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Stop commenting? Why? To hush up something that may be important for others? Come on, we are not in Germany.
Things just got much too complicated: in the Torah Abraham was with Sara, Isaac with Rebecca, Jacobs story is clear, Deborah with Lappiddot. What about Tobias and Sara in the book of Tobit? They got together despite difficulties. Hashem did not need assistants then, He did a wonderful work in each case. And the surrounding world was not different then, it was the same crazy, dirty and dictracting world , they lived in. And Abraham, Isaac and Jacob did not to schul and not look at other women and got distracted, no they worked in the field, they protected and took care of their families, because this is the nes of Hashem, that You keep your family together and love your wife and only her.
Hashem is an arstist in bringing people together (in a happy marriage). Peolple just force themselves or others in rules, behaiours and staus obligations.
Ask yourself, what do You want: Do You want a stable family, financial security, do You want love, do You want the whole package or do You agree on a half version? Having the right partner is one of the most complicated problems to solve. And there is actually only one way: to ask Hashem to give You the right partner. And HE will give You a good shidduch. Question is, if You can accept it? Can You maintain it and lead it into a successful relationship and family? We are not able to control these things, because every human being has its own character and minds; so here only Hashem can hold, control and lead the proscess. Everything besides that is like wasting time.Men don’t know women and women don’t know men. That’s why there are all these assumptions and theories. Fact one: there is no love and nothing that is connecting women and men now. That’s why You have such a movement like yotzim besheela. Because You lack comfort and mercy.
Fact two: its called shma Israel. LISTEN to your wife. Like G-d said to Abraham. Nekuda.To Always_Ask _Questions: Have you even read the Torah?
To Always_Ask_Questions about “tznius police, similar to such successful groups used by frum Muslims in Iran.”: Have you even read the Torah?
First: only a honest and joyful mitzvot is a REAL mizvot. Everything robotlike does not mean anything.
Second: jealousy is a conequence from ???, its only an physical appereance, that shows that this a loveless spot in you body.
In Thora these things went up to G-d through sacrifice as a unpleasant odour. But now there priest and sacrifices do not exist. Well, well.Ask Hashem to tell You the adress where to go and help you to arrive there, to guide you. (and for sure not to a psychotherapist!)
Good morning! Somebody ‘s eyes had opened!
Shalom and Toda for your openness.