adorable

is there really such a thing?

what was the point.

its so normal. please. it happens to so many girls after they get married- especially if they are young,

monsey area. when is this happening?

thanks for checking back- its shows something really nice about you…. may we only hear simchos soon

yitayningwut- I dont know what ur issue with with what I said. I dont believe there is any rav thats going to tell you that you SHOULD eat there. I dont think that you are going to fry in hell for eating there. but why do you have to?

is it affecting my area??????????????

Imaofthree- your post was really harsh and scary. why are u scaring her friend? I think your friend is normal if shes happy. if you see ses unhappy then thats a diff story.

i once had a thread like this one…. but eventually I was the only one posting on it so it just became my personal thread.

When I went out for the first time my mother’s friend called her and told her to make sure I dress in shabbos clothing and not nice weekday. she said when her oldest daughter went out she thought you just have to wear nice weekday and look good. once she got married, her husband asked her- why did you wear weekday on our dates- ur supposed to wear shabbos clothing. lol they had no clue!!!!!!!

where did this post come from?

coffee- chill out seriously please. heck, I dont even know who you are.

you can really use your story and life lessons to help others who are going through things similar to yours.

avi shulman is a life coach and i know him personally. hes very normal

emunah- thanks for your post. you took the words out of my mouth- but yours came out better!!!!!

sorry i did mean that.

what happened with your job? thinking about you

did he say yes to going again? was he nervous too?

the topic of this thread makes no sense to me. no psak is BAD it might just not make sense to you or seem right or it can be that the situation was misread… but how can it be bad?

great thread to bring back. its cute to read it so many months later during the summer months.

i love decaf- none of the side effects (meaning I can sleep) but takes great!!!!!!!!!!!!

but do you like him at all? did you calm down during the date at all? do you think he was able to see the “real” you?

did you take it back to them?

I think they are amazing when nec. whats the argument about though? why would someone think they are BAD?

I think its a psychologist. be there for her and show her that you care for her sake- not because you wanna be part of the “hock” and hear her garbage but you really care about her as a person.

There is nothing you can do to change the way the situation was dealt with. you are a kid and you are only seeing one side of the coin. you dont see it affecting other in the class but you have no clue. from now on all you can do is change the way you continue in this situation that you are put into. I would suggest you speak to Rabbi wallerstein (as mentioned above- he gave me such simple clear advice that just made so much sense but I would never have thought about it on my own and that really was the beginning of the end to all my issues) and moving on. go to a yeshiva or some sort of learners-earners program and get into shape.