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  • in reply to: Tomorrow Segula for Parnasa, Saying Parashas Haman #2462810

    Horayos ~13 illustrates why a proper segula l’parnasa is attending college and working overtime.

    Gemora discusses various segulos – Rosh Hashona and also for and against success in learning and what causes forgetting (walking between camels and ladies, separately, etc). After all segulos are discussed, we suddenly have an advice from a father to the son: if you want to be successful in learning (i.e. segula for learning), you should
    1) learn the mishnah before going to the class
    2) watch carefully at Rebbe’s mouth
    3) learn near a river

    This seems to be a finale for the segula discussion – do hishtadlus instead of watching how the candle burns, although from a quick look, I do not see commentaries saying that.

    in reply to: Bli Neder no music until all hostages are free #2462809

    common, it took you 10 years after Shlomo died to get rid of the bad habit?

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2462808

    AAQ > Rambam considering any such error fatal, while sefer haikkarim allowing for mistakes.
    yankel> where is sefer ikarim ‘lenient’ about mistakes in core beliefs ?

    Contrast:
    Rambam MT Hilkhos Teshuvah 6:3 – Hashem hardens heart of Pharaoh as the result of his previous sins and he has no free will any more
    v.
    Sefer Ha-Ikkarim 4:25 where R Albo goes at length describing how Hashem is always open to teshuva, and even with Pharaoh, he “hardens his heart” in the sense of adjusting his values so that he still has a free choice.

    Gil Student quotes R Soloveichik The Lord is Righteous in All His Ways, p. 274 – whether Nazis can repent like Nevuzaradan did (Gittin 57), even as they were clearly worse than that. He quotes same Rambam 3:14 that teshuva is all powerful …

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2462800

    yankel > there was no ‘psak’ by r ch’o about shanghai at any time
    > by the way rch’o was niftar just weeks after the soviets marched into vilna

    I think this issue relates to the shailah that I mention above – preference for older v younger rabbonim. You might be right that technically, after the Rav was niftar, the DT would have transferred to a living Rav. Presumably, they did not “go” to REW then, or they would have stayed in Mir.

    in reply to: after hostages freed #2462799

    ZSK, thanks again for an illustration. I am uncomfortable that so many people are not OK with a realistic outcome that moves the situation forward, but expect someone (politicians? Trump’s advisors? CNN? l’havdil Hashem? ) deliver a perfect solution.

    in reply to: 770: A Mikdash or a Madhouse? Rabbonim Must Act Now #2462798

    I am usually skeptical about some of the criticism in this thread, in a sense that criticism might be valid but not the main thing about the movement, but I was recently shocked when a (young) person gave me a dvar Torah saying, looking me in the eyes, it is “from the _current_ L Rebbe”. I was so taken aback that I did not respond as I should have: “thanks for a nice drash from the Rebbe ZT’L”. So, maybe the problem got bigger than I felt.

    in reply to: The Fourth Reich of “Israel” #2462797

    Harav Shalom Ber Sorotzkin makes an unusual comparison of the matzav to USSR experience. Usually, people who try to appeal to raw emotions, just go for Nazi comparison – not because Soviets were better than Nazis, but most emotional people don’t think about USSR whether early or late times, while Nazis are mentioned more often.

    So, I presume HaRav chose his words judiciously. Maybe, he was affected by his family’s history in Belorussia and even Russia itself up to 1930s …
    Maybe, he also was so much involved in helping Russian Jews to become more religious that he feels their pain and is afraid that secular Israelis are moving in the same direction as our lost russian brothers. Please give me more info on these outreach activities that HaRav was involved in so that I can understand why he thinks he can make such a comparison.

    in reply to: Mishpacha and Mandani #2462796

    nisht, you are being passive aggressive – if you disagree with something or have a comment, could you please say so? I can’t read your mind.
    I presume mishpucha called the Rav Nosson, but the title of the book says “Nathan”.

    We might be better off discussing any of the stories he researched over hundreds of pages, many in fine print instead of trading silliness. For example, R Yaakov had a 2nd grade teacher in his Litvish shetl. The class was in teacher’s yard/house. Once Yaakov was late. When teacher asked, he explained that there was a bris and something happened with the knife, and his father sent him to pick up a knife. The teacher did not believe the story and sent Yaakov home. Late in life, R Yaakov was talking with his classmate – R Ruderman and they were wondering what happened with their other friends, who seemingly did not become talmidei chachomim. R Yaakov suggested that this might have been this 2nd grade rebbe’s fault – as R Yaakov remembered the pain of being considered a liar (even as there was no history of that), so maybe others were alienated by this teacher.

    in reply to: The Steipler Gaon on Zionism and on the Neteurei Karta #2462361

    ujm > In 1970, the NK held a public protest alongside the PLO outside the United Nations. And this was the NK that the Steipler issued extremely high praise, referring to the Neteurei Karta as his friends and colleagues and wishing them long lives and good days; and saying that he loves every single one of them.

    what is the year of the letter? From a quick look, it is one of the earlier elections, maybe 1950s.

    in reply to: Mishpacha and Mandani #2462360

    Nisht, Sorry, I misspoke – R Natan Kamenetsky. Everything else stands.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2462359

    Avi> one of the rabbanim said that that was before daat Torah was invented.

    R Zelig Epstein. As I heard it, he used subtler language “before daas Torah” without the harsh word “invented”. In reality, R Chaim Ozer position seemed to be more nuanced – he wanted older Rabbonim to have a priority for visas, as they would be more useful both for the ones who are left behind and to Americans themselves. I think we can see the wisdom of that from history – a small number of survivors started revival of Torah in US.

    Interesting also that you put R Soloveitchik and R Chaim Ozer in the same paragraph. When R Soloveitchik was studying philosophy in Berlin, he would visit R Chaim Ozer during summer and present him with his hidushim developed during the year. R Chaim Ozer, who was famous also for his library, would nod and find a sefer where that “hidush” was already discussed.

    in reply to: The Fourth Reich of “Israel” #2462337

    comparing people who refuse to go to the army and also have breaks with actual hostages seems distasteful to me. Maybe they should ask opinion of the released hostages before making such statements.

    in reply to: What’s stopping you from Filtering your internet? #2462336

    Chaim, so start with opendns, it is free.

    in reply to: after hostages freed #2462335

    HaLeivi> It is interesting how this works out to be מקץ שנתיים ימים, but I’m not sure what to make of that.

    Chaim> This doesn’t mean the deal shouldn;t have been signed. We can’t fight forever. But don’t fool yourself. This is the end game

    Thanks, I think this captures a lot of non-extreme opinions. I am more with the first – it was indeed – no solution and then suddenly a solution, and we should express our gratitude to Hashem, and to people involved. Overall, it is a sad picture, maybe incomplete/distorted by media – after all demonstrations to free hostages, many switched to demand other things the moment it was achieved. I would think that opposition that can acknowledge when the leaders achieve something will gain respect of population, but what do I know …

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2461712

    yankel> emrei emet talking to REW

    I am not questioning R Elchonon’s mailos at all.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2461711

    Avi> The Baal haTanya also took this position (he also held that it is bittul Torah of the rav) and Rav Lichtenstein has an essay, availavle online, he unauthorized translation is called “If There Is No ‘Da’at,’ How Can We Have Leadership?” The Hebrew original is אם אין דעת, מנהיגות מניין.

    First, thanks for the reference to the essay. Very thought provoking. Not sure what Alter Rebbe has to do with the topic, but he took an extreme political pro-Russian position during Napoleonic wars – contrary to almost all other misnagdim and chassidim, and he passed away while running away from Napoleon. The reasons being a mixture of seeing a danger of haskalah (as if it was possible to escape it, but delaying could have helped) and real-politik – as Chabad was further in Russia than most other groups, so presumed that his chasidim will be under the czar after the war anywas, so it is better to cooperate.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2461707

    Avi > Rav Soloveichik did not take a position on demonstrations. When asked, he told questioners to ask a Kremlinologist. In general, his position was that rabbanim should not answer questions that are the realm of secular experts.

    Not a contradiction here. My source is memoirs by one of the students involved. They first asked R Feinstein, R Tetz, Lubavitcher Rebbe – they all answered negatively from their belief that (1) afraid that their quiet activities for soviet Jews will be disrupted (2) that students are putting their lives in danger from Soviet agents (we are talking 1960s!). When they approached R Soloveitchik, he indeed followed the approach you described – he asked his trusted contacts in Israeli government and they also suggested negative. So, batting 0:4 in daas Toirah, students started what they started. Later on, this student while driving R Soloveitchik casually asked him – we are doing things you did not approve of, but you did not reprimind us. Rav responded: I was mislead. I asked Israelis “what is best for Soviet Jews” and they responded based on what is based for them (presumably, before 1967, when Israel tried to re-establish better relations with USSR). Halakha of pikuach nefesh is – you do what is best for the person in danger, not for others.

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2461706

    yankel> where is sefer ikarim ‘lenient’ about mistakes in core beliefs ?

    as I said, I saw it in a secondary source. It has something to do with how to relate to people who stumbled in some major philosophical issues – as was typical at his times. To illustrate the times: R Albo participated in an official debate with a converted Jew … that convert used to be a rav and his teacher before he converted … and who previously participated on the Jewish side in a similar debate against a previous convert …

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2461705

    somejew > The Steipler says that he leans to say that voting is a “mitzvuh rabbuh” and not (technically) usser, yet nonetheless there is vald place for kanoyus like NK (and they should continue not voting and disregard his “mitzvuh rabbuh”).

    I was reading the letter slightly different. Not sure, whether one – or both – of us is trying to put our own meaning into subtle words of Steipler. Presumably, the recipient of the letter knew how to understand these words. But my reading is that Steipler is not “leaning” but rather strongly says that it is the right thing to do and opposition is mistaken, even if well meaning. Yes, he sort of says, I do not want you to change your position, but he does not say explicitly – “I am ok with you not voting”. I am reading this as a subtle tochacha (we should all learn!) – yes, I respect your position, but if you respect my arguments, you will have to go and vote. The last paragraph might be the minimal ask – even if you will not be able to vote yourself, at least stop spreading loshon horoh that might prevent others from voting. Again, said subtly, but pretty direct if translated from loshon Steipler into loshon CR.

    in reply to: Mishpacha and Mandani #2461704

    Rocky > Mishpacha claims that Rav Elyashiv did not hear their side of the story before announcing a ban. No gadol would do such a thing.

    Rocky, I do not read either of Mishpohos, but I listened to a detailed lecture of R Gershon Kamenetsky Z’L detailing his interactions with R Elyashiv about R Gershon’s book about his father – and the only conclusion is that R Eliyashiv did in that case (maybe when he was elderly and the issue was time sensitive) relied on people he trusted. At this point, there are several non-banned respected books that quote R Gershon’s book (that contains high quality research) in length and acknowledge his contribution.

    in reply to: The Steipler Gaon on Zionism and on the Neteurei Karta #2461701

    yankel > [undisputed list of Rabonim who respected R Kook] .. rav kook was controversial – yes
    katan> But all of that doesn’t change what the gedolim held of him, as mentioned above. The Chazon Ish also banned the sale of Rabbi Kook’s books, which included at least Rabbi Kook’s “hashkafa” books, if not also the others.

    you guys repeat your positions as if they are compete with each other – they do not! You need to come to some joint conclusion! Can we agree that R Kook was controversial and that some approved of him and some did not? What else can be said here?

    in reply to: What’s stopping you from Filtering your internet? #2461699

    Avram > He’s not talking about ads that are blocked by ad blocking software…

    You may be right here. While it is hard to pin-point his exact issues and legit internet needs, openDNS is a good free solution for the computer – you can just whitelist the sites you need.

    I thought, openDNS would not work on a cellular network, but gemini tells me it is possible. Maybe someone can investigate this:
    You can use OpenDNS on a cellular network by installing a DNS changer app on Android or using the “Private DNS” setting on iOS and Android devices that support it. While some cellular carriers might block the standard OpenDNS servers, a DNS changer app or using a paid service like Cisco Umbrella Prosumer can override this and route your device’s DNS requests to OpenDNS or another provider.

    in reply to: What’s stopping you from Filtering your internet? #2461697

    Avram> one should not sacrifice his children.

    Hard to argue about that, as there is a posuk about it! But we were not talking about children online, we were talking about an adult. I hope you are not suspecting him of watching videos enticing moloch practices!

    in reply to: What now? #2460773

    Got NY public library (virtually), voter registration info is on the front page – until Oct 25.

    in reply to: The Steipler Gaon on Zionism and on the Neteurei Karta #2460762

    When you argue how NK behaved during “Steipler lifetime”, you need to see – what year was the letter written? Steipler was writing about elections early on – I see one in 1955.

    Seemingly Steipler wrote way more about elections than just this one letter. Maybe someone could look up more on his thinking?
    here is what I see in secondary sources:
    Kreinah D’Igresa letter 739: “I don’t understand the position of the Satmar Rebbe, though I agree with all that was written in his book…nonetheless the people have returned, it is a fact that the people have come back, it is now a reality and therefore whether it was done correctly doesn’t matter, thus now one must vote in order to ensure the safety of Klal Yisrael.

    all throughout Jewish history Jews were part of the Gentile governments in Europe and of course if one could be in a goyish government he can be in the Jewish government, but nonetheless says the Steipler that one must be very careful that being part of parliament or government is not about getting money, even for the Jews, rather it is about upholding Jewish law.

    in reply to: What’s stopping you from Filtering your internet? #2460760

    Chaim, also, use your home computer to take some advanced classes and get a better paying job.

    in reply to: What’s stopping you from Filtering your internet? #2460757

    Chaim,
    buying used phones is smart. Same w/ computers – a modern computer can really work for many years if you are not kicking it too much.

    are you an uber driver or something like that? For many sedentary occupations, a computer would be enough. If you do need a device, maybe make it non-private. for example, when you come home, put into a charger in the living room and let everyone in the family use it while you are in shul or learning.
    This should give you some lack of privacy – especially if you have savvy teens in the house. Or even you can plug it at home via usb as a drive to the home computer so that everyone can ready your phone drive from the computer when you are at home.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2460583

    ZSK, I don’t think you can write off REW on disinformation. It is one thing when we are talking, say, elderly R Eliyashev being mis-informed about one book by R Gershon Kamenetsky. Maybe, maybe, you can have a similar excuse for R Soloveitchik on the question of demonstration for Soviet Jews (“mislead” by Israeli gov that it is better to be quiet) – yes, this is an issue of great public importance, but not the main focus for American Jews at a time (and RJBS writes in other places “I am not a politician or from a family of politicians”) but here REW addresses, consistently, over the years, the issue discussed by the Jewish public. It was on him to get the right information before making his public statements.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2460424

    Yankel, I was reading ch ch letters of 1920s until early 30s, and didn’t find any negative statements on zionizm, even as his main topic is decline of observance. So it is just several years difference. Speculating: maybe ch ch objected and thus REW published only after his petirah? I didn’t know about RCHO involvement, thanks. Is this from independent sources or from REW chasidim?

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2460423

    There seems to be a difference of opinion on serious errors even in core beliefs. Rambam considering any such error fatal, while sefer haikkarim allowing for mistakes. Note that the latter lived at the time of mass confusion and conversion in Spain and tried to bring people back.

    in reply to: 770: A Mikdash or a Madhouse? Rabbonim Must Act Now #2460205

    yankel > As an outsider, I think many of us view every habadi as both a Mikdash & a Madhouse.

    this is not new. R Soloveitchik writes in 1950s that he respects Alter Rebbe’s teaching, finds published chabad magazines illiterate, and then is at awe at their reaching out to small pockets of assimilated Jews.

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2460204

    > ANYTHING that is not accurate to Torah is by definition kefira.

    So, masheches horayos talks about sanhedrin that did kefirah? News to me and presumably to the tannaim and amoraim also.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2460203

    yankel> there is no indication whatsoever to be taken from the fact that hafets hayim approved of rav kook going into the rabinate
    even if historically correct ,

    agree, approval at early times is not necessarily an agreement on later actions. Still, we seem to have established here that CC and REW had different views, or at least public views at the overlapping times. So, if you want to follow REW, you need to explain why you are not satisfied with following CC.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2460021

    Avi K > As for REW having a radically different opinion, the Gemara has many examples of chachamim who disagreed with their rabbanim

    I have no problems with REW holding his own opinion. But some here see him as a authority, and especially as a student of CC. So, it seems that in this aspect it was REW who disagreed with his teacher.

    in reply to: The Steipler Gaon on Zionism and on the Neteurei Karta #2460019

    metoo > if the steipler said not to publicize the letter, he probably had a good reason (or reasons) for saying so. Could it be that his high praise for NK was one of them?

    this sounds plausible. The arguments in the letter seem to be designed specifically for NK listeners. It does not mean that Steipler agrees with them, he is simply saying “even if you hold these views” …

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2458788

    yankel> not sure why you keep on [deliberately ?] ignoring the multitudes who were forced away from religion by the medina ?

    wrong thread? I am discussing Steipler’s letter and issues he is raising.

    in reply to: Tiferes Shlomo and the modern State of Israel #2458754

    In Michal’s view, David danced inappropriately in front of bnos yisroel … he should have refused the procession until all the ladies were removed from the celebration?!

    in reply to: Tiferes Shlomo and the modern State of Israel #2458753

    yankel > including securing the Cave of the Patriarchs and its surroundings… with female Border Police officers,

    A good, and rather extreme, example. I am reminded here that Yosef was able to withstand his guard duty in the presence of a female – by recalling the face of his father. I would think anyone with minimal religious sensitivity should be able to do the same right near the maaras hamachpelah! Probably those female officers would do the same…

    I am not making light of the situation. I think this is an unfortunate situation but unlikely to ruin yungelait when this happens once – and then document and complain, and go to the knesset and demand that this should stop. And say, fix X, Y, and Z instead of “we will not serve”.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2458737

    > CC was actually uncertain about publishing his one and only anti Zionist letter which opposed the claim Zionists then made (they no longer do) that by living in EY and speaking you can be a good Jew without keeping Torah.

    smerel, thanks for answering my question – that CC was very limited in his public arguments against Z. I had this impression from reading his correspondence and finding arguments against every other group, but it is hard to prove a negative. The question then on REW – how could he have such a drastically different position? Was there any discussion between REW and CC? Did REW ask? Did CC respond to what REW was saying and writing?

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2458727

    smerel, R Greineman writes as if he saw this first hand, not from R Poupko and it seems from the text that he was writing with CC approval. I understand his crying is not because of Balfour, or a possible misuse of Balfour, but that people are satisfied with such a small step towards the geulah.

    If I dare to add, CC seems not to be familiar with the chinese saying – a journey of a thousand li begins with a single step.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2458722

    Avi> The religious ruined it by not heeding Rav Kook’s call

    Agree, but you are mindlessly repeating the lashon hara terms – as if followers of R Kook were not “religious”. As somejew showed, it is asur to speak such loshon hora.

    in reply to: What’s stopping you from Filtering your internet? #2458716

    chaim > second on my personal devices I’d love to get a filter but can’t afford a few hundred dollars for my devices

    if you limit yourself to a computer and sell “devices” (note the shoresh – “vices”!) and stop paying their monthly fees – you can then afford paying for the filter. Oh, wait, you will not even need them! even more left for tzedokah. Make that first donation in my name.

    in reply to: What’s stopping you from Filtering your internet? #2458710

    lakewood > What happened when it’s 2 am and no one else is up in your house

    this is not a problem in my house! If it is in yours, just wait until your kids are teens.

    the simple solution is time-based controls. And give your spouse/parents/children teamviewer access – that is have them logged into your computer remotely. If you are worrying about night shift, have also a shomer in EY or in China.

    There are also tools that do random snapshots of the screen (or you can program this capability yourself), making them available to your shomer/shomeret.

    in reply to: 770: A Mikdash or a Madhouse? Rabbonim Must Act Now #2458706

    we have established rules of yerusha – going up level to tati, then zeide, etc. Hope the yerush is not a minsagid or a satmar.

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2458705

    yankel, thanks for this hasam sofer! and right on point!

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2458476

    interesting in Steipler’s analysis is that being enthusiastic about medina is wrong because in recent generations goyim do not interfere with our observance.

    I am not sure when this was written, maybe in 1970s? “generations” would include at least two, that would be like 40 years. Surely, Steipler remembered WW2 …. even at that time, Israel just absorbed Sephardim coming from unfriendly goyim and Soviet Jews were still behind the iron curtain. I don’t think that it is feasible that Steipler considered Khomenii or Brezhnev better than Ben Gurion. Furthermore, at about that time or slightly later – Israel got Menachem Begin as PM, changing the calculus again. Surely, Steipler understood the political trends at his times!

    Maybe the way to explain these inconsistencies is to look at the purpose of the letter – he is writing to anti-Z kaonyim, trying to bring them to accept Israeli politics. Thus, he is going out of the way to flatter them, acknowledged their concerns, and provides just minimal support to the Zionists – just enough to accept elections. Prohibiting lashon hara against religious zionists really makes further anti-Z vile propaganda impossible. Of course, we see that not everyone accepts the words of the chacham.

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2458125

    somejew, thanks for brining this interesting quote. I am confused how you are interpreting it:
    > He is explicitly that claims of אתחלתא דגאולה are FALSE, they are not compatible with Torah. That means that the belief is kefira in the (Torah) Truth.

    all these seem to be your words. Steipler says simply אינו אלא טועה – a mistake. Where is kefira comes from?

    Also, he is explicit that you cannot say lashon hara about them. I hope you kept this psak in mind in your last 1000 posts.

    in reply to: Going OTD in the IDF #2457840

    somejew > This is all the same for all types of heretical movements that we suffer from, such as Reform or Sha”tz or MO.

    I think you have a point that an individual might really not subscribe to the movement theology and be judged on their own. this still does not answer yankel’s questions that RL and MO witnesses and rabbis are usually treated with neemanut that reform does not.

    in reply to: Gun control #2457841

    coffee > he’ll be told he’s on the wrong side of the mechitzah and then is directed to the other side!

    indeed, and every shul has kanoyim who can be relied to tell him that, after they are done correcting leining. Just make sure mehitza is bullet-proof.

    in reply to: How do we know that anti-Zionist posters are Jewish? #2457839

    third version of the same story from the anti-zionist POV. Seems like everyone agrees on the words Chofetz Chaim said, but interprets them somewhat differently.

    footnotes of Chofetz Chaim Al Hatorah, Parshas Bo:

    In the winter of 5678 (1917-1918) when they told the Chofetz Chaim about the simcha that had spread in Jewish homes because of the Balfour Declaration, the Chofetz Chaim burst out crying and said, “What is the point of this simcha? Hakadosh Baruch Hu promised us, ‘And you shall spread out west and east and north and south’ – here is a sure promisory note, which Hakadosh Baruch Hu will pay up when the time comes. Now some people come and admit to a small part of Hakadosh Baruch Hu’s promisory note, and everyone is happy about this declaration, and they see it as a sort of redemption. They are satisfied with a little… they don’t wait for more… Oy, what has become of us…” and he continued crying.

    The Chofetz Chaim’s son, Reb Leib, used to relate: “When the British government issued the well-known Balfour Declaration regarding Eretz Yisroel, the Chofetz Chaim saw it as an arousal from above regarding the redemption. At that time he quoted the comment of the Ohr Hachaim Hakadosh on the verse, ‘a tribe will arise from Israel’ (Bamidbar 24:17). But he said, I am afraid that the irreligious will ruin it, G-d forbid. He would said that many times there have already been times of favor, but those generations ruined it.”

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