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I didnt want him to feel like I was burdening him and leaving him a message so he HAS to call me back…
why would she want to date you then? there must be a reason why she wants to go out with you- you must be worth something!!!!!
same here. but I must say I dont have THAT many posts deleted and dont think they ever edited one of mine. but you never know
he prob did because those were the days when he had a more “mainstream/normal” way of thinking so….. but now I dont think anyone would wanna marry him. Hes prob never home- always on the CR!
zd- not that Leiby had to have heard about that scandal but it brought tumah into the world.
I heard that some gadol said (dont rem who) that when women walk in the streets not dressed properly, then the streets become an unsafe place for children physically.
do you want a new subtitle? you have to scream much louder than that and come up with one of your own which they will use….
whats your screen name all about anyhow?
I would not tell my parents my email password but they know my account number and pin number for my bank account so… i dont think i would want my husband to look through all my emails but if he figured out what my password was, or if I was there looking at my emails with him I wouldn’t mind at all.
what bout if its his first time dating and hers too.. cant talk about any other dates. what about the weather (and if he would wear tzitzis in this heat….) and stuff like that.
the last- I agree. the heat is a nisayon. be happy that you guys can walk around without a shirt! Imagine us women. and there are women who only wear blouses/jackets and are all buttoned up! DO you have the a/c on at home?
what was the thread about?
happens all the time. someone just called me yesterday to ask me if I happen to know a girl who was in my high school but shes not sure if she was in my grade or I would know her….the girl happens to be one of my closest friends!
neither do I but I have to be open to realize that I prob will end up here at some point in my life. its just the most typical normal place to start out. (wanna go to E”Y but well see….)
thank you mod thats much better- makes more sense
good shabbos guys! miss you till next week!
dont think its a good title though
wow!!!!! how come I never heard of that before? pretty scary
agree. go for it even though Im sure there are going to be lots of people telling you to marry someone young and youll grow together but stick with your guts on this one
wow a compliment from you?!?!?! thanks
SG- lol how’d you think of that one?
bpt- it must have been a very lenient mod who let that through. i can only imagine how 80 dealt with that behind the scenes
didnt read this whole thread because I have no clue what you guys are talking about but what I do know is that we are not DUMB were just wired differently and are generally not so technical and “deep learners” but are more tuned into emotions and stuff
one good thing about her is that she usually checks back in and lets us know whats going on.
WOW u definitely would benefit from getting out of your little hole and coming to monsey
my fingers always get bigger in the summer. but hopefully my stomach gets smaller – thanks to swimming and running around all day
Middle- funny that you wanted someone older than you. I personally think those are much better off but for some reason there is a huge pressure to get married. These years are the best thing for me. I learnt so much and gained a tremendous amount
there are a couple of Jewish (and even chassidish guys) in monsey that drive motorcycles…..
yes im from monsey why?
WIY- thank you for your post, you are 100% correct. I’m sorry if it came across that way but i really did have something to discuss with him and its something that I know he can guide me through but Im not sure many other people can. I emailed him and told him my whole story and he told me to call him on his cell. I tried him on the day that he told me to which I did but he didnt pick up. He told me that if he misses my call, hell try and call me back but I did not leave a message as I didnt want to inconvenience him. so maybe its my fault that i didnt speak to him…
i read your post. I think that the only thing you can say is that you think from reading her posts that you might have gone through something a little similar but its frustrating when ppl say they went through the same thing and they can understand when really u know that they dont understand
all smiles- you too wave to the boat. whats with you guys today
are you going to your neighbor?
bpt- is that all you learned from the story? if you are looking for an excuse why this happened you will find one. but like rabbi wallerstein said- if it would have been a goy who killed him everyone would have said “anti semitism” and then dont need to do teshuva because its nothing i did wrong. so a jew did it- so you have nothing to say besides THIS IS A DECREE FROM HASHEM!!!
first of all, how can you know if you failed? it can take years until you see the fruits of your labor with this….
I have a co worker (not someone in my office but we are in touch via email all the time) whos Jewish but I dont think shes frum at all. One of my co workers told me that when she emails her she always sends her a link to the aish.com site. I dont because I dont see how that would do anything. I just act courteous to her and nice and try to show her that the ppl that she belongs to are not “that bad”. Its funny because she told me that Im so much easier to deal with- she finds the other co worker to be too pushy
are you mosherose or Joe? (or are they the same thing?)
80- could not have said it better myself.
smart again!
and dont forget that we care and we’re all rooting for you!
Joe- how do u decide which name to use when posting…..
he responded to my emails but to every single one…. Its very very hard to get through to him so good luck!
I’m so upset because I still never got to talk to him and I would love to but Im not chasing him anymore. If you speak to him….. think of me.
bpt- yes i forgot about that one. I love riding my bike too but unfortunately dont get to do it that often…. have to get far out of monsey before i can get anywhere near a bike!!!!!!!
Please DO NOT tell her that its common and she’ll have more children. thats NOT what she needs to hear now!
I know why they do it but she is not his MOMMY/IMA and he is not her TOTTY/ABA…
I heard they have a hard time with figuring out the exact amount to eat and not throw up which is very common.
you wanna tell us what happened or is this just a rant?
wolf- did you make it or you just watched EEES doing it? (or did you buy it and then youre a cheater!)
theres a great recipe for greek chicken in the susie fishbein cookbook (not sure which one but i think its the short on time) make it all the time its great.
I dont get it but ok. they should have thought about all those options before taking such a drastic step. maybe everyone should just get divorced and remarried every other day so that they can fulfill this mitzva. divorce is not something to be taken lightly
will you bring all the food with you to the banquet that were holding? where the order form? I could use your help in my kitchen
observant- very well said. I would tell him that you wanna leave if you dont see a marked improvement in the next — weeks and that he must be willing to go to someone professional as well as have a rav thats going to guide him and that hes going to listen to. if not I would tell you to get yourself a job and get out of his home!
I think they care but just dont know what to say. Middle- you have no clue what she went through and theres no way to know if you are experiencing the same thing (do you have an eating disorder) but just talking to someone else who has gone through things in life makes you feel better. I think ppl who go through things are “stronger” in life and able to deal with more. Just keep your head above water and in the long run you are the one whos going to gain
tracht- LOL
Wolf- even more important is to realize that you wont have a better marriage if you have a fancier wedding…. stop putting so much pressure on the one night and take care of the emotional part of it and the rest of your life
wolf- could not have said it better myself. mosherose- what did you ask about sneezing? when you should sneeze? I hope you give your rav a nice gift every year for having to put up with you.
Health- good for you but I know way too many single guys who just cant find the girl whos going to fit into their perfect little life….I know someone who really wants to remarry and has dated over 100 girls but hes still single…..