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  • in reply to: Camp Yachad – Edmonton, Alberta-Canada #790340
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    Yes

    Its a camp for mainstream yeshiva guys

    They do some serious learning there, and, lots of fun activities

    its run by a very sweet Rebbe (know him, but forgot his name)He’s a real great person

    Basically its for Yeshivishe Bochurim looking to do something different for bain hazmanim, other than going to the catskills for the summer.

    and they are hosted by the Ghermazium family, a wonderful family

    in reply to: coldstones #789956
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    The one near the Movie Theatre at sheapshead bay has a Hechsher

    in reply to: which city/borough/area do you live in??? #790029
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    Minyan

    Edmonton? Calgary?

    in reply to: Guitars/Musical Equipment #771064
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    What company pedal?

    in reply to: Guitars/Musical Equipment #771063
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    Middle

    Ahh the great drumming debate: Heel up or Heel down?

    Drummers will tell you, that, there is no right way, whatever youre more comfortable with

    Truth is, that, when playing double pedal you’re probably better off playing heel up, because like that you’ll have more power and more kick (boom) however, it does take time learning how to use the heel up method properly. Usually when starting out, using heel up, drummers will lift their whole foot tiring them out quickly, but, what i learned after time with the help of a drummer friend, is to put just the front bottom part of you’re foot into it, and slide it up the pedal from bottom to top as you kick. (not sure if im being clear)basically your heel should be about 2 inches off the ground, front part of foot on pedal and make it as if you would be sliding your foot up the pedal, without acctually doing so, you end up using your shin that way

    You can check out Scott Travis, drummer for judas priest, he’s an amazing double bass player, to see what i mean

    in reply to: Women who drink on a date #770986
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    sac

    So have the Sukiyaki, pretty much the same thing, so i was told

    in reply to: Guitars/Musical Equipment #771061
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    Middle

    Yamaha Maple Custom-Pearl Snare-Paiste signature 14″ Hi-hats, 17″ fast crash- 22′ ride-zildjian 14″ crash

    Not very familiar with the electronic drums

    Clever

    Not very into Grunge, i do like Jeremy by PJ though

    in reply to: Women who drink on a date #770983
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    Was a good date,though, the Shabu Shabu was quite interesting in taste

    in reply to: Seeking Vacation destination ideas… #770622
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    Marthas Vineyard, Nantucket, to the north, beautiful place

    or Colonial Williamsburg, and surrounding areas

    in reply to: Guitars/Musical Equipment #771054
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    Middle, no just stam to shmooze, as drumming is my passion

    Been playing for about 12 years

    in reply to: Women who drink on a date #770981
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    Sushi, Sake, and Shabu Shabu

    in reply to: Women who drink on a date #770973
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    I once ordered Sake on a third date,for both of us, she was ok with me ordering it but hated the the taste

    in reply to: OTD kids- and going along with them #770896
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    I know of a mother who used to go with her son to movies. She said ” if he’s already going i may as well go along to make sure he’s ok” Not those words exactly, but, something to that effect

    in reply to: Guitars/Musical Equipment #771050
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    Any Drummers here?

    in reply to: How to Dress? #746593
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    ” For the first date I would pick the dress. “

    And for the second, you would let him?

    in reply to: The Line: do you toe it or tow it? #746130
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    bpt

    Very, well said

    I’m truly impressed

    I had a different opinion about you, not a bad one, just different

    I was wrong

    in reply to: Picture Requirement #746651
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    I think it’s ridiculous

    in reply to: Learn how to learn half day #746264
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    Yeshivas Ruach Hatorah in flatbush has a half day learning program, then you can go to Touro or brooklyn college

    It’s an amazing Yeshiva

    The Rebbeim are awesome, and it’s like being part of a family

    718-338-5717

    in reply to: Every Psychologist Needs a Psychologist #744365
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    Every psychologist needs a Psychologist, is a very narrow minded idea, perpetuated, usually, by people trying to discredit the whole idea of therapy

    Unfortunately, the idea of therapy is still stigmatic in our community, despite the number of people being helped by it, and changing their lives for the better

    “Many if not most of psychologists and social workers needed a psychologist when they were younger.”

    Really Now?

    in reply to: Who Sings This Song? #1056555
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    Great Song- A favorite

    Some people wonder, others may say

    Whenever adversaty passes their way

    let me run, let me hide

    oh, i must close my eyes

    by the time that their open, oh, it might fade away

    but not you dear friends, you know just what to do

    when faced with a challenge, you always come through

    and you’ve painted a smile, on the face of a child

    helping to make sure that his dreams come throooouuuuugh

    Theres a small piece of heaven in everyones heart……

    in reply to: Sitting in Starbucks right now. #756638
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    dunno

    You try not to eat dairy equipment? Well you never really should, I mean, it can be very detrimental to your digestive system, it’s not really made for metals, plastics, and rubber

    in reply to: Sitting in Starbucks right now. #756636
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    dunno

    Why dont you bring along your own CY milk,in a little bottle,then you won’t have a problem

    in reply to: Sitting in Starbucks right now. #756634
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    dunno

    only water is allowed

    in reply to: Sofer Checking Tefilin or Mezuzos #740573
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    A Sofer once told me that if my Tefillin are kosher after being checked, then I don’t need to bother checking it again, even twice in 7 years

    These difference of opinions confuse me

    in reply to: After the boy says yes….. #741491
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    I once, by mistake, gave a “yes” to two girls at the same time. One of my mentors told me to cancle on the one who I said yes to second, and my Rebbe told me to go out with both and that it won’t be an issue

    My Rebbe was right, they both didn’t work out

    in reply to: Predicting success of marriages and Kesher with a Rov #741666
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    Rabbi A J Twerski discusses how to prepare for marriage in an effort to curb the divorce rate in on another site

    in reply to: Apple Cranberry Crunch #739599
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    You got it

    in reply to: baby sitting #739435
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    aries

    This is not YOUR forum to chastise ANYONE

    Don’t get too ahead of yourself

    in reply to: Apple Cranberry Crunch #739597
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    Ok

    I just found, that. for the Apples to be soft they need to bake al least an hour, but that would be too long for the crunch, so thats why i use the canned because it’s softer

    But, I had another idea that you can bake just the apples with abit of water, covered with foil, untill their soft, and then put on the crumbs

    in reply to: Saying Good Shabbos #741141
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    Dunno

    I’m a bit thirsty from all that ranting, can you get me some water please?

    in reply to: Show off your talents! #1005471
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    I’m a good cook

    Sac, let the games begin

    in reply to: Simcha takanos. #740102
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    Would people feel bad if they were just invited for the dancing? Lets say, someone with an extended large family?

    By the chasiddim, they invite people for simchas choson v’kallah,

    They put out some kugel and stuff and everyone’s happy. Because if someone davens in Bobov, for example, where there are weddings all the time, and hundreds of people daven there, it works out much better this way

    in reply to: Pain killer addiction #738867
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    “Painkiller Addiction”

    Sounds like a Metal Band

    (sorry, couldn’t refuse)

    shmooze

    in reply to: Saying Good Shabbos #741135
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    Heres my pet-peeve

    Non-brooklynites are always complaining about people not saying good shabbos

    I decided to do a little experiment about this to see if they were right or not

    Of all the people (males) I passed (about 20) to 11 of them I said good shabbos first and got a response, 6 said good shabbos first at which I responded, and only 2, whom I said good shabbos to first, did not respond.

    1. The Gemara says to be Makdim Shalom_ If your expecting a good shabbos first, remember this maamar chazal

    2. I’ve been noticing more and more, that people are saying good shabbos to each other

    3. The accepted M’halech amongst most in BP, is to only speak to same gender-Don’t expect a good shabbos greeting from the opposite gender

    Heres my biggest pet-peeve

    I’ve been to alot of out-of-town places for shabbos, and I’ve not seen them to be much better than BP. I don’t know where all this hype comes from

    There are a decent number of people whom I said good shabbos to first, so why is this any different than Brooklyn, where I get nice responses, and there were people who didn’t respond

    IMHO it’s all…..

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740424
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    aries

    Hatzlocha, feel better and enjoy your stay in Florida

    in reply to: Saying Good Shabbos #741109
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    Only to same Gender, thats the accepted M’halech in BP

    in reply to: What do you think of Olgas on Smith in downtown Brooklyn? #737952
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    Their prices are great

    in reply to: collecting in limos on purim #738394
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    In my day we used the 14 foot Ryder trucks, we had the time of our life in them, Not safe at all though, I’m glad they don’t allow them anymore

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740400
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    “I can’t argue this point with you, TRS, because you are in pain and I don’t want to cause you more. I just want you to be aware, and others as well, that making excuses for “addicts” of any kind will keep them addicts. They need to be helped to be accountable and responsible.”

    aries, you can’t argue, simply because you don’t understand TRS and others in this addiction

    No program says that the addict should not be held accountable, the reason they come into program is to get help and to take responsibility for their actions.

    I too have worked with many teens with drug and alcohol issues, and I still do, and can assure you that the addictions that these teens have and the ones described before, though they may have been caused by the same underlying reasons, the are very diiferent in many aspects

    We are very AWARE

    Perhaps you should join an S-anon meeting and you’ll understand better

    in reply to: Greeting issues #737865
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    The Gemara says to be Makdim Shalom L’reiecha

    Never sink to a lower level, you do the right thing because that is who you want to be, not for anyone else

    It’s hard, but, whenever i’m in the same type of situation, I always need to remind myself A. I cannot judge another because i don’t know whats going through their mind B. I do the right thing because that is who I want to be, not for someone else and despite anyone else

    Hatzlucha

    in reply to: The Word Chain Game – Nov 4th Game #1110358
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    Hilltop View

    in reply to: purim play #737961
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    ” i’m goin’ get the paper, get the paper”

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740349
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    Thanks Aries

    But like you said, you worked with Drugs and Alcohol

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740343
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    “The Problem

    Many of us felt inadequate, unworthy, alone, and afraid. Our insides never matched what we saw on the outsides of others.

    We became true addicts

    This produced guilt, self-hatred, remorse, emptiness, and pain, and we were driven ever inward, away from reality, away from love, lost inside ourselves.

    First addicts, then love cripples, we took from others to fill up what was lacking in ourselves. Conning ourselves time and again that the next one would save us, we were really losing our lives.”

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740336
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    aries

    You obviously don’t have an understanding about addictions.

    Not always does the person with the addiction know that they have one.

    Those who realize that something is wrong, finally go for help. Others can live their entire life without realizing that they have a problem

    in reply to: closing threads #1089390
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    nice, it works

    in reply to: closing threads #1089389
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    like this?

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740330
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    to really

    TFS- Thanks for sharing

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740313
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    Aries

    I doubt if i’m the naive one

    in reply to: Shalom Bayis in our community #740312
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    to really smile

    It looks like your working your program really well, keep it up and good luck

    IT GETS BETTER

    TFS

    Always remember: It’s just “one day at a time”

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