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whenever there’s a random new poster- assume he’s Joe
JOE
I still have my dalem amos so I like it! Its more than I can ask for in Brooklyn
not as many as brooklyn. are you Joe?
yup- its good to have someone to mentor you and just be there for you.
no but my spies are…I have some family there
i dont think i’ll ever predict anything he’s going to say and be right but I can imagine someone (I chose him but there are some others too) coming and saying “sender- I can tell you have some worth and are a refined person as you used expecting not pregnant. It just bothers me so much when I hear that word being used in public…so not tznius. Isnt pregnancy like a private thing (no its not something that everyone sees….)?”
so I did it for them
yes very typical. hes very very busy and did not respond to my emails for months. until i emailed him enough times to get him really nervous.
in monsey there’s tonz of driveways and lots and lots of grass (and trampolines, and pools, and swing sets….) and not that many people
maybe now you are telling yourself that its fine to take them off at home because at least you wear them outside….but thats not the case.
in a way she wishes he would push her away so that it wont be so tempting for her. i think hes starting to do that- he lost interest in being played around with (one day she talks to him, the next day she tells him she has to behave and cant talk to him…) but now its hard to get over that.
maybe in bp people are more insensitive. i think OOT they are nicer anyhow. thats why i wanna move there….LOL
my rabbi didnt say anything. i remember a good vort that i heard but not who said it. sorry i did not hear it from him- but i heard a shiur where someone quoted a gadol by saying this
i dont think they are ready but its thrown at them and they know that everyone else did it and managed so they will to. does that mean they are mature enough to be married?
whats it called when you say nevuah but dont even know it? I think that just happened to me!
maybe you just dont hear it. or ur so sure that you are doing the right thing that it just “floats” over you
I’m not a BT but I always feel like I have to prove myself to the world but I recently realized that I have to prove to myself who I really am and then I wont care what the rest of the world thinks
very good to have. very important.
I know I’me being dumb by asking but a friend of mine who met this guy and would like to be his friend- and just a friend. i keep telling her that its not going to stay that way- every relationship either goes forward or back… but it defys all logic and she just loves talking to him
isn’t it sad that something so “not normal” has to happen to wake us up?
ur curious in knowing? did you mean you are curious to know? im not saying….
hope your busy with good things. cant wait
we are not talking about the costco return policy again. as far as the coffee- its great coffee and have no heard of any machines that broke (dont personally own one but lots of ppl that I know do). are you planning on sharing with us?
there ARE women mods- but they are quiet and very eidel.
80- is not from NY- he told us before. he’s from the west I think he said. (is he going to let that through)
hows the recycle doing this week? they just came to get the boxes here….and im thinking about YOUR boxes!
he used to be here on mon nights only but now i see he’s here more often to annoy us… and throw his opinions on everyone… anyone else notice that or am i dreaming?
not me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I dont think the only difference is that they know its coming…. i dont think they are more mature either but they are forced to live up to that. what should they do, run away? no! so they get married but they are not doing it because they feel ready. do you know for a fact that they dont feel like they are being cheated out of their childhood?
but I dont see where anyone is saying that marriage is bad
bpt said this a couple of times (and I quoted him a thousand more times…) that a good marriage is bliss and there is nothing as good but a bad marriage is living hell. This has helped me a lot- I always think about how if I give it my all and try my best to make it a good marriage then its going to be blissful and wonderful (yes hardships will come my way but I will be able to deal with them)
can you tell us who he is? is he taking nekama on you for something? if its joe then do yourself a favor and ignore him.
we missed you!!
i dont think the point is a good one but whatever. I just meant to say that you cannot argue with something that I was repeating. i was not the one that made it up (i would not have been able to do such a good job) but I meant that you cannot come and argue about what is said. Molesters make the world a sad place but they are not polluting the world. they may physically be unsafe for the sake of the children in the streets but maybe they don’t send the shechina away. i have no clue. if you want more info ask a LOR
coffee- i wasnt sure that would make it through but it did. wow the mods must be lenient today. its an expression that i unfortunately got used to using….. LOL
lol thanks for the tip! youre 100% right. in that case basha tova!
mosherose will prob come tell you that you have some value because you used the words expecting and not pregnant which is not as refined.
you really have it in for the wolf- so many others posted things that would get you ticked off normally (like milchigs and stuff like that) but you chose to respond to his post…..
GOQ- I was wondering where you went. why the hiding? and why did you reveal yourself so fast…we might all have Joseph moments but we are not all joseph
why dont you ask him what he meant. i agree with 80 and the others that he prob just thinks that all women are married already or maybe he just wants to know if you know who hes going to marry.
zd- your post sent shivers up and down my spine.
why cant you tell her that you dont mind listening to her and trying to give her as much chizzuk as you can but you have a lot going on on your end and you think that for her sake she should speak to someone who can be more available for her emotionally and not so busy with their own things. this way you make her think that the issues is with you and not that you dont wanna talk to her but you dont have to renew the friendship
i thought you went as the mashgiach for the mountains to make sure no ones hanging out
far- I did not say that but this is what I heard! if you dont like it, hang yourself
we are not in public and he does not have asperger’s. he has something called “allergic to other peoples opinions”
mazel tov! she might be more shocked if its a little later than she was expecting it to be.
i dont know if hes on the list (sure he is but…) but refoel moshe matisyahu ben golda musya leah needs a refuah sheleima desperately!!!!!!!!
hatzlocho! Cant help you with any advice other than good luck and it should all go easily for you.
so what you really have to make sure is that she is someone who can deal with challenges and wont break. is she an easy to deal with kinda person? meaning will she able to “play both sides” and get along with all the ppl in your family? is so I think you should look at her as a person and see if you would like to marry her as opposed to seeing if her money, looks, family etc…. match with yours
I did. are you from those times? i dont get it but maybe i should just wave to the boat….
did you see that when you went up for shabbos as the mashgiach?
even if he helps at home- shouldn’t he be productive and find a job? I just cant imagine it being a good thing for a guy to stay home all day and “clean up” and take care of kids while the wife works
maybe the fact that you are the only one in the comm doing such a thing makes it even harder for you to stand up and do what you think is really the right thing.
bomb- did you have a high school rebbe who you spoke to? you said that you missed lots of school- just curious if you got the support that you needed from them at all
would you ask her what makes her want to date you if you have so much going against you while she has so much? would that be possible. you obv have something that she doesn’t have