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To fix the divorce crisis, spouses have to put their spouses first, and families have to mind their own business and stay out of their children’s marriages.
People have to STOP listening to lashon horah, and Rabonnim have to take a SOLID stand against domestic violence. There is never, EVER an excuse for one person to put their hands on another. Ever. No Excuses. Period. And to victimize the victim, which occurs in frum communities frequently, is causing more and more pain. Sometimes, divorce is necessary. At times, divorce is a necessity, not a crisis.
So Right: I could be wrong, but I distinctly recall being taught in my very religious school/yeshiva that if a person would not welcome tochocha, OR, if they have been told more than once, then it is assur to tell them, or tell them again.
So, why do it then? As I stated before, to make one’s self feel more self important. In which case, it is not a matter of Hakadosh Boruch Hu’s kavod, rather it become’s a matter of your OWN Kavod, and the public harassment and humiliation of someone else.