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saddygirlygirl…first lets change your name it might change your luck..your new name is HAPPYGIRLYGIRL..The way you write… if i get you correctly… you are a normal healthy young girl…feeling down …cause no job ..just walking the streets and feel like a zombie..can you name any girl that would feel better. Yes every one needs to feel accomplised in life to give them some satisfaction..isnt that just normal…But you also write you go for therapy…I am sure you are not going for the fun or to keep you bussy…so i might be wrong since I dont know why your are going…but just one suggestion while your in therapy aprox. every two three months look back and ask yourself if you see changes ..growth..if you do you are probably going to the right one but if not.. you dont see any changes..dont be stuck their go ahead give yourself the privilage to try someone else..hope this was beneficial…loads of hatzlucha
I have a different point of view…I think we are the best children hashem had ever had…look at all the chesed..countless org. countless zaduka …countless tora is being spread from tapes to sheirs..
and in contradiction..look at tech,…we have to struggle with every day..never in history did we have this big nisoyan with a push of a button from your living room you could do the worst..chas vashulem..and yet we do what we can ..with all the filters to help each others.. .we went through wars and struggled to build again klal yisrael from whom….all from young orphans that witness the worst klal yisrael became alive again..how can anyone talk bad on Hashems children…we are his best…just let us not loose our batuchin our aminah thats our nisoyan…true there are so many tragedies another nisoyan..lets not give up ..lets practice mitvas gadola liyas bsimcha to help us rejoice with hashems mitzvas lets feel close to hashem beleive and trust …and go together towards mashiach. amein
sparkly…who ever said i know or need to know everything……
and why are you predicting that i am lying?
sparkly… Wonderful…and thats the real you….
I am a psycholagist and i know whoever you realy are is whats gonna come out of you ..So even you feel you are just acting and its not your name ..no one knows you..you will still act or say whats on your mind..not whats on mine mind cause that is what i will say…in other words you cant run away from yourself..you might cover up or act sometimes.. but along the line the real you will uncover…thats one of the reasons if you write anything that can hurt someone it will hurt!!!! and here i appericiate ywn for not printing any stuff thats painful lushen hora or against halucha..
ywn please stick to it …many times i was upset on news you would print which was against halucha..you and me and all of us must follow the tora..chufetz chaim teaches us what may or may not be said.although you have a big challange when you have exciting news to share and it will shake up the croud but still halucha stays halucha….
it seems like your sticking to her for your own sake.cause you got no other freinds…but who says she is a freind???? Is it anyway possible to find new freinds? you are so dependent on her that you get to hurt what she says…and because you need her it becomes to hard to forgive..
just watch and see its TRump the winner. President Trump his name..Lets pray he should be a good one.
so here you go ,,,she has so many problems more then you imagine…plus very jealous…can you take pity on her…she needs you more then you need her…when ever she is in that crazy mood and gives it out to you, understand thats the way she is talking to herself to..cause what ever she feels inside is what she does outside..not your problem at all…and besides what do you gain of the grudge ..one thing for sure..anger and PAIN…i know it will seem like the impossible but i promise its doable…give her sympathy..she needs loads…forgive for the sake of forgiving..even though you might be stuck with the pain….that might go away …by the end of the road you might be the one to save her…what a great reward…but!!!! if you find its the impossible for heavens sake just drop her for the time being….
so sparkly you beleive i did that..is that what i wrote…or am i just taking it personel..
its seems to me that she herself has many issues…she seems to be part of the croud suffering from mood swings…she was in that kind of a mood..but you have choice if you want to let her mood make you moody and pained…this is totaly your choice because only you and only you can take charge of your own feelings..and that goes for forgiving to …
dont let her be your tenant living in you with a painful grudge .just get rid of this tennant she is not paying rent for you…just giving you a headache so throw her out ..be freindly and nice feel happy of your attitude your power of control..and wait for great surprises ,,,hatzlucha
sadygirlygirl…are you part of ywn staff?
sparkly..yes..scary…untill we reliaze What a GREAT HASHEM we have…Who worries and cares for us more then we can imagine….
I could hear you are very upset about your comment being deleted..now calm down cause…
if your comment was being deleted then….
your comment was printed….
and if your comment was printed then….
people read it…..
and if people read it then…
your message got through….
so if your message got through then….
WHY ARE YOU UPSET??????……
just written to chear you up a little…
cutting off a car means… exactly what I did and thank you hashem for giving me the right secound the right idea …It happened one day while I was waiting for my childs bus and talking to my neighber while she was waiting for her childs bus from her secound floor porch..while I was shamusing I reliazed my 2 year old go into one of my neighbers parking lot playing with their tryke…2 minutes latter my neighber yelled your son is on the road. I looked back but did not see him..I looked front and saw 2 cars coming… that split secound I ran into the road hands spread apart cutting off the cars for a full stop…..I looked back there was my son 5 feet away from the car I stopped…thank you Hashem for saving my child…
coffee addict…everything is a maybe…I just beg Hashem….and if you think its only a 5th… dont you want to be one of them…So lets rejoice… from the entire world we are chosen to be hashems only children….lucky us….if so he is our only father…now which father doesnt love his children…so let us in return feel love towards our father by forfilling his wish we express our love….and let us all be zoycha with mashiach to step into our 3rd beth hamikdash…amein
this kid is only 15 and your arguing about marriage how far fetched…it might very well be the kid thats posting might herself be troubled..my suggestion…. if its you or your freind if you are serious of getting help …there are so many people you could talk to if you realy mean to help or get better like teachers ..older sibling…you say her parents are nice people … speak to them beleive you me they are the ones who care the most…they might be shoked but dont worry they love you most and will help you most…hatzlucha
I truly beleive Mashiach will come. I truly beleive Hashem loves us wholhearthy more then we love ourselfs. I truly beleif mashiach will come when Hashem will want him to come. But I often think that even goyim will see mashiach because the world will continue even then.So I speak to Hashem which jew is wourse then a goy? And if you do find that real bad jew….then Hashem can you imagine how great your name will become when that bad jew will do tziva as it states a bal tziva stands higher then a tzadik…and yes everyone will do tziva when mashiach will come..Hashem for your sake ..everyone should recognize your greatness please let it be the right time and come …Can you imagine everyone heavens and earth we will all sing together with love to Hashem……!!!!!!!…..meanwhile let us turn to Hashem with strong feelings of love ..with strong feelings of being connected…with strong feelings of simcha that we were chosen to be his children…only we….Hashem we love you….. we are together forever and ever…
oh! thank you Sparkly feel free anytime…
She seems to trust you and tell you things she wouldnt share with anyone else even her parents then she has trust in you.If thats the case you could explain that ,she seems to be going through changes in her life and you are concerned,ask her gently if she would like to speak to someone who would be there for her to listen and help her through..since she trusts you,you could also ask her why she needs to change, but make sure to ask it in a freindship way .You might be pleasntly surprised that she will open up and appreciate the freindship…and your careing… Keep me informed how it went…
the truth…we cant take a breath without hashems wish…so how is it possible to turn away from the one who gives you life …
My daughter was the oldest and the only kid in her class that wasnt married or had a child yet…but I didnt want, neither she to skip her older brother…at several occassions he would tell her how he is in pain for her…the first shabbas night after my son got married my daughter was engaged…her chusen was 3 years younger then her….after she was engaged she went over to her brother and said I feel sorry for you because I was the one keeping you back…because mommy would of never waited for my chusen to growup if you should of been married!!!
sparkly.. I beleive you went through the worst that you can imagine..it must of been the impossible…but one thing for sure be PROUD of yourself that you passed or are still passing your nisoin and you stayed close to hashem!!!!you shall be the one to cherish one day your rewards…hashem knows every ones challanges every ones thoughts every split secound …and nothing stays in vain…hashem is close to the ones that are close to him especialy in times of challange…just keep it up and be strong…
One of the problems today is we want to understand the why….when we say ani mamin we say we beleive …not we understand..and thats the difference between jews and non jews…non jews will do what has meaning for them what they understand..but with us jewish people one of our greatness is we beleif… if we do or dont understand…we follow the tora because Hashem says, I dont have to understand the why…an example look at our forfathers abraham ,he had 10 major nisyounas ,he had a lot of questions especialy when he was told to bring his son for a sacrafice…but..his greatness was ..he did not understand..and didnt ask questions..and just went to do hashems wish…how beautiful was this in hashems eyes that till today we still cherish that zachis…let his zachis help us we should beable to withstand our nisyonas in our days..amein
She is confused and suffering .Thats her cover up…yes she needs a good therapist especialy a frum …there are names that I can mention since I am in this field..but I need to know which neighberhood ..
Did anyone see HOW Hillary acted when protesters disturbed her speech? If you did…..you got the answer….she totaly got confused …spoke to herself…had body guys come up and asked her if she is alright…she leaned on them for support…until they encouraged her go ahead keep on talking…then she said the craziest things…like Trump kills animals etc…laughed to herself….and this all happened for some protesters…..Can anyone IMAGINE how she would act with terror or nuclear???? She would run and hide under her husbands bed….