I don’t quite get why you feel this way ? It takes two to tango … It really depends on each individual case. What I do find is an issue today is that , no one is willing to work on their marriage . They feel spouses are disposable like aluminum pans ….. Marriage takes a lot of hard work and compromise.

Health: welcome back !! Good to hear from you again.

Sharp and pixelate : I don’t know how long you’ve been following here? If you have you would remember that always runs had some disappointments (to put it mildly), and then stopped writing.so I wanted her to know I was thinking about her and her children….

Always runs: good to hear from you! How are you and the children doing?

Chanie E : I didn’t mean to denigrate your style of Shabbos menu, not at all. Ess gezinteheit. Follow or don’t follow any traditions you want…

CHANIE E: I wasn’t discussing likes or dislikes… I was discussing mesorah. I personally don’t eat after the eggs, maybe just a spoon of chulent. I serve the traditional Shabbos food to my family. No one is forced to eat anything, everyone eats what they like.I just wonder what a shabbos seuda will look like in 50 years from now for some of you? Maybe pizza?

Chanie E Tradition is NOT a recent innovation , unless you feel the last 300 years is recent?

Zehavasdad: Hasc makes a lot more than just $10,000 at the concerts.

Zehavasdad: You and your father never ate my sons Ptcha!

If you don’t like liver than don’t eat it, BUT I will say Pomegranate makes an unbelievable chopped liver!

Have any of you ever heard of mesorah?

I believe from home , but you can get all info from the parent store in Boro Park, Brooklyn. They’re listed !

One should definitely not be called by their first name under any circumstances by the opposite gender. When we work, we need to keep professionalism in the work place. There is no need to get that friendly with the opposite gender! It takes away from the atmosphere which is needed , which should be conducive to producing. We came to work to do our jobs and be successful at it. We are not coming to find a shidduch for ourselves.

In which country?

I wish I could have you over….

It is very unfortunate ( to put it mildly)that in our circles there are many parents who twist their childrens’ minds against one spouse! They are not thinking of their childrens’ future! They are actually killing their own children!They only have revenge in their mind! How could someone do that to their own child(ren)? i know of one very special case. She is truly a remarkable woman.She never ever discusses one negative word against her ex husband to anyone especially her children. She says she doesn’t need them to suffer needlessly for a decision she made. He will always be their father.

Her children are the most adjusted and normal children from a divorced home I ever met! She put her feelings aside and loves her children dearly!

LAB: I don’t appreciate generalizations. Its started by a bored individual who has nothing important to do with their time.

Ahava 282: You can call sparks from wherever you are!

I have a friend who can help you. She works for an organization called Sparks. Even though they are dedicated to dealing with women postpartum she could help you along now as well. Please call sparks and ask for Rivky.

If you can’t get the number., let me know and I will get it for you! You need to reach out to the proper channels to help you through this…. You will be fine , don’t worry!!

This thread is a joke!! No normal guy would be writing this on an anonymous website.

FYI $700 a week for a mid sized family for food and a cleaning lady three times, doesn’t cover it!! There’s no money for any leftovers…..

justsayin: A DOUBLE MAZEL TOV!!! May Hashem give you double strength to take care of them and double nachas!

WOW: Still keeping you and your family on my mind and in my tefillos!

Dare I say , 1:00 am?

Would you like to start an organization? A support group possibly?

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