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YS > People who openly look frum (or “Orthodox”) but privately lie, cheat, steal, speak lashon horah, get into fights she’lo l’sheim Shomayim, and in general make the lives of others more difficult should fall under the same category as “Orthoprax”.
No, they don’t. Orthoprax are those who do mitzvos, the people you list – do not and are not “orthoprax”.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvram > And I don’t expect a rebbe to know the background of every talmid’s grandparents and great-grandparents.
I was not clear – I meant he could encourage kids to ask parents about family history. But, frankly, thanks for the thought: the Rebbe obviously needs to know where the kid comes from in order to influence him in the right way. This is like a surgeon not reading X-rays before operation.
But this goes hand-in-hand with the overall theory of schooling: if the teacher is sure that he is “frummer” and he just needs to save kids from the parents’ aveiros, then there is no need to inquire.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvram > And perhaps you’re putting too much of the parents’ job onto the rebbe
This is an interesting point. So, the “rebbe”‘s job is to teach the kid “Torah” and the parents’ job to teach the rest of the Torah?! See Beitza 25 – Hashem gave us Torah to train us in Derech Eretz so that we use it when dealing with others. I know this Gemora is somewhat extreme, there are milder version of the same.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantDaMoshe, exactly, but current students do not know that to the degree that having such an opinion is considered disrespectful.
Here is a quote from a book by a yeshivish Rav who both uses the hats but sees the limits: a boy comes to me and says that he is not comfortable with hat, etc. But I need to ensure that the school has it. One way would be to tell him that hats are right, and you are wrong, and you need to follow the rules, possibly destroying the kid. Another is to tell him honestly: look, I think it would be not a problem for you to dress differently, but it might be a problem for some others. So, I would like to ask you to do it even you are not comfortable and do not really need it, but do it for the sake of others.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantMishna lists animals that are always muad. Dog is not one of them. But having a dangerous dog might have halachic problems indeed.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantZe> No one is going to back your “deep state” reasoning.
I don’t think I referred to any deep state members. Maybe I was not clear – I based my thinking on research papers from multiple countries that quote statistical data collections – some times by country; some times – in a specific area or even a hospital. In some, not all, cases data is even available to verify. Do you think that deep state is working on real time modification of various databases over the whole world. I think we saw that deep state can barely manage giving money to several contractors to produce vaccine on time – companies needed to talk to T and his SIL to make the deep state do the job.
And I asked you nicely what makes Kennedy more credible than others and you did not even try to answer.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRebE, somehow your wisdom and clear thinking abandon you when it comes to politics. Maybe a home-based TDS test? T insisted that NATO actually do defense; Europe not using Russian gas and Chinese telecom. Eventually, they came to that, sort of… You don’t like how he phrased it? I see why, but that does not change the essence.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantZe, there are a lot of permissive psakim for people dealing with powerful people, and if they are not nice, there might be more permissions. You may not have learned those because you were not yet invited by Charles or Vladimir. If you know a rav who has powerful congregants, ask him
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAnother difference between Fauci and me is that he seemingly based some of his responses on “how people will react to that”, while I was (trying to) address issues directly. Such as – nobody needs mask (so that there will be no panic); 3 weeks is a great time between 2 vaccines (more is safer but someone decided that it will be great to have “fully vaccinated” people faster rather than vaccinating more people. UK did opposite).
I am not blaming him and similar people for taking mass reaction into account. Maybe, we all would do that in his position. But he seemingly has no expertise in this area and just used his allergology expertise to deal with public policy; and did not bother to involve real experts.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> clothes do indicate how the wearer wishes to be identified.
Either someone needs to police their uniform. That would mean cherem or similar to people who do not live up to the uniform ideal; or devalue the uniform. That is, when everyone dresses like a Talmid Chacham – how do we see who is a T’Ch and show respect? So, now T’Ch needs to wear a bigger hat and a hairier shtreimel, and the circle goes on. Soon, all limited resources are spent on clothes.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThanks for defending me. I indeed do not have a position about Fauci. I mostly read research papers about covid, even some pseudo-research by sceptics. Pseudo-research because they generally lacked hard data, but operated with some secondary sources or pointed out possible deficiency in other papers. I think mention of “Fauci” is a good sign that someone went down the rabbit hole. An only serious matter that I saw that might involve Fauci is mysterious delay in reporting Pfizer Phase 2 trial results post elections. Someone made a decision that it would be good to have slightly more data than originally planned, and I never saw a determination of who that person was.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantthis is often a result of google-bombing: a group of people jointly click on their favorite answer and it rises to the top. Looks like there are more anti-semites than philo-semites in the world, or at least they are more active.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantCommon, sorry I didn’t read that far after the first paragraph
All of this doesn’t explain to me why Ze trusts his and putins word against numerous researchers who published on the topic. I suspect the answer is that she simply reads social media rather than research, and in her mind it is fauci v rjk Jr and her choice is reasonable.May 2, 2023 10:52 pm at 10:52 pm in reply to: Mass shootings, and non mass shootings, must stop. #2186489Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHow hard is the sevorah that it is harder to subjugate armed population? I think I even brought Chofetz Chaim who used this is a moshal that when the country is in danger, they give guns to everyone (the nimshal being that in 1920s Poland everyone should try to increase learning in their own community).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantOk, say hello from all of us to that other Avira.
I agree in general on D’E, except that it should not require an extra effort to integrate chesed into curriculum, as chesed is an integral part of Torah. Rather than “preach”, just read meforshim about it.
What I think you mean – it is very exciting for everyone to talk about things that makes Jews look exclusive – we are not eating what they are eating, while l’havero sounds too boring? Why not focus on how better we are (should be) in those mitzvos than general culture and go learn details on that?
Returning lost objects; details on respecting parents; honesty in your job, etc.I once was at a lecture by a very “frum”-dressed community member who was also distinguished in his profession. “Kids” started asking him what is most challenging/advice mostly talking towards keeping shabbos, kashrus, other challenges at work. He started with – most important thing you need to do is work honestly for your employer for the whole 8 hours a day you are hired ….
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHere is what wiki puts as maalos of this iluy, do I need to continue further, or can I stop here.
Career: In 1982, Kennedy was sworn-in as an Assistant District Attorney for Manhattan.[10] After failing his bar exam, he resigned in July 1983.[28] That September, he was charged with heroin possession,[28] and pleaded guilty in February 1984, when he received to two years’ probation and community service.[29][30] Following his arrest he entered a drug treatment center and during his probation volunteered for the Natural Resources Defense Council. His probation ended a year early.[31] In 1984, Kennedy joined Riverkeeper as an investigator, and was promoted to senior attorney[32] when he was admitted to the New York bar in 198
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira, my problem is your equating of decent behavior with getting a hat.
I understand that the kids in MO schools have these problems, I have no direct experience with MO schools, but I heard and seen some … Again, I am sure some of your influence is positive. I also appreciate that you seem to know something about parents you are dealing with. Teachers I had issues with, did not bother to learn anything about the family.
That said, why does your influence leads to their desire to get a hat, out of all things people can do to improve their middos? Can you think about influencing them in such a way that the parent calls you to say – thank you very much, my son today said a wonderful dvar Torah, asked me to tell him about my grandfather and how he kept Yiddishkeit in Hungary, and cleaned dishes after the seudah?
May 2, 2023 5:21 pm at 5:21 pm in reply to: Mass shootings, and non mass shootings, must stop. #2186409Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYS > If you have to get this abstract to talk about a very real and very pressing topic,
in other words, you are saying: let’s focus on what is happening right now and ignore longer-term consequences. With the same logic, we should take money from all rich people so that we can feed all poor this year; let’s eat all grain this year, not leave anything for the next year harvest, etc.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI Should not be using chatGPT while driving
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantPolitics always allowed kulos. R Akiva and others travelled to visit Roman Emperors …
As long as the President follows the local chief Rabbi rulings, there should not be any problems.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGreat, at least one CR thread ends with solution!
OP, you may want to check if you should wait till May 12 to fly or maybe you can arrive 1130p on May 11 and pass customs at 0000 May 12.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRebE: firing people – bad
It is not. See the administration where best minds were shown to be clueless during Afghanistan exit. Nobody was fired and the same Nobody developed a great strategy how to convince Putin not to attack by not offending him by an early reaction and giving him a stern warning … Maybe firing those inkens and livans and getting someone like Bolton on board would have prevented the events.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantJackk> he is functioning with complete competence 24 hours a day as President.
24 hour is a poetic license – except morning, late afternoons, and weekends. For exampe, during some Congress flare-up, Sen Manchin got offended by something coming out of WH on Friday and then discussed the problems “with the WH” (sic!) who continued sending bad messages, until Mr Biden showed up himself on Monday and they had a discussion that calmed things down. So, the President was not available even for a phone call over whole weekend.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> What do you see as terrible if she becomes the president?
She is the person who quit the primary while on track to have support of 1% Dems. And it was in line with her qualifications, not because of some controversy.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAvira, sometimes it is hard to see yourself from outside. While I am sure you have a lot of positive influence on your students, I am also in agreement with Dofi that you are committing genius daas from the parents. I had to take my kids out of schools because of well meaning influencers like you.
I don’t know how exactly to differentiate between where one should influence kids and where to respect other opinions, but you seem to consistently fall on the wrong side of this line.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYsiegel, do you have specific references where your rebbe refers to professionals? Cs doesn’t seem to appreciate your words
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantNot all psychologists have chochma, and not all LORs are bakiim… That is why I am recommending books by r Twersky who was both. I don’t know if he had raised students working in his ways … when he recommends asking a rabbi, he sometimes qualifies “who is qualified in such matters ” and when recommends a psychologist he suggests sometimes to add the local rabbi to the team, so that the doctor doesn’t conclude that wrapping up boxes every day is a sign of ocd
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantCS, a good point. One of the halochos of tochacha is that if are unable to do it properly – privately, showing your love and care for the recipient, then you are exempt.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantamirican, and if you think outside ~= inside is not such a big deal, we also have 12,000 hevrusos who Hashem did not judge deserving to become Teachers of Torah for inappropriate middos.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantRambaM lists a mitzvah to know Hashem rather than believe, right?
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI don’t think age is a problem for Biden. He was in the same state of mind for many decades – when he “quoted” Kinnock without attribution, when he proposed insane solutions for Iraq and in most other times.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantZe,
could you explain what makes you truth this RFK Jr person? Do you know him personally? Or anyone from his family? Did someone you trust recommended him? What are his credentials? As far as I know he did not achieve much in his life to be listened to, but I am willing to learn.Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantR Twersky’s “Dear Rabbi, Dear Doctor” book (last published 2016) list these agencies about various psychological issues without specifying which is which. maybe someone wants to look into them and add descriptions
echo 845 425 9750
relief 718 431 9501
bikur cholim
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Mask 718-758-0400
Shalom Task Force 718-337-3700
JAADD (Jewish Ass for ADD) 718 435 0101
Nefesh 201 530 0010
Ohel 718 851 6300
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JFCS 718 435 5700
Yitti Leibel Help line 718 help nowAlways_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI think we got to a conclusion – this thread is more about what is in the mind of the OP than of the objects. Avira seems to suspect that everyone who is not thinking like him is an apikoires, and the fact that the person read or quotes some T’Ch not approved by Avira as the definite proof.
We indeed have a mishna that lists cases where we correct shaliach tzibur when he _expresses_ inappropriate beliefs, I just don’t see tanna going as far as Avira does.
May 1, 2023 5:58 pm at 5:58 pm in reply to: Mass shootings, and non mass shootings, must stop. #2186039Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYS, it is hard to argue about what did not happen, but one could, for example, imagine small mafia states emerging in American West, centered around religion (Mormons) or natural resources. Maybe because law & order somehow existed in those remote areas, in part because there were enough armed men there. Maybe I watched too many Westerns.
My main thought is that we tend to look at what is lacking and complain and not appreciate what exists. This is how various revolutionaries lured people in the last centuries.
Chofetz Chaim writes that one needs to appreciate how difficult it used to travel, and now that we got trains, one should be thankful for that…
May 1, 2023 5:58 pm at 5:58 pm in reply to: Mass shootings, and non mass shootings, must stop. #2186023Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantok, I take back “minor”, that was inappropriate, but it is only “major” as proportion of US population (20+ mln), not in absolute scale. Just the Napoleonic wars had 3M soldiers and 1-3M civilians killed…
As you are saying, the N/S conflict existed for a long time and was somehow managed most of it. But that is only N/S. There are no other divisions? Just ponder why NY and NJ did not fight as France and Germany …
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantHashem can send a vaccine and then put an officer to make sure that even a choleh nefesh gets it, but ultimately he can’t make him drink it….
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantOp indeed mentions atheists, but this is not what orthopraxy usually is. At Least in our times. It is usually people who didn’t thimuch about why they do what they do. It is exactly like students whose inside is not like outside. I don’t think any Tanna I’m in the Mishnah are in that category, the question was whether to admit such students. You might be insulting Tannaim by your assumption
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThere is a brocha for seeing a monarch, not sure whether current king has enough powers to qualify, but this shows that watching it may not be bitul zman
May 1, 2023 1:03 pm at 1:03 pm in reply to: Mass shootings, and non mass shootings, must stop. #2185872Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYs, I am trying to look at a bigger picture 📸 and this necessarily involves longer time frames. It is a Jewish thing to look at history as you probably know. Chachamim yodea itim is not just about Rosh hodesh
Your examples show how we can get confused with day to day news. I am aware of effect of these on American psyche, but even taking the most anti American interpretation of these, they will still be minor skirmishes
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThere is such thing as biological age as people age differently..it can be measured via telomer length. Look it up
We all probably saw the difference between people in their 80s recalling gemora by page and those who struggle to use the TV clicker
April 30, 2023 10:42 pm at 10:42 pm in reply to: Mass shootings, and non mass shootings, must stop. #2185702Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantAmericans do seem to be more violent by gun statistics. But some observations over the time frame of US existence:
1) other nations had way bigger outbursts of violence – wars, prosecutions. French could not even do a revolution without killing each other; Germans thought of themselves as most civilized until they did not; all of the European empires brought a lot of misery to different parts of the world (together with some rule of law), while American founders ended up being friends in later years; one “minor” civil war2) in international side, US had wisdom to stay outside of European wars until they became world wars – and then consistently ended as the leaders on the right side of the history in all major wars – WW1, WW2, Cold War …
Are these things connected to second amendment? maybe not directly, but somehow. for example, Brits write during both WW1 and WW2 that Americans came unprepared, did not listen to their sage advise, then repeated same mistakes Brits did, then made ten times more mistakes until they figured out the right way to fight and then won … Brits were both irritated by this approach but also admired the speed of change and learning that Americans demonstrated. for example, I would think that Americans had more officers to go through trying to find the right ones as they all came from gun culture and had experiencewith weapons even when country did not have a big army.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI am thinking of a similar situation related to learning: R Gamliel forbidding insincere students, and revoking that rule “on that day” when more benches were brought and RG warming up to this mass of students … I personally am sympathetic with R Gamliel in terms of desiring purity of learning, and I think there is a kal vehomer here: it is easier to overlook lack of sincerity in mitzvos than in learning, as the first achieve something without kavana, while the latter requires intellect to be involved. So, if we reject RG approach to purity in learning, it would follow that we shuold do same in orthopraxy.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantGadol, there is also a shaila whether one can leave EY for a spurious reason. So, it could be Hashem’s will that he gets back to West Bank ASAP.
April 30, 2023 4:35 pm at 4:35 pm in reply to: The official ASK Chat GPT ANYTHING thread!!! #2185643Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantIt is pretty easy to recognize the bot: he is the one who does not make grammer mistakes!
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantnot sure what this leads to, but I see the pattern: a well researched post with multiple sources supporting author’s position. So, either everyone supports that or the author omits those who disagree.
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantThose who don’t want to sing hymns to Kings can move to America, as you also seemingly did.
April 30, 2023 11:05 am at 11:05 am in reply to: I refused to be injected with an experimental product #2185499Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantZ, I mean papers in research journals that compare health statistics on people after taking a vaccine with others who did not. A number of of them uncovered elevated risks from the vaccines, like myocarditis in young males. Europeans changed recommended vaccines for younger population based on some of this research. There was also a finding that having more time between two vaccines was safer. Etc. Also, when you put even worst estimates of the vaccine risk v. virus risk, for all groups, risk from virus was higher. Researchers by now have access to millions and millions of health records, and conclusions seem to be pretty definite.
As to sudden deaths, I think those are attributed to the damage from the virus itself. Virus seems to be affecting various organs in the body, leaving lasting damage. this might be especially true in communities that were totally uncareful and people were exposed to multiple versions of the virus (wuhan, delta, omicron).
Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantBath,
you are talking like suddenly, out of nowhere, someone forced a new vaccine on unexpecting people. This is childish. Any long term effects are likely to come from the new virus that CCP unleashed on us. Vaccines saved many lives during pandemic.April 29, 2023 10:46 pm at 10:46 pm in reply to: I refused to be injected with an experimental product #2185349Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantWhat Pfizer executive admitted What? Please clarify.
Also, by now, there’s so much research published from multiple countries, such as UK and Israel, and multiple hospitals, each using their own data, are you claiming that someone contacted all of these research teams and changed their results?
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