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Middle Path: VERY WELL SAID!!
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YOU BOTH CERTAINLY ARE!!!
Everyone is making alot of assumptions with very little info. from the op. Maybe you can enlighten us a bit more, what are the real issues??? People don’t get divorced just because they seem to get something else then they thought……
I have had that . My painter says it was due to a shabby paint job. He claims he fixed it ( Before Pesach) and that now it shouldn’t happen again. So far it hasn’t. It used to happen from neighbors jumping and causing the wall to move.
Always Runs…..
Call the local Bikur Cholim organizations.718 438 2020 Yad Ephraim 718 431 0404
For those of you who keep condemning Zeeskite and others agreeing with him/her, I truly feel sorry for you….
As far as those who are on yeshiva world, this site is visible with FILTERED internet, which Rabbonim have approved.
I wonder how much longer some of you will be in denial about the out come of the asifa. Alot of kehilos are making changes, we don’t need to name them here for your approval. Everyone should just follow their local Rabbi.
Zehavasdad:The english you speak doesn’t sound anything like your grandparents either!!
Zehavasdad: I think it’s a pity you are so intimidated by the Yiddish language! It certainly aint a dying language in my part of the world.
My son had that Korg and sold it for a better one. He has tons of programs, but they cost him a fortune!
I’ll stay home in the hot city with my air conditioning, and won’t get bit by all the mosquitoes! Enjoy everyone!
The children definitely learn to share…. ( hopefully) Lots of nachas!!
Always Runs and Zeeskite.
Thank you all for your good wishes!! We should only hear simchas in Klal Yisroel!
ICOT and Smart cookie: Thank you ! I.Y.H. by you of simchas!
Mazel Tov!! Baal Habooze!! Only Nachas!!!
My daughter got engaged! Wishing everyone to find their zivig bekoriv!
A proudbyg: It is very disheartening to hear your situation. It is very unfortunate that people do not think before they speak, but that happens across the board, not only in your situation.My suggestion for you is to get THICK SKINNED and work on yourself not to allow people to get to you. I know it’s not easy but you really need to do this for yourself! I have PITY on those people who think they are better than others and need to voice their opinion where it is NOT needed!! Remember where your sibling is, has nothing to do with you, you can just pray for him, as we all should.
HATZLOCHA!
Aries, The Wolf, Health, Zeeskite and many others….
Rebetzin Dina Fink
What I also want to add here is WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER CHILDREN IN THE HOUSE?? They also need to be addressed. Write or Wrong: I truly admire your courage!! May Hashem guide you in the right direction!
Write or Wrong: My heart literally bleeds for you and all the parents of these lost neshomos…. Bringing up teenagers today is so very difficult, with the society being the way it is… I agree with the others that you need to get professional help. If he won’t go, then just you and your husband. You really need guidance on a daily basis. It’s so hard to know what to do , when these difficult moments come up. May Hashem give you the strength and encouragement to get through all this!
What is so important about that?
Zeeskite: How are you surviving? Try to get some sleep before the seder so that you won’t fall asleep in the middle.
WHAT HAPPENED??
There are many Rabbonim who say that statement brought down hundreds of people from Yiddishkeit!! It’s all how you look at things…..
It happened to my daughter when she was 18. She wore a size 9 1/2 and went down almost 2 sizes.What happened was , her feet were totally flat and at that age she developed an arch in her foot, which shortened her shoe size.
Zehavasdad: I think you have some serious questions about bans in Yiddishkeit in general? I guess you have a different philosophy on religion or the Jewish religion that is?
Ultimateskier: So you think we need to teach our children to be more open minded?? HUH, for example go to Times Square at night and watch all the shows so we could be more open minded? HUH?? Boundaries? What ever for? It is so limited?
WE ARE THE HOLY NATION! WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DIFFERENT !IT”S ALL HOW YOU LOOK AT THINGS! I don’t feel I have been brought up with boundaries or closed mindedness. I feel I am lucky and PROUD to be Jewish!
Love being Jewish: EVERYONE needs to feel appreciated, BUT sometimes one is not capable at looking at the total picture. It doesn’t mean she does not appreciate you, it means she’s wrapped up in herself at the moment.
I THINK ALL RELIGIOUS JEWS SHOULD GET OFF FACEBOOK!
Health and Logician: I can see how helpful you were in your wives pregnancies! When I was expecting my first, I cried all day, I didn’t know what hit me. I didn’t recognize myself. I couldn’t understand why I wasn’t in control of my emotions. I was miserable and throwing up all day! My husband was told by his mother a.h. to IGNORE me!!You could just imagine how that brought us closer? That was very POOR advice! After 3 months I went to my ob/gyn he told me I was perfectly normal and I had no control over my emotions at that point. I walked out of his office a different person.After that I started feeling better and glowed the rest of my pregnancy.That was 30 years ago. Now I am Baruch Hashem a grandmother and I watch my children throwing up. It is not always so easy but WELL WORTH IT! For all you husbands out there a little COMPASSION please!
I have one at home its yummy!! I will post it later. Its mainly eggs, onions, salt, drop of pepper and a little sugar. Don’t forget the potato starch of course!
Remmember: A happy calm pregnant women will hopefully make for a calm happy mother…. which should make a happy calm father….
It takes alot of patience and understanding on the spouses part. Your wife is going through alot of changes and things are not always in her control( Hormones)So therefore being caring and extra sensitive to her needs would definitely help.Not all pregnancies are the same and not all women are the same. Bshah Tovah!
I find that with my children as well, I think we had more Koach when we were younger….. Though the younger ones should look up to their older siblings, whereas the older ones didnt have older siblings to look up to…
Zeeskite: Where are you up to? Think of it this way, in 2 weeks from now……… I’ll be washing dishes , cooking, serving, washing dishes, cooking, serving , washing dishes……
always: I’m sure it was a hard decision for you. Wishing you peace and tranquility for you and your children. May Hashem continue to guide you in the right direction.
Zehavasdad: In my times if a person wanted to “gliche” they had to go to the city and go out in the open with their Jewish garb and …
Today you don’t neeed to be worried about who will see you … you can gliche in the privacy of your own computer to all the depths of tumaah!!
Tonight there is a meeting in Rabbi Chezkel Roths Shule in Boro Park allowing men to bring their devices, ( Phones or laptops) and get hooked on to various filters free of charge!
Sam2: Lucky for you that you don’t know of any cases!!Speak or listen to the Rabbonim!
Soleik: I was referring to the clients my friend has that come in for marital issues, that started with the internet and end up in divorce and then sadly going off the derech. I was not talking about singles.
Unfortunately people think that marraige is a hospital, it is not!
Sam2: when is the last time you tried it??
Sushe: I personally do not recommend it, you never know what can come up?? Try taking a good doula and enjoy the birthing experience(mofes)!
You would be “suprised” but by most all Chassidishe weddings there is women photographers for the women! There are some high schools in Boro Park that do not allow their students to dance in front of men photographers.
MODS: PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD!
Soleik: From a therapists mouth: It starts with the computer they get hooked and slowly the marraige goes out the window with the religion.
You don’t have to believe me but those are the facts! Thousands of families RUINED and you question what the Rabbonim are talking about!! Even one case is too many!! Not every person is strong enough to pass the nisyonos involved. Putting a filter on the internet should be mandatory! It might make things a little slow but worth the trouble.
As far as all the computer whizzes out there if a filter won’t stop you, nothing will. This is not meant for the people who want to beat the system, it is made for those who don’t WANT to fall in and need the extra help!
TCG: You are not the NORM! Most people are not on that madreiga and need the help. Ask any of our gedolim who are dealing with the thousands of cases of destroyed marraiges and people who are going off the derech. ALL BECAUSE OF THE INTERNET! A very close friend of mine is a therapist, and she claims that ALL her cases of marital therapy, started with this awful computer. Yes, I trust myself as well but listen to the gedolim, hear what they have to say!
Alot has to do with the way you were brought up. Everyone is different and their needs are different. A family member of ours had a beshow , got married and struggled for 3 years in a horrible environment. They divorced. He dated his next kallah for months, saw her everyday. Got divorced after 9 months. He says you NEVER know a person until you live with them! He claims the beshow is better, its pure tachlis, with dating you are not focused on the important stuff. Hatzlocha to all of you who are still looking for their basherte!
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