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I worked out a speech for one of the kids for a middle school graduation – about a difference between “graduation” and a “siyum”.
Graduation comes from latin “step” so you step out of what you were doing. Siyum says that we are going to return to the maseches again
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI skipped PhD graduation because I was busy at work, after I realized how much I still need to learn.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThere were some times news of Hamas executing collaborationists. There is a son of Hamas founder who lives in England and writes books and gives speeches against Hamas. For comparison, when Americans liberated Iraq, there were lots of insurgents in the news, but there were also thousands and thousands of Iraqis who worked closely with Americans. When you read the news that an ISIS or Saddam insurgent bombed a line to the police station – that means there were hundred of Iraqis standing in line to get a police job. [I am paraphrasing RE Silver story about someone who was selling siddur in German camps]
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> Those who learn Torah are more qualified for an exemption than any and all of the above.
this is very crum. We had a number of people here voicing their arguments or the rabbis they listen to. The refuseniks include not just lomdei Torah at any reasonable cutoof reason, but anybody who is willing to follow these communities. This is, in effect, catch-22: evil Zs do not listen to our B’D – but if they suddenly listen to us, then everyone will be exempt.
Think, Torah asks us to dedicate 1 day a week fully away from the world. Would it be OK to extend Shabbos by a couple of hours? seems to be OK. How about keep Shabbos 3-4 days a week? Does not make sense, right? This is not what Hashem intended. Same, sheves Levi was exempt, so say 10% of population could be exempt (plus those under 20 and over 60 who can learn full time). So, now about 50% of Israeli Jewish population are shomer shabbos and, B’H, growing. So, distribute this 10% exemption between these whole 50% of population, compensate the rest with college exemptions and establish a strong sheves Levi that is supported by the whole am isroel, instead of current unfortunate bizayon Torah.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> So where are the good Gazaians who simply have to make one phone call to the Israelis and inform them where the hostages are?
how do we know that is not how they found recent hostages? or targeted some of the hamas leaders? whatever info is in the papers is not necessarily accurate, and for a good reason.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSomehow Torah counts Jews in BMibbar as those who are “yetze tzava” (other than sheves Levi).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMaybe academic dress is similar to what Jews consider scholarly dress also? Long robes and sleeves are the sign that the person is not engaged in manual labor and does not need to run fast in his business. Not that different from scholarly costumes yeshiva students wear our days.
June 16, 2024 2:26 pm at 2:26 pm in reply to: Another (Baltimore) response to the tuition crisis. #2290319Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantoh, now it becomes clear what they need by NET income. Maybe they are including all these transfer payments.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantchaim > How does democracy save us from those dangers?
right, that is why throughout a lot of history, democracy was not practiced. It works when (1) voting public (does not have to be all population) are suffiently educated (2) there are parts of the system that can stop passions (republic, courts, etc)
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcommon > and are not busy trying to see which way the wind is blowing.
I know you mean well, defending integrity of halakha against various Reformim and OOS. That is not what I am talking about. It is there in the gemora that psak that is not accepted by the community is being rescinded. If you don’t believe me, I hope you only follow hashgoho that avoids shemen akum.
> does not believe in daas torah and said everybody should pasken as they see fit
yes, you connected two stories well, this is the same Rav. And he paskens as he sees fit, according to achoronim. How is it different from Rabbonim in your town? Do they all refer all your questions to R Moshe? Then, what is their salaries for? Or do they share their Torah for free as T’Ch should?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIndeed, tzahal may not be short on soldiers right now, but they are limited how long they can keep people away from their civilian jobs. So helping with those jobs should also be an option.
June 14, 2024 8:34 am at 8:34 am in reply to: Clarence Thomas – A Supreme Court Justice who lacks any Ethics #2289959Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI don’t understand this thread – is there a specific claim that the judge benefited his friend somehow? His philosophy is known, and so of other judges. I think 8 of them decide according to their declared philosophy, whether they ❤️ 🍺 or don’t know who a woman is. The chief judge seems to be the only one who has some external considerations.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThe DE jury followed my advice and were done by lunch! Lawyers need to drive back to NY by shkiah.
Hunter raised an interesting (Talmudic?) point – are you considered a drunkard at the moment you are not drinking (and maybe alcohol level just below the legal limit). Should a person have a chezkas kashrus? The fact that he drunk before does not mean that he’ll not stop today. Power of teshuva, etc. Same goes for a ganav or a gambler. If he is not gambling right now, he is a kosher witness. And if it is Montag, he is not a mechalel shabbos (right now).
Possibilities are endless. A policeman stops you – why are you speeding? A: I am not speeding, I am at full rest right now, forget all my previous aveiros.
Maybe this needs to be included into YK liturgy – ashamnu, but not right now; bagadnu, but not right now. Look at us right now, we are fasting and davening. Disregard nah the sheretz b’yadeinu.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantSimcha, this is very confusing. Melech Dovid was able to gather an army. Was it not “charedi” enough for you? Torah is not calling on us to wear certain clothes and eat gefilte fish. It has various mitzvos and our job is to analyze when they are applicable and act when necessary. Whatever social and psychological issues are there, they should not be an excuse to not follow Torah. I am not saying that there is a definite answer to serious questions, just that excuses are not relevant.
And for sure, one cannot claim an exemption as a ” T Ch” if he has issues that prevent him from considering his options under Torah. This is like killing the parents and asking for rachmonus as an yasom.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantLernt, rabbonim, or at least what they say & publish, are influenced by the people they lead. For one, they need to know what the kahal is ready to accept. Second, they respond to the questions they ask. As I quoted before, my Rav lectured on business ethics and mentioned that Polish responsa at some point stopped addressing business issues and concnetrated more on pots & pans … I quipped “it is YOUR fault” (meaning Rabbonim who stopped writing). He responded “No, it is YOUR fault”, that is – no shailos, no teshuvos.
June 12, 2024 3:20 pm at 3:20 pm in reply to: Chasidus Filling a Void Within Modern Orthodoxy #2289794Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDaMoshe, you have a point – pointing that tzadik, and other terms, change their meaning over time, so quoting a source with a word in it maight be anachronism. I know a Rav that when Gemorah mentions “chassid”, he clarifies “real chassid”
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantNote that none of them is a candidate yet. One intriguing shitah is that someone lured B into having a debate before the convention so that if he fully fails, Ds can substitute a wife of one of the previous presidents instead of him.
June 11, 2024 1:50 pm at 1:50 pm in reply to: Another (Baltimore) response to the tuition crisis. #2289682Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIn related news, Texas had primaries and it seems that most of Rs that were against school vouchers lost. So, expect school vouchers in Texas next year. I think the plan is for about $10K per child.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantA better way to put it: US based to have 2 candidates both trying to get to 50.1% favorability. Now we have two both fighting to get to 40% favorability and winning on the strength of the opposition to the other guy. How far can this go? Can we see two candidates with 20% favorability and still fighting on?Maybe when sum of favorabilities for two candidates falls below 50%, this opens a place for a 3rd candidate to get to 50%?
June 10, 2024 1:09 am at 1:09 am in reply to: Another (Baltimore) response to the tuition crisis. #2289535Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGood humor, but “Stop paying teachers a living wage.” is actually a part of the solution. Vouchers that you describe that follow families is another part.
Halakha allows unrestricted competition between teachers, leading to lower prices and higher affordability. Let teachers or small group of teachers open one-class schools, teaching second grade only in their home or any small office or inside a school building to which they pay rent. R Kamenetsky and R Ruderman were in such classes in their Litvishe shtetl and grew up OK. They did complain about one insensitive second grade teacher, but our current towns should provide enough competition.
June 9, 2024 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm in reply to: Chasidus Filling a Void Within Modern Orthodoxy #2289465Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim,
my question is whether Litvaks are a reaction to Chassidus or their reaction to Chassidus was based on their previous positions. Other groups had somewhat different reactions to Chassidus, so it is more than just minhag ashkenaz. And please fix your keyboard, not sure why you are calling Litvaks Litfaks, there is no Litfa country.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantJackk, Trump won because he won over “deplorables” who were traditional D base, expanding R reach beyond 47% of taxpayers that Romney so correctly estimated. Very Reaganesque. And he is continuing improving his standing among those groups.
If you are looking for a positive side of the recent politics, it is that large groups of population decided that they “have nothing to lose” and are now open to voting for two parties which is healthier than when two parties simply rally their bases.
Note also that “the verdict” might cost T some independent votes but will surely bring T additional votes from the part of the traditional D base – convicted felons and their relatives and friends.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantall, please notice chassidus and ehrelichkeit of exCTlawyer who was ready to lose credit for millions of posts he created just to make sure that his pseudonym complies with CT Bar rules! Very inspirational. Keep his face in your mind next time you are skirting some minor regulation.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWolf, refuah shleimah
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant`Interesting that R’L both sides have a Cohen on their team, one as a witness against, another as a current wife.
Also, does Hunter give credit for taking a crack at performing mitzva of yibum?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantakuperma, interesting theory. One problem: most of those Yidden would have ended up in Soviet area of occupation, and a serious number of them would have ended up simply relocating to GULAG or just resettling in Siberia. Such resettling trips in soviet cattle cars had death rate of 50% just during the trip.
June 7, 2024 10:52 am at 10:52 am in reply to: Chasidus Filling a Void Within Modern Orthodoxy #2289147Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI heard that R Zelig Epstein was asked how did Mir Yeshiva decided to travel through USSR in apparent violation of Daas Torah of R Ozer who apparently advised them not to go. He answered – it was not a problem because this was before the Daas Torah…
Given that Mir students were getting Sugihara visas up to September 1940, and R Ozer was niftar in August 1940, it seems that DT was not yet operational during R Ozer’s lifetime. Maybe, out of modesty, the Rav authorized DT to start after his own petirah so that people would not think that he is doing it for his own aggrandizement?!
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim re: Egypt. This is exactly what US and similar systems are designed for – control by masses. This danger was known from ancient times and that is why “democracy” was discredited and was not tried for centuries. Possibly, early modernity that made more people educated allowed thinking about letting more people to participate in the government.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantEx-CTL, thanks for a good summary. I would like to point out a couple of points:
1) the federal system works in a unique way in USA – it is a big country with recently arrived (a couple of centuries on average) population that is pretty mobile (most, except the natives and the slaves, come from people who volunteered to go to the other side of the world). Thus, if you do not like your state laws, you can easily relocate to one of the remaining 49. Same language, currency, even starbucks and other chains. This creates choices for population and competition between state governments. This compensates for the biggest weakness of the modern state – there is competition in private sector, but not in public. Of course, the more feds take over, the less gov competition there is.
2) These freedoms of movement and of religion and of the press are used best by mobile and active population that is not afraid to make choices and act (anshei chayil in the words of Yisro). The rest of the population gets captured by whatever government and information channel they get… and they suffer from the freedoms they are not able to take advantage of. Arguably, these people would be better off with the government that takes care of them, does not allow hate speech, provides social safety, etc
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIf you know that daas Torah will be not tax deductible – do you still ask the shaila or compensate your daas Torah for the expense. Or, worse, you don’t compensate your DT and he feels that it is his obligation to respond to you but he cannot afford losing tax free status, so you made him into a ganav, thus losing his DT status, of course.
June 6, 2024 8:43 pm at 8:43 pm in reply to: Chasidus Filling a Void Within Modern Orthodoxy #2289113Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantthe question is “what came first” – a Litvak or a Chossid. You can obviously say that Chasidim started a revolution so that they can came later. But you can’t easily dismiss the argument that Litvak attitude was emphasized as a response to Chasidut and may not be same now as then.
Still, I quoted before a gemora about an amorah who silently refuses a shidduch with his Rebbe’s (Tanna!) daughter that probably means that at least THAT amorah was a Litvak.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGermans agreeing to a pace agreement, then developing nuclear capabilities, intercontinental missiles and missile defense before US did – would this be a better option? Or, maybe someone learned from Wilsonian WWI fail to “stop all the wars”
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantwhat are the implications of this very stringent interpretation of “benefiting the campaign”?
if a newspaper announces that this is an emergency and their goal is to stop election of a certain candidate, is their publishing activity a campaign contribution? If they have 1 million of digital readers, this would make it a million counts. The jury will take a lot of time to read them out.
when an elected official performs multiple acts to benefit his campaign (forgiving loans, proposing peace plans, issuing border instructions) – these are all benefiting his campaign. He should (1) reimburse USGOV all the expenses (2) use only funds he acquired via legit campaign donations for the reimbursement. Of course, you can argue that it is hard to prove that the president did this for campaign purposes, but after votes in South Dakota sue him, it will be up to a jury there to decide.
June 4, 2024 5:59 pm at 5:59 pm in reply to: Chasidus Filling a Void Within Modern Orthodoxy #2288542Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim > chasdim just do it out of fear and the chumras come first.
I have an idea about the chumros – why so many people run for chumros bein adam l’makom, but not always bein adam l’chavero. As you say – fear.
You have a relationship with Hashem and you have only limited information about what He expects from you. What if $50 lulav is not enough for a chashuve Yid like you? My neighbor who is an am haaretz spent $100, so it may be $200 is expected from me?! This is a Jewish version of Pascal wager : if your error on being machmir costs you $100, and your error on meikel costs you olam habo, the choice is obvious.
It looks easier when you are dealing with people who provide you with feedback.
Someone is selling a car. You say – how about $2000 for this clunker? The guy agrees. So, obviously the price was right.
Your wife asks – when are you going to be home? After the latest maariv in town and a class after that. OK, says the wife … obviously, she is happy that you are learning and she has the zechus to put kids to sleep.There two possible errors here:
1) it might be that Hashem did not really care about $200 for the esrog. OK, so the loss is just $150, right? No, the loss will be all the time and effort you spent pursuing these chumros while neglecting other issues and learning and maybe stealing more from others for the chumros (if yo are meikel on using OPM, other people’s money).2) you can’t always rely on getting feedback from people.
a) They may think that you are dishonest and rude person, but they will not tell you that in your face. Did you have hear people saying bad things about others? Do they usually say it in their face or only behind their back?
b) they may know that they can’t expect more from you. A wife would be the first to know that.
c) they may not understand themselves at the moment that you are not doing enough for them. They may not know choshen mishpat to know, for example, that you have to disclose problems with your clunker when you sell it, or that the buyer is not allowed to insist on a lower price same way as the seller is not allowed to insist on a higher …So, bottom line is that one should appreciate complexity of human psychology and be fearful that they are not machmir enough in bein adam l’chavero , that are so machmir that Hashem will not forgive them until people do ..
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim > I question specifically the American style democracy. I advocate that yes maybe we need a style like you outline in France
American system is somewhat different from European. As Gemorah says – better to live in a new town than in an old, as its sins are fewer.
European countries are (or were until recently) groups of a small number of homogeneous groups. (Jews were an exception for most of last 2000 years, that is why everyone was against us). USA system was created from the scratch to accommodate differing views. Original idea was that each state is almost a sovereign entity that can have their own laws, religion, with certain federal laws that make the states leave peacefully and cooperatively with each other. Bill of rights applied to the feds, the state could have, and had, established religions, for example. Things are more complicated now, but the idea is still there: the role of the government, ideally, is not so much as to establish one community, but to accommodate multiple communities. This is really well designed for what the Jews want (and is similar to what we had in Poland as Vaad Arabah Artzot had a state within the state).
So, if you will invite government to suppress speech against us, then it will surely end up with suppressing our speech. We will be better off if we use the freedoms this country grants us to build a community with beautiful speech and actions between each other.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantgood observation. Here is a possible answer;
We often come here to discuss things we would not discuss with our neighbors in shul. Who wants to get into a daas Torah fight with the gabbay?!
Republican Jews can express themselves in shuls, while Dem Jews feel like marranos and come here to express themselves. So, let’s have rachmonus and let them be.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantCTL > I was quite specific about the NY DA, etc.
> You conflate this with a story about Merrick Garland who is a Federal official.The story mentions a “leak” to NYT that explained what Biden wants. Anyone who is interested in a political promotion could now act accordingly.
Just as a thought experiment, read the leaked article as it is a personally written by the President about what he expects from prosecutors. There is a good chance you will consider such an article inappropriate. How is it different when the article is intentionally leaked to the reporters?Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantcoffee > Ask Sam Klein
exactly, I just did.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIf increasing number of people increases choices, then the UN secretary will be the biggest tzaddik.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantover long term, American and European systems are pretty competitive
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAgree w/ Simcha – these matters are very complicated. All we can do is daven for Hashem to provide wisdom to the decision-makers and maintain unity without undermining their standing with demonstration for any of the preferred positions leading to headlines “Bibi is changing decision under pressure from XYZ”. Gov has way better negotiating position when they can say to pressing friends – all Israelis/Jews support the government policy, so you can’t pressure us into a different policy.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAny significance that 34 charges were summed up after 34 days of OMER? And the 34th day of omer itself was a MEMORIAL day in USA?
June 3, 2024 4:17 pm at 4:17 pm in reply to: Chasidus Filling a Void Within Modern Orthodoxy #2288231Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantindeed, one of the Litvishe Rebbeim of the previous generation called some of the “litvishe” yeshivos – as litvishe teachers of Hungarian students. By now, it is Hungarian teachers teaching Hungarian students zecher l’Lita…
Btw, I am not sure why you spell them/us with F. Litvaks are mispronouncing Sh, not V! According to R Twersky, two Yidden in 1920s were negotiating a border between Russia and Lithuania (representing corresponding countries). They thought of going thru shtetls and asking them to recite Shir Hashirim. The ones that say “Sir haSirim aser leSlomo” would belong to Lithuania, the rest to Russia. (Maybe we need 2 people like that for Russia-Ukraine border now).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantto segue into learning: this is a good moment to learn what is (and in this case IS NOT) a kosher witness. From Jewish POV, defense should all the right things – how much the witness was lying, including to the jury itself. If it were a beis din, they would say “enough, enough” after 2-3 examples and dismissed the witness.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim,
I am not sure tuition vouchers should be based on income at all. You want the middle/upper class working community to afford the schools also. I know a number of families who would choose a Jewish school if it were more affordable (and they do when granted a scholarship).American precedent is social security: FDR on purpose started it as a universal program rather than just for poor to keep it popular.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantnot a peace plan, an election plan.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYasher Koach! This is a great initiative – essentially a voucher system for Jewish schools, with money following students. If this is successful, hopefully, the subsidy will incrase. I heard Seattle also has a subsidy system. And, of course, some red states have state vouchers already.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantmazal tov again. I don’t think you have anything to be ashamed of with your current name.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantChaim,
American founders created a system that tried to take into account human frailties and make it work around dangers of both despotism and lawless anarchy. At previous times, democracy was not a discredited word: ancients tried it in Greece and Rome and it was eventually supplanted by “benevolent” Kings, who were expected to be responsible with the people that “belonged” to them, similar to how every balabos takes care of things inside his house for his own sake. Letting unruly masses to run the country was considered insane. Two attempts were made simultaneously: France and USA. French experiment ran indeed insane very quickly, leading to mass lawful and unlawful murder of lots of people, both from old regime and between revolutionaries themselves. It did work out in a long term. American experiment ran surprisingly better and USA has 250 years of elections, interrupted just once by a civil war period. Compare it with the history of European countries and all the wars and revolutions they generated.So, there is clearly something done right in this country. Does it mean that courts and free speech rules are perfect? of course not. But it would make sense to learn first about how they developed in history. If you would like a kosher perspective on history. I would recommend Rabbi Berel Wein. I see that he has a book “The Golden Land: The Jewish Experience in the United States and Canada” also recordings on Torah downloads, etc.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantR Yochanan b Zakkai was not sure till the end of his days whether he was right when he asked Vespasian for a little, and succeeded, or maybe he could have asked for more. Somehow he did not trust his daas Torah …
on the other hand, when rabbi Yehoshua ben Korcha calls (his student?) R Eliezer “vinegar ben wine” for becoming a Roman collaborator searching for Jewish bandits, R Eliezer tries to defend himself. But when a simple person says the same thing, R Eliezer sends the guards on him – so disrespect to daas Torah might be dangerous…. but then R Eliezer himself takes yissurim upon himself till his death because of this episode, despite others assuring him that his “gut judgment” was correct and the man was deserving and he himself tested his fat to prove that he is right. So, he also was not sure of his own daas Torah … not an easy question.
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