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you are passionate about the shidduch system….that much I know. But in general are you a passionate person (hartzig)
July 7, 2011 3:41 pm at 3:41 pm in reply to: Caring about other people needs- Where to draw the line #791492adorableParticipantmiddlepath- I had this question for a while in the beginning of the year until I really thought about it for a while and came to this conclusion- I generally say yes right away if its something I am doing to make someone else’s life easier unless its going to really mess my schedule or something like that. Otherwise, saying yes can almost never hurt. Just remember to take time off and spent time on yourself also.
adorableParticipantI would say try dating her and if it still bothers you after, say, three dates then drop it but you might find yourself getting used to it.
adorableParticipantrefuah sheleima hope you feel better soon.
adorableParticipantim passionate that we are sick of the joseph thing
adorableParticipantyou just came and you’re already missing her? you’re here for all of 5 minutes! LOL
adorableParticipantmods- its about if you are party type or loner….
adorableParticipantI hear what’s bothering you but the truth is that you have to give the impression to the outside world that things are good. Some just told me that the first step to feeling good about yourself and happy is to PRETEND that you are to. it really helps.
adorableParticipantm in Israel- like that mashal thank you!
adorableParticipanti wish they would rate our posts and tell us how much they like us. sometimes i think they think im the biggest pain in the neck and sometimes they are ok with me.
adorableParticipantyou are far from unintellectual unless you are socially awkward in real life too
adorableParticipantdont think so but she is a really idiot. i cant deal with justice system here. Rubashkin is sitting and shes free?!?!??!
adorableParticipantwelcome
hope you stay longer than some of the oldies here. interesting how just when some leave we get some new friends around here. so explain to us how you got here….
adorableParticipantomg we women rock! LOL they are adorable getzel. where do you pick these up from?
adorableParticipanteverything is going wrong….. but hes still smiling
adorableParticipantwhat about the Shmuz sticker?
adorableParticipanti dont like the YWN radio so much anymore. If i knew when to tune in to hear him then maybe…
i thought it was like a nusic video or something like that.
adorableParticipantbpt- sounds like you are on the good side now with so few of your posts edited.
adorableParticipantanyone else passionate about life?
adorableParticipantis that an innocent question or is there more to it? ask your fellow mods.
July 6, 2011 8:23 pm at 8:23 pm in reply to: Caring about other people needs- Where to draw the line #791480adorableParticipantI do the same things and I asked your question too. As long as you are not making yourself nuts and ruining your schedule every other day for no reason and you’re not a push over then why not do a chesed for someone else
adorableParticipantIm not sure what threads they think are too “graghic” (i guess thats a good word to use) for the guys here.
adorableParticipantgetzel- what are you trying to find out? you want the best “abusive” stories?
adorableParticipantthat story that she says is really great. never heard of her before but she is great. very interesting to listen to.
bpt- I would love to see the posts that they shred. i can only imagine what they are like….LOL
adorableParticipantparty animal all the way.
adorableParticipantego booster for you.
adorableParticipantwere some of these posts deleted? like mine for example!?!??!
adorableParticipantits so frustrating to me when I try rereading a thread and some of the posts got removed. gets very confusing.
(I hope this thread is still about this topic- they seem to take on a new life sometimes and I did not read the previous threads)
July 6, 2011 7:30 pm at 7:30 pm in reply to: Many attempts were made for the Kallah. How would you proceed? #791221adorableParticipantThank you so much. I just had a discussion with someone about if its possible to be completely happy and single. I dont think a person can ever feel really “whole” without a spouse- that is the way Hashem made the world- we are always looking for our other half. On the other hand, you can enjoy your singlehood until Mr. perfect comes along (just joking dont burn me for saying that, bomb)
adorableParticipantbomb- maybe this is just to strengthen your emunah. you think its harder for Hashem to send you your zivug than for a “regular” boy? Let me clue you in, its not. its all the same to Him.
adorableParticipantI still dont understand why she is able to talk to her father after what he did to her.
adorableParticipantreal-brisker- Thank you for clarifying. i thought the question was if the CR is tznius. I’m not sure what they are talking about in that case.
adorableParticipantI’m not saying that I dont go to sleep sometimes crying that I just want a guy near me already but when I wake up in the morning I can usually see things in a different light and see a mich bigger picture. I do feel though like I can be doing so much more in my life than I’m doing but obviously this is where I have to be so why sit and be upset and worried all day?!?!?! its easy for me to write but takes lots of effort.
adorableParticipantyou can ask mrs bpt for a map of the place- her husband mentioned on here once that she knows the place as well as the back of her hand
July 6, 2011 6:35 pm at 6:35 pm in reply to: Many attempts were made for the Kallah. How would you proceed? #791219adorableParticipantOfCourse- Thank you for thinking bout me but the right one will come around i’m not nervous for even one second. I’m enjoying every second of my single life right now.
adorableParticipantI have a neighbor who used to call them for any stupid thing until one of the guys told my mother that they dont even rush to the scene anymore. SAD
adorableParticipantbomb- not taking sides but I hear where you are coming from and my heart goes out to you. I think the system that we have in place is a major disadvantage to people like you- who are smart and have created a stable life for themselves regardless of their family history. May you find your bashert at the right time, EASILY!
adorableParticipantanyone see that viseo clip of her crying to her parents. I think she is guilty just by the way she acts and she belongs in a mental home that is for sure.
adorableParticipantbomb- do you mean THE when you write teh?
adorableParticipantno. good job. you are right. hopefully you taught them a lesson.
adorableParticipantI dont believe it either. unless this is a mom and pop business and the women are the editors wives, sisters….
adorableParticipantI have a co worker who is engaged. I am the only one who ever worked in this office and still not engaged/married. I’m not upset at her but she is “gushing” the whole day about her chosson, wedding, apartment….Generally I dont mind when ppl talk about their engagements (in fact when a very close friend got engaged I loved talking to her about it) but she gets me very nervous.
adorableParticipantI would be embarrased that I waste so much time on here but not by anything that I say as I dont think I say things that I wouldn’t really say in public (and if I do say something out of line the mods dont let it through so no one would see it anyhow)
adorableParticipantthe ones on the back of the bag of Paskez chocolate chips are the best. easy recipe and good soft heaven cookies.
adorableParticipantso why are you posting here if you dont think its app?
July 5, 2011 8:55 pm at 8:55 pm in reply to: Many attempts were made for the Kallah. How would you proceed? #791212adorableParticipantwhat- thank you! I think you are the only one who even noticed that line. LOL
adorableParticipantwell I know he exists. He might be a mod, he might be an editor but he does exist as something here!
adorableParticipantmeaning? do you mean to say that there are many children in wheelchairs who are mistaken for “retarted” and as if they dont understand anything?
adorableParticipantI think you should not tell them anything. Just ignore them and they will stop. you cannot control them from bothering and stalking other people you just have to worry about yourself. I had the same thing with phone calls at one point. It was a boy who somehow got my number and begged me to just meet him one time because he has something very important to tell me about myself. I told him no thanks
adorableParticipantis pba really a mod?
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