First of all you should know all your feelings are perfectly normal!! next you must try to get some sleep somehow!! you need to do whatever you can to relax! your very special moment is coming soon……… I would love to hear from cum laude; I am sure she will have some great advice for you! bshah tova umitzlochas!!!

Gold is nice….. try it iin a light version.

OH BOY!!! This is really something! First of all to Always runs…. It’s really not nice what you are saying about Williamsburg and Charedim! You claim they always updo or overdo??? It’s really not your business what they dress like. They are not making a chillul Hash-m by dressing nicely! Why can’t they look nice? I think a major issue here is that people DON’T FARGIN one another, something you should think about!!!

FYI I don’t live in Willi, and I have my own issues with the area but lets not go there!

Tell me do you think theres anything wrong with Lakewood couples buying Juicy and other designer labels????

Now that we all know you are perfectly normal, if these feelings continue, call Sparks in New york. an excellent organization with the right advice!! mazel tov!!!

Me who:: I like your answers!!( The first one that is)Compromise is a KEY word here!! You can’t always have your way!In a “normal relationship” the more you give the more you will get.

Thats a very good question, though the halacha is married women are supposed to cover there hair! How the married woman chooses to do that is entirely another parsha! Everyone needs to follow their own Rav. Please note the Rabbonim that are against human hair wigs are so, because of what you wrote.

I will daven for her by challah baking erev Shabbos. who else???

Daas Yochid: It’s supposed to rain over Shabbos……

Hatzlocha!! At least you are realistic, knowing you probably won’t ever see that money! Get out fast, before he owes you more!

Cell alert:: You are absolutely right!! There is a Rebbe who is going after the robe stores/ manufacturers for that exact reason!

I think we need to work on our inner strengths when we shop and not be convinced to buy something that we really are unsure of. I am not here to condone the sales people, they are just doing their job, bottom line.I don’t have to answer for them above, just FOR MYSELF! One thing is for sure, if I met up with one of those salesladies you describe, I wouldn’t ask her opinion again, or I might not visit that store again.

apushata yid: Yes there are such signs in dressing rooms, but do all the people read them???

Aries: I don’t think you can always blame the store owners. A major problem in Tznius today is sizing. The customer “thinks ” they fit into a size small or petite when , Nebach they really need a large!

Common Sense: I have access to Internet in limited capacity. Yeshiva World News is not questionable. I am totally not interested in all the goyishe DISGUSTING websites!! We have enough Tzoros in Klal Yisroel and I’m not looking for more!

Deiyezooger: GIT GEZUKGT!!!

Wolf:: Correct spelling is Der Tzeitung!

This is totally ridiculous!! A privately owned paper can choose to do what they wish!!! They have their guidelines and they follow them! This paper is NOT politically inclined in any way and all you MISNAGDIM out there can choose to buy whatever paper you want!!

This bi polar patient does take their medication without any problem(at least for now) though they are not getting therapy along with it, only seeing the famous Dr. Lebowitz. i am very concerned for the spouse, we never know what tomorrow will bring??

When someone is unemployed they go through a very hard time, depending on how long it lasts. They need constant encouragement from all around them, including family and friends. PLEASE think twice before giving any unsolicited advice! Try putting yourself in their shoes! yes and please daven for them too!!

Cherrybim; how many ppl do u know that have found positions that way

Also if anyone has a job opening please email to P.C.S. as well. They screen the candidates for you at no charge ny.pcsjobs.org

Huydu La Hashem:: WOW!!!! you really gave me the mussaar I needed to hear! I was looking for sefira tapes on line to hear at work. Now I guess you gave me the courage to wait it out!! Tizku Lemitzvos!!

Dearest Eclipse; Please bear in mind that life is full of ups and downs for all of us! may Hashem bring you closer to the ups…….

What exactly makes you think they arent being realistic?

Thanks to all of you for scaring me!!!! I guess I will put a dr. visit on my schedule for after Pesach!