its the husbands job to support the wife or did nobody ever read their kesubah and therefore not get married unless they have a plan to support the wife this plan may include wife working, parents/in laws, support, etc
yesit is stealing you are not allowed to buy something if you know you are definitely going to return it and its stealing from the store because they have to pat a percentage on all credit card purchases. this doesn’t apply to getting two different sizes of something to try on because the store lets due to the fact you are most probably going to buy on e