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Dont do anything without speaking to a competent rav and your doctor. maybe they should even speak to each other if they disagree about you fasting. whatever you do though, it should be easy for you! Have a relaxing Shabbos
google saves all my passwords for me. when I have a husband i guess ill have to decide
Ken- hysterical.
Middle- I started one FOR you!!!!!!!!!
I dont know why I think this but is it true that in the chassidish circles they do 50/50 while in the more “litvish” circles they do FLOP
I dont know what your friends are telling you (or not telling you) and I’m not sure what you want them to do but they might just be frustrated- they want you to be “all better” and dont know what to say so their hands are sort of tied. Last night one of my very good friends was telling me about something that was bothering her but there was nothing for me to say that would make her feel better. I was so frustrated!!!!!!!!!!!
tracht- I think NY is hotter than Canada so just imagine what its like here.
Cookies- sorry to be so blunt but wave to the boat (you missed it but its fine)
I vaguely remember a thread like this before. I dont think he believes half the things that he writes. He loves the att that he gets. I wish someone would start a whole thread about me too!!
you like cooking that much that you think it will bring you too mcuh simcha? wow you must be a holy jew- just thinking/preparing for a chag brings you such joy
I have a very close friend who had a mis in her 4th month. It was right before Pesach and it did’t help that she was going to her MIL for yom tov with her sisters in law that were all pregnant! they did not know about her mis so they weren’t nec careful about the way they spoke around her. It was a very hard time for her and I cried along with her. Since we dont live near each other there was no way I can really physically help her but I was there for her emotionally and she knew that.
bomb- I dont usually buy the Ami but I think this time Im going to.
maybe you didnt see everything or are over reacting. i would say that if they are happily married dont ever ever say anything.
mods can i send you his email address?
its “Rabbi Z Wallerstein” <[email protected]>,
can someone explain to me why they would remarry the person that they divorced?
try the other methods they have a higher success rate.
mystery unsolved
droid- i was thinking that!
derech- lol i found someone like me for a change
I know someone who has magnificent ones in monsey. im sure he can get them to you if you want.
why wud they remarry didnt they divorce for a reason?
true. u must have been old neighbors
do u need rabbi wallerstein email address? i think its the best way to get thru to him. i have it or his cell number. u can have the mods contact me
usually after the chuppa they look at each other for a minute. nothing can compare to that one minute look. its pure bliss
I think MDG is past that age so its too late but he can try it with his children.
mosherose- stupid way to decide that they are not keeping a kosher home. but you seem to always do things that are “not typical” so go right ahead. I hope you marry someone who goes along with all your meshugasin. actually you wont talk to her so you would never know what she thinks….
I think mosherose is joe! Im almost positive
cookie- do you feel coffee’s presence gone? did you see the schechina leave when he left
If thats how bad it is then I would suggest you leave but make sure you have a plan before you just walk out and end up on the street. can you get a job? what about your social life outside of the home?
does he have a rav that would talk to him?
it makes me so nervous when a husband calls his wife “ma/ima…” in public. I think they do it because of tznius but its so annoying. SHE IS NOT YOUR MOTHER! SHE IS YOUR WIFE!
Health- someone that I know told me that he worked and worked and tried everything to make it work but eventually it was time to get out. she was becoming more and more frei while he was having heartache trying to save himself and his 3 daughters. Eventually he left but doesnt want to get remarried because he built a life for himself already and just cant imagine starting all over and having to accommodate to a wife’s schedule….yes he misses the good of marriage but hes happy now. I know another single guy who doesnt either want to get married- same reason
thats why all the NYers are so tired.
unmeiglach
dont know how to spell it
a bubbe maise is usually used when theres a story that you dont believe could ever happen or u dont think it did happen
but yes if they are asking for advice its nice to go back and follow up… i noticed that happiest did that on her threads.
a little confusing this thread but I got it. sometimes ppl start threads just to bring up a topic- they dont necessarily have anything personal invested in that conversation
first of all, I’m so impressed that you are able to come out and talk about it. It shows a lot about the fact that you didnt just brush it all under the carpet. I would assume that she feels like she can talk to you abotu it and might want you to bring it up and explain her why its wrong. she might just be looking for some love and att. from you. I have no clue. But I would suggest that you talk to someone who deals with these types of situations- try Rabbi Wallerstein (mentioned by another poster but hes amazing I can tell you from personal experience). I dont think you should tell her to contact someone but I think you should get advice on how to guide her.
what are you trying to find out? are you upset at something that someone did or that they didn’t respond?
if something irks you- it bothers you a lot
I know a couple that got married as non frum Jews then got divorced, did teshuva and remarried. She went off again though and they are again divorced (she is no longer frum)
Middle- I got it! at least you’re still connected to someone
JMJ- good job that you were able to pull yourself out of that but it doesnt sound like theres much thats going to motivate her husband. I dont think she should divorce him yet but I think something really has to be worked out.
Middle- I guess things between you and your family are not so strained like you make it sound if you want her on your invitation.
JJ
I heard that with meds you are allowed to take some water (I think I heard 1 tablespoon) and that would not be considered breaking your fast.
so why cant you tell her the same thing that they tell her? that would at least take care of the daughter. would you be able to tell the parents the same thing that you would tell the daughter (meaning the same thing that the others tell the daughter)
its not about health because she didnt gain enough weight for it to be unhealthy
coffee- what do you mean?
I dont think most 18 year olds are ready to get married. maybe if someone is as mature enough as an 18 year old then its a different story ( I mean as mature as 18 year olds used to be)
and I think Im right. but we can disagree its fine
lol I think its the passion
I love cleaning!!!!!! My favorite activity- besides coloring and sleeping
I cannot believe that this is the only thing going on here. I’m sure there is more to the story- and if you dont have any other issues with him yet- they are prob just being hidden from you. He needs help. Try being as presentable as possible- dont walk around in rags when hes there and make sure to put on makeup…. and take him to speak to someone!