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yeah Im waiting to hear how it went!!!!!
yeah its not jokes.
how do you know he doesnt have a blackberry and posting here. if ur luba. then it might just be him. watch out. ask him what he was doing today!!!!!!!!!!!
Please dont correct my spelling. i think my posts are readable!!!!!!!
is it that important to get the perfect cup of coffee? sounds like an iffy situation
i thought that you are ok if you follow the advice of a competent rav but he is the one that will suffer if he over looked something and have a wrong psak.
what does her “new” husband think? why are you getting involved? It sounds like a messy situation and u dont have any control over her. she is obv in need of more help than you can offer.
good, i have things planned for tom. just joking. I believe that Moshiach will be here before then. world cannot hold on much longer this way.
beautiful piece. I have lots of thoughts running around in my head but need time to formulate it. I think you have a lot going for you in life, keep that up. you are never done working on yourself. The point is nto that people shoulnt know who are you and what your family story is – ull never be able to run away from who you are and where you come from and then when ppl ask you it reminds you and depress you. just try to move on and prove yourself to others and yourself that you can be YOu and nothing more.
lots more coming….
so you mean i should hide under my bed tomorrow. im not sure what they mean. is there something coming tomorrow that i should knwo about>?
that is a little off topic but ok. I think girls that are right out of school who get married are doing the wrong thing in general. they need time to settle and get acclimated to the real world
I think the main point that others wanted you to realize that you dont know everything and just because you think he is such a great guy and was a wonderful husband it may not be that way. you have no clue how he may have abused her. you would never know that. it could have also been that he was a wonderful husband but she just made his life miserable and she really is a creep. i believe it can happen. just realize that you dont know everything and if this women has an issue (which she clearly does) then all you can do is show her that you care and think she should speak to someone professional so she can move on in life. are you the new husband?
if ur as cute as u think you are (assuming from your name) then ull be fine.
that is true. and we know nothing about each other- in life in general (even when you think you know everything you really know nothing) and especially here in the coffee room.
neither was my post meant to be taken seriously.
dont let him see that ur nervous and hopefully it will be fine. first dates are usually short
yes this world is for sure falling apart at the seams. i feel like there isnt going to be anyone left soon here. its freaky
they dont need your resume they know you. and they knwo who you are friends with if they need more info. i dont need my friends resume to think of someone for them.
GOQ- did I come across too strong? Sorry about that. i promise I am not judging you for even one second
anyone hear of a new store?
rabbi Wallerstein would for sure say that. but watch hes going to have a really interesting spin on it. hes just one great guy.
why did you go if you dont think hes a good guy?
please use your energies on your kids situations and not on getting the mods to participate.
I think aries has a point and that is that you dont know everything and its not an attack on you per se but on the fact that you think you know everything and there is no way that you do. even if its your sister or brother and they told you every single thing that went on, you are still missing the other half of the story.
ur right. i wasnt that late was I?
no i wish i could but i listen to his shiurim. they are something else. hes the most amazing person ever
I am single too btu dont have that outlook on the whole single thing- I dont think of myself as inferior and i dont view myself as a nebach that im still single so even though i read the same posts as you, I read them differently.
yeah i have it on all day every day. its great. awesome selection. is there anyway to replay a certain song?
dont say anything if your daughter doesnt ask for your advice. and even if she does, i would say you should not show her how bad you really think it is. play it down
those were the days. now its raining every other second.
family comes first generally. no two ways about it. blood is thicker than water- known fact. but there of course is an exception to every single rule and this is no different.
i dont only have it with music. have it all the time when I pass certain places or when I go on certain highways.
coffee- do you go to his shiur every week for the guys? he always mentions to us women about what he told the guys….
what do you think now with earthquakes in lakewood and NY area???? that was my first thought.
did not feel a thing here.
GOQ- i dont think that is what was meant in that post. just be upbeat and dont have that outlook and then all of a sudden u wont even think that way anymore. being single is not a sickness or something like that. I feel like you think it is. i dont mean to insult you. I understand that it can get tough sometimes (im single dont forget) but you are so busy making support groups and all that stuff…..
wrote this in a rush- gotta go bring the mods more chocolate. ttyl
I can relate (even though I was really calm for some reason) but its all going to be fine. jsut make sure to be yourself and relax. its his issue to make the talking flow not yours
what do you mean? I was busy taking care of people during the shaking and not posting. I had to make sure the mods were safe and sound.
I won already! sorry!
chill out and be yourself. say a silent prayed right before you actually get to the door. Hatzlocha.
are you that nervous about your first date? chill and just be yourself. i can tell you its not that bad!
what does a subtitle have to do with shidduchim?
i think the issue is that we build pictures of what type we think well marry and all that and then when all else matches we cannot let go of that picture.
GOQ- the point is that you shouldnt think it just comes on its own. you have to daven for it.
no lets just say she thought she would marry someone prettier and more good looking and he is not ugly but just not good looking. she can get used to the looks and she prob will but what would you tell her then. this is all theoretical
put them on the general shmooze thread (or the nail polish one. isnt that your favorite)
80- you seem very quiet today. no posts. are you still taking a break from this place? I thought shabbos would be enough for that.
yes it does.
WIY- good job! Thank you keep it Up! may you continue helping us all Grow!
r u the wife, friend, mother, father?
no its not rude. it makes things more organized around here.