abbybar33

I was reading through this conversation, and I think some very valid points have come up. I have been debating with some of my teachers, friends and parents about this. Whoever started this post, adam3 I want to applaud you for your point in the first post! I really can understand where you’re coming from and it makes 100 percent sense! I am a girl so I know that when I say that when bh I will be ready for shidduchim I want a working boy everyone goes crazy! They think I am going off the derecch or something!What people don’t understand is that not evey frum boy out there is cut out to learn full day and not every girl out there is cut out to work full day, or extra hard because her husband is learning full time. But these people are still solid frum boys and bais yakov girls! In society today people unfortuantly are not willing to understand or accept this.

i love how the topics always eventuslly lead to a convo that have nothing to do with this! lol but i wish you a lot of luck and bh may u be zoche to decide who u really are one day and be able to make the right decisions and stand by them! hatzlacha rabba!