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What about Austrian Airlines stopping over in Vienna? Anyone ever do that?
They have decently priced tickets and was debating if its a smart choice to make….
popa, I was just at this starbucks somewhere in the midwest for a few days studying, and I thought I saw you there 😉 should have came over and said hi. Or better yet I should have posted an invite here on the cr for everyone to come by!
Gefen, if I told you one something about yourself i may end up being accused of being a stalker and that would not be too good 😉
Put it this way I just bumped into your son as I went to buy a new sefer. Does that help?
Trust me I know who you are and trust me you most probably do not know who haifa girl is…
“Haifagirl – Don’t wonder too much. I don’t think always striving knows either of us. He/she was just being funny.”
No I am not that funny I actually do know both of you, and you both know who I am but I rather not let anyone know who I am on here.
So despite the rule even, I will just make it simple for you both. I think I know who both of you are and I do not believe there would be anyway that you both would have ever crossed paths. Does that make you feel better?
Please for everyone’s good DO NOT open a debate about nageela and the zone. They are unique each in their own ways. Both have their pros and cons, yet both have done amazing things. Just don’t even start…..
I am in the same boat as you right now. I have found that really the most important thing in this situation is to have someone you can talk to and check in with, and I feel this way very strongly when any girls goes into a non jewish college or a college that is not alligned with their hashkafos. If you have a teacher from high school or seminary great! If not, please do not think you are a lost case! Pick a good solid neighbor or family friend! I know I decided that I wanted to talk to my teacher once a week even if the week was uneventful. Obviously things come up on both ends and often its a little bit less often, but it is still great! And I can almost guarantee you that if you have a solid person that you keep up with so many of these issues really fall into place and you just find yourself being kept on track even if you were not before! Its a hard place to be sometimes, but give yourself the tools to let the situation strengthen and not bring you down in any way!
Good luck!!!!
Get the book by Reb. Tziporah Heller on Aishes Chayil! It has a picture of a pearl on the cover and it has many incredible things to read on the different words.