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  • in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953929

    >> rav’s opinion, which was that distanced outdoor minyanim are so unreasonable

    I’ll put aside considerations of hillul Hashem and following the laws, as we are focused here on things that can be proved by objective research. for this purposes, I am applying this psak to those cases where objective research can be applied.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953928

    DY >> You don’t need 100% immunity to stop covig from spreading
    It is not just an average number, it is about having a pool to propagate.

    If there were no clusters, and we were to reduce everyone’s risk by a factor of 2, and R0 would decrease seriously below 1, then pandemic will be over.

    BUT if a substantial CLUSTER of population continues being totally uncareful and in constant contact with each other, then covid will continue circulate among them and also touch everyone else. So, elderly will have 5x reduced risk due to their own vaccine, but they will still be exposed to that risk.

    There is a lot of evidence that COVID moves in such non-uniform way. This explains, for example, nursing homes that are deadlier near universities. Medical students, even if being careful, eventually propagate covid from the student cluster to the nursing homes.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953927

    >> What are your “hard numbers” on the effectiveness of masks?

    Look at Jeremy Howard, et al An evidence review of face masks against COVID-19 published in PNAS Jan 2021. A review of various studies.

    The issue includes more than masks – SD, air flow, HVAC. It is clear that all of these significantly reduce risk. My sources include multiple articles on airflow simulation, discussions with a distinguished aerospace engineer, and my own experiments measuring airflows in several rooms, including a shul under controlled conditions (with/without people; with windows/doors opened, far/near vents).

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953903

    >> I agree with that, which is why I would never ask the fellow

    I understand where you are trying to stand, but I do not see “elu veelu divrei elokim” here. I read with interest arguments why anti-masking can be considered a reasonable position and did not find any of them remotely reasonable. We have hard numbers on one hand and innuendo and denial of reality (might be, what if, some say, everyone here) on the other. This is a very rational/scientific event where you can get to facts if you focus on them.

    Again, I can have rahmonus and psychological and sociological excuses why some of these people are not reshayim, but not asking them shaylos is reasonable. I think the Rav’s opinion was pretty much a mild opinion. I personally do not see what is the value of Gemorah learning by people who can’t figure out a reasonably simple thing, other than protecting people from inappropriate behaviors.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953896

    Important statistical question – how correlated is mask rejection and vaccine rejection? are these independent issues in people’s minds or do we have same people denying everything?

    why is it important? say, 20% of people refuse each of them. If these are the same people, then you can expect pandemic to continue raging at 5x lower level. If these issues are independent, then only 4% of population (0.2*0.2) will be fully unprotected and we can expect significant reductions at the end…

    Argument for independence – people are bring unrelated reasons for each of the rejections. Argument for correlation – the reasons are excuses, and the rejection in both cases is based on distrust of science and authorities, independent character, ignorance, lack of empathy.
    Can we take a vote on 2 issues at the same time:

    reluctance to wear masks and to take a vaccine from 0 to 10?
    mine: 0 and 2

    in reply to: orthodox Jewish democrat? #1953863

    RebE: teaching to fish.
    Agree on the principle, but not sure whether this is advantage D. It is about policy effects, not declarations. D- policies create too many disincentives to fishing. Gingrich’s welfare reform was very successful in moving people to work. Kudos to Clinton for going along. Same goes for school vouchers that help poor people to put their kids in functioning schools.

    er: I also agree that we need a balance between educating others and ensuring our community can thrive. It is a delicate one. I would say, if an issue is not critical for our community, we should not vote for something that is bad for the society in general. I disagree that D- will help us as “minorities”. Jews did indeed benefit from “multi-cultural” approach that reduced pressure to conform, but at this point we are seen as rich, successful (aka un-equitable) conservative oppressors, not “minorities”. I think we will be uncomfortable in any society where either Ds or Rs take full control. Maybe Hashem created them at 50% each, so that they let us live in-between…

    in reply to: Foolish Democrats #1953857

    Charlie: There was a big decline in cases, hospitalizations, and deaths in NYC after the BLM rallies.
    Syag: Had no more serious a spread than other minyanim.

    you_all guys need to start asking shaylos from your local Rabbis/PhD….

    Charlee – Indeed. There is a paper analyzing this. Mobility data explained what happened: rallies scared most other people from going to downtown and going out in general.

    A similar effect might happened in Syag’s shul: vulnerable people were coming less to maskless minyanim, and more to masked ones. Also, if you are saying multiple (more than 4) people getting it at the same time, it means “masked” minyanim were not really taking full measures correctly, such as closed windows; ventilation that does not have filters and goes into their faces; prolonged davening; flimsy non-medical masks bouncing on the nose; exempting chazan; reading Torah close together, etc. We discussed this here at length early on, too bad you didn’t digest this info to them.

    in reply to: Dr Seuss: anti-Jewish and anti-Black racism #1953866

    ok, so Dr Seuss going the way of Huck Finn, etc. Given that most of “classics” will have some outdated thought, most of it is already or will be denied.

    I do not have a CAT in this fight, but it seems that the real question is – what do they use instead?
    Most likely, some socialist and ethnic literature, further contributing to “dumbing down of America”

    I would mind less, if they go to Aristotle or Plato instead of Dr Seuss, though.

    in reply to: DOES YWN MAKE MONEY FROM PROMOTING THE VACCINES?? #1953690

    > nearly half of cancer treatments never underwent the golden standard double blind trials.

    I googled for this phrase, and seems that missing part is “emergency authorizations” or something like that. I agree, in general, that in emergency we should be relying more on observational studies, especially when safety risks are small. Performing small blinded studies could compliment this.

    The issue is also confounded with a need to consider multiple settings – who to give, when to give, etc, as discussed above. Note that A-Z Phase 3 was almost derailed by a simple fact that there were two different doses. Uncertainty of interpreting multiple arms is harder. You can’t just say “HCQ+zin given at day X” worked, when you went through 100 different combinations – as your success is a random result out of 100.

    Note that this is still science, just harder science than blinded tests. One type of such math is called “multi armed bandits” (as in Vegas): you run multiple arms and estimate two things – possible effect and remaining level of uncertainty. Sometimes you want to explore more of arms that have more uncertainty even if they did not show sufficient result yet.

    in reply to: orthodox Jewish democrat? #1953685

    >> I think socialism applies to Torah values. Government is there to support people’s needs<
    > The Torah is not socialist at all. however it does encourage private citizens to give tzedakah.

    I think this is all avodah zarah. Torah is not R- or D- (and for sure, not communist, of course). We may vote one way or another, but I don’t think we can and should fully subscribe to any movement, whether in US or Israel. One Talmid Chacham was asked, after an aliyah during heated times, which party he belongs to, responded “party of Moshe Rabeinu”

    in reply to: A freilachan purim!-happy anniversary #1953410

    DY, not just koron, but CORON OHR … don’t need no Torah codes, the peshat is here
    nisht: do not make up your own reasons.

    these are not my reasons, I think most commentaries say it is to not embarrass others or not to make them used to it (Chizkuni), or make it posibble for people to come for judgment.

    Moshe was wearing it all the time, except when teaching (Ohr HaChaim, Behor Shor) or only when communicating with Hashem, (Kli Yakar, Tur HaAroch) or both (Rashi, Rashbam, R Bahya). This seems like an argument for those who want to teach without masks, as student needs to see teacher’s face (Seforno, Chizkuni, Eruvin 13: R Yehuda being zoche “seeing back of R Meir”).

    Moshe retained the rays for his whole life (R Bahya), so he was wearing mask on and off for 40 years. So, don’t claim it is not possible.

    Seems a machloket between Onkelos saying that he used more than N95, a full mask, and Yerushalmi meikel on just a one-layer cloth mask.

    in reply to: A freilachan purim!-happy anniversary #1953358

    What can we learn from Moshe in terms of wearing a mask?

    Seems like he was wearing it to protect and not to embarrass others.

    in reply to: Israelmany #1953210

    Syag >> to say you are complimented and throw in a joke and a smile, and then make sure to leave a pinch in your exit.

    I am not trying to pinch anyone, h’vsh. I am just saying that it is a possibility to consider: if you see something not fitting, maybe your measure is off. Need to analyze.

    As you confirmed that this is directed towards me but did not specify the issue, I’ll try to guess: my previous comment was about who is a posek. Are you of the opinion that current poskim are ordained via urim v’tumim? I am mentioning the process of how one Rav gets recognized by others, and that there are also specialists in specific areas. All of that expanding on a remark from a Rav, who has many decades in official roles in a pretty mainstream community.

    in reply to: Israelmany #1953152

    Syag>> Some of your comments are very unusual

    Not sure whether you direct this at me, rightwriter, or someone else, (or all of us), but it would more helpful for us if you were more precise with your diagnosis. As it stands, I would understand your polite words as a definite compliment and will try harder next time! (who would want to make “usual” comments, after all). It also may be that if you see something “unusual” or “disturbing”, it is a sign to look over what your assumptions are.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953114

    DY, we seem to have a different recollection about specific case – whether it was illegal at the time. The lesson I learned is that if someone behaves irresponsibly or illegally, he should not be relied to for his judgment.

    Please note that this is not just about different opinions. I am fine if you stand for kiddush, and I sit. The question is about several opinions, each of them having downsides. I don’t think even exacting Daas Torah takes you off the hook. Say, you go to the Rav and say – my son does not know how to swim, and he needs to take a dangerous boat to learn Torah. So, Rav says he has to stay home and be an ignoramus. It is still your fault that you did not teach him how to swim (Kiddushin 30).

    Same here. If your posek determined that your community can learn and daven without SD and masks (reasoning that otherwise you’ll not learn at all), it is still your fault.

    And the reason I talk about people walking in the streets w/out masks, because it is a shocking indicator how careless these people are even when a required effort is minimal.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953110

    DY >> many fine talmidei chachomim who have always been responsible leaders agree on not obsessing over Covid to the level you have,

    A good question, except please strike down ” to the level you have”. These talmidei chachamim may be wrong, and in some cases, they changed their opinions over time, but most importantly, they need to deal with their followers and their capabilities and limitations. I can see, to simplify, the following logic: if those children do not go to yeshiva, they will go to other places, and the whole community will disintegrate. So, I don’t need to make a judgment about their judgment.

    I am talking specifically about an individual. It is not material for him that someone permitted Covid kulos for the community. If this person is not behaving as a Talmid Chacham immediately (“at night”, using Gemora language) – fine, everyone can make a mistake in a situation, but if he does not stop (“in the morning”), then he is not a Talmid Chacham.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953080

    DY, Mrs. Syag,
    let’s go step-by-step so I can understand your logic.

    There are numerous cases and groups of people who disregard DS and masks in their shuls and schools, and who disregard state mask orders. I am excluding gray areas here. Many people, including myself, see them, and they are all over photos, and the photos are not all done by evil chilonim. Do you agree with that?

    The fact that these people contributed to extra deaths seems to be straight-forwards from statistics. Do you agree?

    You can argue that some communities live in small urban dwellings, etc. This is a reason not to accuse people wholesale based on statistics, but this is not a reason not to be careful, just the opposite.

    Is there an over-reaction on the other side? I don’t see it, but will be happy to discuss. I personally just go around un-masked people. I have to admit that I was ready to use a chair or a foot to clear space when unmasked Hamans showed up at the end of Purim davening with their gifts – but just the look worked.

    DY, to clarify: the question was during a lockdown in that state, when the activity is question was against the rules. It was an oral ruling, not in writing. Similarly, at the same early time, R Heinemann responded to a question whether one can do minyanim with people standing on different porches, etc to stay within the rules. His response – a passerby will not delve into minute details, he will just know that Jews are doing something questionable – and then, some Jew may be denied a ventilator because of that. Using this criterion, our current minyan is OK: a passerby snapped a picture of us during a snow day and – when I looked – showed a thumbs up.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953058

    Israel now reports that 90% of hospitalized are those who did not yet vaccinate. This is a picture in transition while some are partially vaccinated.

    I think when US reaches same levels, the issue will resolve: priovate and Obamacare insurance will start asking for vaccination status, workplaces and schools will to. It is really issue of social convention. Right now, schools ask for flu vaccine even when kids do not go to school, and it is considered normal.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1953046

    Ms. Syag >> Are you for real?

    on peshat level, it seems to be the case that COVID may leave a lot of internal damage, not seen originally.

    For me personally, the biggest shock of the pandemic is how many Jews and whole communities behave irresponsibly and feel no shame about it. Specifically, people who claim to learn. So, you learn all machlokets of Abbaye and Rava, subtle arguments of what is or is not real mesorah, you can use kal ve’homer, and you learn maris ayn, and all examples of behavior by Talmidei Chachamim – and then you disregard simple public health measures, kill your Rosh Yeshiva, and go to his funeral without the mask. I may have rachmonus on such a person, but for sure I do not want someone like that in my family.

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1952894

    Speaking about vaccines and shidduchim:

    do people put there covid, mask and vaccine status on shiduch resume already?
    if not, do people ask?

    it cuts both ways – some may not want a candidate with potentially damaged lungs, others might be happy that the candidate survived OK..

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1952893

    ujm: You have Gedolim on both sides.

    I am with GH here. So, you are using a reference to unnamed gedolim and will only follow them when there is an anonymous opinion?! and if not, you’ll do whatever you want? Is there a specific Rav you are following on this?

    Same question for tristate – did you ask? video? what is the date on the video?

    in reply to: Israelmany #1952892

    DY >> Tongue in cheek much

    no, very straighforward – I am arguing _these_ are issues that require more attention.

    meta-question – whom would you ask? A posek is a democratically “elected” figure – it is a person who is being often asked by other deciders. Now, if most of questions being asked are not in this area, then we might not have a well-developed poskim in the areas we are not asking questions. “our fault”, as we discussed before. Maybe time to start is now.

    in reply to: Israelmany #1952841

    >> Are they rodfim? Is it muttar to kill them?

    Again, subject to previous conditions, you should use least extreme measures you can. Traditional measure is to isolate from the society. Frankly, this already happened. A lot of people who can do it moved recently out of big cities. So, if you or I live too close to people who do not follow the rules, we should maybe just move. Of course, there are people who, for various reasons, are not able to move.

    >> if everyone else is vaccinated, why would they care if some weren’t?

    If sizeable portion of population (20%) will not vaccinate, then pandemic will continue at reduced rates (20%?) level and will be endangering even those who are vaccinated. I hope it will be soon known whether one can rely on antigen tests to see who really acquired immunity, then at least we will know who should be more careful – or maybe take extra vaccines …

    in reply to: Israelmany #1952811

    rightwriter,
    may I ask you – did you have a chance to learn halakha and if you comfortable to disclose – where? and did you have a chance to run your questions by your Rav or Rosh Yeshiva?

    in reply to: Vaccines and the Shidduch Crisis #1952814

    ujm >> Is it proper to recommend what is best for public policy even if it may be bad advice for different individuals?

    Following example seems to show that one needs to be honest and recommend what is good for the person in question: students that were starting demonstrating for Soviet Jews in the 1960s asked (among others) R Soloveichik. Rav S asked someone in Israeli government – what is best for Soviet Jews. That person replied that it is better to stay quiet. Later, Rav realized that he was lied to: Israeli government thought it is based for Israel to stay quiet, not necessarily for Soviet Jews.

    in reply to: Israelmany #1952810

    DY – yes, the Israeli study is the first indicating reduced transmission. this is an early study with some caveats if you read reporting to the end. Even with this condition, there are two others that I mentioned. The next question is how to stop them. Anti-maskers are visible, so you can usually walk around them and exclude from the company. Maybe in the future non-vaxers would need to wear, indeed, special signs that people know to avoid them.

    in reply to: Yiddeshe Cancel Culture #1952620

    This thread is drunk. Bobby Fischer had nothing to do with Open-O.
    He might have been a meshugane but he was much smarter than that.
    He did have great openings, though.

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1952617

    I could not find Esther in the Parsha, but found two Vashtis… why two?

    in reply to: Israelmany #1952608

    DY: I think they are wrong, but rodfim?

    There might be several arguments why they are not currently rodfim:

    1) If they take serious precaution measures, equivalent in effect to vaccination, they are not.
    2) I believe there is no determination yet that vaccine sufficiently reduced transmission, although there are preliminary estimates. so, this would be sofek rodfim.
    3) while there is a shortage of vaccines, someone else could use it.

    Note that none of these justifications apply to those who are not taking precautions.

    in reply to: Positive thoughts #1952459

    It took Covid for kids to realize that they can give shaloh-monosto each other and their parents!

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1952442

    common,
    DON’T DRINK and DRIVE!!!

    WALK

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1952441

    RebE, thanks! interesting, how a discussion about waste of time turned out not to be one!
    L’Chaim

    in reply to: DOES YWN MAKE MONEY FROM PROMOTING THE VACCINES?? #1952440

    Here is an exercise:
    there was early report from a French hospital that smokers in that hospital are surviving COVID better than the others. Numbers were pretty clear.
    Now, we have smoking as one of diseases that gives a priority to get a vaccine.

    question: what was wrong with that French hospital result? Drink a little and think about it.

    in reply to: Israelmany #1952439

    The writer has a point. Maybe he could petition to open vaccine-free restaurants for non-vaccinated only. The food will be even cheaper as the chef does not need to care how the food smells, so he could use left-over from the other restaurtants.

    I am not sure Supreme court will allow back of the bus reserved for the vaccine-free

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1952325

    >> why didn’t Rav Shimon Hamosini think of Rebbi Akiva’s darush

    best explanation, imho, I forgot the source: R Shimon for sure saw a possibility of such an answer. He was a baki, after finding derashot on all previous ones. But, in tis case, he felt that even if he can come up with an answer, it is not the EMES here, so he just followed Emes despite losing all his previous academic work. Now, you made me thinking, maybe, even more – he JUMPED at the opportunity to

    1) receive a unique award for retracting. He had so many rewards for derashot, he did not care for one more, he knew the value of retracting is higher!
    2) teach his students the value of EMES at the expense of his career. So, we need to review this regularly, he wanted us to

    remaining question: how did R Akiva then dare to say the rejected opinion? He saw R Shimon – chachamim like that deserve the yerah like Hashem

    in reply to: Megillas Esther Interpretation #1952327

    And feel comfortable to share this dvar Torah – it is not mine, I heard it from Lakewood R Nosson Wachtfogel Z’L. I did not put his name first, expecting someone reacting to a “Rebbe” designation for Esther. I was surprised by his choice of words – maybe I looked modernishe? – but I see a big applied value in his message for the CR room on who can pasken.

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1952326

    >> reglaim is never mentioned in the torah,

    Ex 20:14 שָׁלֹ֣שׁ רְגָלִ֔ים תָּחֹ֥ג לִ֖י בַּשָּׁנָֽה׃

    plus purim, chanuka and lag b’omer – here are 6 feet min HaTorah!

    masks? Hester Panim, of course!

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1952099

    PS Crystallization – and this is of course straight out of Hoshen Mishpat: judges are not supposed to listen to one litigant without the other.

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1952098

    RebE, agree on R Shimon darshening “es”, my favorite example of intellectual integrity.

    Famous Psychologists Kahneman/Tversky talk about crystallization: if you get 2 contradicting pieces of information, the person tends to accept the one that came earlier. That may explain why people have hard time changing their opinions about politics or COVID as they get attached to their first impression.

    in reply to: DOES YWN MAKE MONEY FROM PROMOTING THE VACCINES?? #1952102

    I did not go to all these interesting references, but I want to confirm the math part:
    26.4%, down to 20.1% would be a 23.9%.

    One question is what is uncertainty of the estimates.

    You would also need to accept that there might not be a simple answer here: there are multiple variations to be tested: doses, early/late interventions, combinations, and it will take time to go through all of them at high confidence.

    The question is how to act under uncertainty. The answer is to balance risk and reward.

    I saw some articles that advocates several cocktails with multiple specific components, including hCQ, zinc, etc as long as they are relatively safe. Trying to uses and evaluate a cocktail together, instead of separate elements.

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1952069

    >> it is odd to select specifically Indian food for seudas Purim.

    It does happen but does not end well. Muslims do set up seudot in India, then Hindus run in shouting “WHERE IS THE BEEF”. Seuda first, shehitah after

    in reply to: Megillas Esther Interpretation #1952060

    @RebE: I don’t see where she was rhe rebbi.

    just as I looked up pesukim where Esther is mentioned before Mordechai, Bach amended “Rava and Abaye” to Rabba in Pesachim daf yomi, because teacher is listed first … confirmed min hashamayim? We use a similar order analysis to show that Mordechai fell out of favor due to his political activities.
    here they are:

    4:14 Mordechai teaches Esther
    4:15 Then Esther sent back this answer to Mordecai [that includes instructions for all Jews and her mesilas nefesh decision. How does she have hutzpah not to ask her Rebbe?! because she the Rebbe now, she is not even asking Mordechai for recognition]
    לֵךְ֩ כְּנ֨וֹס אֶת־כָּל־הַיְּהוּדִ֜ים הַֽנִּמְצְאִ֣ים בְּשׁוּשָׁ֗ן וְצ֣וּמוּ עָ֠לַי וְאַל־תֹּאכְל֨וּ וְאַל־תִּשְׁתּ֜וּ שְׁלֹ֤שֶׁת יָמִים֙ לַ֣יְלָה וָי֔וֹם גַּם־אֲנִ֥י וְנַעֲרֹתַ֖י אָצ֣וּם כֵּ֑ן וּבְכֵ֞ן אָב֤וֹא אֶל־הַמֶּ֙לֶךְ֙ אֲשֶׁ֣ר לֹֽא־כַדָּ֔ת וְכַאֲשֶׁ֥ר אָבַ֖דְתִּי אָבָֽדְתִּי׃
    “Go, assemble all the Jews who live in Shushan, and fast in my behalf; do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my maidens will observe the same fast. Then I shall go to the king, though it is contrary to the law; and if I am to perish, I shall perish!”

    and he listen to instructions
    וַֽיַּעֲבֹ֖ר מָרְדֳּכָ֑י וַיַּ֕עַשׂ כְּכֹ֛ל אֲשֶׁר־צִוְּתָ֥ה עָלָ֖יו אֶסְתֵּֽר׃ (ס)
    So Mordecai went about [the city] and did just as Esther had commanded him

    Later, Mordechai becomes even more hashuv, but he is listed second almost always:
    8:7 וַיֹּ֨אמֶר הַמֶּ֤לֶךְ אֲחַשְׁוֵרֹשׁ֙ לְאֶסְתֵּ֣ר הַמַּלְכָּ֔ה וּֽלְמָרְדֳּכַ֖י הַיְּהוּדִ֑י
    9:29 וַ֠תִּכְתֹּב אֶסְתֵּ֨ר הַמַּלְכָּ֧ה בַת־אֲבִיחַ֛יִל וּמָרְדֳּכַ֥י הַיְּהוּדִ֖י
    reversed though in 9:31, which can be explained as Mordechai’s letter going out first
    לְקַיֵּ֡ם אֵת־יְמֵי֩ הַפֻּרִ֨ים הָאֵ֜לֶּה בִּזְמַנֵּיהֶ֗ם כַּאֲשֶׁר֩ קִיַּ֨ם עֲלֵיהֶ֜ם מָרְדֳּכַ֤י הַיְּהוּדִי֙ וְאֶסְתֵּ֣ר הַמַּלְכָּ֔ה

    in reply to: Fun and joyous ideas for Purim Seudah #1952070

    >> not farmilar with a measurement called reglaim,

    actually 4 amot is about 6 reglaim or 2 meters …. basically privacy is as far as you can spit

    in reply to: Thomas Webster arrested #1952047

    @DJT (and other politicians & doctors) Feb 2020: The coronavirus is very much under control in the USA.

    This is about when my wife put masks on all of us when flying despite people looking at us.

    Now I know whom to listen to.

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1952046

    RebE: Later I wrote a detailed teshuva justifying my decision.

    Curious, how did you avoid being biased by your original decision when looking up sources!?
    Unless, you had all sources in your mind when you made the original decision

    in reply to: Wasting Other People’s Time #1952045

    @nischt: you can just eliminate a part of davening because of tircha

    minyan already skipped pesukei d’zimra. There are numerous recent teshuvot for COVID about it. One teshuva offers a klal: you can skip some parts, but it should not be so short that it just feels like it just touches the main points: shma -> shmone esre -> aleinu.

    you may be right whether this is “tircha”, I see that you and RebE started a scholarly debate. You can call it tzaar baalei chaim. People were freezing. Some people may go over their limit of cold without realizing it. Especially, American city youngsters.

    rebE – there was no issue of getting up. Nobody was sitting for a long time (first sign that they were cold). Maybe I had a choice of saying all kadishim faster than you can say Mississippi, but it seems I feel the same way you do: when there is a strong reason to skip, just do it firmly.

    L’Maase, I once observed a Rav, who is proud of slow davening, going super-fast and skipping one kaddish (in Sephardi nusach). Then, doing some tehilim slowly. I asked – he said the 10th told him he was about to leave for work.

    in reply to: Yiddeshe Cancel Culture #1952009

    Bobby Fischer was a brilliant chess player and probably was mental to begin with.
    He then became world champion while standing up to a collective action of Soviet chess federation. This whole adverse process could crack stronger souls. Later on, Victor Korchnoi ran away from USSR and also played against the whole country – and lost, in the process claiming that his opponent was getting forbidden drinks and that a Soviet doctor was hypnotizing him. In the hindsight, now that we know about polonium teas, it is hard to say whether this was real or paranoid…

    You can survive mental ordeals though. Samuel Reshevsky, who lived in Monsey, did not played on Shabbat, and, at least in later years, played in a beret, and behaved in general. Also did not always like Fischer.

    in reply to: Dvar Torah Purim— The Enemy Within #1951787

    Amalek, like SAR-COV-2, attacks those who are weak, old, and walk in a disorganized crowd.

    The strong, young, and healthy need to step in the fight to protect, starting with their own yetzer hara.

    If the young do not help, they will be overwhelmed also (some immediately, some after becoming old)

    in reply to: Megillas Esther Interpretation #1951781

    >> learned from my students

    RebE, I totally agree with the general notion (one reason to ask quertions and to hear questions), but confused how this relates.

    Are you saying that M is still the Rebbe, but he learned from E, rather than E becoming the Rebbe? Interesting interpretation , but it does not seem to fit better. It is not just one advice that E gives to M, she starts consistently acting as a Rebbe. It is a one moment switch at the time of mesirus nefesh. Interesting – deciding on it, not even acting yet.

    in reply to: DOES YWN MAKE MONEY FROM PROMOTING THE VACCINES?? #1951780

    >> is that our personal experience doesn’t reflect the horrendous plagues in the past.

    Agree. There are 2 parts here:

    1) pandemic is happening in the hospitals and nursing homes. you do not always see it. I heard a Rav on Zoom for several weeks (WITH a negative test but with a cough I never heard before), this made enough of an impression. That is why you need to use your math skills to evaluate reports of number of people dying and sick to understand something that is not in front of your eyes. There are lots of people who work with infectious diseases or radiation who are capable of keeping precautions without seeing a threat. Or you can talk to hatzolah people for their impressions.

    2) numbers are indeed lower than under Bubonic plague. It is to a credit of humanity that we are taking measures to save lives of many of older and sicker people, and not behaving like Amalek.

    Maybe this a double test Hashem sent us – first for our intellectual abilities and second for rahmanus. Maybe a final test before Maschiach comes?

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