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oomis- it sounds like you were not set up through a shadchan. that could make it even harder. I wish you all lots of luck its very hard
you never know…. I did not mean that sorry that it came out that way
this is the biggest issue of all!!!
so when I have something to kvetch about (yes every single person has things to complain about some times) would he rather me go talk to my friends about it and keep him out of it. I think he would want to hear and work through it with me.
I can ask him when I meet him and try to report back here
If they guy crashed I would not marry him- whats going to happen when we are not on a date? his driving going to be even worse than what it was like on a date? thats pretty freaky
are you bored!!?!!??
the glasses are great and their customer service is great. I ordered from that other site too (the one that 80 mentioned) but they are not as good quality and their glasses are not made as well. I just got another pair from them and just love their stuff. they are a pleasure to deal with and seem legit.
its great. I know him and thought it was great. where can i watch the Hocker one?
yup! could have been different nights…. not sure but it was not a lubav. wedding so we are prob talking bout two diff nights
maybe you should have stormed the party and embarrassed the baas simcha like he did. We are told to learn from the previous generations no?
no clue. but sounds cool
if you are staying home to be with them and just watching TV why cant you have a babysitter?
BSD- how did your kids react to your decision?
yid- i think that I actually have a very good sense of what i am missing because ALL AND I MEAN ALL my friends did go. I did hear how they were more independant and had to take care of things on their own and how they met all sorts of interesting ppl but I think that when you compare what I gained and what they gained its not $22000 in value
That depends. Did you go to a $22k sem? If not, you may have to “settle” for someone to only went to Harvard
nope i did not…oh well
yossi- you had a wedding in spring valley? so did I and I think it was a beautiful one….
I would not choose a husband based on the school that he went to and how much it costs.
RK- I wish you luck what are you going to say when ppl ask you what type of girls you are accepting and when you start and who the principal is? Its not such a bad scheme but it will only work one year and i dont think you would make more than 1000 dollars from it….good idea though!
i did not go to sem in israel and can say it was teh best thing in the world. I was home for shab and that was nice and did not miss out on brothers bar mitzvas…. or anything else that was going on at home. I think i had the best of both worlds! And yes I did go to Israel during the year
great story and very good that you said something in a way that he was able to deal with it. depends on the guy
Why would I want someone from Harvard if I can be zoche to get someone from Brisk@!?!?!?!
I think if the girl is an “emotional” type then it can be harder for her. dont know anything from the guys point of view as I am a girl (is that a chiddush?!?!!?)
my brother was burnt a couple of years ago. they are terribly painful. May he have a refuah shelaima.
do ppl really still believe this guy? what does he wanna get out of this besides attention? or is that enough to make him go nuts and make the world go nuts with him?!!??!
been there done that! good luck! Daven very hard for siyatta dishmaya that is my advice
cant help you with concrete advice but spending time here is definitely not helping
HT- that is what I told him before… thanks for being in it with me!
lol i can prob do the same thing but not going to this is getting really interesting and the mods never even sent me her email address
good for you!!!
I did not mean for it to come out that way (problem when you are typing and not talking) but it seems like its always that the women has to be a slave to the husband and the men just want to know what they can have their wivves do for them….In a normal marriage where the wife does her duties- like laundry and suppers and cleaning up, that in itself is a lot. do you appreciate that?!?!?!
you must speak to a professional. its not so scary and the right one can work wonders…
cannot tell you….sorry would love to!!
read her post- she said if it was the same gender she would wave but its not!
why doesn’t her friend speak up for her?!?!?!? where did she go now?
what bout what he should do for us?
goq- now that the wedding is over i think you should just try and move forward. maybe it was an oversight. there is no way for you to know what really happened…. just forgive and try to get over it
i was thinking the same thing…some things are just too tough for us to understand
show him that you care and are looking out for him to help him not to bother and annoy him
where did this thread come from? remind me about my thread- getting over someone that used to be in your life?
its only half an ounce! My co worker just won!
yb- omg hysterical! thank you
they say it is valued for about $750 each bar.
why another thread about the same thing? mods can you explain!?!?!?!
I have an uncle that drives like a maniac! My aunt says that until she learnt how to drive she was fine with driving with him but once she learnt how to drive she was not able to get into a car with him because she realized how bad of a driver he is!
so what does that have to do with you!?!?!?!?
ok lets be big and move forward with this. I think that because we are not talking to ppl that we know and because we dont see them, it makes it easier to say things that you would never say to them in person. that is one of the reasons that texting is bad for teens (we are not going into that now) because when you write things that you would never say
i think its a hard balance- to make sure they are friends with the right ppl and hanging around stable good girls but to make sure not to “squash” them
mike- LOL good line… I would ask her father to come get her as soon as possible!