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is it because she has so much time on her hands?
adorableParticipantwhere’s the husband. are you the husband?
adorableParticipantAs the sibling of a special boy I am absolutely disgusted by clever’s post. I am not going to deny that it can be a strain on the parents relationship, finances and the other children in the family. I have so much to say but I think every child and every situation is different so… just know that whatever you teach your child when they are young the more they will know. Now that my brother is 10 he doesn’t like going to therapy anymore and puts up a fuss…. you have to shower them with tons of therapy when they are young. I would suggest you get in touch with Chai Lifeline asap! they are amazing. And P.S. my brother is also a twin to a healthy boy…
adorableParticipantThank you guys. I made up my mind that whatever I get I’m not going to be happy either way so whatever I get thats it.
adorableParticipantI would love to play in a sandbox! I love the sand and outdoors! I play on the trampoline all the time.
adorableParticipantgood job guys. and its not even getzel!!!!!!!!
adorableParticipantcoffee- agree. dont know of big people who do the right thing and have their heads screwed on straight committing suicide.
adorableParticipanthatzlacha and may it go easy and smoothly. its never a good time just maybe a better of the worse
adorableParticipanthappy anniversary 80! Hope they made you a huge party……….
adorableParticipantI think his sefer is a good place to start but you are right it does have some “chumros” is there that are not basic halacha. I think the spirit of the law is just as important as the letter of the law if not more important and thats very hard to teach someone.
July 18, 2011 4:01 pm at 4:01 pm in reply to: Many attempts were made for the Kallah. How would you proceed? #791233adorableParticipantofcourse- Its about time. Hope it was a nice amount.
adorableParticipantGuys- I am confused. if they let you return it then you can. Dont abuse the system and just use your common sense.
adorableParticipantnot many but she felt like things were moving along pretty nicely and she was sure on her part that its going to end in a Lchaim! I think it was the fact that there was no warning that made it so difficult for her
adorableParticipantI think its a dangerous slope for people to invite their friends and wives over for a meal but I wouldn’t say its assur. just not a good idea. why are you making it so easy for the yetzer hara to tease you? No one is saying that they are going to actually DO something assur but its just not a “safe” path to start down. But I would not condemn someone who does it. And I dont mean older married couples with children- I mean young newlyweds.
July 18, 2011 3:43 pm at 3:43 pm in reply to: Sleepaway Camps taking advantage of their staff. #787303adorableParticipantthe kids enjoy it too. they are still in camp- its not like sitting in a desk and working hard its a camp atmosphere….
adorableParticipantget rid of your internet before you start with the AC- thats something that wont affect those who come to your home while shutting the AC will make them hot.
adorableParticipantI think mother’s have to make sure they are finding their sons a wife that’s suitable for them and not a girl that would be a good daughter in law for them.
adorableParticipantWOW! sorry for the distress that you are going through but I did not mean to hurt you in any way what so ever and neither did D. Pepper.
adorableParticipantI would hold a dinner for all the posters (Joes are not invited) and award 80 with a huge banner for doing a great job! I would also make sure there is always someone Moderating so there’s no time when ppl sit and do nothing
adorableParticipantIts not true! Of course you can get close to someone after just dating a few times/ a few hours of being together. And it can be very tough to overcome those.
adorableParticipantme no understanding your post. please to try and explaining it to me when you have a minutes
thanking you.
adorableParticipantI still would never marry a smoker because of the practical part of it- he stinks and wastes tonz of money………
adorableParticipanthealth-
dont get your point.
adorableParticipanthow do you know that your children dont know about it? and if he really tried to stop and you’re backing him then why didn’t it work? any why dont you want them to know- is it because its not something that you would want them to copy? because you know its bad?
adorableParticipantZK- hope the mountains are treating you nicely, you have not been here lately…. hope you meet bpt some time over the weekend. Look out for the tznius mod. thats him.
July 15, 2011 6:13 pm at 6:13 pm in reply to: Changed Topic of Shiur – Do I Have A Right To Be Disappointed? #788276adorableParticipantanger is a much stronger emotion and people generally act upon their anger and get all worked up. if you want to be disappointed thats fine but dont go and act all rash because of it.
adorableParticipantYou have me rolling. OK so should I sign up?
and lets get to business- hows the food?
adorableParticipantLOL You have me laughing. Are they in the same town? Are you able to communicate with them at all?
adorableParticipantthe fact that you aren’t answering the question shows that you know what hes talking about and youre avoiding
adorableParticipantNo they have a great editor who keeps them on track. do they have a separate room for the guys and the women mods?
adorableParticipantGOQ- yeah I heard the coffee is really good, the danishes really fresh and the service is amazing- quick, efficient and clean
adorableParticipantalways- what is it?
adorableParticipantwhat would be the difference? for the little ones here?
adorableParticipantjust be natural! You should be zoche to find someone and really like her very soon…will be easy then!
July 15, 2011 4:53 pm at 4:53 pm in reply to: Hamaichin Mitzadei Gaver! Out of thousands of people out, this is who Leiby met! #786280adorableParticipantI dont know from myself but i just cant imagine that all Hashem wants us to take out of this is that we have to be safer
adorableParticipantand I promise you that kids are not dumb and you cannot hide something like that from them. what would you do if your son started smoking? would you be ok with it?
adorableParticipantweird story. weird shafchan. weird boy.
adorableParticipantITS THAT TIME OF WEEK AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!
adorableParticipantI have a friend who was going out with a guy that she really liked and thought things were going ok until he said no! She said it took her months to get over it.
adorableParticipanthealth- these threads were not all up when I posted my thread as the mods must be busy
adorableParticipantare you saying this all knowing that he has a high risk of dying and leaving you and your children alone? I have a lot to say as I might just be one of your children- my father also smokes (infrequently but still) and I am the only one of my siblings that knows about it. but you dont know how hard it is on me. i cannot go into details without saying things that will surely be deleted but I would quicker marry a guy with a physical disability rather than a smoker.
adorableParticipantI just want Moshiach to come thats it!!!!!!!
adorableParticipantno one minds you can post them (I hope the mods let them through)
but why did you have so many stories?
July 15, 2011 3:34 pm at 3:34 pm in reply to: Beautiful Passage Written On Behalf Of Leiby A'h To Klal Yisroel #789075adorableParticipantWOW! You moved me to tears. you are right that unfortunately time heals and we all go back to our business. I mentioned on another thread that we all thought after Mumbai that we would never be able to move on but we did. Lets not let this happen again! Everyone should take upon themselves something small yet concrete and be mekapel that tikun as a zechus for his neshama
adorableParticipanti dont have time to listen to it all can someone please translate
adorableParticipantlistening to it. I think you have to hear it from him
adorableParticipantwell then you’re an unusual individual because most people are not that way.
adorableParticipantbomb- I hate to sound so strong but I think you are dead wrong! I dont know if you shop in Costco but they just made a new rule that they wont take back any electronics after 90 days because they felt like they were losing out…. They saw it didnt pay for them anymore. But the same is not true with their fruits, vegatables, clothing or anything else in the store. Apparently for that its worth it and the policy is good for them.
so you see that they do assess if its worth it for them….
adorableParticipantI dont know what’s “more tragic”….its not so normal and its very tough to get over the tragedy of a baby losing both his parents and that pain will never diminish in his grandparents hearts…. but it did with some of us. I was just thinking bout the music video that Lipa made when they were niftar and I can cry whenever I watch it.
adorableParticipantIt sounds like you’re going to have to make some tough decisions at times about taking off from college vs. dating someone and moving on in life but if you are committed to making it all work, I think it can but it might be tough. When you meet the right one it should all go easy and fast.
Good Luck!
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