys and never for girls, its like they think that girls are busy learning how to cook and clean, if nothing exciting starts to happen or be allowed in my community there will be a lot of us feeling this way, i know that for a fact!
aproudbygParticipantI was a captain for the entire school two years ago, and the teams mayim and aish worked very nicely!
aproudbygParticipantDoes anyone have anything else to add?
April 12, 2012 10:24 am at 10:24 am in reply to: Heter for Women Learning Torah in Beis Yaakov #867331aproudbygParticipantGirls dont learn for the sake of learning( like yeahivos at times) bys teach what is neccasary for a girl to grow up in the way of ‘H! Sara shneirer saw that girls where not havin the proper yeoras shmayim cause starting. To be with Non jewish kids….. So now bys teach to strengthen our love and fear of ‘H!! We learn what is needed to live like pracitcal halacos for shabbos.. Chumash where learn lessons for life … Not what happens if a friends donkey falls in a pit
aproudbygParticipantNow what we need is actually what we need to say and we will be set 🙂
aproudbygParticipantHas anyone here actually gone to maarava i want to hear first hand? What if someone gets sick is there a capabal nurse?
aproudbygParticipantcinderella- thanks i did mean snobbish!!!
Wow it sounds like a good camp, can anyone tell me about the counslers? are they experinced? how are they chosen?
aproudbygParticipantyummy cupcake- i agree with u,i beleive it is not only not leshem shamayim but is infact a chilal Hashem! This is know way to show our Father we love Him.
aproudbygParticipantBut also keep in mind that where ever she goes there will be challenges, wether the same or different! Life has tests, at every turn!
aproudbygParticipantI beleive the anwer is (after observing for many years , because i rememeber cause I dont drink!!!) most fall asleep before even thinking about it!!!!!
aproudbygParticipantIf you know of any religouse people where you live I am sure they wouldent mind helping you to find a place that will fit your needs! Good luck in all you do!!!
aproudbygParticipantA bais yaakov girl who is open minded? Isnt that a oxymoron?
aproudbygParticipantin my school we have a diffrent grade for chesed! if we dont do it enogh and our people call our school adn tell them we can fail and it seems really unfair!!! i mean i know chesed is a great thing but as a teenage girl that is going to a school (frum) that is also good and known for being accadamic in both limuday chodesh and chol it is hard to stay consistent with times! I think not having enought time in the day is a stuggle for most:(
aproudbygParticipantI will say daled 🙂 thank you so much for staring this! COME ON PEOPLE , HELP OUT!!
March 30, 2012 8:10 am at 8:10 am in reply to: Separate Times For Bochurim & Sem Girls In Gateshead #1029670aproudbygParticipantjust have a weird question but this forum brought it up so…Why is it that for 15-20 years(from like 6 years old) boys and girls are kept FAR apart from eachother i mean chas vshalom if they shop in the same place, but then all of a sudden they start going out on dates? i mean its like for years dont look dont talk to them then its, go see if you want to spend the rest of your life with them? Does this question make sense to anyone else?
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