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I am absolutely obsessed with the wedding. I would not be shocked if she was Jewish- I think she is stunning and has a certain chain…
getzel- you had me laughing through most of your jokes…. thank you so much
hope something good comes up… I heard on the radio that the job market is picking up slowly but surely, hopefully you will be one lucky person to benefit from it! Good luck
mod- of course there is such a thing…. ever heard of OCD or anorexia? are u nervous that thats happening to someone? I wish it would happen to me
if I understand correctly she may refuse. If he has children then ok if not then he has a chiyuv to have children and must persist? correct or not?
um there is a little of a discrepency here…. is it assur for her to refuse forever? we are not talking about a one time thing
reread my posts and the posts that oomis wrote after…. and use your noodles…. dont think i can be very specific….wont get thru
RedNails- I agree with you that if this is the way he acts on a first date when he had a hard day, what will happen in the future?!?!!? I read an article this morning (not posting the source or link….wont get thru either way) that one guy wanted to test his wife (while they were dating) so he made her really really mad at him and then watched her reaction. That proved whether he liked her or not and if she can deal with life’s stress.
I have heard that its assur to refuse it but had no idea that it has to do with being hurt/upset at your spouse…. learn new things each day!
clairvoyant- what are you trying to figure out? are you my uncle?!
ayc- i think the same goes for listening to music while falling asleep
I thought this thread would be about the tefilla that we say after shemona esrei…. oleinu lishabaich… lol
MDG- same here but although my family is oblivious, my friends are not!
anyhow I had one that was eating me up alive (almost literally!) until I spoke about it (first time in years!) and feel so much better about it!
i would start with a compliment first but make sure its nothing too personal or flirty…I would also end in some better way… maybe say something like that you dont need her to love you or be “nice” to you, but you just want to make sure there is nothing u did to turn her this way and u dont want any hard feelings between you and her…. Dont use my wording but something like that. does that make sense? I wish my uncle was smart enough to know that he did something to cause the hard feelings that i have to him…. unfortunately I sometimes get caught in his “garbage” and fall for all the “I love you” stuff that he throws my way…
oomis- thank you for elaborating. I think you should call her or write to her (writing is good because she can reread the letter and you get to make sure you wrote what you wanted to and not let something slip out….on the other hand if you call her she cannot show it to anyone else and repeat your whole conversation word for word…) either way I think you should talk to her directly and not get her parents or any other family member involved
its hard to explain but lets just say that he likes me a lot and shows me that which is fine but sometimes i get uncomf.
mod 80- i will think of one that i want thats not too annoying and that i wont want you to change…cant come up with anything would it kill you to give me a suggestion?
mods- OUCH that was strong….
this is where being the sibling of a special brother comes in handy…. he gets to listen…..
I was one of those students that the teachers loved to see absent but was also charming so i got away with tonz a lot but there was a 9th grade teacher who we were mean to and I still feel bad about it. we would just talk and she would be calm and teach- listen or dont she did not care. you think i should track her down and call her?
eclipse- so when can i come by?!!?!?!? thank you for your help in advance…. LOL
thank you mod 80….. thank you for explaining what goes on behind the scenes…..how would i know what goes on there??!?!?! what about those of us who were never even given the option of a subtitle? can you give me one to try or are you wwwwwwwaaaaaaayyyyyy too busy?
silent- i know someone who went through some similar to what you are describing and I truly am hurt for you. may you be zoche to find happiness soon. Do you have a job that you are busy with? That might help…
LSL- you can never really know if the mods like you or not- I used to think they hated me but now realize they might not have anything against me! whatever not sure
I have yet to hear about a hotel that is not lax. I have some friends who go to hotels and never heard from them that Pesach was uplifting and inspiring….but I have heard that there was great food and entertainment. depends on your priorities and family situation
I thought you were my uncle and started shaking when I read this letter but then I realized that you said you were single and my uncle was married. Suffice it to say you could have been my uncle and I could have been the niece. I would feel hurt for him if he told me this but I know that I stay away from him because he sends me “silent” messages that make me nervous. Make sure that you are not sending her any messages that she can misinterpret.
mishing means eating anything that was made out of your home. HIE- They just say that so that they can buy store-bought products….
thank you mods for everything! yes it can get quiet sometimes- check out the thread “when the mods fall asleep”
i guess I dont post enough or else I would have something under my name…. I am scared to think what they would put so I am just happier that there is nothing under my name for now
Palisades and woodbury commons are great! I am headed there right now….
mazel tov! may we share in many more simchos together and you should always be as happy as you are today!
wolf- same here! I am at work and its not because I dont give yom tov the right respect….maybe my boss doesnt that is a different story but….i am wearing all my jewelery for a change and got lots of comments that today is the first day that i came to work dressed! LOL
123bubby- this is the CR not CD as far as I am concerned. If you fly me to you then i will make sure to plan action packed days for you
a gut mo’ed to everyone here! I missed you guys over yom tov! Hope you all relaxed
for everyone i know to get married and be happy and live a life that will make Hashem happy and their parents happy. And for eclipse to find her yeshuvos BEKAROV!
this situation really freaks me out. composer- is your friend a young girl who was naive until she got engaged and is now finding it hard to go ahead or is she just scared to commit? did he say anything to make her nervous? I have a friend from OOT and when I met her a couple days before she got married I must say that she looked horrible and I was very nervous about her but once she went under the chuppa she was calm. He said all the rigth things and knew how to calm her down. that might just be the case with your friend too.
so when do the mods decide that they know you well enough to change your title? i am still waiting for them to do something with mine!
health- he lives in monsey sorry yossi your memory is failing you this time!
if you dont need someone to come to the hall and you live in monsey try orah munchik! she is great
i vote for popa, and eclipse….
i also have cold feet but dont have the guy yet so its a little hard to give any advice i think she should speak to someone! I am also scared to commit but I think that once I get to that stage I will just jump into it and pray for the best! young and dumb is the best way, but what happens when you are past that stage?!?!!?!? now what?
where do you live? that would help! if you are in monsey you should try shulamit leventhal she is great
i agree! the new book is great- very clear and interesting! his cds are also great
eclipse- i think about you all the time! have a great yom tov and i hope you relax!!!!!!!!!!! you deserve it! still davening for your daughter! keep us posted please thank you
thank you cant wait to meet you there! have a great yom tov everyone!!!!