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lil- whats that?
adorableParticipanti remember once when we had to watch something for school and a friend of mine sat down but felt so horrible watching after so many years of not watching…she could not stop saying how it feels horrible…. but it was a perfectly kosher movie (we had to read the book but didnt want to so we just watched the movie instead)
adorableParticipantwhere do you live?
adorableParticipantadam- I am really sorry for you and it hurt me to read your post. I think the first step (i know everyone mentioned it-i guess its really important) is to get a rav or a mentor of some sort. someone older and wiser than you who can see the whole picture and guide you out of this horrible “maze”. I will tell you that the book A garden of emunah is a wonderful start too. Kids in public school should not be an issue for you- as you said you never had issues with them- count your blessings!!!!!
adorableParticipantfor me vacation is doing outdoor activities- swimming, boating, hiking, beach…. and then sleeping in a hotel
adorableParticipantwe have at least 2 threads for every topic ever discussed here.
adorableParticipantZK- LOL Good point. Why dont you tell your friend the truth. be honest. dont tell him that you will never do it but just say that you can only do it a couple times a week
adorableParticipantposting
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adorableParticipantthere is def a bigger bren and more “varemkeit” when you look at the chassidish bochurim… vs the litvish ones. but I think one thing that they have which I will never have ( and thats sad for me) is that they have a rebbe who they can ask about anything but they are following one derech. my mother always says that when she was pregnant with my special brother she wished she would have a rebbe that she can go to who would just calm her down and guide her. that brings a certain serenity
adorableParticipantI think 80 does the best ones- he came up with mine (I think so….)
rebel- would you rather a bad one like “just another JOE” or would you rather nothing?
adorableParticipanteverything in moderation especially chocolate
adorableParticipantguys- what about once your married? is it ok then?
adorableParticipantwow you have a long list. I think if you found a guy that has none of these things you should grab him in a sec
adorableParticipantits not the same- the ladder theory is much deeper and longer but same idea
adorableParticipantI have the same exact issue. I wanna take off and go somewhere with friends but they all work and are very stubborn about taking a day off!
adorableParticipantis that the same as the ladder theory?
July 27, 2011 7:21 pm at 7:21 pm in reply to: Do I tell the parents about kids being mechalal Shabbos??? #790568adorableParticipantomg you are making me so hungry can i have some too?
July 27, 2011 6:51 pm at 6:51 pm in reply to: Do I tell the parents about kids being mechalal Shabbos??? #790566adorableParticipantare we related? where do you live now?
adorableParticipantmods did you delete a post of mine from this thread?
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adorableParticipantwhat bout when they are sitting near you in a desk?!?!?! my biggest pet peeve is when ppl talk about their whole life story and take care of all their personla/family matters in the office
adorableParticipantits sad enough that she died the way she did and lived the way she lived. its even worse that after her horrible life and death she didnt have a proper burial. I pity that family
adorableParticipanti dont get what that joke had to do with anything
adorableParticipantmonsey
adorableParticipantsaw that last one in a cartoon. very cute!
adorableParticipantgo to 7 11 its the biggest bracha- cheap and you just feel like you can sit when you get back because you got up and did somthien
adorableParticipantdo you have to recycle there too?
adorableParticipant80- LOL
i dont think anyone is writing anything too bad on this thread, that would be difficult
adorableParticipantsorry i meant medal!!!!!!!!! mods can you change that? and then you can have an iron medal or copper- whatever is more expensive
adorableParticipantbut I’m loving every single second of my single life! I think the fact that they are basically just boyfriend/girlfriends now makes it hard.
adorableParticipantmods- I cant imagine how ur doing this! you deserve an award!!!!
adorableParticipantAMEN! Thank you
adorableParticipantnot sure if I am because I clearly know that hes not for me and would be not possible to work
adorableParticipantsitting at work posting on the CR
adorableParticipantits a minhag?!?!?!?! I thought its just nice!
adorableParticipantwhy cant you be honest with them and ask them straight up what they are planning on doing when/if times get tough? you could have wealthy tenants that lose their money and then they cant pay either…..
adorableParticipantfind out from their tenants now
adorableParticipantsame here but we all have those moments. when I leave the cr Im sure but once I log on to the CR I doubt myself
July 27, 2011 4:40 pm at 4:40 pm in reply to: Do I tell the parents about kids being mechalal Shabbos??? #790564adorableParticipantbomb- and so? go get food!
adorableParticipantheck! I thought the issue is (mainly) solved when you get married…..now i really have nothing to look forward to!
adorableParticipanti know what you mean but sometimes you are right!
July 27, 2011 4:37 pm at 4:37 pm in reply to: Do I tell the parents about kids being mechalal Shabbos??? #790562adorableParticipantYatz- do I know you?
adorableParticipantthe difference is that the mods are sure that they aren’t Joe but we can never be sure.
adorableParticipantwow! its encouraging to know that someone else feels the way I do. Its not that I dont daven but its that I like to daven on my own time and place….
adorableParticipantmiddle- dont push things take ur time…the right one at the right time!
adorableParticipantpopa- you had me rolling! good job!
adorableParticipantI daven almost every single morning but dont feel any emotions. I dont know how to explain it but I just dont feel like it gets me anywhere. I know you’re all going to tell me that of course Hashem hears and I see a tremendous amount of hashkacha in my life and I know its all from Him but when it comes to formal prayers I just cant!
adorableParticipantLOL that would be very sharp!!!!
adorableParticipantI dont think its really possible but you never know. maybe this boy really is the exception but I would highly doubt it. maybe hes just not ready or maybe he doesn’t even think that shes thinking in those terms at all yet.
adorableParticipantu have to do soemthing either very terrible and then you’ll get one that you are Joseph or you have to post a lot here and youll get one too- as soon as you make the mods nervous enough. they dont have all day to think of subtitles AND moderate the posts.
adorableParticipantI dont think its easy to get a job but he must try his best to get some sort of job. I dont think its easy but there has to be a will to work and he’ll find something….I realize that there is a bigger issue here but let me tell you from experience that the first step to depression….is when you dont have a job and fell good about yourself.
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