I feel for what you and your friend are going thru, I am also a convert although i really don’t take any negative things people say to me to heart, especially from my boss who likes to make comments about my conversion, they shouldn’t be speaking negatively like that anyway. I don’t worry how “jewish” people think I am. I have my own relationship with G-D, I read the torah, I study, I pray, give to charity, and try to be a good person. I trust in Hashem that I will find a husband when I am ready too, but I don’t believe I am yet, I am still learning and still young. Although I have to say that I have been told by a couple men that as long as a woman observed all the laws that they would have no problem with the fact that she is a convert. I wish you the best!