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Silent One: I am praying for you and your son…. I feel your pain..
May Hakadush Baruch Hu open up to all our prayers on behalf of all lost neshomos!!
The feeling I got from watching this clip is, it was totally rap music. NOT AT ALL FOR OUR NATION! I feel sorry for him, with all his talents that he decided to go this way! My husband said it would happen years ago….. I guess he was right again!
Chalilavechas: I AM NOT LIVING IN DENIAL! Unfortunately, I know too well the level, or lack of it in today’s Jewish community.It is very sad to see how low people have fallen, there are many things to attribute to this horrible level of filth.I won’t get into that here.Just because you feel as many others on this sight that he is guilty does not mean that I have to agree with you.Nor does it mean that you have to bless my daughters, it makes me wonder where you are coming from?? The anti Satmer sentiment on this sight , is quite obvious, this will really help bring achdus back into Klal Yisroel, won’t it? You are as naive about Satmer as the unknown media who have absolutely have no idea what Chassidus or Satmer is all about!
She wanted revenge because her so called boy friend was arrested a while back. I remember the story then and how she swore she would get back at him for helping to have him arrested ,she got her revenge today, BUT there is justice, and she will get hers……
I find it amusing unfortunately, how all of you seem to know the true facts first hand! Tell me do any of you know the accuser firsthand? Do you know her husband as well?? There is so little coverage of who and what she is! This whole case is a terrible chillul Hashem! I am NOT SWEEPING things under the carpet, BUT you need to know who she is and what shes done with her life!! Not because she’s been abused BUT because of choices that she has made !
There are many that reach out for help and just can’t find the right shaliach! I heard that a bucher of 25 took his life yesterday in Brooklyn.I don’t know any details BUT this is a tragedy that someone within our community could not receive the help he needed! Look around you , at work or home. Do you see anyone who could use a little attention? Don’t just go on with your day. Care about each other….
How about ” Best Kept Secret”?
I love when I go to a wedding and someone says” how do you get here?” Then I answer,” with a car , how about you?”
Only Normal One: Reading your story about your childrens school, I would definitely take my children out of a school where the principal punnishes like that!
Health: That was well written. Anyways: Do you really believe in what you’re saying? That rebuke can cause you to go more to the left? Is that an excuse you think you can give in shomayim? That won’t hold any water. You need to be responsible for your own actions. You can’t blame anyone else for the decisions YOU make.
The problem is hardly anyone would go, and those that would probably don’t need it…. The problem is getting the ones who need it the most to attend….
I did not mean any of these definitions when I said it. So I therefore retract my words. I only meant , when someone should mind their own business, for example: telling others to go or not go to Uman. Or to admonish others for NOT going to the siyim hashas.
MDG: It really is none of your business. Whatever someone wants to give to tzedaka, they give, not a penny more or less.
Probably for you but not others who choose not to FEIF UN.
I believe in following Rebbes that are living, BUT I certainly wouldn’t tell someone what to do with their money or time. Where is LIVE AND LET LIVE defined here? Why shopuld it bother you at all what someone else does with their time , etc?
Feif Un: It figures you would go ruin a totally beautiful thread like this with your comment. Now lets see why????
147 : I heard speakers in Yiddish.
ON THE BALL: You deserve a standing ovation for your beautifully well written posts!! I commend you for standing up to these people who are in total denial of halacha and think that is only a minhag Chassidus.I once heard Rebbetzin Zehava Braunstein a.h. speak, she said people are misinformed. They think that only Chassidim have to dress tzniusdik.Tznius is a halacha for all Klal Yisroel!
Guess what I only have 3 loads left, BUT BARUCH HASHEM , one of my kids are coming home from camp, with all his laundry!!!!!Here we go again!!!!!
Interjection: Who are you fooling by wanting to expose more if someone comes and gives you Mussar of any sort( For Tznius issues)? You may have struggles within your self ,but you are hurting no one more than yourself! I think you really NEED TO LOOK DEEP WITHIN YOURSELF TO SEE WHY YOU WOULD REACT THAT WAY.
You should try to get your self the proper guidance to see what exactly intimidates you so.
Someone once told me about a sign that hangs outside someones’ wash room as follows” Yiddishe Nachas”.
Health: Very interesting? Do you feel premarital therapy would not have helped save your marriage?
Bar Shattya: You are being a drei Kup. I meant exactly what I said, the ramifications of marrying someone a little frummer than you does not cause the same turbulence as marrying someone less frum than you!
I definitely think it’s better to go out with someone a little frummer than you , rather than a little less. Believe me, I’ve heard from others what they have to go through, when they end up marrying someone who is really much less then them.
Aries: I have never read a more touching and beautiful thread like yours yesterday.
Why is it that so many of you are intimidated by this thread? Why , when hearing about higher levels of tznius than your own, do you get so upset? I think you all need to really look inside of yourself and reevaluate where these feelings are really coming from? I can totally respect people who take upon themselves higher levels of tznius than my own. I never feel intimidated by it. I look up to their maidrega. Why can’t you?
Daas Yochid: Your input will be missed!
Zehavasdad: I think it’s time for you to wake up! Nothing in life is mere coincidences! Why do you brush off all these occurances as such?
Friends: IT IS TIME TO WAKE UP!!! MAY THESE 3 WEEKS TURN INTO HAPPIER AND MORE PRODUCTIVE TIMES!
Mehadrin Milchig ice cream!
Grill just about anything. Grilled chicken cutlets, fast and easy.
Hurray for the “Dying language”
Zehavasdad: Forgive me for correcting your spelling, The Heimeshe way to spell BEKESHE is this.
I nominate Daas Yochid for his/her invaluable contribution to the Must Read-Real Solutions to the Internet challenge thread.
Avi K: Where do you come from???
Oh my, the more you talk about chasidish women, the more I see how little you know!! Where do you live five towns? This is really going off the topic of this thread, which is by far more important than discussing the differences between chasidish womens way of dress! Just leave it at this, all your internet knowledge is definitely not giving you an education in chasidus thats for sure!!
Zehavasdad: Just what I thought, you have absolutely no idea the difference between Chasidim, ladies for sure!! Many different chasiduses cover their sheitel and talk Yiddish, not only Satmer! Pupa, Sqver, Viznitz,Bobov,Belz and the list goes on and on….
Zehavasdad: Just what I thought, you have absolutely no idea the difference between Chasidim, ladies for sure!! Many different chasiduses cover their sheitel and talk Yiddish, not only Satmer! Pupa, Sqver, Viznitz,Bobov,Belz and the list goes on and on….
Zehavasdad: Just curious how can you tell the women shopping in N.Y.C. are Satmer?
REBBAIM: Don’t you see you’re talking to deaf ears. These people tand the kedusha of a frum chasanah or the tumah in non Jewish music!
More_2: I don’t really want to take this thread off on a tangent but I will answer your questions based on MY SIDE.People very often don’t give the total truth when it somes to shidduchim.
( Unpopular girl???) I was lead to believe she had friends, because people felt sorry for her.( so they lied) That is not true friendships. She was very antagonized by my sons social life. He had/has many friends! In all the YEARS of their marraige you can count on one hand how many times she got a phone call from any friend at all. She is only married to her own parents who have sabatoged her life! Nebach! Anyway back to the topic at hand, the reason I asked about the op’s school friends was trying to see if it was an issue then too? That might answer some of our questions.
By the way you could not be my ex- daughter in law because she never remarried, probably never will!Nebach!
more_2: Sorry to disappoint you, I am all grown up by now. It seems to me that the OP is much younger than me with young children, therefore if she kept up with any school friends that should be helpful. Then there are always those who didnt have any friends in school. Which leads me to my next point, WHY NOT??
My ex daughter in law didnt have any friends in school either!
RABEIM!! A1!!!!!
Where are your school friends? Maybe invite over a neighbor with her kids to play with yours?
Yossi Z. Its always nice to hear Yiddishe simchas!
Mazel Tov Yossi Z. I.Y.H. by you bekoriv!
I may not be able to offer another solution, BUT please don’t let her go to get her masters in Social Work without talking to many social workers and hearing how rough it is right now for them to get a job. There are massive lay offs in the field.
Write or Wrong: I can not possibly put into words , my feelings for you and what you are going through. Evry Yiddishe momma only wants the best for their children, and our MASTER FATHER in heaven for sure cares for each and every one of us. My prayer for you is , you should begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel and see only PURE nachas from all your children.
(As an added note, please do not take anyones words in an offensive way. Not everyone has the proper tools to deal with this situation)
BEN LEVI: I find your message extremely eye opening. Wishing you many years of good health and happiness!