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Mammele: +1 Lipa is going way overboard this time! If he doesn’t want his wife to shave her head , so be it, BUT HE SHOULDN’T TELL OTHER WOMEN WHAT TO DO!!
This is really not a joke! This is serious business! So often I hear how parents are not realistic about their children’s needs and then they end up with a divorced child! You need to have a serious but respectful conversation with both your parents! They assume they are doing what’s best for you! You will need to convince them otherwise!
ReVa Pomerantz writes beautifully!
Why can’t the list be entered here? I’m sure it would help many others as well.
I was referring to the last topic you brought up with getting married and no money?
MATAN 1: You are looking to start an explosion? How can you compare that to this? Give me a break, that’s clearly indisputably cult like. In most Chasidis women do not drive, and no one forces you to follow your chasidus, if you want to leave you are free to do so in most any chasidus that I know of!
Flatbusher: I find it quite interesting, the topics you choose to bring up on this forum….
OOHMEIN!!!
WOW: Still having you in mind as always…..
ZD: In what way was I telling anyone how to act, besides minding your own business?
ZD: Funny, we also stop in KJ on the way home from visiting day. You must not have been there in a long time because the supermarkets are massive!
As far as women driving or not in Chasidic communities, its no ones business. Who’s pointing the gun at you or your wife and telling her not to drive? If you don’t belong to that Chasidus , you can choose who you listen to.
Besides , all the comments here, based on stupidity of why its “not tzniusdig NOT to drive.” Everyone should listen to their local Rav or Rebbe.
Whats the difference with all of you making fun of shtreimlich and Bnei Yoel burning the israeli flag?
DY: On target, as usual!
GAW: Whats $11,000 when you’re marrying off a child? I’m not talking about lavish weddings or lavish expenses. Though Baruch Hashem with Hashems help we marry off our children and set them up as well. Then they’re on their own …..
In many communities the takana weddings are working. So they’ve accomplished bringing down the cost of marrying off, but they still need outside help to marry off their children.
satmer: when is the last time you heard a 19 year old afford to pay for their own wedding?
Don’t be ridiculous! Usually in our circles the parents pay for the chasunah of their children. that being said , Baruch HaShem with a large family , how can one put away money to marry off all their children without outside help, even if they are working! Most families are happy they get by, but to put away money is another thing all together!
Flatbusher: You can choose where you want to give tzedaka and do chesed. No one is forcing you to pay for their wedding.If there is one thing I cant stand is people who are approached for Tzedaka, don’t want to give and give their unsolicited advice instead! Don’t worry the couple will get married without your contribution!We are a people of chesed. The amount of tzedaka and chesed the Jewish nation give is uncomparable! My wish for you, is that you should always be on the giving end …. and never have to understand or feel what its like to need.
Nfgo: I wish I would’ve been judge mental . Unfortunately I wasn’t .there were various signs which I chose to ignore , her not going to camp was one of them. I’m not saying this applies to everyone! As I said earlier, you need to know the reason behind it. Without knowing any details , I found you the one being judge mental by the way…… Don’t worry I’m not taking it personal.
coz….. I think I have a great shidduch for you!!
My X daughter in law didn’t go to camp. It definitely should have been a sign of her social awkwardness. You need to know the reason behind not wanting to go? Some people are just to homesick….
Syag: On target!
Gamanit: That is the ways of creation….I wasn’t referring to pregnancy loss, of course. Only to actually being able to fit the role of motherhood.
Everything is based on your perspective. Being pregnant for nine months is absolutely wonderful! Think of all the people who WISH they could be pregnant and are having difficulty….. They would trade places with you any day!
As far as sefira is concerned…. there is a reason for this. Though I will admit, working without music is very difficult and boring!
In Boro Park I believe Torah Veyirah is the cheapest!
Mazel tov!
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GOGOGO:: GOOD TRY!!~
I did 7 hrs ago , but like you said , no one has been able to comment?
The loss is massive , you are right we all need to do teshuva. I guess each person knows where they need to. It’s an individual thing, each one separately . I feel numb right now , I can’t stop thinking of the family left behind….they will need tremendous chizuck….may Hakadush Baruch Hu console us all…
Kj chusid; what have you been drinking??? Is that really you or some imposter?
I Love it!! It takes the boredom out of the day!!
What a cool game!!
DY: it’s a very painful subject for me, am I the only parent here who’s son doesn’t accept any parental
Opinion??
He would either get a picture on his own or he won’t go into the shidduch.
All kidding aside: Any recommendations for a mother who’s son won’t consider a shidduch till he sees a pic??
I Believe the Divrei Yoel was one of the gedolei hador, but He was not the Rebbe I was referring to.
First of all I would like to commend you on your opening remarks. Secondly, my advice is as follows: you need to sit down and have a heart to heart discussion, explaining your feelings. Please try to keep it as respectful as possible. I would begin with thanking them for everything they’ve done and continue to do for you on a daily basis. You need to explain to them that you understand how they only have your best interests in mind, but you’ve come to a point in your life where you need to have a little more independence! Yes you are prepared to even make mistakes along the way , but that’s how we all grow… If you convey your wishes with respect and thankfulness I am sure they will get your message! Hatzlocha!!!
CI Boy : Didn’t mean to go off topic, how are you doing???
Without giving out to much private info. I will say our Rebbe was niftar awhile back, and no one individual was able to take over the loss and the impact he had on our life: therefore we have a few Rabbonim we consider to be our Rav.
I’m affiliated with all of them!
KJ: I told you I am neutral, believe it or not!
LG: I may not agree with KJ chusid, but I wouldn’t call him a self hating Jew??? If someone is anti-zionist does not call for them to be referred to as a self hating Jew!