i think another major issue with this whole parsha is that everyone is just toooo picky. I tried to redd a shiduch to a single friend of mine. I mentioned the boys name and she immediately asked me what his “type” was. I elaborated, but off the bat, she said no. She didnt bother looking into the shidduch. If every boy and every girl gave every single option on their “lists” a chance, there would be less singles in the world.