Amil Zola

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  • in reply to: Abortion Decision – Less Retzicha in America #2082348
    Amil Zola
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    Women of means will continue to have their abortions.

    in reply to: Local elected frum people #2080559
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    CS Just like when someone is elected to the board of a Jewish concern, be it educational or charitable. By you those votes wouldn’t count because they are closed elections. Ok I can see where you are coming from.

    in reply to: Local elected frum people #2080523
    Amil Zola
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    I’ve been elected to the board of ed locally and appointed to some standing state wide commissions and currently sit on the school district curriculum advisory committee. Like CT I’ve attended political conventions as a delegate, (national and state wide). I also held statewide office for my union, and later sat on it’s finance committee.

    in reply to: Elon Musk Buying Twitter #2079990
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    Will the Coffee Room condemn Musk if he lets the antisemites run free on Twitter?

    in reply to: Elon Musk Buying Twitter #2079962
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    I don’t use twitter or instagram. Everyone is complaining about Twitter silencing individual expression. YWN and this place also censor individuals expression but none here are complaining. I don’t get it. But then I don’t take this venue as seriously as some do.

    in reply to: enough of trump #2079107
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    yaakov, I stand corrected. I forgot all about the windmill cancer.

    in reply to: enough of trump #2079048
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    Coffee addict can you enumerate our Presidents impeachable actions? Is it reducing the national debt? Is it some of the lowest unemployment numbers in generations? (A drop from 6+% to -4%.) Was it the over 100k folks turned away at the border or the 29 terrorists taken into custody at our border? Reducing hunger with the additional food stamp allotments due to Covid? The most judges confirmed since Kennedy was president? The most diverse cabinet a US president has ever had. Or was it approving off shore wind energy projects?

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2077615
    Amil Zola
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    Jos you mention a number of mainstream media I don’t use on any kind of a regular basis.

    in reply to: Lakewood safety patrol #2077557
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    The Lakewood alert has an account of the Shomrim’s involvement with these crimes. It’s pitiful that Joseph is so unaware of reality.

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2077546
    Amil Zola
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    The tools of Alex Jones, Info Wars, Rumble, Crosstalk et al are clinging to the story that these atrocities are ‘made up’ just like Jones did with the Sandy Hook shootings, the OK city bombings.

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2077202
    Amil Zola
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    And how does one explain away the atrocities in Bucha?

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2076774
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    Duh, so if none of you check references why participate in a process that mandates them? Its only fair that both you and your parents let the women know you won’t be checking references. Based on your FB you are now doing simcha videos. What an excellent organic way to meet people. Sometimes it comes down to someone who knows somebody.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2076756
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    Ya know Ari ya can keep on doing the same stuff over and over again the same way and expect different results, but it’s not gonna happen.

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2076586
    Amil Zola
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    Over the years Ari has had various complaints about the shidduch process on a variety of internet platforms. I’m sure that many of his questions are a reflection of his being raised by two parents, both professionals and physicians who likely are not as far to the right as he is. That being said, at the age of almost 30 it’s time for Ari to be proactive and perhaps find a more organic way of meeting the mate Hashem has chosen for him that isn’t dependent on his parents checking references.

    in reply to: Gruesome Evidence Points to War Crimes in Ukraine #2076560
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    People were found with their hands tied behind their backs shot in the head. What could possibly be the justification for these murders?

    in reply to: Parents and singles #2075465
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    Ari why not post your shidduch resume or a link to it? Or tell us a bit about yourself, what you do for a living, your aspirations of a torah true home, will you work after marriage or expect support?

    in reply to: Food and other #2071995
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    rightwriter, it only takes a google to find a farmers market or green market near you. Most farmers markets take food stamps and provide food stamp bonuses. You picks are just that. They are farms where you pick your produce. These are boons to folks who can (not rocket science) or preserve food but don’t have room to grow their own. Prices are usually lower at you picks. Around here you can do you picks for beans (fresh green, favas, fresh chickpeas fresh English pea, fresh edamame, tomatoes,peppers, kirbys, stone and seeded fruits, different melons, greens and assorted berries. Where I live our farmers market is open year round two days a week and three from April to Nov. In the winter we have hard squash (great for dehydrating), winter greens, a variety of tubers (yacon etc), beets, winter greens etc.

    in reply to: Food and other #2071946
    Amil Zola
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    It’s not a matter of growing your own food. I know folks who go to U picks to get fresh beans and tomatoes, and veggies to can. They take their kids to U picks for peaches and apples to can or dehydrate, same with berries. Farmers markets are pretty ubiquitous now a days and CSAs make fresh veggies in season very affordable. I no long have a need for a fore quarter of beef but I do have a friend who raises lamb for the table and I have the same arrangement for my lamb as CTL has for his beef. I also bought into a flock of chickens through someone the traveling Shochet introduced me to some years back. Poultry prices should be going sky high, millions of chickens in DE, IW, PA and AR are being killed due to avian flu.

    Americans are relatively spoiled, they want to eat what they want to eat when they want it. The average American buys expensive fresh fruit and veg (out of season) that are transported sometimes thousands of miles.

    Certainly a lot has to do with lifestyle and I’m grateful that I’m financially comfortable and not paying for heating oil or wondering if I can afford that next box of diapers like some women do.

    in reply to: Food and other #2071765
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    Point of information Ukraine only exports about 3% of the world wheat. Russia is the #1 exporter of wheat in the world. I live in a state that grows a lot of wheat, future prices are up about 5%.

    in reply to: Food and other #2071597
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    It’s likely that Russia and Ukraine will suffer from food shortages this winter. Combine those shortages with an influx of over 4 million refuges into Europe and it’s obvious some nations economies will suffer.

    As mentioned above America’s issues will be supply chain, failure to support our commercial rail system will leave supply chains largely dependent on costly fossil fuels to transport goods.

    Naturally Americans will be whining if they only have six different choices in tp rather than the previous 18.

    in reply to: Daylight Savings time #2069916
    Amil Zola
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    Again, I don’t live on the east coast. I do live several degrees (lat) higher than NYC. For a few years I was commuting to work and got on a vanpool at 6am (before sunrise) and I got home after 5pm (well after sunset most winter days. I did not do well without seeing daylight (except through office windows) five days a week.

    As to mens prayer times, well we didn’t always have DST or time zones or a means of keeping time, a solution will be found.

    in reply to: Disappeared topic #2067454
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    Filtering home water doesn’t cost ‘a fortune’. I’ve lived on wells for the past 30 years and have used a variety of water filter options. I considered installing RO when my home was being built. The quality of the water didn’t warrant it. I have an under sink filter for each faucet, where one would desire drinking or cooking water. My well water is pumped and treated with UV before it goes into a holding tank. Water that is used on my gardens or the pool does not use the water tank and is a separate system. I think that many folks don’t consider the waste involved with bottled water.

    in reply to: Is It A Coincidence? #2065394
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    I don’t know if you’ve ever had a comprehensive class covering the Constitution. SOTU is covered under the Constitution, Article II section 3 clause 1. After reading, I hope you will reach some clarity as to why and what it covers. I’ve listened to SOTUs from Ike to the present. They are are all different and reflect current issues that are/were contemporaneous to the times they were delivered.

    in reply to: Is Israel heading to the 7 day workweek? #2061279
    Amil Zola
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    Thanks for your input AAQ. America has come a long way since the old blue laws, unfortunately they exist in some places in America to this day. Right now, I’ll leave this thread be since it is a greater concern in Israel.

    in reply to: Is Israel heading to the 7 day workweek? #2061236
    Amil Zola
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    I’m not quite sure of your point. Non observant people work on Shabbos. Why shouldn’t public transport be available to them? Not everyone (in Israel or the US) works a straight M-F.

    in reply to: Why Biden is the president #2060851
    Amil Zola
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    Youngarman a point of information. Teleprompters have been used by presidents for decades, going back to Ike.

    in reply to: Stealing your neigbours cleaning lady! #2060832
    Amil Zola
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    Do you live in the US? Free market. Domestic workers can ask for more than what you expect to pay. They are free to seek employment elsewhere if not satisfied. Frankly I cannot remember when my domestic workers got less than $20/hr. on the books.

    in reply to: Fancy Trip Statuses #2060437
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    I don’t use that platform. I do see some travel pictures from family in a private group,nothing that would trigger me.

    in reply to: Expose the profiteering of PCR tests #2060412
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    Local to me PCR tests are no charge, with or without ins. Self tests are all readily available and appear to be reasonably priced from what I’m hearing from friends, neighbors and community members. Most folks in this area have also received our four free tests in the mail.

    in reply to: Is it time to leave America #2059365
    Amil Zola
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    So where are you planning to go rightwriter. Do you you have a plan with a destination?

    in reply to: What Steps Will the Charedi World Take to Try to Prevent Abuse #2053773
    Amil Zola
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    Steps? Sure report to police and let the professional investigators interview victims and suspects and proceed with the investigation. It takes specialized training to objectively and sensitively investigate these allegations, training that is lacking in our religious schools.

    in reply to: Do we not discuss twitter here #2052269
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    And I cannot discuss the Thing That We Do Not Discuss because I do not have the Thing That We Do Not Discuss.

    in reply to: Imamother thread #2045207
    Amil Zola
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    Today’s earth shattering post from an Ima, ‘ One year old giggles to herself, is this normal?’.

    in reply to: How to end a first date when there’s no shadchan #2038605
    Amil Zola
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    I met my husband when we were both receiving chemo while in grad school. Our families were not bound by the tradition of using a shadchan. I think that UJM gets his broad brushes wholesale, he using them so frequently they have to be rather inexpensive:)

    in reply to: what is the cause of income inequality in the jewish commnuity? #2035250
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    First generation American here and the first of my generation to graduate from uni. Our third generation all have professional degrees. Those degrees and income allowed their sources of revenue to expand to real estate and business investment. FWIW my mother worked in the sweatshops all of her working life and my father was a factory worker. By and large all that went off to higher ed paid their own way. In my family (just plain frum) most all owned homes they purchased from wages before they married. (Far different real estate market than 2021.) Avg size family is 3 kids. Kids worked in family (or friends of family) businesses as soon as legally permitted.

    As I write this, I can see how we’ve been accruing ‘dynastic’ wealth. But with that wealth came a responsibility to assist Jewish institutions financially. Most of moved out of the tri state area, to more affordable parts of the country as well. I can see how gap year seminaries, keeping up with the Cohens lifestyle, large simchas and the incumbent expenses limit savings and strain family finances, esp. in larger families.

    in reply to: Poasters of YWN Coffee Room- Are you employed? #2034648
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    Blissfully retired.

    in reply to: Arbery trial hoax #2034649
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    Health I often choose not to engage with you. It’s typically how I don’t respond to trolls. Have a good day and a pleasant tomorrow.

    in reply to: Arbery trial hoax #2034143
    Amil Zola
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    Point of information. I listened to some tapes of the shooters referring to the victim using the N word.

    Amil Zola
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    I went to public schools and I agree with AAQs original premise. I read a lot from the Imas complaining about homework. I have no input as todays Jewish schools handle it. When I was in school my HW from Jr High to HS was read and be able to discuss the stuff in class or perform the math functions. I had integrated core classes so science, maths, foreign language and latin, chem, lit and history all integrated different facets of other curriculum.

    in reply to: Kyle Rittenhouse #2032419
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    Someone up thread brought up Kyles maturity. I’ve been a lifelong gun owner, as a kid I belonged to the local NJ 4H sharpshooters, heck I even have two AR styled rifles in the gun safe. I had a carry permit for years and have taken numerous gun safety classes. Range shooting is a pastime I enjoy in this era of Covid. I just cant get it through my head that this child of 17 went into the situation having no experience, and the fact that his mother drove him boggles my mind. I’ve spent thousands (that I can afford) on ammo and range time, and cowboy shooting competitions. I couldn’t imagine dropping into the situation like he did, even with my training and skill set. IMHO

    in reply to: Should Rittenhouse have been there. #2032380
    Amil Zola
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    Well it’s not like Rittenhouse drove there illegally, his mommy brought him, and she must have thought it was ok.

    in reply to: WAUKESHA #2032379
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    May those that mourn find comfort.

    in reply to: YWN ads #2030958
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    I use charity navigator when I’m choosing to donate. It give pretty concise info as to $ collected, $ spent on management/administration and how much goes to the recipient.

    in reply to: Women Doing Men’s Jobs #2026180
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    UJM, firefighters take physical ability tests. Kinda like the military, walk, run, carry a pack that weighs x number of lbs, obstacle runs etc. This is how things work post 1960.

    in reply to: Mothers' Names on Wedding Invitations #2025993
    Amil Zola
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    Isn’t it up to each family to determine whether or not the mother’s name is included on the invite? Different families have different traditions when it comes to this issue.

    in reply to: cleaning help #2025843
    Amil Zola
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    AAQ, again that has nothing to do with his ability to domestic work.

    in reply to: cleaning help #2025447
    Amil Zola
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    Simply because the man could carry plates doesn’t mean he’s mastered domestic duties.

    in reply to: cleaning help #2025169
    Amil Zola
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    Did the philanthropists college age son clean toilets for his Mother? Scrub floors?

    in reply to: Six Figure Salaries #2025171
    Amil Zola
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    It really depends on the number of children you have and where you live. I shake my head when I read about families making less than 6 figures with tuition of 50k in the tri state area.

    in reply to: cleaning help #2023719
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    ” Has it ever been a man?” FWIW my cleaning person is female as is my salaried handyman. (I call her a handyman simply because it is part of her business name.) As a woman living alone, hiring a male is out of the question for me. Feel free to call her a ‘handy person’ if that floats your boat.

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