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  • in reply to: Lack of respect for Rabbonim shlita #1909626

    Ok, so we have a small collection of detailed teshuvot – R Weiss, R Schachter, R Meir Twersky and also assorted quotes and public announcements of others.

    We also have several posters who graciously represent those who disagree with these teshuvot.
    Could they explain what their sources are? Maybe they can take time to ask their authorities to comment on these teshuvot? Maybe we can start Masehet Corona here.

    in reply to: Political alternate universe #1909546

    I would go with economic freedom. If economy and defense are good, then we can build our life and hopefully influence others too.
    On the social issues, we should hope that Communists and Christians continue arguing with each other. We might not like if one of these groups wins over the country completely.

    in reply to: Supreme Court Packing #1909544

    re: The trump supporters are enraged that the democrats will use court packing to get the SC back.

    I do find disturbing that Mr. Biden responds that he is not going to say what his position is. And Ms. Harris even said to Pence that she is going to answer the question and then continued to not answer.

    In a healthier debate, they should have been asked the question multiple times after that so that voters have either an answer or it will become well known that they refuse to answer.

    in reply to: Lack of respect for Rabbonim shlita #1909543

    @RebEliezer, re:Rav Weiss letter. This is good indeed. So far, first response here is that the Rav may be under pressure from the evil government, but at least we should follow them in shul.

    There are lots of halachik references that maybe some people here can unpack. I see at the end of 4th par to Rambam’s halakhot rotzeach – is this about considering an uncareful person a murderer?

    There is also a last line in the teshuva that I understand intellectually but have hard time to follow:
    >> and most important – increase brotherhood and friendship, run away from Machloket,
    >> and help your brothers, and there is no bigger vessel for Hashem’s bracha than shalom

    so, you ask someone nicely to put the mask on; then you move to another side of the shul; then you comment to your neighbor passive-aggressively that he should move away from that guy without the mask; then you point to his zipper as if it is unzipped. This does not work .. how do you increase brotherhood after that?

    in reply to: Lack of respect for Rabbonim shlita #1909542

    @akuperma – I can’t be a judge between you and your Mayor, but I see that people in other cities, including where Jews are a significant voting block and those where we are not: same groups of people disregard rules in public. Thus, your explanation may be your personal rationalization but insufficient to explain your behavior. In my town, even people who barely have any clothes on, have masks on religiously.

    Maybe R Avraham Twersky’s observation is appropriate – he says that it is harder to treat intelligent alcoholics, especially doctors. They can always find a justification for their actions.

    in reply to: Lack of respect for Rabbonim shlita #1909471

    Pashut – a good point, but the argument is about a second-hand report of an overheard conversation. Sometimes I hear about an elderly Rav nodding to a question. Maybe he was just sneezing, lo aleinu. Hard to have an informed discussion.

    I am sure there are people here who have great teachers. I suggest you ask questions and, when it is possible, post the information here for discussion. I am aware of several letters from Moetses and teshuvot from R Meir Twersky that could be a starting point for discussion.

    in reply to: Supreme Court Packing #1909470

    Any of you came from an accountant on Mayflower? If not, we should appreciate that we all were allowed into a country that stays a democracy for 200+ years with just a minor civil war in between, and gave us more rights and opportunities than other places where we came from. I don’t think it is fair to blame “sneaky Esav” for luring us into assimilation with freedom and acceptance – we need to figure out that challenge ourselves.

    So, if this country stumbles it’s way through crazy politicians and theatrical selection of justices, let it be. Don’t argue with success. If you can contribute to make the country better – gezunte heig (after thinking it over first), but don’t get despaired. We, as a nation, have more historical insights than anyone else in this country, so stop being outraged at the sight of a politician doing something inappropriate.

    in reply to: Should People Test More, or Less? #1909468

    bk613. I agree re:psychiatric effects. In fact, I am not sure any of us here is sane :). This underscores that we need to be as rational as we can to sort out lifestyle. So, people who need to work outside and those who need to have children at schools would have priority to move more. Those who have luxury to work from home and teach kids at home – should stay there. Still, many people seem to have psychological need to get to “normal” – whether it is going to a packed bar or davening in a full shul. How do we figure out – who can learn musar and re-direct his efforts from shul packing to teaching his own kids, and who gets a medical OK to go?

    Ps of course, it is catch-22: if not going to shul makes you crazy, then you are not obligated to daven until you feel better.

    in reply to: Should People Test More, or Less? #1909467

    @Syag, of course you need to take lots of factors into account. daily trends are easy – just take a 7-day average of the time series. If you want to read faster signal, you would need to match day-of-the-week ore careful. Not asking about protests is a good question, I agree with you. I am not sure whether it affects the question – what is an early prediction of magefa in the community. Misrepresentation is an even bigger question. I think nursing homes are the biggest examples. I followed several examples and overall statistics – where overall mortality measured later on uncovered that a number of nursing homes were hiding numbers. I am not sure we disagree much here.

    What I have a problem with – an example of the person in this thread who suggests to sick people not to get tested. To spite the Mayor, I presume. So, possibly increasing chances that someone sick will not get treated on time or will infect someone else. Unfortunately, there is a taste of this in one of the public letters I saw recently that says – “to facilitate an accurate assessment of the infection spread in our communities and to prevent further surge, it is important for people in high infection areas to get tested now for COVID-19.” I think this is a deniable call to present a better picture of the community (while presumably wasting tests and public resources). As daf yomi explains – we can (and should?) judge people by kiso, koso, vekaaso.

    in reply to: Labeled as anti mask #1909360

    @rightwriter >> being forced to wear something throughout the generations to distinguish us

    Don’t worry – 200 years from now, Jews in Chinese yeshivas will be all wearing masks “because our ancestors oere them in NYC”

    in reply to: Where are our gedolim #1909365

    @RebEliezer – interesting comparison. I recall it is also if patient says that he needs to eat, we listen to him too. In modern terms, doctor knows statistics for general population; the patient himself knows himself best. I do not recall an option to consult a tzadik. .. So, you can either listen to CDC or be more careful.

    R Meir Twersky addresses an additional question in his teshuva – when there is a new unfamiliar disease, it is not enough to listen to one doctor as information is not certain. Also, do not listen to politicians, as they have their own political reasons that are not the same as our standard on saving lives.

    in reply to: Should People Test More, or Less? #1909357

    se2015. I agree positive rates are not a precise statistics. But it is an early predictor. Overall excess mortality would be a better measure – but it is available maybe a month later after the deaths, or 1.5 months after the first infections. You can go back over last several months and compare excess mortality with positive rates 1-2 months before – and see if positive rates predict mortality.

    There are other ways to get early predictions – google searches for “I am coughing”, wifi thermometers, but I am afraid best predictor would be population activity level, especially inside (schools, bars, shuls), and percentage of people wearing masks …

    in reply to: Tehilim for President Donald John ben Fred Trump #1909201

    @Reb Eliezer There is a ruling (psak) that someone who contributed to his illness should not be davened for

    I think this psak should be publicized and posted everywhere … the article quotes an oral ruling. Is there a written version?

    This psak may shock some people into submission. But maybe not those who already are not able to imagine things beyond their immediate perception. Can someone ask for a psak – can such pere adam be not called to the Torah, any other immediate consequences?

    in reply to: Should People Test More, or Less? #1909242

    I am genuinely curious: I see many posts with people declaring great insights into public health data, overriding public health experts and potentially contributing to killing people in their own communities and Hillul Hashem. How do you make sure your analysis is correct? Is there any way you can – for your own sake – test your ability to make judgments here? For example, do you have an advanced degree in public health, statistics, biology? This is not a necessary condition, of course. But if not – could you google online, for example, an advanced test in statistics and see if you can pass it?

    To start the discussion, here is a multiple choice question:
    You go to a street and ask two random people: does the bus N 5 pass on this street. One person said yes, one – no.

    What is the probability of bus N 5 passing on this street:
    A. 50% B. More than 50% C. less than 50%.

    in reply to: Tehilim for President Donald John ben Fred Trump #1909239

    Re: Tehilim for Trump.

    First, it may be late to question the tehilim, they apparently worked. So you probably wouldn’t want to retract tehilim after Hashem accepted them.

    2nd, President Trump did use multiple measures: frequent rapid tests for himself and others around him; social distancing for everyone else. Secret service is great at enforcing social distancing. How does the psak apply in such a case? For example, to shlimazels who wear mask on one of the two face orifices or take the mask off to talk to others.

    3rd. We might have different criteria for heads of state. Jews prayed for health of various kings and emperors, many of whom were involved in pretty unhealthy activities

    in reply to: Where are the women? #1908369

    @Hakatan re: questioning that someone who witnessed Hillul Hashem can call it as such without having a smicha.

    I heard directly from a community Rav who stopped a black-hat person on shabbat without a mask and explained to him that this is Hillul Hashem. The person replied that whose who want to avoid him are free to walk around.

    in reply to: Where are the women? #1908401

    @hakatan, today’s Daf Yomi Eruvin – if you see something against Torah, esp Hillul Hashem –
    you need to act and not to defer until a more senior person issues a psak. [contrasting with the usual case that you do not issue psak in front your Rav]

    in reply to: NYC lockdowns again #1908376

    @rational, I agree. Seems like American Jews assimilated into free speech and separation of powers – even those who do not learn this at school. This never ended well, of course – with Rome, Spain, Germany … I think we should be both grateful and mindful at the same time.

    in reply to: NYC lockdowns again #1907970

    HaKatan – government did not release the virus on Jews, at least it is not US government. Thus, it is not a gezerah shmad. We do not blame TV forecasters when it rains in the Sukkah.

    Whatever your mayor and governor say, the outbreak is objectively happening. You want less outbreak – make your community be more careful; do teshuva for any other aveiros related or unrelated to the pandemic.

    There is a teshuva from R Mayer Twersky in May stating (predicting?) that all politicians will have their own motives, and we should make our judgment based on Torah values independent of what politicians are saying. You seem to be so carried away blaming a politician that you are ready to hurt yourself to prove your point.

    I see in a protest letter – “how dare they close shuls ner a holiday”? Maybe Hashem is sending these politicians to davka protect you near the holiday, so that you can learn in a healthy state the whole year ahead.

    in reply to: NYC lockdowns again #1907968

    Syag,
    could you help me understand how this 2 positions can be reconciled:

    1) dont tell me that I need a mask, it is my private issue
    2) high infection in my community is due to overcrowding

    you expressed each of these positions clearly, thanks. I just do not see how this machloket between
    Syag and Syag can be reconciled.

    in reply to: Ever heard of davening? #1907965

    coffee, just contact whomever you consider a gadol, or ask your local Rav to consult whomever he consults. And then please report the answer here as this is the public matter. If you don’t receive the answer, you can post that also.

    in reply to: NYC lockdowns again #1907820

    Syag. All I am saying: if you live in small apartments, you should be more cautious. You listed multiple reasons thru several threads why you should not be more cautious.

    Other poor community you mention consist of people who work in risky conditions and have low education.

    A community that learns Talmud should do better.

    in reply to: NYC lockdowns again #1907796

    Syag,
    thanks for fixing my post. Let me return the favor, then.

    You seem to be claiming that religious Jews should behave same as other communities, but, due to smaller apartments, they will understandably be affected more by the pandemic, and that’s OK. We can keep our equal rights sustained, sorry, grandpa. We’ll say the kaddish with no masks, don’t worry.

    in reply to: NYC lockdowns again #1907732

    Syag, apartment sizes do matter, indeed. Hard to judge which part of the problem is due to human factors and which due to environment. I can understand other locations mostly by newspaper photos. Some photos are zoomed in on someone and it is hard to say whether they are representative of general behavior. Still, I saw many wide-area Israeli and NY photos showing many people in masks, and many without; on the beard; on the mouth only; taken down to talk to a neighbor. Is it different from non-religious Israelis and Americans? not sure. But why should we hold religious Jews to such a low standard?

    in reply to: Ever heard of davening? #1907725

    I agree with everyone here – yes for davening, yes for hishtadlus, and yes for being open-minded…
    on one hand, davening is better than burning tires and starting protests….
    On the other, to protect Yserbius from being accused of insensitivity, we can look at the idea of “sheretz b’yado” – can we daven while doing averos (not just passively not doing hishtadlus …)?

    Presuming that a plague is a punishment and lesson for us – we should at least try to discern the lesson and learn from them. Some of the “lessons learned” I heard are usually simply an extension of the speaker’s agenda, adding Covid for better taste.

    in reply to: better learning from Corona #1905124

    Syag,
    I understand what you are trying to say. And I said what I wanted to say. They are _literally_ in the way when I walk in the street. They are also in the way of my non-Jewish neighbors. And their own relatives and Rabbis. On this note, my contribution to shalom bais isroel is to l’hathila walk on the pavement, where possible, and watch for cars instead of walking around people (not my idea, I saw a friend doing that). Everyone understand the walk-around and most do the same, but why not make it nicer.

    I am also not trying to berate anyone here. I am also not counter-demonstrating BLM or shouting “Shabbos” at a Reform temple parking.

    I am just trying to discuss with people who share same understanding as I do – and there seems to be at least some, a majority in some places, a minority in others – what is for us to do and understand. In this post, I am skipping questions of daily halakhot – whom to count for minyan, whose shhita to trust, and going to what seems more important – whose Torah to learn?

    in reply to: better learning from Corona #1905118

    Syag,
    I am with you on trying to bring all Jews together, omen. Those who disregard simple medical rules are kind of in the way – hard to being them even under a “big tent”, even if outside.

    I am especially bothered that places of Torah learning seem to not perform well.
    How can you go through all machlokets between Abaye and Rava and not be able to compute the risks?
    How can you learn that “saving one life saves the whole world” and then disregard risks you create.
    What are the reasons?
    Maybe if we understand them, we can correct. I am not claiming to know full answers, I am “just asking the questions”.

    in reply to: better learning from Corona #1905100

    @Syag, you have a point. I am, thankfully, not in a place where I can access a large random sample of non-maskers. You see online responses as well as I do. I heard several offline ones that are hard to summarize: one saying that those who care, can walk around him; another apparently believe in some conspiracy theories; one saying that there are more people dying in car accidents from the virus. My kids were able to convince this last teenager by quoting the statistics.

    Maybe an only coherent argument is a claim that their community has herd immunity. It is also not fully thought-through. If you claim that your community achieved herd immunity, you are saying that your community has already killed and maimed the maximal number of people for this pandemic, with no apparent soul searching.

    N0mesorah suggests that most of these people are simply followers. Then, we need to look at the leaders. What are they saying? Are they not able to lead, or are they afraid to lose control of the herd?

    in reply to: better learning from Corona #1905070

    n0mesorah, so you are suggesting that no mask movement is made of followers rather than of people taking a personal stand? Hard for me to figure out as I am obviously not planning to interview them in person. Whom are they following?

    in reply to: better learning from Corona #1905067

    re: telescope. More likely something like a protractor or an astrolab to accurately measure angles and convert into distances .. if R Gamliel were to have a telescope, Jews would be not Jews if they would not use it for commercial, if not military, applications. Early use of telescopes in Italy involved watching for long-haul ships to arrive and buying stock.

    in reply to: Why are massive protests okay, but davening in a minyan is not? #1904952

    OrechDin – you mention poskim in Israel who require masks. So, if a Rav of a shul follows that psak and someone shows up without a mask or in a half-mask – what happens? Do they get an aliya? Or do we now have separate shuls with and without masks?

    Maybe we could use a 2×2 mehitza with traditional men/women separation in one dimension and mask/non-mask dimension in another. I saw this happening spontaneously sans the mehitza.

    in reply to: Davened for Trump? #1904946

    @GH, I agree that sometimes this bracha does not feel authentic. Indeed, I once witnessed how an elderly congregant broke down on Yom Kippur in some country during this prayer “Why do we say this? They are murderers.. They killed my family” …

    At the same time, as we all choose to live in this country (we are all free to leave, right?), I think we should acknowledge it. Thankfully, we do not have to say “adoneinu” as both my Russian and Austrian machzorim say, but why not wish “Hashem give wisdom to …”. Should also apply to governors, unless you are still voting Federalist.

    in reply to: better learning from Corona #1904940

    @N0mesorah – there is no doubt that American and Israeli Jewish educational systems saved a lot of people from assimilation. This worked great as an emergency measure, but I somehow doubt that Hashem is pleased with us using Torah SOLELY as a medicine to save Jewish people, while losing our ability to learn – and follow it – properly.

    As to preventing extremists, it is of course an old problem mentioned in Beitzah that Hashem gave Jews Torah to stop us from extremism. Still, you may be under the influence of the “no true Scotsman” fallacy: yes, most Jewish extremists were not shomrim Shabbat, but where did they come from? If I recall correctly the story, Chafetz Chaim did not shake hand with the Rav from the place where Trotsky came from. And what do you call people who are bravely walking around without the masks as not extremists?

    in reply to: Davened for Trump? #1904749

    We had more difficult cases.
    Look up old machzorim. I have mahzor from one side of my family with a prayer for Kesar Nikolai Alexandrovich (and a named list of his wife and children) and from another – for Franz Jozef.

    I don’t think one would be allowed to have both in his house during WW1…

    in reply to: Kashering A Laptop. #1902459

    School IT person should have an admin account and students should have a local account. Admin account should NOT have “613” for the password.

    Administrator should be able to disable wifi. See link 1. I think bluetooth access may depend on a computer model and is often switched on using an external button. See link 2 that describes how to switch it on. Use in reverse.

    If you have already disabled Wifi, you might not be able to see the links or even read this, of course…

    links removed, sorry

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