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If it wasn’t broth to the rabunims attention they probably don’t know. I just heard it for the first time. Besides lets not blame rabunim for everything thats going wrong. They don’t have that power you wished they had.
HaleiVi ..you hit the hammer on it’s nail. It all boils to you and yourself. It depends how you respect yourself. Every post can be read with a nasty tone (especially if your in that mood) or it can be read in a soft tone . Even if the words are sometimes not appropiate if you read it in a soft tone it sounds so much different. Besides if someone does the spiting don’t be fooled in picking it up. Just go ahead and be your nice self. were all human we are entitled for mistakes. Let’s not be sensetive to whom we don’t even know (might as well be your brother)or act like kids pointing the finger at each others..lets have fun and be helpful for each others.
meno soarkly is single.
Shopping 613 and time for truth .Both of you are right……
and if you ask me how can they both be right? Then your right to.
If no one notices that your being attacked then from whom are you insulted from tha attacker ? Thats his problem he did the spitting.
sparkly thats painful. Who in your life has that much power to ruin you, from becoming more religious if thats your’e decision. Maybe you need to build your inner strength to ignore them and do what’s best for you. Stick up for your beleifs, for yourself after all it’s your life…
Happygirlgirl my full sympathy to you and so thankful you made it b”h and you joined us here in this cr. You are a big addition for us all.
SParkly Just remind yourself for what purpose you are taking this course that should give you all the strength .I am deeply impressed.
Sparkly you are so sweet you have so much toychin . Unbelievaeble
you are struggling through college to learn sceince for the sake of finding cure for a family member. You are much better than I and so many others..In this zachis Hashem should listen to your prayers and help you be a good shaliach to find the right med. to help jewish children.
p.s. just always remember the cure comes from hashem he just chooses the right shalich and may you be one of them.
I didn’t specific mean your hair .I understand you grew it cause you like it. I just meant like going out of your way for love towards Hashem.
l.u. Hope your not hurt from my posts ,I do have to add as i posted it in another thread that I am impressed with your posts and thats true.
Of course it’s the halachos that guide us but then it’s the inner feeling of how much more do you want to give for Hashem .Like a sacrifice like( just an example) I will cut my hair this much more just to look more tznus for you Hashem . Something like giving a gift for hashem ,in return the rewards come back to you.
L.U. as I posted on the other thread .It’s painful to watch when there is an argument or someones being attacked .Everyone feels the pain we stand aside because we don’t know what to say .Not to hurt anyone .All we want to YELL please STOP .Be freinds again!!!!!!
l.u. It’s painful for all of us to read arguments and insults, I don’t think we make judgements who is right or wrong ( anyway I dont) ,but if a member goes missing it’s double the pain . I thought about the argument along time and kept on starting and deleting my posts couldn’t find the right words to make you both freinds again.
We know both of you are hurt and we value your feeling. Shulem is more worth then anything.
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Sparkly Your mother is probably right . Truthfully I haven’t seen a jewish yeshivish girl with that long hair till the waist. It looks more like outstanding and here we use common sense if it’s outstsanding then no it’s a step away from tznus
Sparkly I hear you now. Sorry if I came across strong. Wow for seven years didn’t cut most be realy long. I beleive this is a question none for us to answer this is a question to ask your rabbi. If you only want to know what we think ,I personal beleive if it’s that long loose it’s not tznus. Tznus besides it’s set rules we must use common sense.
Sparkly Try the garden of amuna ””””’
Sparkly instead of repeating yourself EXPLAIN what is tznuis and why we need to be tznuis. We all know you know it .We know you are smart.
sparkly if you know it ..whats the use of asking? Can you explain the definition of tznius?
sparkly if you know it ..whats the use of asking?
Good question Sparkly.
I know you well enough that you know the truth.
Thank You for this beautiful post. It is so true.
poor sparkly..I feel sorry for you..put on the music blast and don’t focus how much you dread it. Or even better listen to some good stuff that you want to hear you wont want to get out of the car.
not exactly cause even though we don’t know who they are or if it’s she or he we definetly get a sense of the personality of that person, besides we want to be respected. Even just for self respect.
can you think of any options, like meeting half way with another student taking over the driving …like park and drive…maybe public trans. I realy hope you can find some alternatives..
Sparkly is it the driving that’s so hard?
B.B. Can you explain what you mean could have potentially been?
As far as I know you don’t mix and match. For youe sins do tziva and for your mitzvas you get your reward.
If a person on this world becomes very close to Hashem by observing, learning tora and good deeds can he have a (feel) a spark of Gan Eden by feeling ultimate close to Hashem? Is it a spark of the same feeling?
sparkly.. I realy beleive you .Do you think u r over doing?
sparkly..eveyones trying to help you I think you got to many mentors ,in return you and everyone seems confused. Especially the way the post comes in we just get broken conversations .You are the best of as I stated before one good mentor which shall guide you period.
kidding
I have gotten annoyed with college (back to yout thread) for having to take subjects that I had no interest in just to get my degree.
Sparkly. Let your mom join coffee room.
We most face reality . We don’t have good front runners . The only difference is that with clinton we see clearly that she is dangerous with all that she has done and with Trump we can’t understand his personality, yes his interesting but he definetly has guts and a smart guy. True he is see saw but that might be from the preasure of media . But if he realy was stupid how can he run such great bussiness . People aren’t crazy . I don’t think it’s out of luck, along the lines he knows after all what his doing.
If we can’t change the runners I think anyone would rather take the risk of Trump then the facts of clinton..