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amichaiParticipant
mazel tov!!
amichaiParticipantmazel tov ,nachas and good health.
amichaiParticipantI’ll be number 6.
May 30, 2011 9:49 am at 9:49 am in reply to: Were not Chassidish at all, but we go to Rebbes for Brachos #773171amichaiParticipantI am not speaking against the rebbe. I am sure there are other ways to bring brocha to your family without doing something so drastic. to name a few, shmiras haloshon, 2 halochos daily, being ready for shabbos 15 min. b4 the time, greeting pple you wouldn’t neccesarily speak to. etc. find something that is on your level. be in reality. speak to your husband on something you can learn together, 5 min. a day. that will give you hatzlocha.
amichaiParticipanta big mazel tov to you. may you have loads of nachas from all your children.
as others have mentioned, please get help. I am sure in your community they have chessed commitees for after birth which might mean meals, babysitting, errands. take whatever help is offered., even if you feel you might not need it.
It is very understandable that you are not feeling well. give yourself a few weeks. make things as simple as possible. ( paper plates, cups, )maybe you can find a young teenager to fold laundry 2x a week. these little things will make a huge difference. try to send the 2 yr. old out for a few hrs. in the morning. you really need the rest and quiet. you are not just getting over a birth but also a virus. wishing you all the best.
May 27, 2011 3:45 am at 3:45 am in reply to: HAPPY 5th BIRTHDAY TO YESHIVA WORLD NEWS ?????!!! #772013amichaiParticipantmazel tov!
amichaiParticipantwolf, no apology needed. not at all like purim and amalek.
amichaiParticipantwhy do pple give a care what others think . do what is good for you.
amichaiParticipantget rid of stuff you will not use in your new apt. if you havent used it or worn it for 2 years. throw it out. you should have a master list which is in your hands. you can color code the boxes also. red marker is kitchen, blue is bedroom etc.
amichaiParticipantbe a good listener. (not always so easy). she might need to go over the same things of why she came to that decision. hatzlocha.
amichaiParticipantmilchig both meals.
amichaiParticipantmazel tov!
May 10, 2011 6:00 pm at 6:00 pm in reply to: Signs in BP regarding Tznius (Skirts that fall 4" below the knee). #767631amichaiParticipantsounds like meah shearim came to boro pk. for pple to take heed, words must be said bdarchei noam.
amichaiParticipanteasy mitzvah. no problem doing it.
amichaiParticipantpac-man – shame on you. why does it have to get to this?
amichaiParticipantlet’s count our blessings! healthy family, beautiful day out! a good chodesh to all.
amichaiParticipantyogi, just let it go. she isnt gonna share any more than she already did.
amichaiParticipantvolunteer, go biking, take a nice walk in the park with a friend, . life is too special to be spent being bored.
amichaiParticipantvery well written oomis.
amichaiParticipantinvite your friends over motzei shabbos for a nice melave malka. everyone can bring something also.
amichaiParticipanthi yoyo. please tell your parents. this guy has a problem. if the guy sees your parents coming in2 the store and asking about this guy, he might stop . tell your parents. everything. we all back you.
amichaiParticipantso do not ask publicly on facebook. call up friends, family etc. so she will not be aware what your plans are. as the above wrote, if she wants to come over , you can tell her you really are looking forward to spending time at home just with your hubby.
amichaiParticipantmaybe he was just really really tired. maybe you gotta give it another chance.
amichaiParticipantGoq, you will probably not agree , but I’m wondering if she really likes you and has feelings for you. she might not be able to tell you how she feels but she is showing strange behaviors. I hope something will work out in the end. If you are sure you havent done a thing to deserve this, I think you can tell her straight out how her behavior is baffling.
amichaiParticipantI cant believe in certain states like oregon etc. there are so many jewish pple.
amichaiParticipantdid she ever have a friendly nieceuncle relationship with you b4.
amichaiParticipantnot real, fake . don’t trust him for a minute.
April 27, 2011 5:25 am at 5:25 am in reply to: Yeah, It's A Rant… Talking In Shul and Attitudes… #761736amichaiParticipantjust curious because I am not from ny. are the shuls there extremly large? we have a kehilla of about 100 men and there is no talking during davening or laining. are you speaking of shuls with over 300 pple etc? my only advice is to speak to the rav and he will speak to the kahall at large or find a smaller beis medrash even if you have to walk a little further to get there.
amichaiParticipantwhich number are we up to? am I not 15?
amichaiParticipantsorry health. each family situation is different.
amichaiParticipantstarts at the ages of 28 and 32. depending on who you are dealing with.
amichaiParticipanthealth, when I read comments like yours, I hope the poster is joking. I cannot imagine life without my brothers and sisters. try to build a relationship.
amichaiParticipantI personally know adults who were only children, went on to raising lovely familes, are the friendliest pple.
April 21, 2011 4:22 am at 4:22 am in reply to: I Guess I'm Out Of My Mind… And You May Be Too… #760819amichaiParticipantagree with shlishi. there’s all types. who cares what other pple say! almost ruined your seder nite? shame your kids had to see you upset cause of this guys words.
amichaiParticipantwelcome 123bubby and ayc. a good moed.
amichaiParticipantwishing you all chag kasher v’samaech. may we all be zoche to meet soon in yerushalayim.
amichaiParticipantmazel tov! thanx for sharing the gr8 news!
amichaiParticipantshavua tov! I’m middle age.
amichaiParticipantcan you really try not going to that shop? even if it’s not very convenient to go further for your shopping.
amichaiParticipanteclipse, may hashem be m’kayaim all your tefillos . much nachas and good health to you and your family. we are all thinking of you.
amichaiParticipantmaybe your mom is doing a huge mitzva by speaking with them for a while. they sound like very lonely pple.
amichaiParticipantmaybe the girls left when the kalla was taken to the other room to be treated/ maybe they thought she would be embarrassed if they were there/
amichaiParticipantgo into about.com. search under heartburn. you really have to watch what you eat if you suffer from it.
amichaiParticipantto awaken and see my beautiful family safe.
amichaiParticipantmazel tov, may you be matzliach.
amichaiParticipantrighty here.
amichaiParticipantam yisroel chai – we sing it all the time!
amichaiParticipantbbubee had gr8 advice. much hatzlocha eclipse.
amichaiParticipantsavta1,there’s nothing wrong with doing it. your friends will be happy for you,maybe you can even daven for them a few min. b4 the dance.(we should all have such problems such as these) mazel tov !
amichaiParticipantsmart, she really has to speak up for herself. she can put down now firm rules.cooking, serving meals, clearing, washing. on the other hand, how do you know how she feels, maybe she really wants them to come.
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